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Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:46pm On May 11, 2020 |
Sunmolar:told her I was in uk |
Re: Ok by Mariangeles(f): 6:47pm On May 11, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: Sometimes, people need a platform where they can let out all their emotional burdens without being known to avoid going crazy. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:49pm On May 11, 2020 |
THIS IS SUPER STOOORY A LIFE OF STRIFE AND SORROW... THIS IS SUPER STOOORY OF GOOD FOOD AND HOUSING A LIFE OF PRECIOUS STONES AND GOOOOOD TASTEEEEEE THIS IS SUPER STORY Gi gm Gi gm ghim ghim |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:49pm On May 11, 2020 |
Cuddlebugie:lol, I was prepared for something like this a long time., got thick skin already just wanna confirm my suspicion.believe me, though it hurts but let's see who loose at the end of the day 2 Likes |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:51pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles:it's better I know where I belong now than later. And the funny thing is,until I opened this fake account, she was still calling me dear and the likes, her attitude changed immediately she started talking to the new guy. I between chat I almost gave up my action, I almost showed my real self but I controlled it 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:54pm On May 11, 2020 |
galadima77:oga MI, am not seeking financial assistance in term of money, I need a long term future plan. Even before creating this, I already moved on cos I saw the Handwriting on the wall a long time ago |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:56pm On May 11, 2020 |
xendra:when things was going on fine, I made sure she didn't lack anything. For eight years, she didn't work so if she lack care for eight years, do you think she will stay that long? 2 Likes |
Re: Ok by Mariangeles(f): 6:56pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Going by the chats, I can say she still has some love for you...though a little Work on that. She still loves you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 11, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:see, I still love her 1000%,i just used this to know some things have wanted to know a long time ago which she didn't open up to me on. What I intend doing is, all what she liked and love, she gave way too much away. I will start doing them and she won't even know about this chat that I instigated it. The rich guy will just disappear fiam and she will go back to her normal self but for now, let me make money first 5 Likes |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:00pm On May 11, 2020 |
Vyolet:even I thought same, I gave out way too much clue that should lead back to me. But she couldn't Decipher them |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:02pm On May 11, 2020 |
Poorboy:she requested for a phone call and I told her am in UK that due to what sir olu okeowo my assumed that went through, we weren't allow to give out our phone number or call people anyhow |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:03pm On May 11, 2020 |
Sunmolar:call ke? I dodge the question when she brought it up |
Re: Ok by Sunmolar(m): 7:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: Ok by Mystery9(m): 7:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
Oga please calm down don't break it to her now. You may need to stop using the new guy account soonest. Kia I fear life, only Jesus is the true trusted friend. |
Re: Ok by Sunmolar(m): 7:05pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: You have the requirements i.e IQ.... continue |
Re: Ok by xendra: 7:05pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye:yes she will, there are children involved. what she is doing is totally wrong and she is acting too vulnerable. imagine if that was actually a stranger, that's how she would put all that info out. anyway....I just like to call a spade as I see it. 1 Like |
Re: Ok by Mystery9(m): 7:08pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye:It is beautiful to know that you can still forgive her. 1 Like |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 11, 2020 |
xendra:that's my grievance actually, she gave out way too much info to a stranger. And she accused me of calling her mum whenever she gets me angry. Well I do that cos I don't wanna hit her. I came from an abusive marriage, I don't want same for myself. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Sunmolar(m): 7:10pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Now that she's away since January to buttress your point try & call her that you missed her in the house.if she talks about money tell her you can't send money to her since her stay away is overdue & watch her reactions. |
Re: Ok by Mystery9(m): 7:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
A lot of person's don't understand marriage, that is why they misbehave when money is lacking. Oh what a generation. May God forgive us. OP I feel your pain, I hope God will strengthen you to forgive her when you finally expose everything to her. 1 Like |
Re: Ok by xendra: 7:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye:if you want to know if money is really her drive? start acting really sweet, say you don't like that you are fat (let her hear you say it) and start putting effort to keep fit, and work on the other things she said. see if she doesn't withdraw from that guy. then we can conclude its only about money. and I will support you 100% I know too many men who conclude too fast that money is the problem and lose a good thing that would have only taken little effort to fix 2 Likes |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:14pm On May 11, 2020 |
Sunmolar:she going away was our plan, she stayed a month with my parents but I guess she won't be comfortable unlike her parents place, she even brought the idea. We do call daily, her attitude started a day after I opened this account. |
Re: Ok by Ybaby: 7:15pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: Ok by Ishilove: 7:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
What I see here is a woman who has been made vulnerable by years of tough conditions, so much so that when a stranger comes to her with the promise of a better life, she falls. What i see here is a woman desperate for a lifeline, anything to take away the hardship of her present living conditions. She is dissatisfied with the poverty of her circumstances but on a level, though she still loves her husband (I can sense this), she is tired of hardship. Southniyikaye, na condition make crayfish bend. While I don't support the fuckery, I am objectively commenting based on the information you have provided. You will not get back the love and respect of your wife as long as you are not able to provide for your family. The Bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel. It takes a very rare and special kind of woman to stick with her man through thick and thin, and I am sorry to say that madam is not one. You need to take back control of your family. What I am reading here can be remedied. You just need to get your shit_ together. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
xendra:what I believe is, and which I have known from inception, she likes to live a life free from poverty |
Re: Ok by Cuddlebugie(f): 7:17pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye:You're a fraud, EOD! 7 Likes |
Re: Ok by Sunmolar(m): 7:17pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: ok.when is the next chat coming? you still love her 100%. maybe someone is already eating her fruits raw over there. how can you live with that? |
Re: Ok by Ybaby: 7:18pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: You returned a girl back to her parents house wit 2 kids .... to be fed by who? the neighbours are saying what? Ok life happened to you. You now have time to go on FB to open catfish profile..... you are not serious mr man. You have a serious time bomb on your hand ..... instead of you to man up and get your finances back you are playing investigator Kasali. Is it until your kids start calling Chief thier Daddy before you know you should have a single focus right now Ok kontinu! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
Cuddlebugie:whatever you say, I removed so many text messages. If I uploaded everything here, you won't call me fraud. Go through my topics, then come back and call me a fraud |
Re: Ok by Biglittlelois(f): 7:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I agree, but knowing what goes on here, them dingos will start by insulting the wife, then move on generalise all females are same, backed by insults of course, thereby infusing a back and forth between genders in ten pages, that is my ish here, I wish it will stop permanently and everyone will comment civily and logically. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ok by excanny: 7:23pm On May 11, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Never ever tell her u did this o. If u want to quit her, just quit her jejely. Or if you want to continue, just continue in silence. |
Re: Ok by Nobody: 7:24pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ybaby:you still don't understand, it was a guy that opened a thread sometimes and said if you want to know your wife, opened a new account and chat her. Maybe madeinchezen or something. Sincerely, am happy this happened. Do you think I will leave her? All those things she hates, I will stop them, all those things she likes, I will start doing them. That's the plan. I always know that if I know what I need to know about her and changed, I will enjoy her I even just called her now and she talked normal 1 Like |
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