I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Forget it

"keep an eye on her"...u better keep an eye off her,but ending it now.

Lol

thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull

They are thesame everywhere

my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!


If you pay for any other thing.... I will tell amadioha, Sango and Thor to deal with you.. You never learn your lesson.. This type of gals that ritualist are looking for.. Nansense and ingredient

do I pay for the bed and just

Yes pay up and do it fast fast...

I swear I for like to insult you , but lemme just chill.

Haven't you heard about the term "investment"?

The one who invests less is the one who is in control of the relationship.

You are investing too much, financially, assenting to every requests of hers, while she does nothing- hence, giving her full control of the relationship.

Don't ever venture into a relationship where you will be the one doing everything, putting all the effort just to make things work, while the other person, just sits down and watch.


You be Confirm Maga

Wake up Man.

E go too pain you when she eventually dump you.


Ditch the girl.

Just stop the relationship now. Man up and call it quits.

E Be like say your village people swear for your case. You don't need a prophet to tell you that that human being is a bloody vampire. Anyway, after consulting the elders we have decided that you should look for a way and get back what you have spent on her in cash or kind, then dump her in the most heart breaking and rending way possible. Thank You.

Op, you're one of reasons why leechy girls get very upset when we put them to their place.

One less mugu. Leechy girls will really be worried by now

You are still asking questions.
Seems you never understand what's going on.
Better break up with that Delilah and move on before you lose your life.
She is from the streets and she is definitely going back to the streets.

One last question, Did you rent the place in her name or yours?

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you...look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of...Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. my spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......she even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her.....She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.


The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k....Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me.. ....would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k.....she even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user...my only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...please help!

Pls, I need just 40,000naira. It would be a huge relief to me.

Dude....simply ditch that babe for ur own good

Common...there are many humble girls out there ,no let one mumu make u die bfore ur time...

Las las ...her and one bobo be planning all this shiitt to extort money from u for their own chilling....
#WiseUp

This is really laughable. Maga doesn't want to have sense.

You enjoy her beauty but you don't value your sanity, your rest of mind and your hard earn money. Let you ask you sef, beauty and peace of mind which is more important to you?


From what you have narrated here, she is not a wife material and you don't see yourself marrying a beautiful person with zero attitude then while keep the relationship?

Why not forget about her and have your life back abi she jazz you?

Later you will come to nairaland to spill trash about marriage, telling people that marriage is not worth it whereas it's you who is worthy of marriage because you are not mature mentally, emotionally and psychologically for it. you see signs, red flags but stupidly choose to go ahead with the relationship.

Next time it's boys she will arrange to beat you up and collect money forcefully from you.

devilmaycry:
Dude....simply ditch that babe for ur own good

Common...there are many humble girls out there ,no let one mumu make u die bfore ur time...

Las las ...her and one bobo be planning all this shiitt to extort money from u for their own chilling....
#WiseUp

Swears bro
She geh one side nigga jare

And this one parent go think say dem get pikin like dis. Such a waste. Tueeh!!

KaideeGee:
E Be like say your village people swear for your case. You don't need a prophet to tell you that that human being is a bloody vampire. Anyway, after consulting the elders we have decided that you should look for a way and get back what you have spent on her in cash or kind, then dump her in the most heart breaking and rending way possible. Thank You.

Forget about sex, nothing better pass money.

No matter how much he bleeps her, he can never get his money's worth. Even after he breaks up, his head will always be filled up with a thousand things he could have done with the money he wasted on her.

Bro,count your Ls in peace,dump that bitch and move on with your life. How is this so hard??

Go and quarantine yourself for 3 months first before I say anything

Hahahahaha this one na novice Your type good to give heavy knock for head. Where are the audio red pill guys

paix:
Just stop the relationship now. Man up and call it quits.

Exactly !

horlarwereleh:
You are still asking questions.
Seems you never understand what's going on.
Better break up with that Delilah and move on before you lose your life.
She is from the streets and she is definitely going back to the streets.

One last question, Did you rent the place in her name or yours?

"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"

Bruv, you're dating a freeloader. Abeg free the b*tch!

I want to believe this no be ordinary eye if not, dem don get you

Count your loss and move on