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Re: Ok by CAPSLOCKED: 9:30am On May 12, 2020
Ybaby:


@CAPSLOCKED

I am not the one broke shaming you o

It is the bible broke shaming you and try and have shame

◄ 1 Timothy 5:8 ►
Parallel Verses
King James Version
But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.

Darby Bible Translation
But if any one does not provide for his own, and specially for those of his house, he has denied the faith, and is worse than the unbeliever.

World English Bible
But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

Young's Literal Translation
and if any one for his own -- and especially for those of the household -- doth not provide, the faith he hath denied, and than an unbeliever he is worse.

SINCE WE'RE LOOKING UP TO THE BIBLE NOW AS THE OVERALL MANUAL FOR OUR LIVES, I HAVE THE FOLLOWING FOR YOU.


NEW TESTAMENT

Ephesians 5:22-24 ...wives should submit to their husbands etc.

1 Timothy 2:11-15 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent etc.

1 Corinthians 14:33-35 ...women should remain silent in the churches (and following).

1 Corinthians 11:3-16 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man (and following).
Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Peter 3:1-6 Wives in the same way be submissive to your husbands (and following).

Titus 2: 4-5 Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the word of God.


THE BEST FROM THE OLD TESTAMENTS

Leviticus 12:1-14 Women who bear children are unclean for 7 - 14 days

Deuteronomy 22:28-29 Woman must marry her rapist

HERE COMES MY FAVORITE PART.

Deuteronomy 22:13-21

If a man takes a wife and, after sleeping with her, dislikes her saying, “I married this woman, but when I approached her, I did not find proof of her virginity,” then the woman’s father and mother shall bring to the town elders at the gate proof that she was a virgin.

Then her parents shall display the cloth before the elders of the town, and the elders shall take the man and punish him. They shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver and give them to the young woman’s father. She shall continue to be his wife; he must not divorce her as long as he lives.

If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you.



SHALL WE BASE OUR LIVES ON WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS? cheesy
I DON'T THINK THAT WILL BE VERY WISE.

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Re: Ok by Ybaby: 9:32am On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


SINCE WE'RE LOOKING UP TO THE BIBLE NOW AS THE OVERALL MANUAL FOR OUR LIVES, I HAVE THE FOLLOWING FOR YOU.


NEW TESTAMENT

Ephesians 5:22-24 ...wives should submit to their husbands etc.

1 Timothy 2:11-15 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent etc.

1 Corinthians 14:33-35 ...women should remain silent in the churches (and following).

1 Corinthians 11:3-16 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man (and following).
Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Peter 3:1-6 Wives in the same way be submissive to your husbands (and following).

Titus 2: 4-5 Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the word of God.


THE BEST FROM THE OLD TESTAMENTS

Leviticus 12:1-14 Women who bear children are unclean for 7 - 14 days

Deuteronomy 22:28-29 Woman must marry her rapist

HERE COMES MY FAVORITE PART.

Deuteronomy 22:13-21

If a man takes a wife and, after sleeping with her, dislikes her saying, “I married this woman, but when I approached her, I did not find proof of her virginity,” then the woman’s father and mother shall bring to the town elders at the gate proof that she was a virgin.

Then her parents shall display the cloth before the elders of the town, and the elders shall take the man and punish him. They shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver and give them to the young woman’s father. She shall continue to be his wife; he must not divorce her as long as he lives.

If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you.



SHALL WE BASE OUR LIVES ON WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS? cheesy
I DON'T THINK THAT WILL BE VERY WISE.


Lazy man grin

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 9:33am On May 12, 2020
Ybaby:



Yes ! Thanks for asking

The statement that a woman should be able to look after her kids without their father triggered me.

It is a selfish statement and grossly irresponsible. It shows that you have no vision and no outa of responsibility which is why we have kids hawking, begging on the road to feed thier parents ...because of men that think like you and I am tired of it.

I really wish you will do better, choose to provide for any child you bore or have a vasectomy .... or castration if yo know you cannot look after your kids.

It hurts me deeply when I see children out of school knowing it is because they have an infidel father.

I believe it hurts the bible too



I see

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Re: Ok by CAPSLOCKED: 9:34am On May 12, 2020
Ybaby:


Lazy man grin
LAZY WOMAN. cheesy

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Re: Ok by Ybaby: 9:36am On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


LAZY WOMAN. cheesy

It is true! My hardworking man provides all my needs. I nurture him and our kids.

