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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by excanny: 4:37pm On May 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
the koko is that men should learn to cut their coat according to their cloth. Broke guys should not go for slay queens. They should go to the babe on their street or in their village.

Hope they will hear.


And who should broke girls go for?

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by lammylam(f): 4:51pm On May 14, 2020
bodybuilder:
Women don't understand your struggle.

The earlier some men realise that women are wired not to recognise the sacrifices you make the better for you.

A woman does not genuily care if you are giving her half of your salary.

A woman does not care that you're trying hard to satisfy in bed.

A woman will always leave you for man richer, more good looking and confident than you.

The moment you recognise this fact that women just care about value not intent or been sacrificial the better for you.

In a nutshell, don't put your self in great inconvenience for a woman.

Don't spend money you can't really afford.

Just spend what is really comfortable with you.

Here is an illustration.

If you earn 200k, and give her 100k

She will leave for a man that earns 1 million and gives her 200k

You get it, women naturally can't relate your sacrifice and struggle.

This is not just about money. It about every other thing.

A woman will not still stay with you because of the effort you put in to making her cum.

All she cares about is the orgasm, not the amount of work you put in.

In conclusion. Don't kill your self, she does not recognise effort. Women does not recognise effort, just value.

Don't forget this!

I'm not bashing women, it's their natural trait. It's not their fault. That's how they are created.

You just have to be aware of this truth as man, so you expect it, and don't cry like baby, when she leaves you anytime.

This is no hate on women. Don't get it wrong.

Brother! Next time ehn use "some women"!

Most people coming here to talk about Women make that mistake and its quiet annoying!

Y'all keep forgetting that we are not the same!

The fact that some people have been unfortunate to meet with Delilah doesn't mean you should tag all women as evil!


So pls ehn next time use " some women". IRE O

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
the koko is that men should learn to cut their coat according to their cloth. Broke guys should not go for slay queens. They should go to the babe on their street or in their village.

Hope they will hear.

Hy slay queen

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by lammylam(f): 4:55pm On May 14, 2020
Mstick:
You can't say what a woman's"nature" is because you're not a woman. Even our natural features are different so why do you expect every woman to act and think the same?

We see news of men raping their own kids, killing even their own family for money ritual, internet fraudsters and cultists everyday but no woman creates a topic saying that's the nature of men.


God bless you!
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by KristaPretty(f): 5:00pm On May 14, 2020
Your post is just like a man describing the exact feeling of being on a monthly cycle or like a child describing how driving a plane is.

Baseless!!!!!

Next post abeg, make I no vex angry

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Naija246: 5:05pm On May 14, 2020
women don't care about your struggles,they hang around at the finish line and pick the winner's grin

while a man has to "become" to get anything worthwhile in life, a woman is just "is"
All she has to do is appear beautiful and get stuff handed over to her.
It's really sickening.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Bennysam: 5:16pm On May 14, 2020
Mstick:
Whenever I see topics like this I can't help but LOL! Many of the "men" that come online to bash women if their mothers didn't contribute in the families they wouldn't have gone to school, eaten or even be worth anything.

Now they're "grown" they think bashing women makes them cool and accepted.

My friend most of our mothers don't contribute anything
But we still love them though

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Bennysam: 5:18pm On May 14, 2020
Mstick:
Whenever I see topics like this I can't help but LOL! Many of the "men" that come online to bash women if their mothers didn't contribute in the families they wouldn't have gone to school, eaten or even be worth anything.

Now they're "grown" they think bashing women makes them cool and accepted.

My dear most of our mothers don't contribute anything
In the family though we as their children still love them
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Olawrites: 5:45pm On May 14, 2020
anigbajumo:


My dear,it is not about throwing tantrums at women it is just the bitter truth,but not perculiar to all ladies rather than 98% of Nigerian women.Anytime I see a post like this on NL I always think it doesn't exist until my ex cheated on me just three months after I used my hard earned money to open shop for her,it was like a dream but reality,since then I bliv most topics about women on NL.Untill am ready to marry,that is when i can spend for any lady,for the past one year na to spend token then fuc like 2_3x and jump to next available chic,no time to keep on with one lady and keep billing me in one fictitious relationship.I can't do that shiit again,it is nothing but a scam.

