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Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Theconglomerate(m): 7:37pm On May 13, 2020 |
sexylassie2:What if he is a start up or Maybe the need for a bigger space isn't there yet? So he should use presious capital and go and waste on logistics he already have and don't need? They way you talk keep exposing you as an unproductive,empty headed stupid girl. There are lots of multi millionaires in Lagos and around the nation that have warehouse in their houses. Can you explain why? Since as they are millionaires,they should have gone and rent another place na,since they pick money on the floor. You too dull abeg,shift make I see road. If you want continue,post your account balance or pay slip too so I can know you are worth my time 1 Like |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by emmaodet: 7:39pm On May 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Hahahahaha Mr Crakkhaus, such is life bro |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by emmaodet: 7:40pm On May 13, 2020 |
Omar09: Alright bro |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by sexylassie2(f): 7:41pm On May 13, 2020 |
Theconglomerate: pls stop giving excuses. you are the dull one that can not reason, pls if you have money you wont turn your house into a factory, warehouse or where they ground groundnut, it is just common sense. 2 Likes |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by CAPSLOCKED: 7:43pm On May 13, 2020 |
Theconglomerate: V-BOOT WHAT YOU'RE DEALING WITH HERE ARE FIRST CLASS POOR ILLITERATES THAT HAVE BEEN DEFEATED WITH ALL EVIDENCE BUT STILL WON'T BACK DOWN BECAUSE THEIR SELF-WORTH IS ZERO. YOU REALLY HAVE TO DESIST FROM REPLYING THESE FOOLS BEFORE THEY GET TOO COMFORTABLE WITH YOU, AND START NEEDING FAVORS. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 7:45pm On May 13, 2020 |
khia:We're dying here I tell you. Lol. Nigerian girls are putting men through so much in the name of relationship, that with all the training we get, we become hot cake once we step out of the shores. Its like a US marine being required to wrestle 4th graders |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Theconglomerate(m): 7:45pm On May 13, 2020 |
sexylassie2:So by your analogy,all those lagos island,Alaba,Onitsha traders don't have money then,since a huge number of them have warehouses in their houses. Post your pay slip na,we dey wait. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by emmaodet: 7:47pm On May 13, 2020 |
Theconglomerate: Funny enough, am not using my apartment for warehouse, i don't know where she got that from. I lease a warehouse am using pending when am convinced the business is good enough to pump more money. Bro, you can now see why most of these ladies are financial drainages to their bfs/hubby. They virtually have nothing more to give outside sexx. No business acumen, not productive, not resourceful and in the absence of their school certificate, they become an economic burden and liability to the family and country at large. 1 Like |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Theconglomerate(m): 7:47pm On May 13, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:I know to drop them in trash cans as soon as they start needing favours na. I don't do poor women by the way |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by sexylassie2(f): 7:48pm On May 13, 2020 |
Theconglomerate: sorry sir, no big onitsha trader put goods inside their house, they have warehouse and they have their house, it is 2 different thing. continuing waiting for my payslip, i am not moved by emotions or abuse and blackmail |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Theconglomerate(m): 7:49pm On May 13, 2020 |
emmaodet:That is why I encourage people around me to atleast be comfortable by any means,so one can always dodge these set of poverty ravaged women and get classier girls that can handle their own ball. As for me,even talking to poor girls is a taboo. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by emmaodet: 7:50pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Theconglomerate(m): 7:51pm On May 13, 2020 |
sexylassie2:You are not moved because you have nothing to show off,not even if your existence depended on it. Big Onitsha traders don't keep goods in their houses? This one must be very stupid. It is almost impossible to see an Onitsha trader that will build a bungalow,mansion or duplex without making room for warehousing in it. Very rare. Bye brokelassie 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by sexylassie2(f): 7:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
emmaodet: you have started your lies, didnt you write that you are grinding groundnut in your house now you claim you have leased a warehouse even when the business is not successful, even your supporter is saying smart business men use their house for warehouse to save cost. Una just dey contradict yourself..continue your foolery 1 Like |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by CAPSLOCKED: 7:53pm On May 13, 2020 |
