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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kobojunkie: 11:16pm On May 08, 2020 |
lefulefu:I guess caring about the mental and emotional wellbeing of the children is not a priority in many of these babymama/remote marriages. In fact it does not even seem to matter for much. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 11:18pm On May 08, 2020 |
Try to give marriage a chance though,you can have kids anytime you want,a two parent system is very productive,baby mama life style is suitable for western countries. Liliantalks: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by executive12: 11:19pm On May 08, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: May God continue to keep you in the right lane. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 11:22pm On May 08, 2020 |
Reason #1000463 why you shouldn't go into the institution of marriage as a financially stable straight male of color in western countries next...... Eniolakiite: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by executive12: 11:23pm On May 08, 2020 |
0KNM: Who are the "we"? Please speak for yourself. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 11:24pm On May 08, 2020 |
In the west marriage is by grace of God,see no matter how they twist it as a straight male you will more likely to loose more in case of a divorce,the only thing that can save you is if you marry someone wealthier than you even that one doesn't have assurance lefulefu: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by executive12: 11:26pm On May 08, 2020 |
jubrilELsudan: So tell us about married Nigerian men. Do they also sleep around? |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 11:31pm On May 08, 2020 |
RamessesIV:i think wat will solve everythin is if u marry a woman who genuinly loves u and want to be wiht u |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 11:35pm On May 08, 2020 |
Sir love dies,do we do love more than white people but yet they change marriage like clothes,your hard earned money shouldn't be pegged to "love" it can go and come,once divorce comes that your wife that you think is very serious will bring one broke dude to be living with her in the house you bought,I have heard stories of our Edo brothers in europe I won't make such mistake lefulefu: 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by zagorakis(m): 12:07am On May 09, 2020 |
My nigga!!! You too smart joor ![]() ![]() I think say nah only me observe am BetWinners: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by DozieInc(m): 2:02am On May 09, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:lovely 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by jubrilELsudan: 2:04am On May 09, 2020 |
executive12: IF I OPEN MY MOUTH TO TALK ABOUT MARRIED NIGERIAN MEN, NIGERIA WILL BURN AND NEVER BE THESAME AGAIN. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 2:26am On May 09, 2020 |
RamessesIV:the woman that is williing to stay with u in naija carry her to US and let her see the benefits of seperation and she will seperate from u one time ![]() a divorced woman in nigeria will have difficulties looking after the children if the man is unwilling to help and there is nothing anybody can do in naija there are no welfare packages for divorced women but in the USA even with the benefits of being divorced there still many western stay with their husbands..why do u think this happens? its love the thing is that in nigeria many women marry for security reasons and for money and when such women happen to go to the US and they see it is more beneficial being divorced they will seperate from their husbands and start collecting the ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by sircatherine45(m): 2:34am On May 09, 2020 |
XhosaNostra: Ah! Kashmir? hate those people bloody racists!!! 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by sircatherine45(m): 2:39am On May 09, 2020 |
RamessesIV: last sentense was funny i love Xhosa women, chatted with one in 2go...i just loved that babe... 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Surrey2Bimshire: 2:40am On May 09, 2020 |
dangoteinlaw: 1 Like
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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by sircatherine45(m): 2:52am On May 09, 2020 |
humilitypays: if u write the book finish, holla me |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by rinzaugustine: 4:07am On May 09, 2020 |
People giving their own personal little experiences they have while in America as the overall perspective of what happens all over America..Nigerians I tire for una..smh 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by larryking540: 4:23am On May 09, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Na stupidity they make brain most times,,,, U wan make man run out ring and carry u straight to alter abi ![]() When there isn't any investment u have made in the relationship not even money investment but time ,,.. ...na foolishness don make many relationship last unlike ur brain wise Sense |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by class0247: 4:35am On May 09, 2020 |