My brother. You spoke my mind

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Akinbahm(m): 5:55pm On May 14, 2020
You no dey chill at all, you too dey blunt!!!
Martinez39s:
Stop explaining yourself to that woman. You don't have to explain yourself to anybody. [color=brown]All women are like that.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by dom80: 6:15pm On May 14, 2020
anigbajumo:


My dear,it is not about throwing tantrums at women it is just the bitter truth,but not perculiar to all ladies rather than 98% of Nigerian women.Anytime I see a post like this on NL I always think it doesn't exist until my ex cheated on me just three months after I used my hard earned money to open shop for her,it was like a dream but reality,since then I bliv most topics about women on NL.Untill am ready to marry,that is when i can spend for any lady,for the past one year na to spend token then fuc like 2_3x and jump to next available chic,no time to keep on with one lady and keep billing me in one fictitious relationship.I can't do that shiit again,it is nothing but a scam.

bro, I couldn't believe it too when my gf cheated behind my back. if someone told me then that my gf will cheat behind my back, i wont beliv that person. this is someone I care for and I provide for all her need. she doesn't lack anything in the relationship. I Bleep her well that she always beg me to stop and she most time fan her p.ssy. she knows I'm not a thousandnaire but she still went ahead to cheat with someone who she met two months ago. I became so confuse about women. its really hard to find a loyal girl.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by anigbajumo(m): 6:20pm On May 14, 2020
dom80:


bro, I couldn't believe it too when my gf cheated behind my back. if someone told me then that my gf will cheat behind my back, i wont beliv that person. this is someone I care for and I provide for all her need. she doesn't lack anything in the relationship. I Bleep her well that she always beg me to stop and she most time fan her p.ssy. she knows I'm not a thousandnaire but she still went ahead to cheat with someone who she met two months ago. I became so confuse about women. its really hard to find a loyal girl.

No different between you and I until I found out she cheated on me.I never for once plan to marry any lady apart from her in my life but wen reality set in,I quickly moved on.For the past one year,am not committed to any serious relationship but chop and clean mouth even I only bleep some once and zip up...Boss,if u are not ready for marriage atleast next one year never subject urself into any serious relationship,just play along then fuc and dump them with no time.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Martinez39s(m): 6:30pm On May 14, 2020
Akinbahm:


You no dey chill at all, you too dey blunt!!!
Life is too short and precious to pander to people's feelings when you can say truth. Truth will set the wise and honest man free.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:30pm On May 14, 2020
anigbajumo:
My dear,it is not about throwing tantrums at women it is just the bitter truth,but not perculiar to all ladies rather than 98% of Nigerian women.Anytime I see a post like this on NL I always think it doesn't exist until my ex cheated on me just three months after I used my hard earned money to open shop for her,it was like a dream but reality,since then I bliv most topics about women on NL.Untill am ready to marry,that is when i can spend for any lady,for the past one year na to spend token then fuc like 2_3x and jump to next available chic,no time to keep on with one lady and keep billing me in one fictitious relationship.I can't do that shiit again,it is nothing but a scam.
dom80:
bro, I couldn't believe it too when my gf cheated behind my back. if someone told me then that my gf will cheat behind my back, i wont beliv that person. this is someone I care for and I provide for all her need. she doesn't lack anything in the relationship. I Bleep her well that she always beg me to stop and she most time fan her p.ssy. she knows I'm not a thousandnaire but she still went ahead to cheat with someone who she met two months ago. I became so confuse about women. its really hard to find a loyal girl.

you guys were dating DECEITFUL/UNFAITHFUL/UNTRUSTWORTHY demons but didnt know about it... and you certainly shouldnt change who you are (or your views on women) because you dated some animals in female form.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Martinez39s(m): 6:40pm On May 14, 2020
dom80:


bro, I couldn't believe it too when my gf cheated behind my back. if someone told me then that my gf will cheat behind my back, i wont beliv that person. this is someone I care for and I provide for all her need. she doesn't lack anything in the relationship. I Bleep her well that she always beg me to stop and she most time fan her p.ssy. she knows I'm not a thousandnaire but she still went ahead to cheat with someone who she met two months ago. I became so confuse about women. its really hard to find a loyal girl.
anigbajumo:
No different between you and I until I found out she cheated on me.I never for once plan to marry any lady apart from her in my life but wen reality set in,I quickly moved on.For the past one year,am not committed to any serious relationship but chop and clean mouth even I only bleep some once and zip up...Boss,if u are not ready for marriage atleast next one year never subject urself into any serious relationship,just play along then fuc and dump them with no time.

