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Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by FGonline: 12:08pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ryocaj:who don't want to make it in life? |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Mrford(m): 12:31pm On May 13, 2020 |
Fucsheetup: Someone that has msc in business administration |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Godmademan(m): 12:32pm On May 13, 2020 |
folake4u:Financial Woman...By sense I believe you meant wisdom |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by YungLasaint(m): 12:39pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ryocaj:Na true you talk... Those virgin ones fit come end up with the wrong set of people... Na base on experience level. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Hardey10(m): 12:42pm On May 13, 2020 |
PrecioussB: I have 1 and 3 in abundance 2 smaaall |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by pansophist(m): 12:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
For me it is simple. 1. Dont be broke. (Not necessarily material but mental). 2. Be worthy. (No manipulation, responsible, honorable) 3. Be feminine (beauty, nurture, youthfulness, fertility). As for number one, I'm traditional in a sense that the subsistence of my family is my sole responsibility, but that shouldn't warrant gold digging and unreasonable waste of funds. Also, being mentally broke in a huge turn off, be it illiteracy, uneducated, mal-educated, or willful ignorance. Being schooled and certified doesnt absorb someone from being mentally broke, but being educated in a qualitative sense is an absolute required virtue. A woman do not have to be financially rich to embody these qualities. As for being worthy, I like a responsible woman. A woman that doesnt resort to manipulative tactics and emotionally blackmailing to get her way. I like when she is honorable, do not dress sexually suggestive publicly, is classy and appear respectable. She should complement me seamlessly, that I'll be her proud soldier. A woman that will assist in her own little ways financially even though I carry the bulk of expenses. A woman that understands her powerful role as a woman, and comfortable in her feminine domain, and not confuse being submissive with being a subordinate, a woman that does not indulge in profanity, and will not exploit my chilvary, and many more. 3. By being feminine, she has to be comfortable being a woman. Being a good mother to our kids, honing her beauty, the very essence of her femininity, making her even more beautiful and nice to be with it. She must know how to control her vices (the female dark sides), such as a tendency for jealousy, insecurities, hypergamy, and getting benefits through her body and beauty. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Ryocaj(m): 2:13pm On May 13, 2020 |
FGonline:Ah.. plenty.. Some ppl are just bent on destroying their own lives. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Lamasta(m): 2:30pm On May 13, 2020 |
1. Very Intelligent I mean very very intelligent 2. A good character or attitude 3. Compatibility that is Sexual, Religious etc |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by FGonline: 2:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ryocaj:How |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Ryocaj(m): 3:06pm On May 13, 2020 |
FGonline:This is actually a dumb question.. r u a kid? |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by FGonline: 3:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ryocaj:u see U can't defend ur statement,how can sóm1 b bent in destroying itselv. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Cmanforall: 3:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
PrecioussB:How to contact you outside here will be a challenge. Do you have any account through which I can access you? |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Ryocaj(m): 4:27pm On May 13, 2020 |
FGonline: Ur question got me gobsmacked.. replying u is like teaching an adult A,B,C n 1,2,3 |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by iLegendd(m): 4:45pm On May 13, 2020 |
At the end of the day, most don't know what they want. Even if they do, in most cases, it was just a dream. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by FGonline: 5:08pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ryocaj:my point is dat no individual intensionally distroy itselvs.....some ppl are naturally weak in some way. We all ve our limitations |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:44pm On May 13, 2020 |
Divay22:Only said I was dating.... Lol, I'm not married |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Ryocaj(m): 5:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
FGonline:Really? Let me give u a quick example.. My friend used to know a guy that got an admission into d university.. he wasn't serious n kept chasing girls.. he failed woefully.. he was asked to withdraw at d beginning of d 3rd year.. he stopped going for lectures but was still in school.. his mates graduated.. he left school.. they got to know at home.. he was asked to learn a trade.. he wasn't serious with it.. they asked him Wat he wanted to do.. he said he wanted to go into music.. he was given d money to set up a studio.. he squandered it. he started yahoo.. made some millions n wasted it.. he became so broke that he sold everything.. he squats with friends n does menial jobs now.. If u still don't get it after scenarios as this.. then m done with this convo.. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Fucsheetup(f): 5:55pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mrford:And yet he has a serious problem with his grammar. You sure you didn’t buy that degree? Yes, I know it’s you. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:35pm On May 13, 2020 |
diplomat058:Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:36pm On May 13, 2020 |
Toks2008:Oh. Very well then. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Mrford(m): 7:42pm On May 13, 2020 |
Fucsheetup: No one is above mistake. Me? It can't be me. Moreover what matters is the fact that i have it wether i bought or stole it doesn't matter as far as you have no prove. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by OyinO: 7:47pm On May 13, 2020 |
Benevento: Best comment |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:52pm On May 13, 2020 |
pansophist: Only you. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by folake4u(f): 8:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Benee1000(m): 8:26pm On May 13, 2020 |
newdawn2017: Why are you this bitter?... Na wa oh. I simply stated what I want in a future partner. If u don't agree, u could simply ignore or state why u don't agree. Why the name calling? Also, I didn't command any body to do anything did I? Ladies beware? Lol... for your info, I have met ladies who met and surpassed my expectations for a potential spouse, and they can testify that am an equally amazing person too. I have the right to choose what's best for myself self and my kids and I won't settle for less. Your opinion doesn't count. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Benee1000(m): 8:38pm On May 13, 2020 |
smiliyB:Hey, I don't need to be near what I wrote up there. I ain't perfect, but no one is. But then, I have a standard I look out for in a potential spouse, & I stated some of them up there. Ladies too are free to choose a standard for themselves. If any lady meets mine (and I know there are cos i've seen them), and I meet hers, then we're good to go. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Benee1000(m): 8:42pm On May 13, 2020 |
Neddyogu: Lol.. A criteria could also be a group of qualities na. The op said criteria not qualities. |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by GreenDee(f): 8:49pm On May 13, 2020 |
God-fearing Caring Intelligent |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Cindy222(f): 8:54pm On May 13, 2020 |
A man who loves God more than me. A man who listens to understand not just listen to reply. An intelligent man. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by Benee1000(m): 9:20pm On May 13, 2020 |
EmmaNuella77: Who naturally loves more between a man and a woman? Without bias then you should know it's the woman. Love is naturally more expressed by a woman, love by a woman is boundless and defies logic, cos it's purely emotional for her. But this is not so for most men. Love for men is a decision and not just based on emotions, and his expressions of love has limits. Hence the commandment to love for men cos it doesn't come naturally to him, unlike taking lead in a home. A man has to decide to love. Hence also the commandment for women to submit and not love. Love is natural for a woman, but she is commanded to submit to what comes naturally for a man, which is leadership. Two captains can't sail a boat. Why am I saying this? If a woman whose expressions of love that should be natural and boundless is less than a man love that is a decision for him & has a limit... That's recipe for doom.... Once that woman's love is tested by unfavorable circumstances, she moves... Her love isn't boundless, which isn't love from her in the first place. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by newdawn2017(f): 10:23pm On May 13, 2020 |
Benee1000:Future kih u there! U re d bitterly wicked one y will I ignore ur comment & walk past? "He who see evil & do not speaker up against it, passively consents to it". In behalf of a women, I rebuke & cast u into d bottomless pit where u belong! In Jesus name, Amen! |
Re: What Are Your Top 3 Criteria When Looking For A Potential Life Partner? by RoseyJ: 10:28pm On May 13, 2020 |
backbone503: Have you met her yet? |
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