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Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 6:25am On May 08, 2020 |
klbakare: Are u minding all ds people that do not read to understand but instead they read to reply and end up sounding foolish 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 6:44am On May 08, 2020 |
abdulizom: U sound dumb and foolish 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by adunnioladipupo: 8:50am On May 08, 2020 |
alasan007: I have a male child and wont pray for such. Thou not in support of him sending her out but her comment show the type of mother that raised her up. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Discombulator: 9:16am On May 08, 2020 |
solmus:Bro your own is still okay,3 of us shared a single room apartment it was more of a very small studio,so no sitting room or anytime, only one bathroom and toilet in Baton Rouge for 13months,I was the only Male out of us,one nigerian,one American. We never had a confrontation for the 13months,of course they were annoying sometimes after all they're girls,they chatter, don't clean and talk too much, but I just see them as my siblings and to me it's all love.when I finally moved out to new Orleans this girls would still come and crash at my apartment because that was how great our stay was. Wife are too intolerant to their husband's families this days and it is very wrong, how can you ask thrice within 2 weeks. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by amakadihot87(f): 9:36am On May 08, 2020 |
Let the wife ask for her clothes, she can go and stay with her friend , so she can continue going to work,........ Men are not worth going through trauma for, her work is more important here 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by CioAngels(f): 10:36am On May 08, 2020 |
Sirvingeo:Yes, it is highly possible when there is jazz involved. How are we sure that the supposed brothers girl is not a girl brought by the mother for her son? |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by srclark: 11:20am On May 08, 2020 |
LordShiva97:obviously i see it is difficult for you to read and understand easily ,lets put the write up into reality assuming the couple stay in Lagos .And the boys mother stays in ikorodu and the hospital she receives treatment is in yaba and her son stays in yaba also.How easy do you think it will be for the sick mother to come from ikorodu to yaba under this total lockdown situation but it will be easier if she is in yaba .Then for the brother and the girl friend staying it is justified so they can attend to the sick mothers needs .The brother for the physical part of it and the girlfriend for the womanly part washing of the clothes and other female shit .Obviously you have not experienced handling a sick eldrly person .The house is a 3 bedroom for crying out loud so what is bad there (5 people in a 3 bedroom flat for a couple of months)PLEASE YOU DO NOT HAVE TO REPLY |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by pedrilo: 11:54am On May 08, 2020 |
I will never ever send my wife away for such flimsy reasons. But relatives shud understand that couples need their space. Personally, I dont like crowd. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by stabilizer: 12:25pm On May 08, 2020 |
instinct57vm: I don't banter Words with shallow minded People, You are disgrace to my gender |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by DeBill: 12:41pm On May 08, 2020 |
Am not in support of what d man did but I have to say this: wives are so cool and relax when all the members of her own family visit, the man will not be comfortable with it, but will endure it for years sef. Sometimes , the man will be spending extra much cos of her wife family visit but there will be peace. But whenever the reverse is that case, there will be no peace . I totally blame the woman for that constant worrying of her husband over the visit. She should have endured cos if it is her family, she will not complain no matter how long. Check many couples , u will see d wife mother staying wt the couple for years and there will be peace , the man is doing a lot of sacrifice to maintain that peace , but when it is the wife turn , she can not endure more than one month. OUR WOMEN ARE STH ELSE. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Ybaby: 12:49pm On May 08, 2020 |
My opinion is NEVER join and pay rent with your husband. He will treat the house like his alone. Paying rent with a man is flat mate things. She should sue her flatmate (husband) for half the rent. Ok bye! |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 1:06pm On May 08, 2020 |
Discombulator: You guys continue to amAze me by not reasoning from a woman’s perspective. Some things for us as men are relatively easier for us to handle. See how you guide this ladies matters alot that’s where our strength should lie as a man not in giving orders and being quick to think a woman should reason like you, its almost impossible. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 08, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:The problem is not that, he was too close to his mum, hell nobody can separate me from my mum , the problem was that ur friends husband is a slowpoke! But then it’s too early to judge, Most Nigerians hardly communicate you know, Dey just talk and it’s best they settle this amicably. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 1:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