I am sure that during the "blissful" period of you guys' relationships, you wouldn't have thought too kindly of I and Ubunja's write-ups on this forum. Those who think certain women are different, and their girlfriends aren't like other women, are in for a rude and grim awakening.

There is nothing like genuine love from a woman. A woman sees a man as a disposable utility. People associate with disposable utilities for their usefulness. Once a disposable utility is no longer useful, or a better disposable utility comes along, it is discarded regardless of how much it has done in the past. You can't satisfy a woman, and all women are hòes. All women are like that. The one you think is different, especially the one you think wouldn't cheat, will end up showing you that she is like.

Don't listen to those that will tell you your girlfriends were just the bad eggs blah blah blah. That's a common blue pill nonsense.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 6:57pm On May 14, 2020
excanny:



And who should broke girls go for?
someone better, and more resourceful than them.it is what it is.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Liliantalks: 7:02pm On May 14, 2020
bodybuilder:
Women don't understand your struggle.

The earlier some men realise that women are wired not to recognise the sacrifices you make the better for you.

A woman does not genuily care if you are giving her half of your salary.

A woman does not care that you're trying hard to satisfy in bed.

A woman will always leave you for man richer, more good looking and confident than you.

The moment you recognise this fact that women just care about value not intent or been sacrificial the better for you.

In a nutshell, don't put your self in great inconvenience for a woman.

Don't spend money you can't really afford.

Just spend what is really comfortable with you.

Here is an illustration.

If you earn 200k, and give her 100k

She will leave for a man that earns 1 million and gives her 200k

You get it, women naturally can't relate your sacrifice and struggle.

This is not just about money. It about every other thing.

A woman will not still stay with you because of the effort you put in to making her cum.

All she cares about is the orgasm, not the amount of work you put in.

In conclusion. Don't kill your self, she does not recognise effort. Women does not recognise effort, just value.

Don't forget this!

I'm not bashing women, it's their natural trait. It's not their fault. That's how they are created.

You just have to be aware of this truth as man, so you expect it, and don't cry like baby, when she leaves you anytime.

This is no hate on women. Don't get it wrong.
I felt really bad by this ! Cause I can’t relate. I treat men well .

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by IncredibleWrite: 7:06pm On May 14, 2020
Only inexperienced people would say the OP is wrong. But there are always exceptions in every scenario. And please, never take advise about women from women. I'm saying this because of the ladies here who are trying to dissuade the public from reality.

See my signature and contact us for your writing services.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by excanny: 7:13pm On May 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
someone better, and more resourceful than them.it is what it is.

So men are better and more resourceful than women on the general. Its cool you're saying this grin

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by deeva1: 7:24pm On May 14, 2020
Women can sometimes be lyk that but one thing I keep telling guys is to be real, dnt try to impress a woman with material

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by dederocs(m): 7:26pm On May 14, 2020
DrPurple:
Not all of them
90%
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Greatzeus(m): 7:34pm On May 14, 2020
lammylam:


Brother! Next time ehn use "some women"!

Most people coming here to talk about Women make that mistake and its quiet annoying!

Y'all keep forgetting that we are not the same!

The fact that some people have been unfortunate to meet with Delilah doesn't mean you should tag all women as evil!


So pls ehn next time use " some women". IRE O
Wow this is so matured.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by anigbajumo(m): 7:36pm On May 14, 2020
Martinez39s:

I am sure that during the "blissful" period of you guys' relationships, you wouldn't have thought too kindly of I and Ubunja's write-ups on this forum. Those who think certain women are different, and their girlfriends aren't like other women, are in for a rude and grim awakening.

There is nothing like genuine love from a woman. A woman sees a man as a disposable utility. People associate with disposable utilities for their usefulness. Once a disposable utility is no longer useful, or a better disposable utility comes along, it is discarded regardless of how much it has done in the past. You can't satisfy a woman, and all women are hòes. All women are like that. The one you think is different, especially the one you think wouldn't cheat, will end up showing you that she is like.

Don't listen to those that will tell you your girlfriends were just the bad eggs blah blah blah. That's a common blue pill nonsense.

But av actually not read about ur post here at all.My view about ladies av totally changed in the past one year.I never take ladies serious for now,I don't even av time for that.My financial strength in the past 11 months without a relationship has proved to me that ladies are leeches.I spend less and bang different toto with no extravagant billing.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 7:38pm On May 14, 2020
Mstick:
Whenever I see topics like this I can't help but LOL! Many of the "men" that come online to bash women if their mothers didn't contribute in the families they wouldn't have gone to school, eaten or even be worth anything.

