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Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:58pm On May 12, 2020 |
DIVORCE her or tell her to go get a job herself... so she can afford whatever nonsense she desires. 9 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Oluneutral: 10:00pm On May 12, 2020 |
Poorboy: You dey mind her? She's got 2 hands, 2 legs, one head with brain just like her husband, what now stop her from doing what she's asking the man to do? Abi, is she less of a human being ni! Dependent ladies are disgusting to me, honestly. 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mariangeles(f): 10:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
ademidedavid: Next time, walk away from the situation. Take some time off to cool off. Some people will deliberately push you over the edge to react violently, disappoint them by walking away. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by travelland(f): 10:01pm On May 12, 2020 |
ademidedavid: It's good know that you work but if you're generous with her and your kid she won't insist that you should hustle for more. I don't want to believe that she's a wicked person as you paint her to be. It's because you're not giving enough and she's probably finding it hard to continue keeping quiet. Most women want their husbands around the house not outdoors all the time unless he's not doing enough financially. Let her also work to cater for her needs too but if you're the stingy type also try adjusting. Stop cautioning with your hands, she's not a Goat 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mariangeles(f): 10:04pm On May 12, 2020 |
travelland: It depends on the manner with which she told him... 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:06pm On May 12, 2020 |
travelland:I am not painting her black, I love and cherish her just saying it as it is......she knows my salary, once it comes in I transfer larger part of it to her, I am open with my ATM password and I am not the outgoing type.....I stopped drinking long ago, if I am stingy to my family with my finances the why am I working? 24 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:08pm On May 12, 2020 |
Mariangeles:The most painful part.....shouted at me like I was some kind of log of wood. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Poorboy: 10:08pm On May 12, 2020 |
Oluneutral: I like men wey get sense, who you owe are your parents, I doubt if he has a wife like that he can remember to buy anything for his parents. I repeat young guys try and secure your future even though you are married, investing in a woman is bad business Some will ask how is it bad business? If you try all you could to satisfy a greedy woman when it's time to leave, she will leave you to your fate and by that time you won't have anything left with you again, because all your money was been consumed by her. I was given a marriage list of about 1.5 million just the list only, that's what is delaying me from getting married, what did I do, I paused the marriage. Now I am building a 5 self-contained rooms for rent, I will finish that before I continue the marriage because I come to realize that for marriage to be successful it's money that drives love now. 94 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
Mariangeles:That has been the way but I can't just hold myself today. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by travelland(f): 10:10pm On May 12, 2020 |
ademidedavid: You're already getting worked up sir please deal with your anger issues 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:16pm On May 12, 2020 |
meetme01:Thanks very much for this piece of advice, I am very open to the last kobo heaven bears me witness but she knows all sources of income which I must work on......once again, I appreciate 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Sososo(f): 10:18pm On May 12, 2020 |
Keep talking to her she will definitely come around 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mariangeles(f): 10:20pm On May 12, 2020 |
ademidedavid: That is unacceptable! Bad behaviour is inexcusable! Nobody can tolerate that. Not even a child like being shouted at. Demand that she respects you. You're her husband. 19 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mariangeles(f): 10:23pm On May 12, 2020 |
travelland: You're seeing things that aren't there! Your type can accuse one wrongly! 72 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 10:23pm On May 12, 2020 |
jesmond3945:Exactly what I want to avoid, but I will talk the talk with her tomorrow..... Much gratitude brother 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by crackkhaus: 10:26pm On May 12, 2020 |
Oluneutral:Lmao... Woman matters The OP should have made sure the slap landed on her face. 21 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by KanwuliaExtra: 10:37pm On May 12, 2020 |
rockstarB: You think only women experience “struggle love” in relationships and marriages? Time for NL “dudes” to cry with the OP! Level don sssssshange o. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Exc2000: 11:15pm On May 12, 2020 |
