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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:29am On May 10, 2020
Dpharisee:
Calm down, that was how we almost discouraged my friend from marrying his wife who is 10 years older than him, today that guy is enjoying the best of life, she is so loyal to him that he is totally in charge. His economic well-being has improved and even his parents feel her positive impact.
We that married wives many years younger are not having it easy, no loyalty, the slay queenish wives think they did you a favour by marrying you, you shout at them the holla at you, your relations are not wanted around you anymore.
It's better for you to make her your friend now and bury all malice, she is even open by talking about having 7 failed relationships in the past, if slay queen's confess their body count to you, my sister you go faint, these days you see them displaying their private parts just to win on money on Instagram from an artiste
You are making me depressed with this reality cry cry

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:29am On May 10, 2020
mistijude:
If seeing her period is your own point of argument.What if she stops seeing it as soon as they get married?
He should get a warranty.
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by ikembz(m): 12:29am On May 10, 2020
NockMedia:

There are two things involved. It's either she has a very fat bank account or he wants Green Card.



My broda... your eye de dia
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by dinggle: 12:30am On May 10, 2020
If the 43 years old was an oyibo woman that will take him to America na you for dey campaign for endorsement. Leave the two consenting adults to sink or swim.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by emilomona(m): 12:32am On May 10, 2020
Kestolove:
Ur brother might b a gold digger, rubbish

And which Gold is he digging? Are u even privy of the financial positions of the intended couple.
Just because u heard that a young man wants to take an older woman as a wife nw all ur fish brain cld do was to label him a gold digger.

I've been in a relationship with a lady with 2kids, 10yrs older and she was my senior colleague. We started dating after i left the workplace. I earn more than she did and we were both useful to each other in every possible ways because we were both in love.

Just like some ladies wld love to marry an older man, some guys too wld also ve a thing fr an woman. It is vice versa, there shl be no string attached if it the other way around.

For your info love is blind, it as no regards fr age, knows no boundaries.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by justme7777(m): 12:39am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

Is he ur elder or younger brother?,
When it comes to relationship, U cant use force, U can only dialogue or convince him
Do U have parents, unless, elder in d family
Why did he chose someone 13 years older instead 13 years younger
Find out if he has genuine reasons

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:42am On May 10, 2020
ladymorgana13:
True talk. He even highlighted how many relationships the lady has been in before his brother. Let's go and find out how many puna his brother has smashed before meeting her. Biased nonsense, rubbish post.
An unmarried 43 years old woman dare not silenced her previous relationships and why they failed!!!
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:43am On May 10, 2020
phaco:
Abeg make he follow him mind. my GF is 36 and am 32. and we are planning to settle down.
shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:44am On May 10, 2020
Vulcan24:
tell him he's a fool

something he would regret in life.....

he thinks it's a child's play to put a woman under your roof and even an old woman !!!

eternal liability at his early start. pls advise him well

Eternal Liability cheesy grin cheesy

You have taken the whole thing personally..
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 12:50am On May 10, 2020
emilomona:


And which Gold is he digging? Are u even privy of the financial positions of the intended couple.
Just because u heard that a young man wants to take an older woman as a wife nw all ur fish brain cld do was to label him a gold digger.

I've been in a relationship with a lady with 2kids, 10yrs older and she was my senior colleague. We started dating after i left the workplace. I earn more than she did and we were both useful to each other in every possible ways because we were both in love.

Just like some ladies wld love to marry an older man, some guys too wld also ve a thing fr an woman. It is vice versa, there shl be no string attached if it the other way around.

For your info love is blind, it as no regards fr age, knows no boundaries.
Marriage is not blind tho undecided

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by kayusely70(m): 1:00am On May 10, 2020
Let them be

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by TruthSpeaker: 1:00am On May 10, 2020
eghevaare:
Obgeni, you are talking nonsense. You are supporting a man of 30 yrs old to marry a woman of 43 yrs. That boy must be mad and the woman that wants to marry him a thief.

