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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:10pm On May 08, 2020
Chuky7:


you should have gave him the finger...

what country you in now?


Still in my own backyard.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by xcabczyxabczzzz: 5:11pm On May 08, 2020
Ryocaj:

Is it that u didn't see the "was" or u don't know what it means..
That wasn't the case, from previous knowledge I thought he never got divorce. My bad.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 08, 2020
xcabczyxabczzzz:

3rd actually, my bad.
cheesy cheesy
jeenifer lopez that has tired of getting divorced
i heard she now has a 20 yr old tomboy dating her
except if the guy don break up with her
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by rationalhuman(m): 5:12pm On May 08, 2020
What a fake fantasy you are telling to Nairalanders.
You may be astonished to read this but here is what i had witnessed during my university time and later,
If you are White and you are in North India, You will get worse of racism much worse then a Black can get in China/Australia/India.

XhosaNostra:


Even their men have that kind of a superiority complex & don't take it too well when you don't eagerly throw your panties at them. I also understand why they feel that way though, some people feel honoured when a white person takes interest in them, like they're not another human being full of flaws like everybody else.
There's this friend of mine (she's black married to an Indian)...her husband's friend (another Indian) is married to a white lady. So this one time I met this white lady for the 1st time at my friend's place. They had just arrived from india & she was telling us about how "nice" (aka ass kissing) the people over there were to her on that trip. They showered her with gifts & even took photos with her because she's white. I'm talking random villagers who came over to her mother in law's house just to see her, also bearing gifts. She says she felt like a celebrity. LOL! Anyway, the same lady couldn't even make a decent meal & her husband was always complaining about it to friends, but I guess he's only tolerating it because she's a status symbol to him in the eyes of his countrymen. She was also very untidy. My friend says during the week they spent at her house, one evening my friend went to use the bathroom & when she flushed the toilet, the water came out red. She said she wondered why the water was like that & decided to open the water tank thingy, inside she found the lady's bloodied underwear. When she asked her why her underwear was in there, she told her that she was on her period & the sight of blood makes her queasy, so to avoid the mess, she simply stuffs her soiled undies in there...to wash themselves, basically. She even said Kashief (her husband) has no problem with it. It's amazing the kind of things people overlook & tolerate when white people are involved grin
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by MOnkeyBabe(f): 5:13pm On May 08, 2020
Chuky7:


You have a kid?
with a Serbian grin
yes. Are you an OChuko or Chuks?
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 5:13pm On May 08, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:
many ReaSons of which I felt they were backward and UnCiviliZed. That's in the past when I was biased. Right from the day people used to talk shit about Europeans I have always had their Back. None of the white men I built Relationships with were ready for marriage. I'm not saying there are no players at home. It's just very GlaRinG in the west. After God brought me to my Senses. OyiBO cultuRe isn't perfect either . I pick out the good of education and exposure. For AfRiCa I love the MaRRiaGe, esp Child-bearing thing Die. I love AfRiCan AmeRicans too ,there are some nice things they do other than the SCReaming ND shouting most engage in. But could be fun at times though when everywhere is boring.
Hatred for blacks could have been me running away from myself. I almost murdered my parents for bringing me to this world. And it's not like we were suffering. I'm also very beautiful and intelligent. [b]Modelled.[\b] I was just iDiOtiC & GReeDy, I guess. There's this GiRl on naiRalanD that knows everything concerning the birth of my first child. Can't remember her SiGgy. Haven't seen or heard from her in a while

nearly killed parents...hardcore...what was going through your mind

@bolded...hmmm how modelled
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by BetWinners(m): 5:15pm On May 08, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Some are just like that, but then again, it's a choice thing. Whatever floats their gondola.

Where have you heard the language from? What's your home language? You're easy to chat with, btw. I'm really enjoying talking to you smiley
That's why it took almost an hour for you to respond to his last post grin
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:18pm On May 08, 2020
rationalhuman:
What a fake fantasy you are telling to Nairalanders.
You may be astonished to read this but here is what i had witnessed during my university time and later,
If you are White and you are in North India, You will get worse of racism much worse then a Black can get in China/Australia/India.



