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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Ahmed0336(m): 2:13pm On May 08, 2020
Op I have been in that situation before.

Your own even better say if u take Viagra your joystick dey stand. My case eh, no aphrodisiac wey I go take wey dey work. I just walked out of the relationship. Local man cannot can.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Bola146(f): 2:25pm On May 08, 2020
Then let her go!!
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by CsRockefeller(m): 3:13pm On May 08, 2020
duality:
People living sexually reckless life. Tomorrow, they will tell you to forget the past.

They would attack virgins, try to intimidate them because they've lost something they wished they never lost.

A Lady cohabiting with a student?

I know God is still keeping people who will not bow to immorality.

You too have seen the hypocrisy of this generation.

Sin is now what people openly dance at the market square.

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by duality(m): 3:29pm On May 08, 2020
CsRockefeller:


You too have seen the hypocrisy of this generation.

Sin is now what people openly dance at the market square.

I took interest in your signature. I wish I could get your contact. We may be doing something mutually beneficial in future.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by tracyfemmmm: 3:38pm On May 08, 2020
Hmm everybody and their own wahala. Today too fat, Tommorow too skinny , long neck, big head. In fact everybody both men and women are confused.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Fairview1(f): 3:41pm On May 08, 2020
Kendo16:

She's got her mum's physic, the woman still looks thin even at her age, and after giving birth to so many Children.

At some points in life, you have got to compromise some things just to get along. I have come to agree that you will never have everything your way. Check, if she ticks other of of your boxes, then I will advice you go for her. Cos, from your description, that lady seems to be a wonderful babe....only that majority of slim ladies with tiny boobs are short tempered.

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by dayleke: 3:44pm On May 08, 2020
Davash222:
I actually noticed that this lady was thin before dating her, but I never imagined it was this bad, she has no boobs, my ass is bigger than her's, if she inhales deeply, I could see her ribs, but I never knew this would turn out to be much of a problem. I am sexually attracted to chubby people, but




Werey!
All of a sudden, she has no boobs.
All of a sudden, your ass is bigger than her's.

So, you didn't noticed all these before you collect number since you are sexually attracted to chubby girls?
The thing is, you're not conversant with valuable things hence you're treating a slim girl girl this way. Slim girls are the best in the world! Underestimate them at your own detriment.

I saw you raining praises on the other thread too for slim women...

You are too much.... cool
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by GreenDestiny2: 3:53pm On May 08, 2020
Kendo16:


You guys seem to miss the whole point. It is not about whether intelligence is good or bad, it's due to the fact that intelligence alone cannot get me hard.
It's not like I have control over my sex drive, or what I am sexually attracted to.

A time will come in marriage that only sex can solve your problems.

My wife at times makes me angry and we quarrel often. But once she starts showing me her big ass up and down in the house, I use style end quarrel.

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Stewart883(m): 3:53pm On May 08, 2020
baldman:
Just gently let her go please. You do not really love this girl ( love is a major aphrosidaic), you love your self, you like her face and she has got a good personality so you realize she is a good thing to have. However, she is obviously not good enough for you, and I am not blaming you, attraction is key; you should not have to take vega to make love ( I wish you can repent from fornication, it complicates things, and in cases like this, it may rule your judgment). There are guys out there who will consider her to be perfect the way she is, some are already chasing her, some of them are reading this and having a hard-on already just by reading your description. They deserve her more than you do, and you deserve a voluptuous who will keep you wanting more and more. So do right by our beauty queen, nicely let her go. Find an excuse that will not deal a blow on her self esteem and leave.

It seems you were referring to me damn! Seriously I love slim petite girls alot. They are the ones that make me go crazy in bed. I am on the huge side and like my girls slim and petite. I also love having sex standing so with such a girl u can easily lift her up and do the do. Another man's meat is another man's poison!!

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Stewart883(m): 3:56pm On May 08, 2020
Juliusdaughter:
Hey guys and ladies, is saggy balls normal? I could not get myself to have sex with my boyfriend because of it. A absolute turn off

I don't think it's normal for a guy below 40.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Juliusdaughter: 3:58pm On May 08, 2020
Stewart883:


I don't think it's normal for a guy below 40.
He is slightly above 30, tall and slim
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Stewart883(m): 4:00pm On May 08, 2020
Juliusdaughter:

He is slightly above 30, tall and slim

Hmm that isn't good at all. Not normal. At that age it shouldn't be saggy.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by AgentGoat: 4:07pm On May 08, 2020
May the lord bless you with ugly fat woman grin
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Nobody: 4:11pm On May 08, 2020
Does her name start with C?
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Briller: 4:22pm On May 08, 2020
2dice01:
So its big bootie and boobs that makes you hard goan and find and stop wasting her time

What makes me hard is Good looks and Brilliance

Different strokes for different folks

You can also get her Apetamin Syr its a multivitamin that will make her add weight


She is anorexic so Apetamin can't work here. I can relate. No boobs, no butts. If the guy is attracted to robust women, this girl's adamic looks might be a put off and not appeal to the OP after all. Maybe she wears padded bra and puffs her butts when dressed up.

