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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by BobbyGenius(m): 11:55am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Vivuch: 11:55am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:please she can breastfeed her baby, but the rule will be exclusive breastfeeding and no additional of baby formula, anytime she gives that child baby formula that will be the day she will stop breastfeeding the baby, please meet a qualified health professional for more advise. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Galloman(m): 11:55am On May 12, 2020 |
[Egungun be careful na express you dey go 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Froshhh7(m): 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Charmingrascal(m): 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Stay strong don't walk away Build your home with her She told you she has HIV before you had sex, she is a good woman. You still chose her even when she told you she has HIV, you are a good man. Happy married life in advance God bless your union and may the power in the blood of Jesus wash away HIV from your home in Jesus name. If you have faith claim it and go for test she will be negative. Before you do proper introduction her HIV status will change and the only thing you might have to tell yr family members is that your fiancee was HIV + but she turned negative through the power of Christ only. Only if you will have faith Come back later for testimony Peace be unto you 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Ayoslimzy(m): 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Pearl05(f): 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
As long as she is faithful with taking her drugs, you and the kids will be fine. You don't need to tell your people about it as not everyone is matured enough in taking the news that someone close to them is infected. About not breastfeeding your baby, just tell them that your wife has hepatitis B and so advised not to breastfeed her baby to avoid transfer. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:true true you're crazeman.. I love your courage bro, common malaria dey fear me not to talk of Hiv |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by pk2me: 11:56am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 11:57am On May 12, 2020 |
If you want to be with her, nothing is stopping you. HIV + people are humans just like everyone else, many of them where just unfortunate, lived a decent life but caught the virus. Doesn't even mean they lived carelessly because going by that rule many of us would have the virus too. I think you should keep it away from your family, no one needs to know, protect your germ, get married to her and start a family. At the end it's your happiness that matters. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by mukthar2000(m): 11:57am On May 12, 2020 |
Oga, ur matter don tune to Egungun be careful na express u dey go,
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by psalmylee(m): 11:57am On May 12, 2020 |
Bros ,have u ever asked ur self or thought abtbit this way.. What if u were in the situation she is in right now.,does she look like someone who will give up everything to be with u??bros think am well oo..no marry because of pity oo.A word they say is enough for the wise..I leave u for God hand |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by 9ja083: 12:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
She can breastfeed her new baby without infecting the child. She has to go to missionary hospitals or govt hospital or the hospital were she collects her medications for follow up. They will give her medications to help prevent mother to child transmission and after delivery delivery, they will ask her to choose between breastfeeding and giving artificial milk. But they will still give her medications for the newborn and monitor the baby for 2yrs. Your baby will still be HIV negative if u play ur role well. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Sagay212: 12:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
Since you know this ,shouldn't you be getting health advice from the doctors concerning you ,her and the baby? If the doctors can assure you that the baby and you won't be affected, then there is no point telling anybody about it. Even if you tell , what are they going to do about it? Give you the cure or tell you to marry another wife? |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Danmaiduguri(m): 12:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Never disclose her status to your family nd not even her blood brothr or sister, the only one who can keep this secret is her mother and father. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by OttHin: 12:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by funshint(m): 12:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
Goddys:Shutup...is it your relationship?! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by ofiko123(m): 12:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
I came to read comments... |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Peace081: 12:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
Hmmmm |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by gregyboy(m): 12:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Just tell your mom and your dad, Leave the rest to talk, nor be thier wife |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Sadsoulnow: 12:03pm On May 12, 2020 |
KINGreignn:See question. Somebody is having sexual affair with with HIV positive person you're still asking if he loves her? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Ezennwa(m): 12:03pm On May 12, 2020 |
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF HIV: as early as 2-4 weeks after exposure to hiv, people can experience an acute illness, often described as "the worst flu ever". this is called acute retroviral syndrome, or primary hiv infection, and it's the body's natural response to hiv infection. during primary hiv infection, their are higher levels of virus circulating in the blood. which means that people can more easily transmit the virus to others. SYMPTOMS OF HIV INCLUDE: 1.) fever 2.) chills 3.) rash 4.) night sweats 5.) muscle aches 6.) sore throat 7.) fatigue 8.) swollen lymph nodes 9.) ulcer in the mouth sin will give you as much pleasure as it wants you to have, but its always waiting for the time to break your life apart. what goes around comes around!!!
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Blecus: 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
You're a real man. You don't need to disclose her status to anyone it's confidential. I once had a patient that's + and her husband was -. She has three kids with him and he's still negative . Go and marry her if you truly love her. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by alizma: 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:First of all, I want to appreciate your courage and your knowledge of the virus. In addition to that, I want to encourage you to stand for what you believe, you have your reasons for loving her despite knowing her status, stand for that reason and be focused. You don't owe people your life, you only owe them explanation for certain decision you take in your life and that is in appreciation for their subsequent and perhaps future role in your life. As for your fears, that is normal. No matter how perfect a relationship is, there is usually something that give us reason to entertain fear as we approach the alter to take that oath of forever together but that fear is best dropped in your prayer corner, let God handle that while you handle the ones you can. I am a married man and there are some secret that are left for both of you. Finally, I want you to know that if you accept her as your wife and mother of your children in love and truth, the entire world will accept her as such in less than a year. So the bulk of the decision is with you and not with peoples thought or action. More so, make sure you guys plan your marriage very well bother financially and spiritually because no matter how good you are, there are people waiting to laugh at your downfall, even if you marry the best, they are always waiting. Success bro 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
Apply for visa (single or both), travel out, after 6 months, and examine your rigid stance with her. I won't say more than this at the moment. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by ariklawani(f): 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
You are Strong ooo 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by gabicon: 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: I must say I admire your bravery, there is a huge level of stigmatisation to HIV in our society, most of it is due to improper education. You will have to manage the situation with wisdom, HIV is perceived to be a death sentence, don't expect your mum to take it likely because the instinct of mothers is to protect their children for perceived danger. As regards to people, they will always talk, breast feed or not they will say either derogatory or kind remarks, do t live life for people. I also sense you are terrified of contacting the disease, if you decide to be with this woman you have to be open to the possibility of being infected, if you are not you may as well terminate the relationship. When you decide to break the news to your family I suggest you go through a trusted and respected family confidant. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by elysian777: 12:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
Well who am I to judge you, you understand better. Face the future that lies ahead of you.If you have understanding siblings and that are matured, share it, if not keep it to yourself and go to the grave with it, cause since she is the only one positive they might pressure you into leaving her. Also for the issue of breastfeeding, she can do that from when the baby comes, except that it has to be only breastmilk and nothing else, not even water except when very necessary, in small quantity though. I think she can do that for 6months,after then she weans the baby off completely, it will be strictly baby food. Stay with her bro,be strong and keep the faith alive. Shalom Aneichem |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by RedBororo(m): 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
What help do you want, you are fully aware of the risk, the fact now is you too are HIV +, BEST OF LUCK |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Dpundict: 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
Consult your doctor about the feeding options and start preparing now before it is too late. You must not tell anybody her status unless you want her to feel bad and maybe resort to harming herself. Once a family member of yours knows, it will be like water poured on top of a rock that trickles down to the root of it. Besides you owe no one a duty to explain why your wife is not breastfeeding the baby so long the baby is healthy and you have alternatives ready. Love her as you have said but take all necessary precautions to stay negative for her and the baby. Peace❤❤❤ |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Topmaike007(m): 12:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:who is this one again |
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