Hello Nairalanders,


I been having issue with my relationship lately.

When a lady says its the responsibility of a Man to show Love first as in Show love in full in a relationship before he can be entitled to that same LOVE.


What those this really mean?


I need experienced advise.

Its a balanced world you know, love in any relationship should be shared responsibility.

janedonez:
Its a balanced world you know, love in any relationship should be shared responsibility.

She demand its a man sole responsibility to LOVE before anything can follow.


I have never feel so confused before.

Woman

dan2090:


She demand its a man sole responsibility to LOVE before anything can follow.


I have never feel so confused before.

Yes you must love first because not loving a woman first before she express herself will lead to a mess in that relationship. This saying is deep.

inforesource:

Yes you must love first because not loving a woman first before she express herself will lead to a mess in that relationship. This saying is deep.

Please! How can I achieve this, I have tried in everyway I know .

Yes, it's true.

Give her something to love and value about you first before you start to withdraw to pursue your life.

A man should be focused on his goals in life with his woman as support and not priority.

Be careful not to confuse pursuing with chasing a woman o

Limit communication but don't feel bad for initiating contact during the first phase.

Just have it in mind that you must slow down at some point.

dan2090:
Hello Nairalanders,


I been having issue with my relationship lately.

When a lady says its the responsibility of a Man to show Love first as in Show love in full in a relationship before he can be entitled to that same LOVE.


What those this really mean?


I need experienced advise.

For a guy to toast a lady, he miyst have liked her and that will trigger love and so he wants to get closer to her and explore love

It's your display of love that will ignite her own love then as the relationship blossoms, herive for you becomes the oil in the wheel

So men loves first and women follow up

Unless you just want a one stand and forget about her after that

You're about to get twisted chai i don laugh tired for here my ex used the same logic thank God i have been wise in relationship then.

dan2090:


Please! How can I achieve this, I have tried in everyway I know .

You don't try to love, it flows naturally. If you are struggling with this, I will advise that you try to take a break. Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe your growing up experiences may also be a factor. But whatever the case is, just take a break.

inforesource:

You don't try to love, it flows naturally. If you are struggling with this, I will advise that you try to take a break. Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe your growing up experiences may also be a factor. But whatever the case is, just take a break.

Thanks