My advice: she will naturally add weight after a while but the big question is whether the OP is ready to take chances.

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Jman06(m): 4:32pm On May 08, 2020
GreenDestiny2:


A time will come in marriage that only sex can solve your problems.

My wife at times makes me angry and we quarrel often. But once she starts showing me her big ass up and down in the house, I use style end quarrel.
Lmao
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 08, 2020
Kendo16:
I created this account just for this, I am an old member of Nairaland.
I am in a sort of delimma. Have you ever fallen in love with someone you are not sexually attracted to? Here is my story.

I saw this lady for the first time last year we met in my place of work. She has a face that I can consider to be more beautiful than Rhianna's and I am not exaggerating.

When I saw her, I was instantly awe struck, was looking at her like a fool, all the time wandering how one person has all this beauty in her, a lot of ladies working there actually noticed what was happening, and one of them felt it to embarrass me. She asked, did you come here to look, or you came for something?
Instantly, I remembered that my boss actually sent me there to get stuff. I moved to her (the pretty girls) table and decided to get the thing there since all of them actually had what I wanted, I introduced myself, told her I was new and requested for her number, she gave me.

From there, I kicked things off, called her, and she was coperative to say the least. She actually found me attractive, and that worked in my favor. Due to mutual attraction, things really sped off so fast, then we started dating.

I noticed that a lot of rich people were coming for her hand in marriage, I have seen a lot of whatsapp chats with men I feel like I can't even measure up to, but she says that she wants me, and we can actually start a quite comfortable family with our salaries, it's a good pay, and we are both just starting.

The problem :

Due to the fact that a lot of people were coming for her, and also, I don't want her to feel like I am wasting her time, I decided that it's best we cohabit a little so to ascertain if we would be compatible. We moved in together, Feb. this year, and we were together till mid March when I traveled to my parents and got held by the pandemic.

I actually noticed that this lady was thin before dating her, but I never imagined it was this bad, she has no boobs, my ass is bigger than her's, if she inhales deeply, I could see her ribs, but I never knew this would turn out to be much of a problem. I am sexually attracted to chubby people, but I thought I should compromise based on her facial beauty, height and personality (which is superb for a lady this beautiful).

Well, since we are cohabiting, she got all comfy and goes around the room naked, first time I saw her naked, I think my d.ick actually shrank. Due to much pressure from her, I resorted to taking Vega any time I wanted to do things to her. We have done this on 3 different occasions, and I know how long it takes me to cum, and instead of it getting better with time, it gets worse.

She's a bit anorexic, obsessed with not getting fat, would never eat any good food past 8pm. She always tells me how proud she is of her flat tummy, I would fake smile at her, while hidding the pain in me.
She's got her mum's physic, the woman still looks thin even at her age, and after giving birth to so many Children.

I am very confused about the whole thing, this is my first time actually being in love, also with a queen, and yet somehow have this problem to contend with.
Please, what should I do?

And before you ask;
I don't masturbate, never done it.
I still get erections some mornings and when I see some big booties.
Up until January this year, I have been naking, and if you asked me then, I would have told you that erectyle dysfunction is not real.


Actually there's possibility that some one around you has influenced you on her shape as you guys began dating.

And it could be that you have start looking at chubby girls this days and wish your Bea was like that because love at first sight, you didn't notice all that, it now. Well if you can't continue just break up cause that the only way so that you won't marry her and still cheat
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Jman06(m): 4:41pm On May 08, 2020
Op, don't settle for less. Go for the kind of lady that you're attracted to, so that you'll have no excuse to start keeping sidechicks when you get married!

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Davash222(m): 4:54pm On May 08, 2020
dayleke:


I saw you raining praises on the other thread too for slim women...

You are too much.... cool
Slim women are life savers. Their reward is in Heaven.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by PropertyBuying(f): 5:07pm On May 08, 2020
Herfather:

Some of us do actually eat even at 11pm we still don't get fat
Interesting... But that's the fact. It all depends on your body metabolism.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by dayleke: 5:09pm On May 08, 2020
Davash222:

Slim women are life savers. Their reward is in Heaven.

No joor....
Their reward is with you.
cool
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by SPOLO(m): 5:17pm On May 08, 2020
Kendo16:
I created this account just for this, I am an old member of Nairaland.
I am in a sort of delimma. Have you ever fallen in love with someone you are not sexually attracted to? Here is my story.