What? That is a lie! Indians worship white people. They even feature blondes in their movies & music videos. I'm also acquainted with way too many Indians in real life, to know how they suck up to white people & hold them in very, very high-esteem.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 5:23pm On May 08, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:
yes. Are you an OChuko or Chuks?

wow...he must be cute with your beautiful DNA...would have asked for a pic...

lol a Chuks

Ochuko have big heads...I don't
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by rationalhuman(m): 5:24pm On May 08, 2020
You have to be in Rome and among Romans and live like Romans to Properly Understand Rome,
They just view them as sex objects nothing else, They will be helpful to a person from Ethiopia or Philippines but not to the white.
Above is generally true about India from North (Himalayan belts), But what we see in our countries are mostly from south.


XhosaNostra:



What? That is a lie! Indians worship white people. They even feature blondes in their movies & music videos. I'm also acquainted with way too many Indians in real life, to know how they suck up to white people & hold them in very, very high-esteem.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 5:25pm On May 08, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Still in my own backyard.
SA??
how did you end up on here then
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 5:26pm On May 08, 2020
BetWinners:

Don't you just love how those sort of self-hating,white-loving black women get rejected by the whities they claim to love so much & then turn around to discover "the beauty of their black African culture" grin

swears man...it's so funny

they should know by now the whites play the game better than we do.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 5:29pm On May 08, 2020
Lol seriously I had no ulterior motives behind my chats
BetWinners:

@Emboldened
The beat finally drops!grin
You should have told that lady all that 24hours ago straight up instead of all these your endless back & forth with her cool
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 5:30pm On May 08, 2020
Bro is not nice to say such things
BetWinners:

Don't you just love how those sort of self-hating,white-loving black women get rejected by the whities they claim to love so much & then turn around to discover "the beauty of their black African culture" grin
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:31pm On May 08, 2020
BetWinners:

That's why it took almost an hour for you to respond to his last post grin


I stepped out for a bit.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by MOnkeyBabe(f): 5:33pm On May 08, 2020
Chuky7:


wow...he must be cute with your beautiful DNA...would have asked for a pic...

lol a Chuks

Ochuko have big heads...I don't
hahahahaha

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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 5:36pm On May 08, 2020
Heard it on the voice SA,a xhosa woman came on stage to sing with it,the language was very beautiful seems she was doing something with her tongue,i wonder how anyone could learn it

My language is Esan from southern nigeria

Thanks the feeling is mutual wink
XhosaNostra:



Some are just like that, but then again, it's a choice thing. Whatever floats their gondola.

Where have you heard the language from? What's your home language? You're easy to chat with, btw. I'm really enjoying talking to you smiley
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 5:36pm On May 08, 2020
Nah. It's children first.

America doesn't joke with children.

pansophist:


I think its wife before children, otherwise, your post is on point. cool
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:38pm On May 08, 2020
rationalhuman:
You have to be in Rome and among Romans and live like Romans to Properly Understand Rome,
They just view them as sex objects nothing else, They will be helpful to a person from Ethiopia or Philippines but not to the white.
Above is generally true about India from North (Himalayan belts), But what we see in our countries are mostly from south.



No, the ones I've met here are Northern Indians. I'm acquainted with people from parts of Gujarat like Ahmedabad & Surat, as well as Sialkot & Kashmir.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 5:41pm On May 08, 2020
[b]These ones come to Nigeria and flex and live big. They party and sleep with all the girls and promise them marriage. On social media they ask girls for nudes and these gullible girls send them tons of nude pics.[\b]

This is interesting...IJGB
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by rationalhuman(m): 5:44pm On May 08, 2020
Gujarat is West (South West) Not the North.
Sialkot is not India.

XhosaNostra:


No, the ones I've met here are Northern Indians. I'm acquainted with people from parts of Gujarat like Ahmedabad & Surat, as well as Sialkot & Kashmir.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:45pm On May 08, 2020
Chuky7:


SA??

how did you end up on here then

Yes.

It was way back during the times of Big Brother Africa & I wanted to see who the new contestants were, also to check when the show was going to start. I came across a huge thread about the show & the rest is history as they say.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:52pm On May 08, 2020
rationalhuman:
Gujarat is West (South West) Not the North.
Sialkot is not India.