Hahaha, it’s not a question of supporting the 30 years old adult. He is matured enough to know what he considers good for him. It could be true love, it could be due to financial benefit or any other reason best known by him. There is no absolute guarantee he will live a happier or longer life if he marries a sweet-16. May be the matured woman is giving him his best sex experience he has ever received all his life.
Matured women tend to be more sacrificed, dedicated, caring and appreciative. Maybe because they know they are already running out of options.
The world is now changing so you have to step up. I gave an extreme example of France president who is 42 years old, while his wife is 67.
Don’t dictate your opinion on an adult, At 30 he has the right to decide for himself.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by grandstar(m): 1:04am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

I support you on this.

Yorubas say the broom the man used to chase the 1st wife away is awaiting the 2nd wife.

Your brother will most likely become no. 8

Also, the age gap is too much.
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by mrde(m): 1:06am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Raphcom: 1:11am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?
pls just let ur brother know that such decision is not taken out of pity. Make it clear khim weller
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by momove4real25(f): 1:17am On May 10, 2020
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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by ReeLoaDead(m): 1:40am On May 10, 2020
Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.
Very witty ...
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by micflo28(m): 1:56am On May 10, 2020
He is just attracted to her wealth. But if poverty is dealing your family a huge blow, allow him to be the heroe he was born to be and save the family from poverty by marrying her
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nastofar(f): 2:12am On May 10, 2020
Love is a funny game. Let them be. Age is just a number

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Dshocker(m): 2:55am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?

She might have used kayamata on him and he see her pvssy as the sweetest in the universe grin
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Chibyke009(m): 3:01am On May 10, 2020
Try and ask him his reasons, I know your fear. balance your fear with his convictions . He is your brother , u want the best for him. you are a nice person, many people here telling u to mind there businesses are hypocrites. will they allow there brother to marry a 43 year old woman. The lady should be asked, why has her 7 relationships failed? Your brother can't inherit a loss. Help him with prayer , he may not be using his senses ,or he may. some guys are under diabolical influences fro ladies. it is well

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Eniolakiite(f): 3:03am On May 10, 2020
smiley

izzou:
What does he need your endorsement for?

Genevieve Nnaji is 41. I'm sure you would have endorsed the marriage if it was her

I think he's old enough to sort his life out. Take it easy, okay? grin

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Eniolakiite(f): 3:03am On May 10, 2020
LOL

Davash222:
My dear, he doesn't even need your endorsement. Your endorsement is like the P in psychology.
Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by akajiugochief: 3:12am On May 10, 2020
Age is nothing but a number.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by AnTare2010: 3:33am On May 10, 2020
Preciousgirl:
My 30 year old brother is going to marry a 43 year old woman. The woman is never married before and has no kids but been in 7 different past relationships.

I am not endorsing this, what do you advise?




My uncle got married to a lady that had 2 kids out of wedlock. Guess what? Today they have 5kids together and the 2 she had before she met my uncle are the best cousins anyone could ever wish for. Infact, no one remembers how she joined the family. Best aunty in law we have. So my candid advice is, let your brother be.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Nobody: 4:22am On May 10, 2020
Omoslim26:



thunder fire her endorsement

well perhaps her brother is not a real man

no one tries that shit with a real nigga tel him who to marry

talk more of a girl
30-43=-13.....too bad.

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by isaiahethan: 4:59am On May 10, 2020
Norman4real:
Wow, Age is a very serious factor when considering marriage. If it was just a casual relationship then I'd have no issue with this but I think your brother is either stupid or too desperate to be going for her.
It's probably coz he's never had any success with women and sees this as his only chance at getting one.
It's also possible that the woman is wealthy and he's somewhat attracted to her financial stability.
This is a marriage that clearly won't even last for 5yrs coz in her late 40s this woman will start looking like his mother.
If he's lucky she will only get him like one kid and that will be the end of it coz she's effectively at the very end of her biological fertility clock.

What do you gain from having 10 children? Isn't one kid enough?

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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by oneal10: 5:14am On May 10, 2020
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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by Obidiugwu: 5:31am On May 10, 2020
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Re: My 30-Year-Old Brother Wants To Marry A 43-Year-Old Woman & I'm Not Endorsing It by tfelicityk(m): 5:33am On May 10, 2020
What if she is already pregnant for your brother?

Are you the one providing shelters and foods for your brother?

Rather you are scared that if he gets marry to that 43yrs old woman as you mentioned - you will no longer get that ATTENTIONs you do get from him.

Let your brother lives his life... Constitutionally, he has liberty to life and so on.

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