MelaninSkinGirl:


So you are blaming the woman for developing feelings for a guy that claimed to love them ?

I am done with relationships if these are the calibre of men we have out there. I would rather be single with my heart protected than have to deal with messiness from the male sex. Thank you.

Nope... rather i am blaming the women who catch feelings for the guys they cheat with. You said somewhere on this thread about the different treatments man & women get when they cheat on their spouses in marriage. I only wanted u to see reason from a clear point and not bias because ir a lady. Women attach too much emotions to sex hence when they eventually do cheat be rest assured she has no feelings for u as a husband rather her emotions are all tied to the guy she's recently fvcking. Unlike men that can separate the two. Fvck any random chick and still treasure wifey.. I know its hard to understand but its just how we are. And i don't encourage infidelity from any partner. I'm only showing u the difference between us..
And don't give up on relationships just yet.. ur Knight in shining armor has come

Arrogantbro:
Her sister sent me the guy's picture and his name. All she could say it the guy is her elder sis ex..

I will advise still meet her and get more from her. I believe after much pressure from you, she will open up, then you can take your decision from there. I believe she can never open up on WhatsApp.

Babyforever:
Since you said nobody is perfect find a lady and make her perfect that way you both will grow together......I hope it helps

Now i know you don't have sense. A reasonable person will understand me.

Nobody is perfect, i can't even make a woman perfect there must be flaw in every relationship no matter what.

I rest my case.

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Victor is a weak man. He could have just block her instead of saying "don't text me again".





In a nutshell, he will go back to the girl

fabuloz1:

I will advise still meet her and get more from her. I believe after much pressure from you, she will open up, then you can take your decision from there. I believe she can never open up on WhatsApp.

I am not in the country at the moment and no time for reviewing the decision. I can't take her back

Preshieben:
See how she's begging you I wouldn't beg any guy like this Not in this life

I trust if we were dating, you would beg me die

baba you better japa now or you would regret it later. you discovered she was cheating and even her very own sister told you that. Think of it before her sister broke the news to you, she must have talked to her sister (ur gf) but she refused. If you accept that girl back,she would be the one to break up with you later.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Patriarchal society same as in Marriage, a husband cheats, the wife is blamed, told to pray and fast to get her marriage back. If the wife cheats, the husband is a saint (eventhough he too has cheated), the wife is blamed, the marriage is over and she is banished from society. Double standards society full of hypocrites.

feminist, una don come, welcome o

Truetalk3139:


feminist, una don come, welcome o

I am a feminist because I am pointing out how unfair Nigeria is to women? You will have daughters one day, they will be subject to this patriarchal society that you are helping to maintain.

My brother was like men, happy with the patriarchy, now he has a daughter and is a supporter of women. Take the red pill and wake up.

She is really missing the money u always spend on her. I never date woman wey beg like this. The ladies i date have too much ego in them. Arrogantbro abeg give me scope on how u make them beg

Babyforever:
Please give her another chance Victor it's not easy out here especially now that the whole world is crumbling where you want her to run to ? If not your place please consider your decisions and give her a second chance i don't think she's strong enough to handle the trauma this will put her to please victor

She should run to her Family house!!
Her Daddy is the best man to comfort her!!

Reading your previous thread.. All i can say is it's obvious you were the "god fearing husband to be" option girls like this one are very deadly cos they master the act of manipulation don't be surprised by her pleading it's only because she didn't meet a guy that equals or surpass Wat she feels can secure her future.. All these didn't start today you saw the signs and choose to ignore it.


Personally, the so called "relationship" am in now is really just an experience. Hell will freeze over ...before i can even dream of marrying her as I have already established that she has other guys and is willing and open to meet more.. Let's not get into her character that's another story for another day...

You will be fine time will heal you

Arrogantbro:
I am not in the country at the moment and no time for reviewing the decision. I can't take her back

Arrogantbro:
I never wanted to believe my now ex girlfriend was a cheat even after receiving numerous advice from nairalanders here sometime ago in my other thread. I allowed the relationship to continued until yesterday due to the love I had for her.
Yesterday, her younger sister broke the news to me that her sister is cheating on me with a guy from her state. Before this happened, I have been seeing the red flags. Few days ago on my birthday, she posted my picture on whatsapp with the caption "friends become bestie". I was startled because I never knew I was my girlfriend's bestie. Damn, some girls are evil hearted. Secondly, she deleted the birthday post before 5pm, another red flag.
I have nothing to do with her anymore, I have officially broke up with her. I'm a free man now. Relationship is overrated, no Naija girl deserves to be trusted

Give her another chance. With your lay down rules. We are all sinners

ehmmy11:
Reading your previous thread.. All i can say is it's obvious you were the "god fearing husband to be" option girls like this one are very deadly cos they master the act of manipulation don't be surprised by her pleading it's only because she didn't meet a guy that equals or surpass Wat she feels can secure her future.. All these didn't start today you saw the signs and choose to ignore it.


Personally, the so called "relationship" am in now is really just an experience. Hell will freeze over ...before i can even dream of marrying her as I have already established that she has other guys and is willing and open to meet more.. Let's not get into her character that's another story for another day...

You will be fine time will heal you

Thank you ehmmy11, All I need now is to spend time alone and focus more on my life goals and family

sweettease:
Bestie! Hhahahahahaah. It is interesting how she can still say all those sweet things to you after an action that kinda depicts you as a side piece. Good for you that you decided to brace up and face reality.
A lot of people do not deserve trust, men and women. I've been burnt worse than this so stop making it a gender thing.

Please what is the meaning of bestie ?

