Chronicwanker:
Good day everyone

I created this account just so I could post this because my other account has so many personal details about me already and most of my friends log in nairaland often, so I wanted to remain anonymous.

Please pardon any grammatical error if you notice it. I'm not that good with writing.

Okay, let me be brief as possible(pardon me if it turns out to be a long read please)

I have an addiction. MASTURBATION.

This addiction has really affected me badly. I don't keep female friends company cause I always like keeping to myself. I am an introvert and I live alone(self-contain room). I have low self esteem, guilt after every beating of the meat(wanking), and I noticed my meat is now even slightly bent. I don't know if it's because of the excessive beating.

I have been masturbating non-stop since my jss2 days in school and that is over 10 years ago. I'm 26 now. The most I have gone without masturbating is 13days, only for me to masturbate at four separate intervals the very next day

My last gf who I truly loved_but because of this addiction, I lost her. She was a sex freak and since I always serve my akamu quickly(premature expulsion) she got tired and left.

I even go angry and delete all porrrn clips and pictures on my phone after every beating of the meat, only for me to use even my last money to subscribe or even borrow from mtn just so I could download and quench that urge if I don't have data available.

I remember one time my phone was on 1% and I was in the middle of the wanking process and my phone shut down, I had to put on clothes and go charge it at a bet shop till at least 4% so I can put the phone on, go back and and finish the wanking

It's as if I masturbate for a living. I had a gambling addiction and I overcame it, but this one is just something else even with prayers, and I've tried all manners of self restraint I can think of. When my phone is dead, sometimes I just picture profane things and get down to the business at hand

Depression is creeping on me

I have tried almost everything within my power to quit but I always find myself going back to it no matter my resolve.

Please advice me, what do I do now? I want to stop but it's seems impossible. You can bash me if you want. I just need help to my situation.

Tozic:
I want to tell you something. It'll be preferable you send me a mail. Check my profile.

Ballary:


First and foremost, masturbation is an addict that is very hard to quit entirely, but it can minimized.

Go to your phone browser settings and filter all explicit pictures, and whenever the urge comes, try drinking water,or a little exercise,it works most Times.

Be occupied with yourself,find something you have passion for and occupy yourself this covid 19 period, this will also help, when is getting late at night, try and do away with your phone, because that is the most testing times for increase urge.

Finally, go to YouTube and search for Joseph okechukuwu, listen to his speech against masturbation, and I bet you, you won't go back to it again.

Chronicwanker:


Thank you, I will search YouTube and I will also limit the amount of time I spend with my phone. I was even thinking of inviting one or two male friends to come and live with me for some days, maybe with their presence, I won't have time to masturbate that much. But I dont even trust myself I might go lock myself up in the bathroom. So that option self is just..

Notateflonguy:


First bro...don't feel you're alone in this...a lot of persons are battling also so don't see tho as the end of the world...just like you said its an addiction and you really dont expect it to go once ...thats the mistake most persons make once they relapse they feel the world has ended but that's not true

The first thing you have to bear in mind is porn is not good at all in any way...stay off from it totally
The truth is porn itself cant cause premature ejaculation but causes erectile dysfunction scientifically proven...

Your number one reason you should want to stop porn should not be because of the guilt but the health hazard it can cause you...as regards to the PE the major reason why porn contributes to this is simply because of your regular conditioning to releasing quick...the sensation gotten from porn is just too high that no matter how hard you try you tend to release quickly

So my first advise is to stop seeing yourself as someone hopeless and embrace it as an addiction you'll gradually fight off

Am sure at this stage youve seen one major reason why you should stop porn it kills your sex life

A lot of persons actually feel masturbating is bad ...but if properly done it is not as bad as you think

But considering your addiction to it...my advice is to start noticing your triggers then when the feel for you masturbate comes..masturbate without porn ...you have to start getting used to getting off without porn and not just getting off...time yourself the least time should be 15mins

Keep doing this without porn...overtime you'll start seeing the need to Bleep a real lady and not resort to porn

In summary first believe sex is good and you need it so much but understand your body first without porn ...when the urge comes ...masturbate nothing less than 15mins...don't rush it take your Time..this should help get rid of the PE ....