crownedrookie: I SUPPORT THIS ACT OF MILKING, AND I'LL NEVER CALL ANYBODY A GOLD DIGGER OR LEECH. THESE BEHAVIORS OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN ENABLED BY YEARS OF SIMPING AND FOOLISHNESS BY MEN WHO HAVE GROWN TO BELIEVE CASH CAN BUY THEM EVERYTHING INCLUDING LOYALTY. IMAGINE PAYING A LADY TO REPLY YOUR CHAT, OR PAYING HER MONTHLY TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU? I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ENTITLED WOMEN (EVEN THOUGH PERSONALLY I DETEST ENTITLED PEOPLE) BECAUSE IT SHOULD BE REALLY SIMPLE FOR SENSIBLE MEN TO SET STANDARDS. SHE'S NOT REPLYING YOUR MESSAGES? BLOCK & DELETE. SHE'S NOT GOING TO DATE YOU UNLESS YOU DEPOSIT UPFRONT? BLOCK & DELETE. SHE'S NOT GOING TO MAKE SIGNIFICANT CONTRIBUTIONS IN YOUR LIFE? EXIT, BLOCK & DELETE. WE ADOPTED THIS AS A GROUP WHEN WE WERE LITTLE BOYS SO NOW THAT I READ ABOUT WHAT MEN GO THROUGH IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN I LAUGH OVER IT CUZ I HAVE NEVER PUT MYSELF IN A POSITION TO EXPERIENCE THAT LIFE... WE DON'T BEG OR PAY FOR ANYTHING FOLKS, WE CHECK THE NEXT DOOR, AND THE NEXT DOOR UNTIL WE FIND THOSE WHO WERE PROPERLY BROUGHT UP LIKE US. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Tozic: 7:57pm On May 13, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Pidgin is not for all... 1 Like |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by sexylassie2(f): 8:01pm On May 13, 2020 |
Theconglomerate: yes i have nothing to show off,,nothing... so you mean big onitsha traders will put spareparts and all their goods in their house? you are MR dump, nothing in your head. at the bolded, you are liar, you dont know what you are writing about, so you mean Onitsha Main Market do not have warehouse and that traders that have mansion etc in onitsha always build warehouse along side in their mansion, when warehouse in onitsha main market plenty. i know say ant dey inside your brain. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 8:06pm On May 13, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:I absolutely agree with you. Nigerian SIMPs put this mess on us by accommodating the rubbish. Now look at them all working themselves into a frenzy as more and more men wake up |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by xendra: 8:21pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eyeness:Do not argue with everyone, you should know that not every woman has standards some even do 3.somes to please the assholes they call man some now mask it by claiming they wanted it too.....but we all know deep down if the man wasn't up for it they wouldn't. 2 Likes |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by efosky1246(m): 9:14pm On May 13, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: stop being extreme. most guys aren't paying any woman for a relationship. except its strictly a transactional one(sugar baby, escorts, e.t.c). there is nothing wrong with a woman being hypergamous; seeking the highest value mate she can attract in order to ensure her comfort and that of her unborn children. that's how its always been. and that's how it'll remain no matter how liberal we'll evolve to be. you guys claim to be red-pilled but still fight this basic reality. even most right thinking career women are looking for a man of a higher financial prowess. that's just how it is. And I hate to break it to you. the intrinsic value(youth, beauty, sexual purity, nurturing capabilities) a woman brings into a man's life would always be valued more than any financial value she might bring. a beautiful 18 year old virgin would be more sought out for than a Linda Ikeji. If a woman has to spend on a man to be deemed valuable, there is something wrong, she has lost woefully. Only men who have not achieved much in life will be intrigued by a woman's money. I am not in anyway encouraging a man to start playing husband role in a courtship. but stop making it seem like its wrong for anyone in a relationship to watch out for his or her own interest. that is the only way to avoid deep resentment down the line from either party. 3 Likes |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 9:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
xendra:Lmao. A third world country woman who has been so enslaved by poverty mentality that its now like a battle to insist that only men who can pay has access to her vagina(and therefore prone to abuse as some of the buyers will see her as the object she is) under the euphemism of relationship now has higher standards than a woman who puts respect, loyalty and honest commitment as requisites for a partner and equates herself with him, earning his respect since he has no upper hand claim to being the spender in the relationship. Nothing we no go see for nairaland. The term "Standards" has indeed taken a fatal blow today . I know your next line. Broke men this broke men that |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 9:31pm On May 13, 2020 |