Now they're "grown" they think bashing women makes them cool and accepted.



You're so I'm my thoughts....I just wonder if they've Never had a woman support them in life...the bashing is too much abeg
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by emmaodet: 8:23pm On May 14, 2020
Martinez39s:

I am sure that during the "blissful" period of you guys' relationships, you wouldn't have thought too kindly of I and Ubunja's write-ups on this forum. Those who think certain women are different, and their girlfriends aren't like other women, are in for a rude and grim awakening.

There is nothing like genuine love from a woman. A woman sees a man as a disposable utility. People associate with disposable utilities for their usefulness. Once a disposable utility is no longer useful, or a better disposable utility comes along, it is discarded regardless of how much it has done in the past. You can't satisfy a woman, and all women are hòes. All women are like that. The one you think is different, especially the one you think wouldn't cheat, will end up showing you that she is like.

Don't listen to those that will tell you your girlfriends were just the bad eggs blah blah blah. That's a common blue pill nonsense.

Hmmmmmmm
Martinez, i was given a rude awakening this evening when i read two threads.
Pls check them out -

https://www.nairaland.com/5851821/husband-experience#89453761

https://www.nairaland.com/5622874/family-important-dont-let-zeal#89549833

Now am thinking most women are cold-hearted and when they make decisions, they don't really care about the other gender.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 14, 2020
excanny:


So men are better and more resourceful than women on the general. Its cool you're saying this grin
you guys are the 'stronger' gender. To whom much is given, much is expected
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by seanwilliam(m): 8:50pm On May 14, 2020
The bitter truth is..any man that fails or chooses to ignore swallowing the redpill would blame himself sooner or later ( you cant escape it weather directly or indirectly)..

I just laugh and laugh when some dunces come here to defend women just to sound cerebral or to look good in women's sight and to score cheap popularity...

We should always be thankful to God that there are fora like nairaland and people like ubun.ja and Martinez. 09( I would not have been exposed to women tactics and manipulations.. and probably might regret it later in life if I am not lucky)




Women are not logical, so deal with them logically.. they use emotions to play victim cards..
Women are manipulative, so never leave any loopholes for that..

Also the day you fall in love is the day you loose your power and logic( sense of reasoning)


Although I'm still finding my feets as per women's matter, but over the years I think I'm better now in handling relationship..

.

When you are in relationship, hope for the best and start preparing for the worst.. have it at the back of your mind that las las she go fhuck up...
Be selfish in your finance towards women except your mum( your mum self na because she contributed to your husle and life )..


.

If you don marry ,no dey do pass yourself, you cant satisfy human being not to talk of women...declare your rules at the on set of the relationship...
Make her totally submissive to you but always give her a say when taking decision.. although make sure your opinion over rides hers 80% of time and be ready to deal with the consequence..
.

Women love heartless men.. I just learned that...

Peace!

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by excanny: 8:52pm On May 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you guys are the 'stronger' gender. To whom much is given, much is expected

Lol. Seems u be President-General of broke girls. grin
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Bruno3000(m): 8:55pm On May 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
the koko is that men should learn to cut their coat according to their cloth. Broke guys should not go for slay queens. They should go to the babe on their street or in their village.

Hope they will hear.
See this one, don't u know the rich also cry/suffer? Go ask Dangote why he had to divorce his wife.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 9:04pm On May 14, 2020
Mstick:
You can't say what a woman's"nature" is because you're not a woman. Even our natural features are different so why do you expect every woman to act and think the same?

We see news of men raping their own kids, killing even their own family for money ritual, internet fraudsters and cultists everyday but no woman creates a topic saying that's the nature of men.

the nature of men is to make money and have sex to further their bloodline. Some commit crimes to achieve that goal
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by fcdgrand(m): 9:12pm On May 14, 2020
DrPurple:
Not all of them
99.9%

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 9:14pm On May 14, 2020
Lightangel65:


That's what causes the problem, if you're broke don't try to go after a girl with high standards cause she'll leave you.
what do you mean by girl with high standard? You surely mean a girl who crave a lot of things but have no means of acquiring them on her own. I'm far from broke but I will never have anything to do with such a girl. I will literally vomit at the thought of a broke female with pride and entitlement mentality

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