Gujarat falls under Northern India, not the Tamil dominated South. They don't even like South Indians, the Northerners. Sialkot is in Pakistan, I know, but they're one of the same since at one point it was part of India & some people over there are still holding on to their Indian identity.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ishilove: 5:56pm On May 08, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Even their men have that kind of a superiority complex & don't take it too well when you don't eagerly throw your panties at them. I also understand why they feel that way though, some people feel honoured when a white person takes interest in them, like they're not another human being full of flaws like everybody else.
There's this friend of mine (she's black married to an Indian)...her husband's friend (another Indian) is married to a white lady. So this one time I met this white lady for the 1st time at my friend's place. They had just arrived from india & she was telling us about how "nice" (aka ass kissing) the people over there were to her on that trip. They showered her with gifts & even took photos with her because she's white. I'm talking random villagers who came over to her mother in law's house just to see her, also bearing gifts. She says she felt like a celebrity. LOL! Anyway, the same lady couldn't even make a decent meal & her husband was always complaining about it to friends, but I guess he's only tolerating it because she's a status symbol to him in the eyes of his countrymen. She was also very untidy. My friend says during the week they spent at her house, one evening my friend went to use the bathroom & when she flushed the toilet, the water came out red. She said she wondered why the water was like that & decided to open the water tank thingy, inside she found the lady's bloodied underwear. When she asked her why her underwear was in there, she told her that she was on her period & the sight of blood makes her queasy, so to avoid the mess, she simply stuffs her soiled undies in there...to wash themselves, basically. She even said Kashief (her husband) has no problem with it. It's amazing the kind of things people overlook & tolerate when white people are involved grin
Oh my gosh. What a disgusting creature embarassed

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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liliantalks: 5:59pm On May 08, 2020
lefulefu:
well those overseas guys who are cunning prefer keeping their home based wives back in nigera cos they scared if they bring her with them back to the western country they reside she might grow wings and start demanding for her rights cheesy cheesy.so they come during the holidays like easter and christmas to spend time with their home based wives while the wealthier ones amongst them can visit occasionally without waiting for easter and christmas per se.but like u said it benefits the homebased wife more because she can have as many lovers as she likes when the husband is away.
lol no good side of this thing .
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 5:59pm On May 08, 2020
RamessesIV:
Heard it on the voice SA,a xhosa woman came on stage to sing with it,the language was very beautiful seems she was doing something with her tongue,i wonder how anyone could learn it

My language is Esan from southern nigeria

Thanks the feeling is mutual wink


Never heard of that language before smiley

Oh, I know who you're talking about, Siki Jo-An cheesy


[
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W319s4Tvp9Y]

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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Chuky7(m): 6:01pm On May 08, 2020
XhosaNostra:


Yes.

It was way back during the times of Big Brother Africa & I wanted to see who the new contestants were, also to check when the show was going to start. I came across a huge thread about the show & the rest is history as they say.

Lol guess big brother had an impact

buy me a plane ticket I Want to come over and cook a 9ja dish for you grin[quote author=XhosaNostra post=89329694]
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 6:02pm On May 08, 2020
Yeah that's her,i went to youtube and watched it over like 10 times,it was the same language used in black panther

Lol didn't expect you too,are you in Nigeria
XhosaNostra:



Never heard of that language before smiley

Oh, I know who you're talking about, Siki Jo-An cheesy


[
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W319s4Tvp9Y]

Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 6:05pm On May 08, 2020
Ishilove:

Oh my gosh. What a disgusting creature embarassed


IKR!
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 6:08pm On May 08, 2020
Chuky7:


Lol guess big brother had an impact

buy me a plane ticket I Want to come over and cook a 9ja dish for you grin


LMAO. I'm broke as a church mouse, so the meal can only be imagined.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by rationalhuman(m): 6:09pm On May 08, 2020
No Gujarat is not North India, (In fact i went there for my last semester project, while i was studying in India), Gujarat is West as i stated,
They Dont talk like North ether.

Your last sentence was correct though.

Sources: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gujarat

XhosaNostra:



Gujarat falls under Northern India, not the Tamil dominated South. They don't even like South Indians, the Northerners. Sialkot is in Pakistan, I know, but they're one of the same since at one point it was part of India & some people over there are still holding on to their Indian identity.
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 6:12pm On May 08, 2020
RamessesIV:
Yeah that's her,i went to youtube and watched it over like 10 times,it was the same language used in black panther

Lol didn't expect you too,are you in Nigeria


Many people even here like how we speak but allegedly, the language itself is difficult to learn.

No, I'm not. So what can you tell me about Esan people? Don't believe I ever met any. Over here it's mostly Igbos & to a lesser extent, Yorubas. I never knew about other Nigerian ethnic groups until I joined NL. Still learning smiley

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