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Re: Ok by CAPSLOCKED: 9:43am On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


grin
Do you know her before? What's the name of her blog? Will like to check such a person out to avoid her in real life


ONE UNSUCCESSFUL BLOG LIKE THAT.
HOW CAN THIS FAILURE BE DEPENDING ON LESS THAN 150K NET AT THE END OF A YEAR, AND STILL HAVE THE FINGERS TO TYPE SHIT AND BROKESHAME PEOPLE. 150K PER ANNUM IS LIKE 10,000 NAIRA MONTHLY AS SALARY, AND THEY'RE HERE CALLING THEIR FOREFATHERS BROKE AND TALKING SHIT. I HOPE YOU CAN SEE WHY THE FIGHT TO MARRY BILLIONAIRES IS REAL.. SO THAT HE CAN LIBERATE THEM AND THEIR LINEAGE FROM MISERY AND PESTILENCE.

I HAVE ALWAYS ADVICED FOLKS TO NEVER MIND THESE LOUD TALKERS BECAUSE THEY NEVER DO WELL IN REAL LIFE. THE ENERGY WE USE IN SOURCING FOR FUNDS AND WAYS TO BETTER OURSELVES IS THE ENERGY THEY PUT INTO FIGHTING AND CURSING EVERYBODY ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOTHING SERIOUS GOING ON WITH THEIR LIVES. cheesy

IF YOU DON'T GIVE THEM, YOU'RE STINGY AND BROKE. IF YOU GIVE THEM THEY FEEL THEY'RE ENTITLED TO YOUR LAST PENNY. NWANNE USE YOUR BRAIN O, NA WHO THEM GO CHOP THESE LOWLIFE GIRLS DE LOOK FOR.

MAKE I GO HER BLOG GO BEGIN CLICK THE ADS MAKE I SEE WHETHER HER 150K GO INCREASE BY THE END OF THE YEAR. cheesy

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Re: Ok by excanny: 9:50am On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, AT LEAST SHE RUNS A SMALL BLOG AND HAS ADSENSE TO PAY HER 65,000 AFTER EVERY 5 MONTHS.

Oh! Na blogger grin 65k in 5 months. I knew she was broke. cheesy

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 9:51am On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:



ONE UNSUCCESSFUL BLOG LIKE THAT.
HOW CAN THIS FAILURE BE DEPENDING ON LESS THAN 150K NET AT THE END OF A YEAR, AND STILL HAVE THE FINGERS TO TYPE SHIT AND BROKESHAME PEOPLE. 150K PER ANNUM IS LIKE 10,000 NAIRA MONTHLY AS SALARY, AND THEY'RE HERE CALLING THEIR FOREFATHERS BROKE AND TALKING SHIT. I HOPE YOU CAN SEE WHY THE FIGHT TO MARRY BILLIONAIRES IS REAL.. SO THAT HE CAN LIBERATE THEM AND THEIR LINEAGE FROM MISERY AND PESTILENCE.

I HAVE ALWAYS ADVICED FOLKS TO NEVER MIND THESE LOUD TALKERS BECAUSE THEY NEVER DO WELL IN REAL LIFE. THE ENERGY WE USE IN SOURCING FOR FUNDS AND WAYS TO BETTER OURSELVES IS THE ENERGY THEY PUT INTO FIGHTING AND CURSING EVERYBODY ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE THEY HAVE NOTHING SERIOUS GOING ON WITH THEIR LIVES. cheesy

IF YOU DON'T GIVE THEM, YOU'RE STINGY AND BROKE. IF YOU GIVE THEM THEY FEEL THEY'RE ENTITLED TO YOUR LAST PENNY. NWANNE USE YOUR BRAIN O, NA WHO THEM GO CHOP THESE LOWLIFE GIRLS DE LOOK FOR.

MAKE I GO HER BLOG GO BEGIN CLICK THE ADS MAKE I SEE WHETHER HER 150K GO INCREASE BY THE END OF THE YEAR. cheesy

grin grin
Na wa oooooo
I believe multimillionaires and billionaires are endangered species in nigeria because women will go any length, even diabolical to tame them and marry.
God save us all from karashikas
Re: Ok by NiceMen: 9:52am On May 12, 2020
southniyikaye:
I will really appreciate it

This all I was waiting for.

Just give me a little time and I will make the post sir.
Re: Ok by Nobody: 11:35am On May 12, 2020
NiceMen:


This all I was waiting for.

Just give me a little time and I will make the post sir.
pls tag me when you do

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Re: Ok by Nobody: 11:35am On May 12, 2020
Dollarseeker:
did u ask her if she has cheated on u d real husband before
she swore that she didn't and I believed her, she was just desperate
Re: Ok by crackkhaus: 11:36am On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


grin grin
Bruv, no be lie oo... my eyes don see my ears when it comes to married women and infidelity.

Anyone who tells me married men engage in infidelity more than married women, I just look at them and smile.

Whether the husband is rich/broke, it doesn't matter... these women are fvcking.

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Re: Ok by Tillatalk: 2:46pm On May 12, 2020
Life is full of drama
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 2:58pm On May 12, 2020
excanny:


Women are not supposed to see men as a means to escape poverty.

