You must have read or heard of the five love languages by gary chapman.

the five love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, recieving gifts, quality time and physical touch.


leave the five love languages for marriage not dating and even in marriage you should never over do things.


i think i came across a topic on the front page about a woman who was complaining about her husband doing all the chores in the house, she described he was turning a maid in his own house, this is over application of "acts of service"


when you get married, know the five love languages and which one works for you or your partner then manage it rightly.

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KingZaddy:
very sarcastic way of saying you are really good at a Mouth Gig.


a sarcastic compliment

lol and she understood what you were saying oo.

solobrain:
lol and she understood what you were saying oo.

yea, thats why she laughed

KingZaddy:
yea, thats why she laughed

lol ok.

KingZaddy:
QUESTION AND ANSWER SECTION

here is something i did some time, it is quite naughty


while getting a toe curling blowj0b from my girl, she did a beautiful mouth movement

"damn it girl" i then sat up and held her face, looked into her eyes and said in a low tone



"repeat after me... I AM NOT A BITCH" she laughed out then repeated it

"I AM ZADDY's QUEEN" i said and she said it, i repeated it again and she said it with me, i kissed her fore head and she then continued


now my question to you guys, do you know the mean of what i said up there? and why i said it?

Kingzaddy that was a power technique, you did there:
1) suckin dick makes her bitch but you make her your bj queen.
2) looks normal to both of without degradin her
3) makes you a sexy man to be with and carry out her fantasy
4) conditioning her to the act of bj in other be the queen
5) it is affirmation that she is one of the best and she has power over you by pleasing you and fun

please keep value in front of your mind, being valueable is a crazy essence, talking from experience.

you can also put them in a tight spot whereby the kind of value you offer they cannot easily find somebody who can offer such value.


when one becomes very valueable people (guys and girls) will learn to talk like you, act like you, stand like you, dress like you, cling to you, listen to you and learn

value is very important, i will continue to stress this as long as you want to become an alpha.


bad guys offer only sex, nothing more


like some of girls will always say "with king zaddy there is always something exciting and interesting"


i smile when guys say girls offer nothing but sex, what do you offer her? money? just money? so what then do you do about things that money cannot solve. how do you intend to solve her non money problems

more interestingly, she gives you sex, you give her money, is this a relationship or redefined prostitution? she gets money to buy hair, fix nails, shoe and clothes then the whole process repeats itself.


jeez! there is more to life than living a cycle bro.



you might ask me what else is there to do?

as a man the first thing you keep in mind is that you are not advancing your lifestyle because of women, you are not chasing success because of a woman.


many guys are lazy thinkers, for your life to be beyond the regular then you must start learning how to solve problems around you (online and offline)


if a woman comes into your life and meets all the excitement when she leaves she knows that she is the bigger loser.


let me make this simpler, if you key into the thinking force of being a solutionist you will never run out of how to make your life exciting everyday and every lady who comes in will find it hard to take a walk because you are everything beyond her expectation.

following jejely

Questions?

KingZaddy:
Questions?

when you said "focus on being a solutionist" do you mean finding solutions or focus on solving the problem of others or ur own problems?

solobrain:
when you said "focus on being a solutionist" do you mean finding solutions or focus on solving the problem of others or ur own problems?

both...


you can start with solving yours or better still use the solution you created for others to solve yours.

This happened last night when I went to buy petrol with my guy, we saw one our friend with his girl and we stopped to greet them and I was teasing his girl calling her 'smallie' (which I normally call her) so the girl was saying that her little bro is here oo, she doesn't want him to hear that name, then her boyfriend told me to stop that she doesn't like the name so I won't make her angry, then secondly the guy told me he has already registered for an online business I told him about for free and I was like who did it for you without charging you? Then he brought out his phone to show me the person and what he did before he was registered freely, then his girl was like 'lets go' my friend that was about showing me something kept his phone back saying he would see me later and I told him to tell her that he is about to show me something that she should be patient but he said that I won't understand then he left. The guy following me said I should not reason what happened that he won't blame the guy because the girl is the one handling the relationship so he doesn't want her to get angry. So Zaddy I wanted to ask if the guy is being controlled by the girl or what he did was a normal thing, if you were in his shoes what will you do?