pedrilo: Another person with sense spotted. Thanks for being amongst the few with sense. You see that’s why ladies will say men are scum, dont blame them. the irresponsible and reckless comments from alot of fellow men on here is more than enough to justify this. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 1:17pm On May 08, 2020 |
DeBill: I don’t agree with you. This thing is a joint responsibility. If couple understand one another and discuss about everything they do, there can never be a case of wife’s mother or anyone staying with them unless they agree. For what exactly? See I’m married and my wife hardly allows her mum come around. Na me sef go dey tell her to free her. What am i saying? As a man your mother inlaw will only stay with you guys if you allow it. Hence, this cannot be a tenable excuse to condemn a lady. Afterall none of the lady in question family member ever visited since they got married. Please lets be guided. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 1:27pm On May 08, 2020 |
Thank you for the insult Sir. instinct57vm: |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 1:37pm On May 08, 2020 |
Thank you Sir. instinct57vm: |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by iammolise(m): 1:46pm On May 08, 2020 |
I would say the supposed "brother in-laws girlfriend" is another wife the mom brought to replace ur friend... What do I know tho |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Discombulator: 4:17pm On May 08, 2020 |
instinct57vm:Bro we all know such situation is delicate especially for a nigerian family, since she already knows he is perhaps too close to his mum,she should have threaded carefully and just wait for the matter to die a natural death,5 people in a 3 bedroom flat is still doable. On the other hand the guy handled the matter like a fool too |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 5:05pm On May 08, 2020 |
Discombulator: 5 people in a three bedroom being possible is relative bro. Different strokes for different folks. I think its unfair to generalize that this pattern can work for every family. From a Nigerian perspective a newly weded like the couple in question honestly do not need any body staying with them if they are to lay solid foundation for a lasting marriage. I am married since 2018 and my wife and I both agreed that nobody will stay with us for at least 3years. The person that had stayed longest was her mum for a week when we had our child. People have proposed staying with us from my family and my wife’s family but we declined even though politely and diplomatically. My wife handles responses to her own ppl in this regard, while I handle responses to my own people as well. If we have our 2nd child and we still have a girl. That will make it 2 girls. Bro, My wife and I are already discussing that nobody will stay with us at all coz I need to protect my girls if u understand what I mean. Life experience taught my wife and I this not our fault. Another reason couple might decide against people staying with them can be financial which is evident in this couple case. The reason why only one room has a bed as stated on my writeup. There are alot other reasons why ppl can’t allow anyone stay with them if u ask them. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by highmood(m): 5:35pm On May 08, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:never marry if only the guy is foolish. A guy who do not care of his mother, Is it the wife or the wife mother will he take care of? No. If the mother in-law never talked to his son on why he had to lay his hands on a woman (his wife), they the woman is wicked and never mean well for the couple. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 8:08pm On May 08, 2020 |
srclark: Just to correct you, The mother in-law isn’t bedridden. She only came for a check up and decided to stay permanently. The husband knew this but failed to communicate it to the wife. The couple are still struggling financially to harbor anyone and the wedding is also way too early for anyone to start staying with them. Na common sense bro. When the guy was squatting before marriage why didn’t the mother and the rest move in then. She waited until the wife helped her son in paying half of rent and bought many things herself before coming to scatter their marriage. No matter how we look at it, the guy simply exposed his wife ,disrespected her, violated her rights and above all never loved her. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 8:41pm On May 08, 2020 |
Ijobaorun: Sick is an understatement he is mentally derailed. A 36yr old for that matter. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 8:46pm On May 08, 2020 |
Bilabong: Are u minding all ds guys typing rubbish. A man that can not decide whether or not people visit and manage situations like this is not a man. Let alone newly wedded. Weak men everywhere hiding under the guise of I love my mom. Shebi the rest of us hate our moms na. Pure and applied nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by jenifer007: 10:29pm On May 08, 2020 |
instinct57vm: So what's the situation of your friend now....The man is actually a baby husband....I am sure he never loved her but just wanted to use her financially.... The mother-in-law is evil...what do you expect from her since she too has left her husband... She never liked your friend and wanted that marriage to fail.... Any man that can't head his home and take decisions isn't fit to marry.I am a mother and I can never allow my son to love me more than his wife no matter the sacrifice I did...I love my husband so much that I don't think I will have the mindset to start acting as a rival to my son's wife....Any mother that wants to come between her son and his wife is a shameless and selfish mother....What God has joined together let no man put assunder |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by jenifer007: 10:30pm On May 08, 2020 |