If you live in America, send most of your money home to build nice house and set up a tangible investment in Nigeria. (Build a hotel etc) Live in a rented apartment in the US. If your wife chase you away from you rented apartment, go and rent another house. I’m very sure she will not come to Nigeria to claim all your investment and properties. If US tire you, cucuma come Nigeria and start to enjoy your sweat. If Nigeria tire you, take a trip to Paris, Dubai, Milan, Japan. Life is too short 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ghettochild4u(m): 4:48am On May 09, 2020 |
lefulefu:No wife of mine is coming to meet me abroad unless to come visit.. Infact I go establish business for naija to tie her down... Make she dey manage am... Or in a case if we both move over there together with plans to save money n invest back home.. In all the advise here is that the husband shd also be making as much as the wife if not more sef 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by hollywater: 6:13am On May 09, 2020 |
executive12:You got it wrong. There are many to make money over here at least to be enough for you to sustain yourself family. As a Nigeria, anything you bought here and send back home, you are sure of selling it with gain. That alone is enough for your wife and kids home. While your job here is enough to settle bills and take care of yourself. Our only problem is the other relatives we have to help. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by One4me: 6:52am On May 09, 2020 |
josh2297: A few "Opinions/Corrections", without going into too much details, if you dont mind: Let me use your numbering to make it easier for all of us! 1) Is it a coincidence that Women get custody of the children, 98% of the time and therefore gets PAID money by the ex-husband? So, in effect, it is always Women getting paid, even when the results of their Parenting is woeful, as can be seen from the number of Prisoners who were raised by Single Mothers (there is that one in a thousand that doesnot fit that description bu tit is too small to be of any significance). That is the UNFAIRNESS in the law. 2) True, you are not forced to get married but Policies are put in place to force you to marry, if you want to live better! For example, single Men pay tax at the rate of almost 50%, (most places it ranges between 45% and 55%), but if you marry, you tax band comes down to 21% and we are talking of places where you cant dodge this tax on any income you make! ![]() So, the Law is unfair in that context. Let single and married people have the same tax band. On the issue of Baby Mama, you will still have to pay because the Woman will run to the Courts to get Child Support payment, not withstanding whether you have been more than financially responsible for the Child, she just wants a steady income from you and the child is a good bait! Some of them, after getting that steady income order from the court, they will still be "pallying" the guy for extra money along side! So, Baby Mama arraingment does not help a man that much! 3) Pre Nuptial agreements are good but you know thatit is also being challenged in court, by greedy women who signed it but dont want to be bound by it. Moreover, most wife to be have perfected the art of emotionally blackmailing their husband-to-be, into not signing such agreements, with statements like "Are you saying you are already planning for the breakage of our marriage? Is that how much you love me? I am not after your money so just forget it, l am not signing anything, ![]() 4) You are right about most things you said here. But the "Top heirachy" dont consider divorce most times because they both have too much to lose and you know rich people dont joke with their assets! Take for example, most "heavy-weight" Pastors/Religious leaders are groaning under the weight of their over-bearing spouse but they will not consider a divorce because it can "break the Ministry" and destroy the source of wealth and Power they exercise! So, they would rather enudre it with deep resentment (while they pretend to the members) for each other. For Top heirachy people, its all about preserving the status quo but for poor people, they have nothing to lose and the woman has a lot to gain. 5) Again, you are right ! the laws are wack and those who are currently benefiting from it , think it is okay and they will support it until it turns against them. Samething will happens with the marital laws that favour women today. You hear Women say it is my body and l can do whatever l like with it but when they compete against a transgender, they simply realise that if everyone did whatever they like with their body (like sex change!), it can affect relationships and how it relates to others. ![]() But like someone said, in the nearest future, Men will not need women to or wives to have Sex and have legitimate Children (paid surrogacy, test tube babies, commercial, factory-line produced babies, etc) and the issue of marriage will be Dead On Arrival. That will signal the end of all those marital laws that favour ex-wives. ![]() ![]() But at that point, just watch Women start clamouring to stop Men from having Children without going into marriage or from a woman attached to them, so that she can get "financial compensation" one way or the other. ![]() ![]() That is how unfair Women can be, to Men. Women dont undertand 'NOW', that it is in their own "long term interest" to treat Man fairly in marriage and divorce, but they willleanr very soon. The above are just my own opinion on your post, not intended to condemn what you wrote, just take it as a rejoinder. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Edmanpumpin(m): 6:53am On May 09, 2020 |