solobrain:
This happened last night when I went to buy petrol with my guy, we saw one our friend with his girl and we stopped to greet them and I was teasing his girl calling her 'smallie' (which I normally call her) so the girl was saying that her little bro is here oo, she doesn't want him to hear that name, then her boyfriend told me to stop that she doesn't like the name so I won't make her angry, then secondly the guy told me he has already registered for an online business I told him about for free and I was like who did it for you without charging you? Then he brought out his phone to show me the person and what he did before he was registered freely, then his girl was like 'lets go' my friend that was about showing me something kept his phone back saying he would see me later and I told him to tell her that he is about to show me something that she should be patient but he said that I won't understand then he left. The guy following me said I should not reason what happened that he won't blame the guy because the girl is the one handling the relationship so he doesn't want her to get angry. So Zaddy I wanted to ask if the guy is being controlled by the girl or what he did was a normal thing, if you were in his shoes what will you do?

I personally think that's a clear case of simping. And that's what Kingzaddy is preaching against.

Solobrain

if a girl is attracted to a guy her use of words will show it.

for her to say "lets go" and he followed quickly shows that she was the king in that relationship and such relationship wont last.


if he was in charge of the relationship she would wait for him to finish showing you what he was showing you

KingZaddy:
Solobrain

if a girl is attracted to a guy her use of words will show it.

for her to say "lets go" and he followed quickly shows that she was the king in that relationship and such relationship wont last.


if he was in charge of the relationship she would wait for him to finish showing you what he was showing you

ok, how about if you were the guy and you told her to wait (which you would normally do) but then she got angry and left, what will you do?

NwaforIgbo:


I personally think that's a clear case of simping. And that's what Kingzaddy is preaching against.

yeah that's exactly what I told the guy following me to go buy the petrol but he said I shoud not think about it like that, because she is the one providing for the guy in terms of money so he doesn't want to get her angry.

solobrain:
ok, how about if you were the guy and you told her to wait (which you would normally do) but then she got angry and left, what will you do?

i am quick to remind ladies not to be disrespectful around me or to me. my girl wouldnt try such, in this case if she walks out on me then she just stopped existing to me.


she would just find herself tryin hard all over again to stay relevant

KingZaddy:
i am quick to remind ladies not to be disrespectful around me or to me. my girl wouldnt try such, in this case if she walks out on me then she just stopped existing to me.


she would just find herself tryin hard all over again to stay relevant

ok

@KingZaddy
Although I hate to call you by your moniker but for the sake of the thread, I will.

I like this thread BTW and I was going to ask how you get a girl to come over?
I usually don't invite every girl I meet-not everyone deserves my genetic material.
But if I do, I use something silly(I once asked a girl to help me boil water.lol) just
so there's an excuse that she can use for coming but I still need help in this area.

Plus, when a girl asks if I have a roommate, I usually answer in the affirmative, but
not without her working for the answer. I don't like to lie about this about this.

My second question is how do you get short term sexual relationships from a woman?
Friends for Benefits situations? What do you spell in times like this?

Rafoski

i would like to know why you hate my moniker.



to your question on getting her to visit, well, some guys get cunning with askin a girl to come and help them cook one thing or the other, i know a couple of girls who know that cliche and wouldnt fall for it.

but here is something a woman cant resist and that is VALUE.

when building attraction with a woman establish value along side... girls ask me when will i take them to my house.

if you get her attracted she would request coming but if that doesnt happen then you can use a hang out line "you know, i have this tradition of having a light home feast every third friday with me, myself and i, i have refused to allow any lady join despite their requesting but luckily for you, i want you to join me this friday"

Rafoski

To your second question, in short term sexual relationship, money can do that since its short term and nothing serious.


friends with benefit? well, you will have to start by mixing friendship with sexual talks, act like a boyfriend and a friend, mix it up. the way you touch and hold her.

but you will need to build a close friendship with her and make her feel comfortable relaxin in your arms despite being friends, this is the point where you tease her with naughty and funny boyfriend lines, for example if a regular guy is talking to her you walk up to them and tease "so you are the guy that wants to steal my babe abi", keep her in the friendzone, when you walk on the road put your hand over her shoulder, hold her hand, snick up from behind and kiss her cheek.

