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Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Nobody: 2:29pm On May 11, 2020 |
I suspect she's from the baracks and if so,im sorry there's nothing you can do about it.Lol |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by kazyhm(m): 2:51pm On May 11, 2020 |
Shelumiel: Spiritual leader ko, ghost leader ni |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Ishilove: 3:15pm On May 11, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:Excuse you?!? 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Ishilove: 3:18pm On May 11, 2020 |
Op, you married a gragarious gossip. The only thing that will change her is a scandal involving her good name. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Kingarthur21: 3:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ishilove:bite my tongue! Men aren't spared their own vices,a typical man has a fiery temper,ego and can be a sexual predator... Satisfied? |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
charles009: Sorry about that attitude of her Pls if you have the money, enroll her into schooling let her do partrime studies and she will mix up with more civilised people It will help model her She is in the mix of women that has nothing doing than to gossip at ever thing that passes their eyes She is doing all these because she is idle 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:31pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ybaby: You are very funny You see when they want women that must be under their control without challenges, they don't know that it comes with a price tag 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:32pm On May 11, 2020 |
Graxie: O nutara onye oga achi, so nwayi were asiri melu olu 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:35pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Onye ona ekwu makaya, O di gi ka ojere akwukwo mahadum O choro onukwu oga achi Ya na ya mebe 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by LadySarah: 3:35pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ybaby: Abioo |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Mariangeles(f): 3:46pm On May 11, 2020 |
frozen70: The truth is, a bad behaviour has nothing to do with one's educational background...at least to a certain level "Ezi agba bu mma nwanyi" I agree with that saying. |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:49pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I still believe going through the four walls of the university still has an impact in a person's life 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Mariangeles(f): 3:53pm On May 11, 2020 |
frozen70: Absolutely! Still, that is not an excuse for bad behaviour of someone who did not have to opportunity to go to the university. |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 3:54pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles: That's why she has to go now, let's see if she won't change |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Shelumiel: 3:57pm On May 11, 2020 |
[[s] kazyhm:[/s] Rubbish as usual |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by tabithababy(f): 4:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ybaby:. |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by kazyhm(m): 5:00pm On May 11, 2020 |
Shelumiel: As usually nonsensical |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by charles009(m): 5:14pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Nothing to do with education, she is running her Msc programme. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Mariangeles(f): 5:28pm On May 11, 2020 |
charles009: It has to do mostly with how she was brought up. Cc: frozen70 |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by TheeDetective: 5:45pm On May 11, 2020 |
@Op; if your wife has a job or business she runs, she won't have time for gossip. As a few have mentioned here already, go and get her either a job or a business that she will be interested in and happy to run. Note, not the business you impose on her to run but the one that she comes up with by herself so that her interest in the business will continue. It appears the fashion school you put her in, might not have been her interest (I may be wrong) as that is how it seems and that might have been one of the reason why it didn't work out for her. When she is busy doing other things that earns her money, she won't have time for gossiping nor becoming the chairlady of gossipers in the neighbourhood which have upset you; hence. your opening this thread for advice. Shouting at her will not change matters. If she is strong-headed, na you go tire for the shout as she go make you shout. Besides she is a grown adult hence shouting at her to me is disrespectful and that perhaps may create low self-esteem in her which I am sure you wouldn't want that to happen. charles009: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Graxie(f): 6:09pm On May 11, 2020 |
frozen70:iji ya nyanyi oma. |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Graxie(f): 6:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
charles009:Abia!!! |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by chillex8(m): 6:24pm On May 11, 2020 |
Bozzyironlady:Some have eyes but can’t see |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by ednut1(m): 6:29pm On May 11, 2020 |
U did not date or what |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by bigl: 7:07pm On May 11, 2020 |
charles009: I think you should have known the person you were getting married to in the first place! And now that you had married her, you should have considered the fact that you don't want her gisting up and down and rented a flat. Above all, the same way you were able to woo her, use same technique to talk to her about this issue. Women generally are fond of this "gisting" stuffs ... except u married a nerd who would prefer to be in all day long. Just go with the flow. Going hard or soft sometimes don't produce the effect u want unless your message is well understood |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Saintmary(f): 7:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
Oga married a woman without ambition, now he's complaining. 1 Like
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Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:51pm On May 11, 2020 |
Heh! You married the typical compound gossip! I can imagine that while growing up she, and her mother, perhaps, were the type who were nosy about their neighbors’ affairs, and would always go around spreading exaggerated gists about them! Beyond the fact that she’s a gossip, she obviously lacks ambition, and class, because I mean, all that house gathering nonsense! Who still does that! Shouting at her now and again won’t fix nada! You need to explain to her how demeaning her behaviour is... how it makes her look like an illiterate, how she’s embarrassing you and herself... how she’s opening up your family to possible future ridicules. Plus I agree that she needs a good role model. Someone who’ll challenge her to be better, because no matter your good intent, if she isn’t self-motivated, they’ll all amount to nothing . You married her at 23... a young girl with a housewife mentality. She needs to build up her character. It’s nit too late. She’s just 27. @Charles009 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 7:53pm On May 11, 2020 |
Graxie: Lol |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by silibaba: 7:54pm On May 11, 2020 |
Lizzyangel: 1 Like
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Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by akinade28(f): 8:00pm On May 11, 2020 |
Charles009 You married an extrovert most likely a sanguine. They enjoy talking. They relieve themselves from worries and stress by talking about themselves or other people. Introverts think before they talk, extrovert say whatever comes to their mind, then later think about. That simply who she is and there's nothing can do about it. You can only help focus her energy on a different and purposeful direction. If you don't listen to her and stop her from talking to others that listen to her, you will get yourself a bitter and an angry woman. You can encourage her to pursue career that involves her talking such as teaching, lecturering, journalism or radio or tv presenter, public speaking. They make excellent motivational speakers Encourage her to join productive group that go about talking to other people like NGOs Then take time to listen to her and correct her when she's saying the wrong things, if you do this she would take less time gossiping with other people and discussing the wrong things. How would you feel if you come home one day and you meet your wife encouraging other people, other teach them to be better women, better wives, better mothers. I'm very sure you will be proud of her The issue is not about gossiping or talking, it is saying the right things or the wrong things. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by Keketu(m): 8:08pm On May 11, 2020 |
Lizzyangel:hi, good morning please pm me Thank ms |
Re: How Do I Deal With A Weak Wife... by frozen70(f): 8:10pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ewedu induced family feud..any experience? / Living With Your Parents / In Marriage, You Must Be Blind And A Mumu To A Lot Of Things.
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