Arrogantbro:
Thank you ehmmy11, All I need now is to spend time alone and focus more on my life goals and family

Most of these girls want to eat their cake and have it
They lack contentment and you being distant is not gonna help, she has desires you can't all but fulfil for her age,
She needs to explore, try stuffz out... And sorry for you to hear this... No matter how much you send her it won't be enough
She's at her hoeing stage

Don't ever make the mistake of taking her back, she'll plead, swear, beg, ask friends to beg you, keep denying until you have concrete proof
I've been there

There will be this temptation to take her back, it's not worth it... Better cut her off from contacting you, that's the fastest way to move on
Don't ever forgive a cheating gal except you just want to chop and comot... If she cheats once... She will again and get smarter.. It will be harder for you to catch her the second time

I know it's not easy especially if you love her, but it's best to move on

Cioccolata:
She could be typing all this and be laughing.

You are wise

Guy forgive her and settle things amicably, if one thing to sin and the other to be apologetic, she has learnt her lesson and will not try such nonsense again. Set the rules and you will see her change.

JohnnyPalmer:


Most of these girls want to eat their cake and have it
They lack contentment and you being distant is not gonna help, she has desires you can't all but fulfil for her age,
She needs to explore, try stuffz out... And sorry for you to hear this... No matter how much you send her it won't be enough
She's at her hoeing stage

Don't ever make the mistake of taking her back, she'll plead, swear, beg, ask friends to beg you, keep denying until you have concrete proof
I've been there

There will be this temptation to take her back, it's not worth it... Better cut her off from contacting you, that's the fastest way to move on
Don't ever forgive a cheating gal except you just want to chop and comot... If she cheats once... She will again and get smarter.. It will be harder for you to catch her the second time

I know it's not easy especially if you love her, but it's best to move on

Thanks for this. She has even done worse things in the past but I forgave her. I just can't allow her into my life again. I wish her well

As a woman, let me tell you few things that happens most of the time looking at this situation.

- you will never see her cheat on you again because she will be smarter about this
- she will not change, those beggings are just to guilt trip you into forgiving her.
- Women prefer being the ones to break up, not the other way round so get ready to have it the other way
- she is begging to come back because she might be gaining materially from you while someone else is washing her plate on your behalf (you said you're not in the country)

Tenkyu

Frustrated feminists and mascunists or whatever them call una, don't mention me abeg make the god of amotekùn no strike you

After all said and done, you go still forgive am las las

KristaPretty:
As a woman, let me tell you few things that happens most of the time looking at this situation.

- you will never see her cheat on you again because she will be smarter about this
- she will not change, those beggings are just to guilt trip you into forgiving her.
- Women prefer being the ones to break up, not the other way round so get ready to have it the other way
- she is begging to come back because she might be gaining materially from you while someone else is washing her plate on your behalf (you said you're not in the country)

Tenkyu

Frustrated feminists and mascunists or whatever them call una, don't mention me abeg make the god of amotekùn no strike you

Thanks for pointing this out. I have no intention of taking her back

Relationship is not a must thing. If you know you cannot stay, my brother pack and go. It is even better for your dear.

sweettease:
Bestie! Hhahahahahaah. It is interesting how she can still say all those sweet things to you after an action that kinda depicts you as a side piece. Good for you that you decided to brace up and face reality.
A lot of people do not deserve trust, men and women. I've been burnt worse than this so stop making it a gender thing.

hi good evening please Pm me thanks

Babyforever:
She didn't cheat on you Victor don't make this a complex issue i don't think she's finding it funny at the moment please i know you're the man and you're in charge please reconsider those hurtful decisions you made please.......Victor

hi good neveing please Pm thanks

Babyforever:
You have no right to break up with her.....How dare you bring up this silly thin an excuse after wasting her time ? it doesn't count except you're trying to win a gun fight with a bunch of knives....I think it's best if you take down this thread you lack evidence

shut your dirty trap!! Imagine I posted ur pic on my status and said friend turned bestie?? My own gf ! I called u that? How would u feel ?

Arrogantbro:
I never wanted to believe my now ex girlfriend was a cheat even after receiving numerous advice from nairalanders here sometime ago in my other thread. I allowed the relationship to continued until yesterday due to the love I had for her.
Yesterday, her younger sister broke the news to me that her sister is cheating on me with a guy from her state. Before this happened, I have been seeing the red flags. Few days ago on my birthday, she posted my picture on whatsapp with the caption "friends become bestie". I was startled because I never knew I was my girlfriend's bestie. Damn, some girls are evil hearted. Secondly, she deleted the birthday post before 5pm, another red flag.
I have nothing to do with her anymore, I have officially broke up with her. I'm a free man now. Relationship is overrated, no Naija girl deserves to be trusted

Is it me or did anyone notice that she either Googled those "take me back" message or she has the app?

Lalasticlalabos:
Nairalanders, let us bet. This guy will go back to her & in future,the girl will officially breakup with him without looking back.
Bro,stop deceiving yourself, from what I'm seeing,you are going back

I would have loved to place a bet, but I know his is weak and would soon return to her. Give him two weeks.

Arrogantbro don't listen to babyforever. Last last fowl yansh open!! Why did she call her bf! A friend turned bestie?id tell u!!! So that the guy she's cheating on Arrogantbro with wont suspect a thing !!

armylord:
Arrogantbro don't listen to Last last fowl yansh open!! Why did she call her bf! A friend turned bestie?id tell u!!! So that the guy she's cheating on Arrogantbro with wont suspect a thing !!

Get the fvck off my mention you goofyass modafuka

Babyforever:
Get the fvck off my mention you goofyass modafuka

see this fugly asswipe!! Wish I could spit on that face of urs! Low-key hoe!