PHOTSEE:

Kingzaddy that was a power technique, you did there:
1) suckin dick makes her bitch but you make her your bj queen.
2) looks normal to both of without degradin her
3) makes you a sexy man to be with and carry out her fantasy
4) conditioning her to the act of bj in other be the queen
5) it is affirmation that she is one of the best and she has power over you by pleasing you and fun

i agree with only your number two and three

KingZaddy:
i agree with only your number two and three

Aham, i write from both perspective you say 2 and 3.she tick all.

KingZaddy:
i agree with only your number two and three

Take no 4 for example CONDITIONING ,means making one behave a certain way without being conscious of what their doing. it becomes a reflex action. eg
Bee jay (bj )
Name calling: ZADDY QUEEN.
The name zaddy' queen is what you called her while looking or grazing her eyes with passion.should only be used when and if only she gives you bj. repeat these over and over again,til it stalk to her brain. zaddy's queen ,oh yah zaddy's queen!!!

NOTE: don't use that name zaddy's queen except she is giving you head or you want her to give you head.
let that name zaddy queen be associated to give of bj. so when you mention zaddy's queen she think of give you bj.

KISS ON THE FORE HEAD
These is symbolic, an act of expression which is a physical action, is as well as important ,to stimulate the mood and state of sexuial tension.
Note: this body action should be sparely use except if she is given you bj or expecting bj.

PHOTSEE:

Take no 4 for example CONDITIONING ,means making one behave a certain way without being conscious of what their doing. it becomes a reflex action. eg
Bee jay (bj )
Name calling: ZADDY QUEEN.
The name zaddy' queen is what you called her while looking or grazing her eyes with passion. she only be used when and if only she gives you bj. repeat these over and over again,til it stalk to her brain. zaddy's queen ,oh yah zaddy's queen!!!
NOTE: don't use that name zaddy's queen except she is giving you head or you want her to give you head.
let that name zaddy queen be associated to give of bj. so when you mention zaddy's queen she think of give you bj.

OKAY agree to disagree

KingZaddy:
OKAY agree to disagree

I abeg to agree these are the subline principles :
WORD + ACTION= BJ

ZADDY'S QUEEN + KISS ON FORE HEAD =BJ
repeat and rinse.

KingZaddy:
Rafoski

To your second question, in short term sexual relationship, money can do that since its short term and nothing serious.


friends with benefit? well, you will have to start by mixing friendship with sexual talks, act like a boyfriend and a friend, mix it up. the way you touch and hold her.

but you will need to build a close friendship with her and make her feel comfortable relaxin in your arms despite being friends, this is the point where you tease her with naughty and funny boyfriend lines, for example if a regular guy is talking to her you walk up to them and tease "so you are the guy that wants to steal my babe abi", keep her in the friendzone, when you walk on the road put your hand over her shoulder, hold her hand, snick up from behind and kiss her cheek.

Well, I have tried the latter and I hate it when girls start feeling the relationship vibe
and call you sweetheart the next morning. After statements like these, I keep my
distance long enough to douse attraction (rather than dousing it by being readily available)
I can achieve this with any girl but I don't want anybody to start feeling warm-it gets out
of hand most times.

About the short term part, I like the heat of the moment-money almost can't get you that.
What I want to know is how you get them to trust you enough for sex without those
societal pressures of being labelled a ho.(like meet and Bleep immediately?)

KingZaddy:
Rafoski

i would like to know why you hate my moniker.



to your question on getting her to visit, well, some guys get cunning with askin a girl to come and help them cook one thing or the other, i know a couple of girls who know that cliche and wouldnt fall for it.

but here is something a woman cant resist and that is VALUE.

when building attraction with a woman establish value along side... girls ask me when will i take them to my house.

if you get her attracted she would request coming but if that doesnt happen then you can use a hang out line "you know, i have this tradition of having a light home feast every third friday with me, myself and i, i have refused to allow any lady join despite their requesting but luckily for you, i want you to join me this friday"

I get this part clearly-VALUE.
How do I build value?
Usually I think I'm already valuable for making women feel good emotions
and making them feel like they're in a James Bond movie.

About your moniker, 'KingZaddy", it's just my nature to revolt against Kings and Fathers in general.lol.
I don't care who the king is.
But, I make the exception here for the sake of knowledge.