I saw this lady for the first time last year we met in my place of work. She has a face that I can consider to be more beautiful than Rhianna's and I am not exaggerating.

When I saw her, I was instantly awe struck, was looking at her like a fool, all the time wandering how one person has all this beauty in her, a lot of ladies working there actually noticed what was happening, and one of them felt it to embarrass me. She asked, did you come here to look, or you came for something?
Instantly, I remembered that my boss actually sent me there to get stuff. I moved to her (the pretty girls) table and decided to get the thing there since all of them actually had what I wanted, I introduced myself, told her I was new and requested for her number, she gave me.

From there, I kicked things off, called her, and she was coperative to say the least. She actually found me attractive, and that worked in my favor. Due to mutual attraction, things really sped off so fast, then we started dating.

I noticed that a lot of rich people were coming for her hand in marriage, I have seen a lot of whatsapp chats with men I feel like I can't even measure up to, but she says that she wants me, and we can actually start a quite comfortable family with our salaries, it's a good pay, and we are both just starting.

The problem :

Due to the fact that a lot of people were coming for her, and also, I don't want her to feel like I am wasting her time, I decided that it's best we cohabit a little so to ascertain if we would be compatible. We moved in together, Feb. this year, and we were together till mid March when I traveled to my parents and got held by the pandemic.

I actually noticed that this lady was thin before dating her, but I never imagined it was this bad, she has no boobs, my ass is bigger than her's, if she inhales deeply, I could see her ribs, but I never knew this would turn out to be much of a problem. I am sexually attracted to chubby people, but I thought I should compromise based on her facial beauty, height and personality (which is superb for a lady this beautiful).

Well, since we are cohabiting, she got all comfy and goes around the room naked, first time I saw her naked, I think my d.ick actually shrank. Due to much pressure from her, I resorted to taking Vega any time I wanted to do things to her. We have done this on 3 different occasions, and I know how long it takes me to cum, and instead of it getting better with time, it gets worse.

She's a bit anorexic, obsessed with not getting fat, would never eat any good food past 8pm. She always tells me how proud she is of her flat tummy, I would fake smile at her, while hidding the pain in me.
She's got her mum's physic, the woman still looks thin even at her age, and after giving birth to so many Children.

I am very confused about the whole thing, this is my first time actually being in love, also with a queen, and yet somehow have this problem to contend with.
Please, what should I do?

And before you ask;
I don't masturbate, never done it.
I still get erections some mornings and when I see some big booties.
Up until January this year, I have been naking, and if you asked me then, I would have told you that erectyle dysfunction is not real.


so this why my dick do refuse to stand with my bae bcus her ass is so small, she is slim though with average boobs but it seems am not sexually attracted to her..

And reason is my ex got big ass and bwess in fact just seeing her then do give me hard on but now when i met this girl i thought i had erection problm but whenever i managed to sex her i don't cum and she is boring in bed ,to make matter worse she doesnt like kissing,romance..

So the 3 times i manage to have erection i went on till she was tired and i didnt cum except i force her to give me BJ.

Now we aint in good terms and am happy.

So sir the best thing is to let her go and pls stop taking sex enhancing drug that shiit is bad...pls

if u end up marrying her u will surely cheat on her

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Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by duality(m): 5:22pm On May 08, 2020
[quote author=CsRockefeller post=89325744]


Okay I got it. Thanks
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Kendo16: 5:22pm On May 08, 2020
SPOLO:


so this why my dick do refuse to stand with my bae bcus her ass is so small, she is slim though with average boobs but it seems am not sexually attracted to her..

And reason is my ex got big ass and bwess in fact just seeing her then do give me hard on but now when i met this girl i thought i had erection problm but whenever i managed to sex her i don't cum and she is boring in bed ,to make matter worse she doesnt like kissing,romance..

So the 3 times i manage to have erection i went on till she was tired and i didnt cum except i force her to give me BJ.

Now we aint in good terms and am happy.

So sir the best thing is to let her go and pls stop taking sex enhancing drug that shiit is bad...pls

if u end up marrying her u will surely cheat on her

I was starting to think that I am the only one with this problem, thank God for this comment.
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by 2dice01: 10:18pm On May 08, 2020
Briller:


She is anorexic so Apetamin can't work here. I can relate. No boobs, no butts. If the guy is attracted to robust women, this girl's adamic looks might be a put off and not appeal to the OP after all. Maybe she wears padded bra and puffs her butts when dressed up.

My advice: she will naturally add weight after a while but the big question is whether the OP is ready to take chances.

You can't be sure cause I have a friend that fit her description after using apetamin she added weight alittle the only problem is her tummy was getting too big

Yes it depends on the Op
Re: I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. by Confusedgirlie: 11:54am On May 09, 2020
I suggest you don't tell her the reason you are leaving her. It's going to kill her self-esteem. Be careful.

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