She should be hardworking enough to raise her own kids with or without a man.

If this is d case, the man should have come as a sperm donor and leave afterwards.
Why stay in d house with the woman?
Its difficult to see a woman who will fail her kids because of d absence of a man.
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 3:05pm On May 12, 2020
southniyikaye:
when we met, I was the perfect kind of man she wants.
Na she feed me till I became fat o

I like ur sense of humour
Nothing dey pain u. Lol
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 3:11pm On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


what if he is hustling but still not yielding much, should he kill himself? if the children like, they should call chief daddy, that is their cup of tea, Life goes on. Wetin we never see under this heaven before.
Are you aware that the race is not for the strong, smart or hardworking but time and chance happens to all.
I won't advise him to tow that part of putting unnecessary pressure on himself just to satisfy the woman, most people that did that around me are all dead now and their so called wives are sleeping around like rabbits presently.
I believe we have focused much on the guy, what happens to the wife? Handicapped?why is she not moving her ass? too lazy?
Right from my childhood, i grew up to know my mum as the breadwinner and not my dad. Sold food at canteen, i hawked bread, we sold rice,beans etc catering, cake, poultry, catfish etc just to survive.
Does it mean despite the modern woman being educated and having more opportunities to work or have access to informations on youtube to learn and start small business, they still seem redundant and kind of usel...? what an irony

U grew up knowing ur mom as d breadwinner, no wonder!!!!!!
So it should be d norm

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Re: Ok by thelish(f): 3:16pm On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


THERE ARE MANY FAMILIES LIVING HAPPILY WITH LESS THAN 30,000 NAIRA A MONTH. NIGERIA DOESN'T START AND END ON NAIRALAND.

They are living but not happily

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Re: Ok by thelish(f): 3:22pm On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


Na wa oooo.
Some men dey try oooo.
The kind of women they have at home.
Baba God, na beg i dey beg ooo
Too much venom, anger and very Toxic
Hmmmm
I jump and pass

So many men have abandoned their role in d house,
Hence producing toxic n bittered women.
I agree all hands must be on deck, where d man hand wey wan be on deck??
That is d situation of things now
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 3:26pm On May 12, 2020
Ybaby:



Yes ! Thanks for asking

The statement that a woman should be able to look after her kids without their father triggered me.

It is a selfish statement and grossly irresponsible. It shows that you have no vision and no outa of responsibility which is why we have kids hawking, begging on the road to feed thier parents ...because of men that think like you and I am tired of it.

I really wish you will do better, choose to provide for any child you bore or have a vasectomy .... or castration if yo know you cannot look after your kids.

It hurts me deeply when I see children out of school knowing it is because they have an infidel father.

I believe it hurts the bible too

God bless u dear
I was shocked too, when I saw it.


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Re: Ok by Ybaby: 3:38pm On May 12, 2020
[quote author=thelish post=89470034][/quote]

My sister, God bless you too.

I just hope this young girls listen @thelish

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 3:53pm On May 12, 2020
crackkhaus:

Bruv, no be lie oo... my eyes don see my ears when it comes to married women and infidelity.

Anyone who tells me married men engage in infidelity more than married women, I just look at them and smile.

Whether the husband is rich/broke, it doesn't matter... these women are fvcking.



A lot of married women are sleeping around, a lot.
In my area, they use the type of hotel for their adultery called Mosa fun e to - meaning have tried my best to hide from you (hubby).
In that case, if you as the hubby find her to that place, then don't be annoyed if the concubine/man friend beats you with the hotel thugs. They will tell you if your wife has not tried her best to run and hide away from you by using a far and outskirt hotel to sleep with a man. That for you to trace her to this place, it means you are a jobless and unsecured man.

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 3:58pm On May 12, 2020
thelish:


U grew up knowing ur mom as d breadwinner, no wonder!!!!!!
So it should be d norm


Didn't say it should be but from inception, women have always been supporting their husbands.
From my immediate family to extended to in-laws, 90% of the wives are productive and supportive so why should mine be different especially when we live in an era that is turbulent.
Re: Ok by CAPSLOCKED: 4:05pm On May 12, 2020
thelish:


They are living but not happily

YOU KNOW THIS CUS YOU LIVE WITH EACH ONE OF THEM.