crownedrookie: This is so true. Women in the diaspora seek Nigerian men not because they find them attractive and loving but because they know they have been taught by their culture to empty their pockets on them. I dated a Nigerian man and he started out this way which was a turn off to me(it made him look desperate) until I told him my feeling. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by xendra: 9:32pm On May 13, 2020 |
crownedrookie:Tell yourself what you want, all these lines wey una take dey get to weak women...... OP has always mentioned that women should have something doing, but a situation whereby a man doesn't spend on a woman at all means she is worthless to him. Las Las good woman or not a man that is not well brought up will still cheat and use you. see toks opening a thread to tell them to allow men cheat on them in peace 1 Like |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 9:42pm On May 13, 2020 |
khia: Really ? Interesting tell me more. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 9:44pm On May 13, 2020 |
xendra:I would have loved you to agree with my breakdown of your logic of what "standards" imply. But I see you can't. You can tell yourself what you want too. The woman you chastised for having "no standards" clearly stated that she and her man alternately do nice things for each other on memorable occasions or I suppose, random days as a romantic gesture. But you won't see that because you're determined to be a dependent. Lol weak women? You're your idea of a "STRONG" woman? Lol don't make me laugh. There is a very big chasm between an obstinate internet warrior and a strong woman. PS: A woman a man spends on will cheat, a woman not spent on will cheat too so your resorting to men cheating as a defense line is stale and baseless |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 9:54pm On May 13, 2020 |
jimyjames: Well the moral of the story is he treated me well and it was genuine because he didn't feel he was entitled to me because of the money he spent to get me. We had fun together. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 10:02pm On May 13, 2020 |
khia: Never knew you dated a Nigerian guy, I mean, thought mr Az is the first |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Arthur2021: 11:05pm On May 13, 2020 |
efosky1246:I don't think you get the message. The issue here is not hypergamy(most men have no issue spending at all). The issue on ground is the broke shaming and yet this dolts can't take it. Most of us dragged on this thread (caps,Emma and I) earn very well,I don't think any of us will have an issue with giving wisely to a lady having no money. I met my lady when she had no money(dependent on parents ). Infact I will advice my daughter to date rich men. The problem is why do these same dolts cry foul when we men hold ladies to high sexual standards? When we say we desire virgins or young feminine women they call us names,misogynists, paedophiles...you need to see how the thread of ubunja on why you should marry a lady from 19-25 struck nerves on this forum. We have accepted the hypergamous nature of women,why can't they accept our own nature? The loqacious animals dande and sexylassie2 have called out and harassed redpillers for stating their spec (what they perceive as slut shaming) yet they broke sham men they know zilch about. If you want to state your opinions and spec as a lady dont frown when men state theirs 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 11:48pm On May 13, 2020 |
jimyjames: Well, if you read any of my topics you would have known. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Martinez39s(m): 11:49pm On May 13, 2020 |
emmaodet:Sexylassié2 always try to act smart with by confidently pressing unsound charges and assumptions on how you are broke. Just ignore her. Sometimes, her assumptions are just baits to make you reveal more about yourself. When I only told her my mum recently built a house she then rented out, Sexylassié2 spontaneously assumed the following: 1) my mum took many years to save the money. This is false. 2) my mum managed to build a bungalow. This is false. 3) I live in a crowded street. This is false. There is nothing you can do to convince someone who is bent on thinking you are broke, especially when that thought is their wet dream. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 12:00am On May 14, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Martinez how Fr?? You guy just Dey come from one month ban.. |
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Martinez39s(m): 12:28am On May 14, 2020 |
Meeyankee:I wasn't banned. Man can't be active all the time. |
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