RamessesIV: The confederates who are the Democrats and Liberals encouraged Slavery and never supported black rights movements. The Union/republicans did. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liliantalks: 7:02am On May 09, 2020 |
larryking540:begging a man ? While he’s misbehaving? No that’s foolishness to me 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by One4me: 7:17am On May 09, 2020 |
Lleigh: Homehow, Women like to paint a very 'one-sided picture' of marriage, that justify their attitude to break up the marriage, in the Western world! How many Women in Africa will ask for divorce, because their husband did not cook food ready for them, whenthey just got back from work and he has been at home all day? Almost non (rightly or wrongly, is another debate)! What this confirms is that the laws in the Western world encourages women to break up the home willy-nilly. Again, hardly will you see a woman who will tie the knot in marriage, with a man who is jobless throughot their courtship (except for some of those "Rich Mamas" who just need a tomboy for exercises ![]() What this shows is that almost all men are working before marriage, are hard working but something may happen along the way that makes them lose their job and they are still trying to get another. They are not "lazy men". Again, in most cases, when a wife goes to work, it is to increase the income of the family though mostly it is to make her financially independent. When a man works it is simply to provide for his family. Most women dont put their income from their owrk, 100% at the disposal of their family and husband, like men do when their wife is not working! This is what causes conflict in most homes. Your (husband) Money is "our Money" but My (wife) money is "my Money". Most Men who are out fo job, willuse the free time to take care of the Children, take them to and from School, cook for them,, exercise them and have dinner ready for the wife, when she comes back from work. That is the standard practice from most men, except where there is already a conflict on ground and the man deliberately decides not to help out (this is an aberration and he is doing it intentionally to fight back on a disagreement that is brewing but it is certainly not the norm). Men generally are very helpful of their wives because Men are protective and see it as part of their duty in the family. Women are not like that, they feel they are entitled to whatever the man does for them and usually dont show appreciation for it, afterall, its his duty! As for the Chinese and Indian, l think trying to say they are pretending, is to try to undermine and rubbish a good trait of these people. How long can anyone pretend in a marriage? Why can Chinese and Indian Women pretend (if that is the method to save their marriage) and Nigerian/Black Women cant also pretend, just to keep their home intact? Are Black/Nigerian women better than these Chinese and Indian Women who on the average, earn three times more than the Nigerian/Black women (who are mostly Nurses and Care workers, compared to Indiand and Chinese women who are mostly into I.T and other top earning jobs)? Thing is, pretense or not, these indian and Chinese women know the value of staying in marriage, they value their marriage more than the Child Support, lone Parent allowance and Alimony that drives the Nigerian/black woman, but most importantly, they know the long term eefect of breaking up their marriage, on their children and offsprings! Go to any jail and compare the percentage of black people in jail, with that of Chinese and Indians and you will see that the Chinese and Indian women got more sense than just pretending for the sake of it! They dont even have to pretend because in the Western world, they have equal access to the Courts that the Nigerian/Black women use, IF THEY WANT TO USE IT. The end they say, justify the means, that is why the "black generation" will continue to be a servant to the "white generation", their Mothers are at the root of it. ![]() 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 7:23am On May 09, 2020 |
Interesting One4me: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liliantalks: 7:25am On May 09, 2020 |
humilitypays:infact 80% of nigerian married women r treated like slaves, just that the society hv subdue them to keep shut. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by macho44(m): 7:34am On May 09, 2020 |
Kobojunkie:Having a baby in 2 years Time if Marriage remains a mirage ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by humilitypays(m): 7:39am On May 09, 2020 |
Liliantalks:You are a small girl so what do u know aside dating, hangouts, flirting and crushing ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liliantalks: 7:51am On May 09, 2020 |
humilitypays:we hv over 200m people in Nigeria ,and women as the majority, and u choose to use less than 1% of woman , to prove ur point that majority of Nigerian women ain’t slaves to their husbands? Humans change so there is no assurance of anyone’s character. An amazing person today can change to a beast and the society encouraging this submissive shit makes it worse |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liliantalks: 7:52am On May 09, 2020 |
humilitypays:I know a lot more than u think |
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