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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Sheyilola(f): 6:15pm On May 15, 2020 |
Congratulations dear You are really, really strong |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Nobody: 6:17pm On May 15, 2020 |
StephenJoseph:Can i get a copy of your research if you will? |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Aparche(f): 6:18pm On May 15, 2020 |
Omojudy: Wow...I thank God for your life! I really love your testimony. I don't even understand why people would want you not to be open about how you got your babies; are they trying to protect God's integrity or what? Who told them God is not glorified by your testimony? People have become so religious and deceived to the point that they have put God in a 'box' in their imagination & so they actually believe that God must do things or answer their prayer in a particular way. If not, then it cannot be of God. But that's not true. Sometimes, God answers different peoples prayer concerning the same issue in different ways. For instance, He has blessed you with two beautiful children via surrogacy, some it's via IVF, for some it's via adoption and yet others it's via natural conception. Whichever means it comes, doesn't take away the God factor because every good gift comes from God, and children are his heritage. I pray that your testimony will encourage some TTC women out there to prayerfully try other legal means of having children instead of wasting precious time waiting for a 'miracle'. 3 Likes |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by mumzara: 6:28pm On May 15, 2020 |
Congratulations sis |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Psoul(m): 6:36pm On May 15, 2020 |
Omojudy: My sister, you are extraordinarily strong and positive in nature. You don't easily give up even when it seems the best option is to give up. You are a great fighter. May God bless you. The man that stood by ur side is a strong man. He's God's send. For that man that abandoned u when you needed him most... Well, I don't know what to say. The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a man that does not have his own will. A man that all his directives come from his parents and siblings without stopping to check how the directives will affect his own family. Please permit me to share ur story. 2 Likes |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Datagirl: 6:36pm On May 15, 2020 |
Wow,congratulations. I admire your honesty. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Ade3131: 6:46pm On May 15, 2020 |
One thing I cherish mostly about you is that you came out clean to your husband. Most ladies will lie their way into marriage hoping nature will cover their tracks. A big congratulations to you and your family. I'm happy you met your true husband. Congratulations once again |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Mcslize: 7:00pm On May 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Mcslize: 7:04pm On May 15, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: Thanks to the surrogate mother no doubt, but she was paid . She only carried the babies for 9 months. The eggs were op's eggs fertilized by op husband's sperm. So the only role the surrogate mother played was helping them to carry the babies for 9 months as op womb couldn't expand enough to carry the babies. Genetically, the babies will look like op and her husband, DNA wise. I believe surrogate mother was paid handsomely. So no special thanks to that. It is trade by barter. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 7:15pm On May 15, 2020 |
Psoul:Thanks you. Feel free to share. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Mcslize: 7:20pm On May 15, 2020 |
Trayceey: Let me explain it to you so you understand it. Op's eggs were harvested and placed in an optimum incubator medium to prepare them for fertility. After that, the husband's sperm were taken and placed along side op's eggs so that the eggs can get fertilized by the husband's sperm. Several eggs were actually fertilized. After fertility, the Doctor used a special syringe to introduce the fertilized eggs into the surrogate mother (The other woman they bargained with). The eggs finally got implanted into the other woman's womb. The only job the woman played was to help them carried the babies till 9 months and born them. Genetically, the babies are cardboard copy of op and her husband not the other woman cuz op donated her own eggs and and the eggs were fertilized by op's husband sperm. I hope you now understand it with this brief explanation. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by dosht(f): 7:40pm On May 15, 2020 |
I've been following your story from instagram since last year. Congratulations to you once again! 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by litaninja(m): 7:42pm On May 15, 2020 |
lmao. god sent money mysteriously. na wa |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by HiDee2(m): 7:49pm On May 15, 2020 |
This is good news. Congratulations. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by seunfly: 7:52pm On May 15, 2020 |
eyinjuege: My maternal grand pa was a twin, i v twin anties, my wife is a twin and i have twin boys in my house. i know about twins very well, what I'm talking about is the hypocrisy the OP highlited that is going on about people looking for fruit of the womb and church testimonies. You and i knows that you always have options of twins, triplet etc and gender selection when people do IVF and other medical conception assistance. Don't u noticed a trend that almost everybody who as been waiting for fruit of the womb for years always come up with twins or triplet but in reality the odds of getting twin or triplet is very low even if u gives birth at 80 years except their is history in your family line like mine. However 90% of people who are looking for babies ends up given birth to twins. I'm not against the twins niether am i against the testimonies, but people should always state the fact and give God his own credit so that others can learn and get their help at appropriate time. One of my oga in the office has been looking for babies for more that 15 years, people told her about different medical options but she rejected it holding on to faith and other people's testimonies without knowing other people she was looking at took the other medical options she rejected. She just gave birth to twins recently after she finally agreed to IVF. I know she would have done it long time ago if she had known that majority of the testimonies passed through the same journey but it took her more than 15 years to relised and solve what could have been solved 2 years after marriage. Bible says give cesar unto cesar and give God unto God, infact it is God's doing for IVF to be successful, because i have a friend who had IVF and she still had complication. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Omojudy: 7:52pm On May 15, 2020 |
litaninja:I no try the one I write? You still want details of how the money was raised? Point is God made our efforts to raise them successful. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Donpruddy(f): 7:53pm On May 15, 2020 |
Her's was probably a unicornuate uterus. We have a whole lot of congenital abnormalities that affect pregnancy and childbirth. Below are some.
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Re: My Journey To Motherhood by enemyofprogress: 7:57pm On May 15, 2020 |
Ebenezer2021:dominique is my one and only. No rival and will never be any rival. Vickyrotex just wan chop and clean mouth but na dominique get am and nobody can come in between us, not even mynd44, Ishilove, seunmohmoh, funkybabee nor ajepako |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by isokey: 8:04pm On May 15, 2020 |
Omojudy:Amen |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by eyinjuege: 8:09pm On May 15, 2020 |
seunfly: Nobody owes anyone else information about their fertility or medical journey. It's a choice to share or not to share. Whether it helps someone out there or not, isn't their concern. There's enough information out there for anyone, so it's not until someone comes out like omo.judy has done before others can be helped. Omo.judy doesn't owe any stranger her stories, and she's kind to share it with us all. But it doesn't make the path she has chosen better than those who decide not to share their own struggles and how they overcame. People don't have to share their stories of how they survived cancer or corona or whatever unless they want to. It doesnt mean they're wicked, evil or deceitful. The fact that she was able to get a surrogate and it worked out well is a testimony to some people on it's own. The fact that someone comes out to say praise God, I've been trying for a baby for years and now I hold my child in my hands (whether through IVF or surrogate) isnt anyone's business even though we are naturally nosy. Just be thankful with the new parents and celebrate the bundle of joy. You may wonder how they got their baby( if natural or IVF ) but provided they didnt break any law, its really not anyone's 'consign'. Some have had multiple IVFs before one finally worked out, and they see that as a testimony on it's own. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by VickyRotex(f): 8:48pm On May 15, 2020 |
enemyofprogress: Anyone that sees this will think you have something reasonable to say. ![]() ![]() Ajepako, ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kunletexs: 8:53pm On May 15, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Lacking my foot! When you referred to me as asslicking, was that a commendation in your stupid vocabulary. Go and learn compassion. You are the type of ladies that would tell their house help not to sit on the sofa but on the floor. As for giving, I have. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kunletexs: 8:59pm On May 15, 2020 |
Psoul: Sir. I am grateful to you for your comment. Coming from a man like me tells me there are still men that are not bias but call a spade a spade. Thanks for supporting her with your words. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Legendguru: 8:59pm On May 15, 2020 |
Good for tou |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SweetCunt97(f): 9:07pm On May 15, 2020 |
kunletexs:Guy calm down naaa, haba. You ranting like I removed food from ur mouth. Wtf is wrong with you? We all know how people concoct stories to emotionally guilt people into giving on this platform. Tears run down my eyes reading emotional novel and movies and u fink I'm capable of such wickedness to another being? Lol. Don't judge based on comments here OK. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kunletexs: 9:10pm On May 15, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Step aside biko. By your words, we know who you are. You have the hint of hatred and for your sorry ass, it not called ranting but called saying the truth (your word, REMEMBER!!) |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SweetCunt97(f): 9:13pm On May 15, 2020 |
kunletexs:Well, you can kiss my Ass. As per defender of d universe wey u be. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Psoul(m): 9:16pm On May 15, 2020 |
kunletexs: Thank you my brother. We should always be fair at all times. That woman is so wonderful. Her story challenged me. Read the story and you'll see the sincerity in her story. May God grant her a peaceful home. |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kunletexs: 9:16pm On May 15, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: That smelly ass? What the Bleep? If that the last ass in the world, I rather say like Esther in the bible 'if I perish, I perish' Park well and go and know how to make your comments seasoned with salt. Kai, this one wan marry o. Husband no know say he don enter one chance |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by Psoul(m): 9:19pm On May 15, 2020 |
Omojudy: Thanks my sister. May the peace of God fill your heart and your home. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by kunletexs: 9:20pm On May 15, 2020 |
Psoul: Seriously I did and it from her I know that surrogate are now in Nigeria which to me is good. Though, to me I don't like surrogacy as it is sinful. But am happy for her. Seriously, she is strong and the husband that stood her needs to be commended too. Thanks for the comment. It made my day. 1 Like |
Re: My Journey To Motherhood by SweetCunt97(f): 9:22pm On May 15, 2020 |
kunletexs:It's obvious you really enjoying seeing my mentions bro. What even gave you the impression that it's a lady behind this moniker? I could b a dude with hairy dangling balls like you.. So bera chill |
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