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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Fafesot: 5:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
summerflame: I didn't want to give any response initially but let me enlighten you a little.This is not a matter of not being normal but you not being logical . Accepted that not every positives contracted through sex but ,how many people have you seen that contracted it through any other means. I don't see any reason why you should jettison the obvious and go for the minute.Would you date anyone with the virus,I'm sure you wouldn't. And next time,learn how to politely respond to stuffs without any intention to demean the other person. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by fullblast(m): 5:25pm On May 12, 2020 |
midehill:Yes I did... Her names, physical description, career, location and pictures are all displayed here in your over-sabi mind. ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by mindyourword: 5:31pm On May 12, 2020 |
This is never an issue in as much you have decided to thread this path. She can breast feed with her been HIV positive. The breastfeeding option is now available due to stigmatization of not breastfeeding in the past. There are different thematics areas. HIV counseling and testing (HCT) is the entry point but you can go for PMTCT (Prevention of mother to child transmissions) asked your spouse about this, she will know better. This will increase the percentage of having a child that is HIV negative to 98%., Even without this the percentage of the baby not having HIV is 60%. You can be rest assured of not contracting it too if you adhered to the instructions of PMTCT strictly. Choice is yours, disclosing her status will not help your marriage and as a matter of fact is not beneficial to your family members in anyway. But please incase you want to disclose her status to your family members, seek her consent because if you do this without her consenting to it, she is free to seek for redress in the court of law, there are laws in place for this already. Lastly do not marry out of pity because pity doesn't keep a home but love, determination and discipline do. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:35pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03:I wish she would sacrifice for you as much if the case were reversed!! Men and Niceness.. ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by midehill(m): 5:38pm On May 12, 2020 |
fullblast: Op.. Ur name says it all..mke i run b4 u gimme fullblast ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 12, 2020 |
Eulalia: ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 12, 2020 |
stinflame:Low body count?? Like Red cell count?? Abegi! ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:46pm On May 12, 2020 |
grossintel:Men and 'overniceness'!!! |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Matam(f): 5:47pm On May 12, 2020 |
My neighbour is HIV positive, married with 4 children, breastfeeds them till 6months when they start having teeth then stops breastfeeding. Seek medical counsel |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 12, 2020 |
Hermionegranger:Good man ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:51pm On May 12, 2020 |
Realtizzy:Lust |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 12, 2020 |
vince96w2: It’s choice to breat feed?? Then I don’t know about African mothers at all.... u will just say it’s ur choice...u want to release Armageddon. Moreover it medically advisable and not just an African thing to breastfeed a new born... you will now tell which canopy a new mother want to hide under Btw... if they are Yoruba, it’s the husband’s mother that come for omugo, if the guy can afford it and amuave enough space both grandmothers can come at the same time.... Well, as regards marrying her, we might never know... but why would a guy risk skin-diving with a HIV positive lady if it’s just about sex, there are plenty of women he can do that with.... I suspect the guy is a doctor shaaa, they are the only ones that can see an HIV positive person normally |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 12, 2020 |
INDUSTRIALFAN:Men and overniceness! ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:53pm On May 12, 2020 |
oshorstan:for lust! |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by bev12: 5:54pm On May 12, 2020 |
My dear you better stop playing with ur health all in the name of love. You should be smart and use your head. Thank goodness you are negative now...what about tomorrow will u still be negative? The error has been made and she is prgenate. I suggest u start making the right choices and start taking care of yourself first before any other thing because If you don't, nobody will not even her. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:55pm On May 12, 2020 |
Tolani0167:A manipulative definition of a 'real man' ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by chaloskyx: 5:56pm On May 12, 2020 |
you dont need advise my brother you have been advising yourself since you met her, had unprotected sex with her, and got her pregnant so keep advising yourself in marrying her and raising your family together. or wait do you want to leave her if you are convinced to see reason not to marry her?? you better not try it |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 5:58pm On May 12, 2020 |
JUICYPINEAPPLE:Men and overniceness ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Scamperlee(m): 5:59pm On May 12, 2020 |
Egungun be careful na express you dey go. . . |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
Wiifesnatcher:It is not love... It is a classical lust!! Men and overniceness!! Let's reverse the case and see if the lady would be a 'real woman' too!!! ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Palehair: 6:03pm On May 12, 2020 |
I've read most of the comments and it's completely obvious that y'all are kept in the dark about this virus and I'm not sure about what the OP meant by she can't breastfeed as long as she's +. As long as she sticks to her meds, she's good to go, she can do whatever a normal human being can do which also includes the breastfeeding. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 12, 2020 |
fullblast:Stigmatization of mentally ill and Epilepsy female is satanic too!! You can go and fall in love with them!! Men and overniceness!!! Kindly reverse the case and see if any lady would be ready to go through such journey with you!!! |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Palehair: 6:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
Wiifesnatcher:So because someone has HIV, it means the person is promiscuous. Another stupid assumption |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:05pm On May 12, 2020 |
Reform9ja:Lust |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
andyanders:old fashioned tactics ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
musachara:A manipulative definition of a 'real man' ![]() Let's reverse the case, if the lady would be 'a real woman' too!! Men and overniceness ![]() |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by neenap25(f): 6:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
I salute your courage bro, is not everyone that will do this. Please don't reveal her status to your family members, they might not accept her the way you do. Don't be afraid, as long as her viral load is below 20 and she is consistent with her drugs you will not be infected. I am a volunteer with an NGO and this is the kind of job I do (seeing to the welfare of HIV caregivers and households in the community). Also I want to let you know that she can confidently breastfeed her baby as long as she wants, without the baby been infected. The major area where the baby will be at risk of been infected is during delivery, that is why some HIV mothers do CS during delivery so the baby will not contact it. However, many people still deliver thru vj and 99% of their babies are negative as long as she keeps taking her drugs, she should let the hospital know so they will assist her. Their is also a syrup that will be given to her to give the baby for the first 6 weeks. If she follows everything religiously I but you, all your children will be negative. So do not be scared. But once again DO NOT reveal her status to your family please, cause it might shatter everything before you. Also do the necessary things by paying her dowry so it can be legal. Thank you. If you feel you need more advice you can chat me up on 08066985838! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Pharaoh94(m): 6:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Call this number 08169233147. And you will be helped.i work in Unicef. Don't worry u are safe. Just call it. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by kurlz(f): 6:19pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Don't ever make that mistake of telling anyone. Just cook up a medical issue story and doctors advice. I've seen ladies that didn't breast feed their babies and heaven did not fall. I love your spirit please stay with her. She may not be able to handle heart break. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 6:24pm On May 12, 2020 |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by OChimex: 6:30pm On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: But guy, why waste your talent on bravery? My goodness, if you had used this kind heart you get for drugs, 419, armed robbery, yahoo yahoo, or ritual, my goodness you would have been Dangote by now. Kudos for this your heart without fear.... or are you just a monumental idiot? Lol. I dey joke oo abeg |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by musachara: 6:37pm On May 12, 2020 |
eni4real:You really don't have to quote me while making your point especially when our views differ |
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