gentlemate00:
But you NL account is 24hrs old

CAPSLOCKED:




THIS IS WHY CONSUMING THE REDPILL (KNOWLEDGE) IS IMPORTANT FOR ALL BOYS STARTING FROM AGE 15.
YOU'RE TO BE BLAMED FOR ALL THIS. WHEN YOU SHOULD HAVE CUT OFF FROM THIS WOMAN YEARS AGO YOU KEPT LISTENING TO PASTORS AND FAMILIES, NOW SEE WHERE YOU ARE.
SHE WILL RUIN YOUR CAREER AND THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO BECAUSE YOU ALREADY FUKED UP FROM DAY ONE, BY IGNORING THE PILLS.
BEST OF LUCK.

Martinez39s:
More men are beginning to wake up to what women really are and more are beginning to question marriage. Those who for whatever reason bring their wives/girlfriends abroad are in for rude awakening.

LinLinGentle:
You missed the part where I said that I needed to ensure my privacy. A new account was opened specifically for this post and that does not make it fake or make me a troll. I honestly feel so much better since reading all the comments here, not because my problem is solved but because I feel like I have off-loaded some heavy stuff that have been weighing me down. Like I said, the post was created purely to rant and vent.

Martinez39s:
As I suspected, her behaviour has nothing to do with your "gra gra." Her behaviour is just who she is. She is using the excuse of your "gra gra" to justify her toxicity. Developed western countries are not the best places for married men. Many women show their toxic and demonic aspects when their boyfriend/husband bring them over.

Your wife already understands the system, your situation will reach its nadir when she lands you in the divorce courts and alienate you from your kids. If you can, go back to Nigeria and never return.

It pays to take the red pill.

emmaodet:


It is really saddening that our so called beautiful angels, african queens with african cultures are really not what we think they are.
Also, i noticed there is this Deep seated hatred for men by women but they quietly and silently mask it by been submissive and respectful when in nigeria but abroad you will see a full blow lion ready to pounce on you at any minute.
Oooohhhh nooooooooo
This is not what i envisage in our dear women, how did we get to this stage? Which devil is inspiring our women aginst us? They have become Rebellious.

emmaodet:
Aye oooooooo, go back to nigeria keee
Ipada si ese aro?
My God!!!!!!!!!

emmaodet:


It is really saddening that our so called beautiful angels, african queens with african cultures are really not what we think they are.
Also, i noticed there is this Deep seated hatred for men by women but they quietly and silently mask it by been submissive and respectful when in nigeria but abroad you will see a full blow lion ready to pounce on you at any minute.
Oooohhhh nooooooooo
This is not what i envisage in our dear women, how did we get to this stage? Which devil is inspiring our women aginst us? They have become Rebellious.

LinLinGentle:
I wasn't a devil incarnate back in Naija abeg. I was just a normal young married professional who is not a perfect human being. She is not here to tell her own side of the story but there is a high probability that she has hurt me more overall if we were counting. Someone asked about my happiness earlier, but the truth is that I have never been happy since I married this lady. I have always slept with one eye open since day 1, cos I have never seen any hint of her love, loyalty or respect. It was merely a marriage of convenience and strategic planning. The only thing that have kept me going through the years and caused sentiments that led to bringing her abroad despite her toxic nature back in naija is my children, a decision I am now paying for dearly!

I am strongly looking into taking the red pill if I can successfully navigate this divorce/separation with minimal disruption to my life. I am one of the few guys I know who have never really felt that ''TRUE LOVE'' people talk about. Everyone I have ever dated including the one I married have always turned out to be using me as a part of their hustle.

Spanishmilf:
Another foolish talk

Shinny1:
Have you asked her for forgiveness regarding to all you did while in Nigeria??
If not ask her and make her to understand that you are now a changed person... send your family members to go and meet her people to abeg them to pled with their daughter to forgive you and stop all these... before they bundle you back to Nija o
Most importantly give God a chance both in your life and family...put everything in his care through prayer...your wife's heart is in God's hands and believe me you will enjoy her....
What about the Pastor she listens to while in Nigeria??

Martinez39s:
Well, he has so much hell and misery awaiting him in the hands of his diabolic wife and the gynocentric system over there. Remember, the wife clearly understands the system, and she has made it clear that she is out for blood. When she has given him enough hell and torment, and she has gotten her career up and running, she will demolish him in the divorce courts, and alienate him from his children. When a man gets divorced over there, he gives up half of his net-worth to his wife, pays child support, pays for his wife's divorce lawyers, gives up his house, etc. In many cases, the man pays alimony for the rest of his life.