Lastly get a gf and explain your issues...not so easy but try this...when in a relationship you'll see no need to self stimulate

I hope this might help

Chronicwanker:


Thanks for the input. I have filtered my browsing settings and I have also deleted all porn I'm my phone. I know it will be hard but I believe gradually gradually, one day at at time, I will overcome this. I really want this to be a thing of the past, I will try my best to work towards it. If possible I will book a meeting with a professional when the lockdown is over. I want to do away with this

adexpa:
You have to accept the fact that it can't go suddenly, no matter the approach. The major step is to be aware that it is bad n be cautious of it. While you still do it once in a while, continue informing yourself that you want to stop it, struggle with it seriously and see the end of it. Someone told you to watch a video on YouTube, it will help you cus the spiritual implication of it will be said n that will scare you more about it. Just take the process serious, u will be out one day. You need to get good woman and start planning something serious with her too. On PE, get good herbs and wash your system, you will be fine.

SonOfScientists:
I look at this post and I smiled.
I've got no comfort to offer you bro, we are in it together. Stop whining and enjoy your self, after all there's no greater way of attain cheap pleasure of life


I type too much sef, lemme go for round 5

Lol no go kill yaself in the process nigger... Have mercy on that lil nigger too na

Chronicwanker:

Chronicwanker:
Good day everyone


I remember one time my phone was on 1% and I was in the middle of the wanking process and my phone shut down, I had to put on clothes and go charge it at a bet shop till at least 4% so I can put the phone on, go back and and finish the wanking

It's as if I masturbate for a living. I had a gambling addiction and I overcame it, but this one is just something else even with prayers, and I've tried all manners of self restraint I can think of. When my phone is dead, sometimes I just picture profane things and get down to the business at hand

Chronicwanker:
Good day everyone

I created this account just so I could post this because my other account has so many personal details about me already and most of my friends log in nairaland often, so I wanted to remain anonymous.

Please pardon any grammatical error if you notice it. I'm not that good with writing.

Okay, let me be brief as possible(pardon me if it turns out to be a long read please)

I have an addiction. MASTURBATION.

This addiction has really affected me badly. I don't keep female friends company cause I always like keeping to myself. I am an introvert and I live alone(self-contain room). I have low self esteem, guilt after every beating of the meat(wanking), and I noticed my meat is now even slightly bent. I don't know if it's because of the excessive beating.

I have been masturbating non-stop since my jss2 days in school and that is over 10 years ago. I'm 26 now. The most I have gone without masturbating is 13days, only for me to masturbate at four separate intervals the very next day

My last gf who I truly loved_but because of this addiction, I lost her. She was a sex freak and since I always serve my akamu quickly(premature expulsion) she got tired and left.

I even go angry and delete all porrrn clips and pictures on my phone after every beating of the meat, only for me to use even my last money to subscribe or even borrow from mtn just so I could download and quench that urge if I don't have data available.

I remember one time my phone was on 1% and I was in the middle of the wanking process and my phone shut down, I had to put on clothes and go charge it at a bet shop till at least 4% so I can put the phone on, go back and and finish the wanking

It's as if I masturbate for a living. I had a gambling addiction and I overcame it, but this one is just something else even with prayers, and I've tried all manners of self restraint I can think of. When my phone is dead, sometimes I just picture profane things and get down to the business at hand

Depression is creeping on me

I have tried almost everything within my power to quit but I always find myself going back to it no matter my resolve.

Please advice me, what do I do now? I want to stop but it's seems impossible. You can bash me if you want. I just need help to my situation.

McBrooklyn:
@OP.. For starters get yourself a woman you feel sexually attracted to and avoid being alone at all costs cos as far as I know, loneliness aids masturbation too.. But what are the odds you won't go right back to it someday?? Konji na bastard yunno..


You can only put a lid on it now and then gradually & gradually.. But it takes a really strong mindset and a whole lot of dedication if you really want to stop completely.. My 2 cents!

Marvyx:

You can check sexuality section and look for a thread to see guys that are trying to beat PMO like you. You can also send me a mail, I'll like to talk to you off NL. Cheers man.

Ikpeabujo:
no going back i swear.

Dobson43:



This got me laughting

Skmoda360: