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Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by CsRockefeller(m): 6:51pm On May 08, 2020 |
TheeDetective: Thanks. I feel it's d same person. 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 6:52pm On May 08, 2020 |
Davash222:Don't judge what you don't know. You are not wise! |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 6:58pm On May 08, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:God bless you! |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by TheeDetective: 6:58pm On May 08, 2020 |
I think so too. He obviously didn't learn anything from that thread upon all the advice that was given him there. On the social media aspect, its really quite alarming the amount of people who post their lives on social media; and if they don't get the validation they seek from social media, their lives are never the same; its really that bad and sad. CsRockefeller: 3 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by infotainment(m): 7:57pm On May 08, 2020 |
Collins918: Truth is ur wife is ashamed of showcasing u, not bicos u are not handsome or not financially ok. It's just dat u are not her first choice. U are meant to fill gap. Sorry about that. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by faithfull18(f): 8:01pm On May 08, 2020 |
adontcare:She can untag oh. Personally, it's not a big deal but different strokes for different folks. |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 8:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
Ybaby:Even on his birthday? 3 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
bro, you are still single but dont know it yet! 7 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by faithfull18(f): 8:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Nah, it doesn't always work this way. Life isn't black and white. |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by UjuJoan2: 8:14pm On May 08, 2020 |
Let her be, she will post your pictures when she is ready. If it really upsets you then stop posting hers. Truly, the only way for people to know how much they hurt you is if they get to feel the same kind of hurt too. If she doesn't care, then let her be. She is right, it's her phone, her SM, her decision. But from experience, there is always a reason for such cold treatment from a wife. You must have wronged terribly, knowingly or unknowingly, and that's her way of getting back at you. Bottomline is that you guys need to communicate better. Give it time, one year is not a long time. |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Ybaby: 8:15pm On May 08, 2020 |
Nukubib: I do on his birthday but I prefer not to. My friend that did interview that her husband is generous - her hubby just bought GLE 450 for side chick and i believe he was targeted. Biko let me cover my big yam and eat it indoors. 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by MoneyMindset(m): 8:16pm On May 08, 2020 |
adontcare:Lol! Is that the best you can come up with |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Ybaby: 8:17pm On May 08, 2020 |
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Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Ybaby: 8:21pm On May 08, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Na so! Let me break it down for you. When a woman looks good ... other women see what her husband is capable of and want that too. If he is just passing by they dont know if he is responsible, generous or kind .... but once they see the result of his work (ME and THE KIDS) they want to poach. May be I am just insecure who knows I will post his pic on his 80th birthday and even then he is going no where. 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Oluneutral: 8:25pm On May 08, 2020 |
You're probably not the type of man she would have loved to marry. She's only stuck with you and that doesn't mean she will cheat on you or treat you badly. Every marriage with its imperfection. |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by drmikeadams(m): 8:29pm On May 08, 2020 |
Post ur pix,make I see what u look like, ,maybe u don't dress well,maybe u don't look sharp,may be dress sense is poor,may be u don't have a decent hair cut & beard,,maybe u still wear baggy trouser. Or may be she don't want her toasters to know she is married 2 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by veave(f): 8:39pm On May 08, 2020 |
Children of anger, una weldone 2 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by chuggy(m): 8:40pm On May 08, 2020 |
ojun50:Gbagaun... |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Mmabontees: 8:42pm On May 08, 2020 |
Was it a court wedding? Did you do DNA test? Have you asked her why? Have you checked other people's pics she uploads? If your kids are there and not their (assumed) father? Does she hold you in the public? Have you checked her Facebook and whatsapp messages? Don't rush. Check out all of the above. Don't strive to keep what would break your heart in the coming years. And don't throw away what might be the best thing that has happened to you (if you finally got those facts accurately). Try this: A t-shirt. A King and Queen. Take pictures with your kids there. Instruct the photographer that any pics that you're not there should be deleted both soft and hard copy. Let's see if she would still not upload it. Oh, contact me for the t-shirt designs. 3 Likes
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Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 8:46pm On May 08, 2020 |
Post your picture here Let us give you the reason.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Richy4(m): 9:15pm On May 08, 2020 |
Reading between the lines OP, I was able to find out your problem. The problem is that you don't have a problem AT ALL.. So u are very worried. A whole matured married man with 2kids, how come every married man has issues and I don't... So you started looking and creating issues for yourself just to blend like a normal and any other persons with problem .. But in case u feel that this is a VERY BIG DEAL, and u wanted a social media marriage/ relationship, then it's time to upgrade your Nokia 3310 into a camera phone... Open Facebook, Twitter, MySpace page etc invite the whole community to be your social media friends, snap pictures of your self, and your kids, don't add her on it.. if she is there on the pic, you crop the pictures, then post as many as you can...then sleep like a baby because u have dealt with the issue.. Besides what is the benefits of social media relationships? Is it because of the likes? If u are looking for problem in your relationship, I will say that you are on the right platform.. if u want to wreck your marriage, it's here that u will have all your answers.. because they will put ideas / things on your head that you never imagined, I will suggest that if u are really looking for problem in your relationship, then try a little harder, this one is not good enough. But don't worry, The Nairaland home wreckers association (family section chapter ) is here to help...they got your back 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by kolajoo(m): 9:23pm On May 08, 2020 |
My only advise is that you should try and get into her social media account e.g Facebook or Instagram and lots will be reveal. Thanks me later Your madam is not proud to showcase you. I’m out 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by sisisioge: 9:27pm On May 08, 2020 |
But why will you say singles should keep off nau? That your wife no dey proud of you...she had the dream of marrying a Donald but ended up with a Donatus How very unkind of her to keep rubbing it in like that. I'm sorry, this sheet is common. You should have seen the signs before marrying her...trust me, it's always there. However, on a brighter note, she would soon settle well into her reality and accept you for who you are. Maybe you're too skinny, your carriage is sloppy, your expression is tasteless, you are too short, your fashion sense is awkward or you simply have this air of mediocrity around you. Be true to yourself and work on it if applicable. Your madam is superficial. |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by mcdokwe(m): 9:36pm On May 08, 2020 |
Two things are involved, it is either she is not proud of you as her husband, or she wants her marriage to be private. Learn to deal with it 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by lapazi(m): 9:42pm On May 08, 2020 |
Dear collins918, Run a DNA test on those twins. Bye 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Obabajo(m): 9:44pm On May 08, 2020 |
get her pregnant again maybe the twins is not yours, this time write down date and time u both have sex together, and calculate it to when u notice she is pregnant and date she delivery. this will be your only advantage if the twins is not yours |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by adexpa(m): 9:46pm On May 08, 2020 |
People are just running from saying the truth, if the wife is private she wouldn't be uploading herself and kids too. She is probably an high taste woman Who could not able to marry the kind of man she envisage but still probably lying to her distance friends how handsome her man is which is opposite of what the man she married is. Suppose there was no reason, she would have told him with loving voice why she decided not to post his pictures. Many men who blames oop will do the same if it happens to be them. Op, just take it like that for now, she will adjust to the new reality later. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 9:53pm On May 08, 2020 |
Fake stories everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Dannyfan(m): 10:19pm On May 08, 2020 |
Her reason(s) is best known to her. And I am sure you're in the best postion to ask her the reason(s). But if by all means she didn't oblige to tell you then: though I'm single but I have advice for you. 1. Tell her you want to run a DNA test on the kids. If you can't bear lossing your wife don't try this but trust me her head will spark here. She'll feel the same pain you felt. Then you can now bring the picture issue and correlate. 2. Take her phone if you're chance and upload your pictures. Since she's is your wife you can intrude her privacy. 3. Seek a counsellor. I want to believe everything is important in marriage. She uploaded her family pics and her own pics on your wedding day without yours: this is the most touching I feel your pain. She posted your kids and not yours. Omo bro do am jeje oooo...... We don't know her reason for doing that whether ashamed, not proud or may she don't wanna let girl snatch you away. But trust me these are not enough reason. Whether you're married or not and you're blaming this innocent bro then you're not wise. Ordinary TOOTHPASTE has broken home. But Op, my candid advice is you seek a spiritual counsellor. Shalom |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Lordswazz(m): 12:45am On May 09, 2020 |
No one should say the wife is private cos she's not. Someone that posts over 100 pictures of herself and her baby isn't private. All the ladies or guys here that said they've never posted their other half's picture, or that they've posted just one -- do you post up to 30 pictures at once? Even birthday pictures. If it looks like a rat and smells like a rat, by golly, it is a rat! She might not be cheating, but it's very obvious she "settled" for you, as opposed to who she wanted, and so doesn't want to slight someone. Even the most secure person will smell a rat. If it were one or two pictures she posts every now and then, that wouldn't have been a problem; but to post over a hundred on your birthday and the kids' without any of yours? C'mon! 4 Likes |
Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by SensualMan1(m): 2:36am On May 09, 2020 |
ahnie:That thing u have at home na husband? When people are talking of husband plz zero that thing at home. Manage this palliative for ur family. Dirty woman.
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Re: 1 Year Of Marriage And 2 Kids My Wife Has Had Never Post Any Of My Pics by Nobody: 3:10am On May 09, 2020 |
Unfortunately, I'm on this table too.... The truth is that some ladies just settle with anybody and not necessarily whom they love. Everything wrong about a Union is what my wife does but I've learnt to live with it. All I want is my PROGRESSION and not DISTRACTIONS 2 Likes |
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