davosea:
thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull

the day you make mistake by paying her rent on island, knowing her antecedent,you have indirectly turned her into lekki runs babe..make sure you are ready to deal with her because as soon as possible she will stop picking your calls after meeting a rich Yahoo guy

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Even though you've said it yourself, I'll still say it again. You are a fool. Keep giving her all she ask for.

I advise you open a joined account so she can draw at will. Dakiki

God forbid

And u may nt b taking care of ur brother ,sister,mum or daddy like this ooo they never pay my salary that is what u will b telling them that is why i dnt love too much

There are some things you should realy ruminate about here. I understand you think you have made so much commitment and you dont know how to walk away from such huge investment on a woman but let me tell you what will eventually happen if you dont walk away right now
1... you will keep sinking in this ditch you find yourself
2.. She will never change a bit, she is now more
desperate to set up the room and you will pay through
your nose
3.Have you for one second think this woman will stay
with you if things go south.
4. The physical and verbal abuse will get worse with your
refusal.
5.That you said i love you does not make you her parent,
you have made much commitment but this is just a tip of
the iceberg, she now know you got the mulla and she will suck you till you bleed from all sides.

She just dey cash out on top ur head that's if the story is true... Them say common sense is not common, oga use ur sense ooooooo.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Not all but Most Ladies who turns Runs Girl are from DYSFUNCTIONAL POVERTY LADEN HOMES or "Fuji House Of Commotion" !!
O.P having seen that yourself, you ought not to have start dating such a lady as she will horribly lack proper Home-training.
And is it a lady that lacks proper parenthood positive character moulding that will further mould herself positively?
Lai lai!

Don't break up with her yet, call her and sound all nice, you can't deal with a hardened Nigerian lady with oyibo gloves and if you are too harsh she may arrange boys for you with her puna, but if you really want to get back the house rent money, i can give you plans on how to do that call me kam buye gi uche,

Just end whatever it is you have with her. She's a resourceful hoe, she's get the rest of the things she needs.

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Since you know she's manipulative and violent, why continue? There are still good girls out there. Dump her crazy ass.

davosea:
thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull

The guy needs to be eliminated before he procreates and gives birth to another nutJob like him.

davosea:
lol haha thats what he really deserve,i wonder why men can be so weak atimes.

imagine. girl friend oh. not wife oh.

Is the guy is charmed

Is like the guy is charmed by the lady

Then why are you telling the world that you are a pu**y?

Someone built a relationship, another person roofed it and lastly another packed in.

This one is not even ready to receive sense.��‍♀️

ifex370:



The guy needs to be eliminated before he procreates and gives birth to another nutJob like him.

lol bro the man is a real mess

You a big ass clown!

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ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

please my brother free yourself free the 500k and save your dear life. The God that provide for you will continue to do so.

You’re obviously blinded by her beauty. Decision is yours to make Sir. Remember as you lay your bed, so shall you lie on it!

joyandfaith:
imagine. girl friend oh. not wife oh.

hmmm if he doesnt get wise today,he might probably get wise somedays co'mon see brother way mumu.

Sigh, sometimes we ladies are our own worse enemy, anyways just do what you feel will bring you peace of mind....remember your happiness is yours to pursue

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look

Please help!

Have you showered your mum and dad gifts this month or even this year? Your siblings? Extended family? The "needy"?

It's likely no but you decided to become a f.ool, is okay ehn, she really loves you

You're the reason some useless girls always believe that it's their right to be collecting money from guys turning them to Atm machine
Leave the girl ASAP, there is still good girls out there who will appreciate you and every single kobo you spend on her.

Pat081:
Bros they are nt d same we still hv good ones out dia and we hv useless guys too that gals is doing everything for him but d guy is useless but Op dnt get brain or he is nt using it d gal is working too why will u b d only one doing everytin for her

See babe, why u de harsh na ? No guy's is useless,

I couldn't help but laugh at this request..
What d'yu mean?

AskProf:


Pls, I need just 40,000naira. It would be a huge relief to me.

My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

There is an action to every reaction... She abuse you after all you've done for her...that is the height of ingratitude... Play along without her knowing,pack all the properties in the house and sublet the apartment just to recorver some money.

For creating a new moniker and seeking for advice, I know there still sanity left in you. You have to pay her in her own coin and stop being a Sissy or you want to continuing paying for the rent and other utilities?

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Initially, I wanted to slam you with all kinds derogatory words, but I sensed that lady is using chams on you. You're hooked and you can't escape her. She'll likely kill you, except you get a higher power to release yourself.

There's no need for too much story, you're doomed. Get saved fast on your obituary will be published soon.

You actually went for her body, now you got more than you bargained for.

At Op, you really need to put and end to that relationship. I ain't trying to be malevolent on your relationship, but for your betterment and security for peace and loving sake.

Your GF is too extravagant, and expensive to handle not to talk more of her bad characters and altitude. I had a GF like her back then in school. I paid school fees for her, made her hair for her and even gave her 10k for keep up.

She came to my lodge the next day and was requesting for money from me, just nothing oo. I refuted, and she started scattering my room, she fell my home theater, fell my plasma, fell my portable freezer and took my laptop to break; here I got upset but didn't touch her because I know the rules of law and how to win successfully. I told her if she break that laptop she would see hell, that I will call the security, and the military man opposite my lodge. Her head came down, I gave her 5k.(I threw it on the ground) she picked it, hissed and off she went.

That was the last day of our friendship. I even thanked God for the quit, I started leaving a peaceful life and things went well for me.

One day I was climbing down from my lecture building, on the second floor, I saw her going for practical, we jammed and I did as if I had never seen her before nor did I know her. She was looking haggard, dirty and unkept.

The next day I got home and I received a text message from her, as I wanted to read it, i said to my self"reading this message will brink back memories " instead, I deleted it without reading it. That was how I got over her after much begging and text messages. Nothing is sweater than having peace of mind.

In my 400l, I met a pretty damsel[jessica],i met her on my way to church, the bike I stopped was carrying her, then I joined since it's two people maximum. We didn't reach the church, the bike stopped close to the church, so we trekked and from there we knew each other. We even sat together in the same row.

She was the exact type of friend I had long wanted while at school(Friend not lover). One day, i was escorting her to her DPT, when i sighted my exGF and her cousin (female) having a snacks under a mango tree (all the retailers selling drinks and snacks around school with chairs set at diff spaces) I decided to convince Jessica we should have quick snacks there, we approached there and I changed my attitude. My voice was so loud and smooth, I treated Jessica as a princess and amuse students within that space including my ex and her cousin. They were both surprised and shamed at the same time like he has changed and looks ,caring and nice.

Customers under the mango tree were amused by my presence and more people came to have a drink there. I called Jessica pretty pretty, i saw a girl who was on her own sipping her drink slowly, I convinced her to join i and Jessica, she was filled with enthusiasm, she was delighted and smiled with efflorescence. My ex and her cousin were just bitter and feeling to throw up haha.

After 20 min, we bounced and off to her dept.

So,at Op, quit immediately for your own good. There are better girls you can invest such huge money in and they would give you millions in return.