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 4:07pm On May 12, 2020
thelish:


So many men have abandoned their role in d house,
Hence producing toxic n bittered women.
I agree all hands must be on deck, where d man hand wey wan be on deck??
That is d situation of things now

1. If i marry a lazy man, then it is my fault and no other person and i have to deal with that.

2. Why won't a lot of men abandon their role when such role is financially overwhelming. A role that is not defined will be abused.
For example - the role of an average lady is to take care of the home - the hubby, kids and house. Now this role is generic - whether you go to kano, calabar, lagos or accra.
For the average man, we don't even know what Role is anymore because it is not well defined or spelt out even within the same community. A role can be from a one room to a mansion. It is not even standardized and that frustrates a lot of men.
You can argue it that a man should know is level and settle for it which brings out the flaw in women demand because for a man, there is no level - just know how to take care of the home, sikena.
Re: Ok by crackkhaus: 4:15pm On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:

A lot of married women are sleeping around, a lot.
In my area, they use the type of hotel for their adultery called Mosa fun e to - meaning have tried my best to hide from you (hubby).
In that case, if you as the hubby find her to that place, then don't be annoyed if the concubine/man friend beats you with the hotel thugs. They will tell you if your wife has not tried her best to run and hide away from you by using a far and outskirt hotel to sleep with a man. That for you to trace her to this place, it means you are a jobless and unsecured man.
For real? cheesycheesy

Things are happening, I should not even be surprised...

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 4:25pm On May 12, 2020
crackkhaus:

For real? cheesycheesy

Things are happening, I should not even be surprised...

For real bro, for real
Re: Ok by kkins25(m): 4:28pm On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


YOU KNOW THIS CUS YOU LIVE WITH EACH ONE OF THEM.
You are right my friend..
Some years ago, when i was still teachinand earning roughly 20k per month.. I am a bachelor ohh but i always wondered how men who earn d same as me survive....
Im telling you bro. All this nairaland talk is bullshit. Millions of ppl live below that per month.
A certain man was even using the same 20k to take his 2 kid to higher institutions.... Can u believe that? He's wife wasnt working because she had fallen victim of diabetes. Yet he took care of drugs, feeding nd school fees.. I always salute dat man...
One day he told me, he said see ehn:" i can hold 500 naira for one week without touching it".. What he is trying to tell me is he manages money superbly....
To hell with dis nairaland psuedo feminist

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Re: Ok by thelish(f): 4:48pm On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


1. If i marry a lazy man, then it is my fault and no other person and i have to deal with that.

2. Why won't a lot of men abandon their role when such role is financially overwhelming. A role that is not defined will be abused.
For example - the role of an average lady is to take care of the home - the hubby, kids and house. Now this role is generic - whether you go to kano, calabar, lagos or accra.
For the average man, we don't even know what Role is anymore because it is not well defined or spelt out even within the same community. A role can be from a one room to a mansion. It is not even standardized and that frustrates a lot of men.
You can argue it that a man should know is level and settle for it which brings out the flaw



in women demand because for a man, there is no level - just know how to take care of t
he home, sikena.



The man nor know wetin fit am??
Awww, this is serious
So, aside marriage, doesn't he want a live a comfortable life?
Make he sit down dey wait for people wey don make am, to write his role for him.
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 4:50pm On May 12, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


YOU KNOW THIS CUS YOU LIVE WITH EACH ONE OF THEM.

Maybe am even one of them.
Re: Ok by thelish(f): 4:54pm On May 12, 2020
emmaodet:


Didn't say it should be but from inception, women have always been supporting their husbands.
From my immediate family to extended to in-laws, 90% of the wives are productive and supportive so why should mine be different especially when we live in an era that is turbulent.

With d best of my knowledge, I know more women who are breadwinners than men now.
So many women are ready to do anything to make their marriage work.
All d market wey full, nor be women full am?
Even building sites, u see women carrying concretes.
Most women won't sit at home when their kids have nothing to eat.
Re: Ok by emmaodet: 5:09pm On May 12, 2020
thelish:


With d best of my knowledge, I know more women who are breadwinners than men now.
So many women are ready to do anything to make their marriage work.
All d market wey full, nor be women full am?
Even building sites, u see women carrying concretes.
Most women won't sit at home when their kids have nothing to eat.

Agreed.
100% right but can also trace this to Productivity.
How?
A woman has the liberty of been unnecessarily busy without been productive but men don't have that choice.
We have women selling plastics, kitchen utensils at market who never make any sales in a week but there is no cause for alarm since the man is feeding the house but a man dare never try to go for 2 days without bringing money home. A man can't be unnecessarily busy without productive.
If a man and a woman leave the house in the morning to hustle, by the time they come back home at night, if the both didn't make money, the woman will still be termed Hardworking just for being busy all day but the man termed Lazy despite being busy too all day But didn't make money aka Productive.

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Re: Ok by emmaodet: 5:13pm On May 12, 2020
thelish:




The man nor know wetin fit am??
Awww, this is serious
So, aside marriage, doesn't he want a live a comfortable life?
Make he sit down dey wait for people wey don make am, to write his role for him.


Who doesn't want a good life? Don't we all? And when you keep hustling but nothing much, will you kill yourself?
The mindset of ladies nowadays is somehow.
I just pray and wish most men can stay on their own while they can engage in FWB so that atleast, everybody will live the kind of life they can afford easily without pressuring another.

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