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I Need Help by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 09, 2020 |
Pls I need advice on what to do I have daughter who is 14months old, though I'm not legally married but I and my daughter's dad live in together, and yesterday will be the third time he is physically abusing me that I almost passed out, he choked me and hit our daughter feeding flask on my head and beat me. Now, when I called his mom to reported what happened,she asked me to pack my things back inside, that she knows of a woman that her husband beat regularly And still she's still with her husband,that next time he want to beat me I should run outside,and if I decides to leave ,I should leave and if I take my daughter along she will fight me,that if I don't want her anger I shouldn't take my daughter.... Now my problem now is I can't leave my child for them,as I'm typing I'm weak and tired from all the beating, I'm 26years,I can't continue this way,cos I don't know how long this will continue |
Re: I Need Help by Olachase(m): 6:00pm On May 09, 2020 |
my sister did u marry a smoker if yes pls park ur things and leave Mk he no go kill u for night. |
Re: I Need Help by Graxie(f): 6:13pm On May 09, 2020 |
You are not legally married, why not leave to your parents house? Do you want him to kill you? No matter how disappointed your parents might be, a living child is better than a dead child. Please leave!!! You can leave with your daughter. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by naijacutee(f): 7:26pm On May 09, 2020 |
Ok, I think God is trying to save you. Please do not resist. Get financially stable and leave or this man will kill you, and the people you do not want to raise your daughter will end up raising her. Even if you were legally married to this man, I would suggest that you walk out. Domestic violence should not be tolerated under any cirumstances. He will kill you. What do you benefit from him that you cannot get yourself? Besides, women who are older than you and with more children than you have restarted their lives successfully. Look around, start a business, get yourself financially stable and leave! Call the Mirabel Centre, they deal with rape cases but they may be able to point you in the right direction. THE MIRABEL CENTRE Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH), Ikeja, Lagos Managed by Partnership for Justice Tel: 08155770000, 07013491769, 08187243468, 01-2957816 www.pjnigeria.org sarc@pjnigeria.org, partners@pjnigeria.org, partners4justice@yahoo.com 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Donald3d(m): 8:23pm On May 09, 2020 |
I responded to you on your other thread, please read it 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 8:32pm On May 09, 2020 |
naijacutee:Thanks sir |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 8:33pm On May 09, 2020 |
Donald3d:OK sir |
Re: I Need Help by PuZZyNegro: 7:23am On May 10, 2020 |
Chidebless111: No pity given. You guys like them "bad guys". They are manly and can protect you. Deal with your cross 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Resurgent2016: 10:18am On May 10, 2020 |
You're in a wrong relationship, exit as soon as possible. With a child of less than one year, you'll almost certainly get custody with your partner only getting visiting rights. As for tour partner's mother, why do you even consider her opinion on the issue? She has almost no say in the issue. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 10:29am On May 10, 2020 |
Resurgent2016: Thank you. My daughter is a year 2months, I only called his mom to reported him . |
Re: I Need Help by LadySarah: 10:32am On May 10, 2020 |
So the mofo continued from where his father stopped. Those men who only show their strength on a woman but is humbled when another man threatens. Carry your daughter and go home and face another stress since you aren't even legally married. Tell them you will leave with your child. You have to be alive! 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Resurgent2016: 10:38am On May 10, 2020 |
Chidebless111: The earlier you leave the better for your. In your next relationship, don't take any shortcut. Until a man shows you he values you by doing the necessary marital rites, both families getting to know each other well and both families reaching a clear understanding of how they expect their daughter treated by the other family, don't move in to live with such person, whether you have a child or not together. Imagine the rubbish your partner's mother is saying? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help by Houseofglam7(f): 12:33pm On May 10, 2020 |
LEAVE!!!!! I’m sure you don’t wanna die at 26? Coz if you continue to stay there, it won’t be flask tomorrow, he’ll legit crack open your skull like an egg! Sorry but your ‘almost mother in law’ is mad. You ain’t even married to this pisshead and you’re confused on what to do? Even if you were married to him, domestic violence is a good ground to take a fuqin walk! I feel like bitch slapping you right now!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 10, 2020 |
Olachase:Yes,he smoke sometimes...how do you know? |
Re: I Need Help by ayshacom: 8:50am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Hi, I don't know wether your parents are alive? If alive, I don't know your current relationship with them. Anyway if they are alive go back to them and treat them well even if they maltreat you more than this guy. Be good to them, help them, be patient with them. God will turn your life for good by His Grace. If they are dead still pray for them. Ask God to forgive you because living with him without marriage is a SIN in the first place. The experience you have now shows that you've to be serious, give yourself to God, get into business and developed yourself. If any man needs you, let him do the right thing. And let him also be serious, business minded and not a rough guy. Change yourself first, you will meet your type. Birds of a feather flock together....! Leave this guy for good!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz: 8:57am On Jun 02, 2020 |
In your next relationship don't take a shortcut |
Re: I Need Help by craleonic: 5:55pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Leave and take your daughter with you. No one can take your daughter from you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by Foodqueen(f): 6:25pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Na who de alive them de fight. If her son kill u, she won't see u to fight. Call ur parent and explain everything to them. Go back home. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help by akaahs(m): 7:15pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Chidebless111:Someone is commenting based on experience, U are still asking. U better pack out of that house to unknown and secure place before he kills you. I wonder how U girls still fall for anything under trouser. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help by MuttleyLaff: 10:00pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Chidebless111: Nephilim: MuttleyLaff: |
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