whatever you do never rush an apology, she provoked you, demean your hardwork and made you feel like a poor lazy man, the moment you apologise for her bad behaviours then your are calling for highblood pressure and early death, because she would continue repeating such demeaning atititude and continue giving you mental torture and abuse in your own house till you are pushed to steal, or do whats not right now to simple fact Is She right to mentally toruture you after providing a house, cloths and food for her? Hell No Are you right for getting angry and reacting (although not tolerating violence) yes you are, studies shows that bottling up anger and keeping mute to an emotional abusive partner like your wife is one of the first cause of mental issue, and cardiovascular diseases . 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 12:24am On May 13, 2020 |
It has started. Shey she is not working ? But she wants you that is working to provide her enough money to live like Emoney ? That's their way. Very inconsiderate. Selfish and lazy. Sir, my advice is this. Anyone who does not make some money won't know how difficult it is to make money. Learn the law of transfer of expectations. Transfer the pressure she is pilling on you back to her. This is how to do that. TELL HER THAT SHE MUST START MAKING HER OWN MONEY. That you contribute N100k monthly to family upkeep, that she should bring her own N50k every month. 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Nobody: 12:33am On May 13, 2020 |
travelland: What other going out do you want him to do ? Someone who works for federal govt. By the way, what do you do for a living ?? 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by NaBanga: 2:56am On May 13, 2020 |
So she shouted and instead of shouting back or walking away, you hit her. Nigerian men are very weak vessels. If you don't have the money just say it's not available. If she insists, tell her to make her own. If she continues, ask her to leave. Hitting another human being when your life isn't in danger, is just animal behavior. 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by excanny: 5:07am On May 13, 2020 |
What stops u from divorcing her? Must she kill u? 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by sisisioge: 5:43am On May 13, 2020 |
How about she gets a job too? And stop being pushed to hit her....over wrong on all levels. How can husbands and wives not over flog money matters before getting married? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by emmaodet: 5:48am On May 13, 2020 |
ademidedavid: Bro sorry, there is little or nothing you can do about the situation. Immediately a lady eyes opens to extravagant and luxurious things that are above your income, the option you have is either to bitterly cut the marriage off or you will have to go down the drain through regular nagging which will lead to high BP then to Cardiac arrest then to stroke then to grave. I have seen this play out over and over and over and over in many marriages. Please don't let any fvcking woman pressure you to live above your income or lifestyle, it will always end in tears. Can't she work? dem dey forbid am? You are working for God sake. I pity the men in this generation because the women on street right now are mostly damaged. i will urge all men to start learning how to do house chores and take care of babies/kids because from now on, marriages/relationship will keep going sour and more sour. A neighbour of mine who isn't doing bad, working at Lafarge cement/Wapco in sagamu, driving a nice 2006 toyota camry and apartment averagely furnished was shocked when his wife whom he has 3 kids with abandoned him and the kids to follow her friend to Oman last year. I was shocked that how will a woman have the heart to leave hubby with 3 BOYS to go to Oman, to do what? hustle? runs? The calibers of women this generation is churning out are cold-hearted snakes, unremorseful and deadly. 75 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 6:07am On May 13, 2020 |
Exc2000:Thanks so much, I appreciate this. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by njelrapheal: 6:24am On May 13, 2020 |
ademidedavid:is she engaged like is she a stay at home wife |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by femi4: 6:31am On May 13, 2020 |
ademidedavid:Don't do that again ....you messed up there 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 6:42am On May 13, 2020 |
njelrapheal:She needed huge amount to start up her business then but she's engaged with some little things now ...... |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mystery9(m): 7:19am On May 13, 2020 |
Many immatured women going into marriage. Oga, don't pay her attention. If she wants money by any means, use a part or parts of her body for ritual(tell her this). Reasonable women live in peace with their husbands making as low as 50,000 naira. I don't know why some women enjoy driving their husbands into extra marital affairs. Probably they are agents of darkness sent to destroy homes. 16 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mystery9(m): 7:26am On May 13, 2020 |
Exc2000:Correct man. 12 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ademidedavid(f): 7:39am On May 13, 2020 |
Mystery9:I swear, I am really finding a way to just make myself happy and I am avoiding the thoughts of having a side chick 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by Mystery9(m): 7:43am On May 13, 2020 |
travelland:Shut up there. Is he not hustling? Funny generation of women blinded with materialism and unholy characters. What a generation. 35 Likes 1 Share |
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