instinct57vm: So what's the situation of your friend now....The man is actually a baby husband....I am sure he never loved her but just wanted to use her financially.The mother-in-law is evil...what do you expect from her since she too has left her husband... She never liked your friend and wanted that marriage to fail.... Any man that can't head his home and take decisions isn't fit to marry.I am a mother and I can never allow my son to love me more than his wife no matter the sacrifice I did...I love my husband so much that I don't think I will have the mindset to start acting as a rival to my son's wife.Any mother that wants to come between her son and his wife is a shameless and selfish mother....What God has joined together let no man put assunder. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by srclark: 7:43am On May 09, 2020 |
instinct57vm:am not taking sides here i am just suggesting the easy way out of this ,the couple should have jut gotten a bed for the other room, her stay is just temporary it is not a biggie .The wife should know these things happen all the time ,a time will come someone will come through her that needs to stay so she should not lose her marriage over what is not worth it . |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 7:47am On May 09, 2020 |
jenifer007: I speak to her occasionally to encourage her. You have spoken well, no wonder some people will say that only married people are fit to give marital advice.. Many of this singles just be spewing trash. I am also married, my wife and I both agreed that nobody will stay with us till we deem fit. The person that had stayed longest was her mum for a week when we had our child. People have proposed staying with us from my family and my wife’s family but we declined even though politely and diplomatically. My wife handles responses to her own ppl in this regard, while I handle responses to my own people as well. Infact, if we have our 2nd child and we still have a girl. That will make it 2 girls. My wife and I are already discussed that nobody will stay with us at all coz we need to protect this girls. Another reason couple might decide against people staying with them can be financial which is evident in this couple case. The reason why only one room has a bed in their house. Her husband messed everything up. He isn’t fit to marry and never loved her like you rightly said. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by instinct57vm(m): 8:00am On May 09, 2020 |
srclark: Going by the scheme of things, her stay is not temporary bro and the couple both earns salaries that cannot accommodate third parties. No be people wey get money to spare go buy bed? The mother even brought bed after a few days clearly indicating they have come to stay. About ppl coming to stay when a time comes, my case for instance, I am married since 2018 and my wife and I both agreed that nobody will stay with us for at least 3years. The person that had stayed longest was her mum for a week when we had our child. Infact, when my wife was pregnant, she’s always naked all throughout our stay at home moving from living room to rooms at will. How can anyone even stay with us in that situation? People have proposed staying with us from my family and my wife’s family but we declined even though politely and diplomatically. My wife handles responses to her own ppl in this regard, while I handle responses to my own people as well. If we have our 2nd child and we still have a girl. That will make it 2 girls. Bro, My wife and I are already discussing that nobody will stay with us at all coz I need to protect my girls if u understand what I mean. Life experience taught my wife and I this not our fault. See this thing na understanding, if husband and wife cannot understand one another they have no business getting married in the first place. |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by jaz(m): 9:04am On May 09, 2020 |
Now go back and read your comment slowly and with a clear mind. You'll be surprised how stupid it is Millenniumlady: |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by srclark: 10:59am On May 09, 2020 |
instinct57vm:no matter how you put it ,there is no way in this our country you wont have one person or the other coming to stay over for more than a week .The earlier they learn to accommodate people the better .God forbid any thing comes up and support is needed is it then you will start allowing people to come stay .Better open the door to your home to family members and friends (but limit it).Dont wait till you need them |
Re: Wife Sent Packing For Questioning Husband Over Her Mother-in-law's Visit by Nobody: 12:42pm On May 09, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: So many marriages these days are scams. When a marriage is a scam those are what you.will.see. The ladies could have talked all these things over before marriage. Because some people have a large extended family while some have just a small family. A lot of guys and ladies instead of discussing some better issues all that they will be doing is sex and visiting beaches. Now the result is out. Another broken home loading |
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