The wilderness in Nigeria is better than the missile approaching him over there.

Eberechiru:


For your information am a guy and the other day I saw a post where a man beat up his wife and decided to post it online saying she can call the police you can imagine the height of insolence.

Just because in Africa it’s the norm to treat women as trash and if she speaks out they’ll say she being rude. His talking about the woman he married for Christ sake he must have seen something in her that he like its not like she proposed to him, he proposed to her and why would she in just month act up in such a horrible way... And as usual we are saying it’s all the woman’s fault typical black stupid mentality......

Fastestmanalive:
Just sign a prenup before marriage and avoid all this

Eberechiru:
For your information am a guy and the other day I saw a post where a man beat up his wife and decided to post it online saying she can call the police you can imagine the height of insolence.

Just because in Africa it’s the norm to treat women as trash and if she speaks out they’ll say she being rude. His talking about the woman he married for Christ sake he must have seen something in her that he like its not like she proposed to him, he proposed to her and why would she in just month act up in such a horrible way... And as usual we are saying it’s all the woman’s fault typical black stupid mentality......

Martinez39s:
Prenups are nothing but glorified toilet papers over there. A judge could toss them aside for whatever reason. If the wife claims she was made to sign the prenup under duress, she would be automatically believed even if there is no evidence to back up her claim, and the prenup would be annulled.

LinLinGentle:
I don't need you to feel sorry for me as the main purpose of the thread is to vent publicly while maintaining my privacy. Please read the thread carefully again and find where I said we're both young middle class professionals back in Naija and even while I was here alone, she was working in Naija. No one brought anyone from the gutters madam. Also, the only people cheering her on are her family and some "friends" of questionable character pushing her to her doom.

From your tone, you seem to be misdirecting some form of inbuilt aggression to men wrongly at me. You believe that all women are beautiful creatures and angels and only men are to blame when a marriage breaks down. That is your opinion and it is noted and highly respected.

Fastestmanalive:



Wow...

These are the kinda things that make me wanna stay in Nigeria

And how can you be made to sign a prenup under duress

emmaodet:


It is really saddening that our so called beautiful angels, african queens with african cultures are really not what we think they are.
Also, i noticed there is this Deep seated hatred for men by women but they quietly and silently mask it by been submissive and respectful when in nigeria but abroad you will see a full blow lion ready to pounce on you at any minute.
Oooohhhh nooooooooo
This is not what i envisage in our dear women, how did we get to this stage? Which devil is inspiring our women aginst us? They have become Rebellious.

Luckymama:
Look the simple truth is that if you treat your woman like a queen you will be the king of your house.

There are so many inconsistencies in your story abeg. With one mouth you admit to doing “gragra”. With the other you claim to have helped her with chores and child care. So in what form was your gragra? You were hitting her abi? Serves you right if so.

Martinez39s:
BULLCRAP.

Shouldn't you have asked this before jumping into conclusion? There is no contradiction in his story except you don't understand his use of the phrase "gra gra."

Luckymama:


So please enlighten me what did he mean by gragra?

Martinez39s:
Read all of LinLinGentle's posts on this thread, and you will understand what he meant by "gra gra"?

LinLinGentle:
You are right bro, I had plenty gra gra back in Naija and I think she has psychologically programmed herself before arrival to come take her pound of flesh here. There is complete breakdown of communication with her family as they are on her side, always encouraging her to call the police on me. All they say is ''No gree for am o, he think say na Naija he dey. Show am well well, you have rights there and the govt. would support you''

Martinez39s:
The divorce court system isn't bothered by that. As long as the woman claims she was made to sign the prenup under duress, the court will toss the prenup aside.

Luckymama:


Look the simple truth is that if you treat your woman like a queen you will be the king of your house. There are so many inconsistencies in your story abeg. With one mouth you admit to doing “gragra”. With the other you claim to have helped her with chores and child care. So in what form was your gragra? You were hitting her abi? Serves you right if so.

Martinez39s:
Prenups are nothing but glorified toilet papers over there. A judge could toss them aside for whatever reason. If the wife claims she was made to sign the prenup under duress, she would be automatically believed even if there is no evidence to back up her claim, and the prenup would be annulled.

Martinez39s:
The divorce court system isn't bothered by that. As long as the woman claims she was made to sign the prenup under duress, the court will toss the prenup aside.