babythug:
The set percentage can only be determined by the husband’s income And how generous he chooses to be.

Some husbands foot all the family expenditure and will still give a stipend for mrs as her pocket money to cover personal /female type expenses

matrix199:
When you have the right woman, trust me, she'll be the one paying you your own salary as pension when the time comes. Men are not as prudent, frugal as women. Women have better saving habit than men. If you want to accomplish a lot in life, like own properties, give your 'good wife' half of what you earn, and see what she'll make of it, from personal experience.

matrix199:
[s]When you have the right woman, trust me, she'll be the one paying you your own salary as pension when the time comes. Men are not as prudent, frugal as women. Women have better saving habit than men. If you want to accomplish a lot in life, like own properties, give your 'good wife' half of what you earn, and see what she'll make of it, from personal experience. [/s]

nonslike:
Dear NL,
Please these issues of paying wife salary after you have paid for most of the expenses for running the household etc .
How much percentage of your salary should go to your wife as salary even after you have opened a business for her .
Please women and men can give their opinions thanks

klenton:
am not really understanding, so what will my wife be using her money for??

guyz let me tell you forget all these things you read online, women has a way to follow them especially when it comes to money.

am married and my wife is one of the best things to ever happen to me, when i count my blessings i count her twice, i provide everything in the house even Maggi and also placed her on monthly salary but do you my wife started NYSC this year and earning good money at her place of primary assignment including her allawee, so i intentionally didnt pay her last month's salary as i wanted to know what she will be doing with her money if i keep paying her salary, i thought she is going to save the money and use it for something tangible, lo and behold she told me that she has already spent the money by dashing it to her siblings without even informing me.

while she was dashing out her money she already asked me for her salary, so that means her money is only used for anything she wants while my own money is for upkeeps.

like seriously dont i have siblings too, so if i dash out my own money what are we going to eat, abi na only her get monopoly of dashing money out

ofcourse i let her know straight away she can't do that in my house, for the meantime i have suspended all the goodies i give her untill it equals that amount she gave out.

anyways been a good woman she is remorseful and am about to let go

Plead:
I want to understand this perfectly...
You foot all the bills/expenses in the house
Opened a business for your wife and still want to give her monthly salary
What is she doing with the profits she’s making from the business?
I thought you’re a random troll at first but after checking your registration date I’d like to mind my business...

Rubbish.

babythug:
The set percentage can only be determined by the husband’s income And how generous he chooses to be.

Some husbands foot all the family expenditure and will still give a stipend for Mrs as her pocket money to cover personal /female type expenses

Acidosis:


If you still need to pay your wife monthly salary after setting up a business for her, then it's time to shut down that business permanently and allow her focus on you and your kids.

If the business is not profitable enough to settle her upkeep, then close the door of that business.

The goal of business is to make profit not to keep you "busy" or give people the impression that your wife is a "career woman." If you don't stop the common practice, it may end in tears.

nonslike:


If the man earns 500k monthly and pays about 18-20% tax
loan stands at about 40%
what should be the wife salary ?

nonslike:

Bros,
Please this half you give what does the other half used for ? Please I am a learner and I want to learn from the elders .

klenton:
am not really understanding, so what will my wife be using her money for??

guyz let me tell you forget all these things you read online, women has a way to follow them especially when it comes to money.

am married and my wife is one of the best things to ever happen to me, when i count my blessings i count her twice, i provide everything in the house even Maggi and also placed her on monthly salary but do you my wife started NYSC this year and earning good money at her place of primary assignment including her allawee, so i intentionally didnt pay her last month's salary as i wanted to know what she will be doing with her money if i keep paying her salary, i thought she is going to save the money and use it for something tangible, lo and behold she told me that she has already spent the money by dashing it to her siblings without even informing me.

while she was dashing out her money she already asked me for her salary, so that means her money is only used for anything she wants while my own money is for upkeeps.

like seriously dont i have siblings too, so if i dash out my own money what are we going to eat, abi na only her get monopoly of dashing money out

ofcourse i let her know straight away she can't do that in my house, for the meantime i have suspended all the goodies i give her untill it equals that amount she gave out.

anyways been a good woman she is remorseful and am about to let go

nneejima:
Mamatwiny, please ma'am what's your plan about house help issue, to get one that goes to school or the one that you will pay?

nonslike:
Dear NL,
Please these issues of paying wife salary after you have paid for most of the expenses for running the household etc .
How much percentage of your salary should go to your wife as salary even after you have opened a business for her .
Please women and men can give their opinions thanks

mamatwiny:


We were looking for one that goes to school, but of a truth, I am tired of changing househelps cos you don't know the fault that the next one you will bring will have. My hubby told her that she won't be travelling for Christmas, that if she wants to travel, the she will go and never come back. She told my hubby that the guy wants to marry her, that he is serious and that she is in love with him but that instead of it causing problem, that she won't travel. She has been told to make up her mind. We are supposed to enrol her in a catering institute now that my boy has started school and it is expensive, I won't want to waste money if she has no plans to stay. Till now, she doesn't know the guy is deceiving her to get to her pants.
My boy still hates her. She went to pick him from school and he refuses to go. The teachers thought that he likes school so much, but I told my hubby that he simply does not like her .

nneejima:

Am thinking of getting the one that goes to school to stop all dz nanny stories. I employed the one that comes in the morning and leave in evening and that was the genesis of my problem. I employed a live in nanny but the way things are, it's like she is the one that employed me. I don't know what else to do. Am seriously searching for someone now

mamatwiny:


Hahaha. I can't try those ones that come in the morning and leave in the evening. They can steal for Africa. If your children have all started school , I think getting someone that goes to school will be ok. I have not tried this, it might have its own disadvantage.

nonslike:
Dear NL,
Please these issues of paying wife salary after you have paid for most of the expenses for running the household etc .
How much percentage of your salary should go to your wife as salary even after you have opened a business for her .
Please women and men can give their opinions thanks