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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 8:33pm On May 18, 2020 |
Fadefemi:pastors that did not bring up their children well will still become wayward. Whether he be holier than though or pope deputy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by frozen70(f): 9:03pm On May 18, 2020 |
star4ever: If you guys can take him to psychiatric hospital, there is a drug they will give him that will calm his mental state down Take your mum away from the house because of fear of killing her Whatever property he can sell, you guys should sell it and he will have nothing to sell Lastly, if he continues, he will definitely commit a crime that will take him to jail 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by GeniusVincent(m): 10:03pm On May 18, 2020 |
E be like say u dey craze ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by janettee(f): 10:05pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: Oh please, shut up. 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by AhoadaRivers: 10:05pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: Close your mouth, I've seen strict disciplinarian parents with terrible kids that ended up in jail. It's not all black or white. There are several factors, co-factors involved in having bad kids. 9 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by eleko1: 10:07pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by somtoto(m): 10:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
You dont force one to quit drugs.its more of a self choice.i think wat you guys should do is to sit him down and talk to him,make him see reasons why its unhealthy for him.after that,the solutions you stated can be applied. 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by mordred44: 10:09pm On May 18, 2020 |
Drug abuse and masturbation na lyk 5&6 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by cavendishbaba(m): 10:09pm On May 18, 2020 |
Psychiatric hospitals in Nigeria are scam..Fly him abroad for proper treatment, though the treatment may take a while, but there is a better chance of him recovering. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Mannnn(m): 10:09pm On May 18, 2020 |
Lock him up in a room for up to a year |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Eberex(m): 10:09pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: I disagree. Its not every time something bad happens that you seek solace in attributing it to parents past deeds. I'm sure you won't say the same if he was living a decent life. He made a choice to live in this way, that was his decision and has nothing to do with any curse. I'm sure he is one of those who attended boarding schools or boys only school. This is an example of influence from bad friends he made at his young stage in life. This is an addiction. I have someone who is like him but not as worse as this case. But they both share similar behavior in terms of not keeping to one job. Inconsistency follows their pattern and for me, the best is to take them into a church and let them work there. Somewhere they can be sober and also listen to God's word. 11 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by lebron7(m): 10:10pm On May 18, 2020 |
What drug does he abuse? Star4ever 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by rastaLivity: 10:10pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare:the most stupid post so far this year. There's alot of mono-carbon in your brain 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by addexx: 10:10pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: Sharap ![]() Its like there's cold catarrh in your brain Maybe your parents did something wrong too , to end up with an organism that thinks like an amoeba , that is if you can even find it's brain. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Ayo081(m): 10:11pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare:And you're the judge ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by mastermaestro(m): 10:11pm On May 18, 2020 |
The most effective cure for bad habits is don't learn it. Very easy to pick, and many a time impossible to let go. It sticks and sticks until it ruins its carrier. 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by GamalNasser: 10:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
star4ever: This looks like a lost cause to me, I don't think he will ever improve after being like that for so long 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by koffsman(m): 10:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
Truly there is spiritual battle, but If you are Knowledgeable enough u would know sometimes it's ain't the Parent fault, they might have done everything possible to make him live a good life, but unknown enemies will always find ways to spoil a sweet home, wats the probability that you are a good human, because as a good Christian you are not to judge others but encourage them. So stop concluding and say reasonable things that can help this family purge this shame, instead of you typing and saying rubbish. Pray you don't experience such nigga adontcare: |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 10:15pm On May 18, 2020 |
To be frank. Most of them don't end well. God is not at fault here. He already told us in his holy book not to drink alcohol because it's a sin, but some people who try to find excuse to sin always quote 1st Tim verse that talked about drinking wine. Jail him forever to avoid public shame. And do pay him visits at regular intervals. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by EricSmallz(m): 10:15pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: You are a fool. A very big fool. This is even beyond foolishness. Anybody can have any type of a child. The guy chose his life. Are you not less foolish enough to know that the OP and the person in question are siblings?. Some children of drug dealers might end up being the best in the community, while the most influencial pastor or imam around could begat the worst thug around. Why ain't you suffering from the shit your parents did? Everybody has his or her destiny. Don't ruin your life with the stupid mindset of yours. And you even paraphrased the Bible, I go slap you o 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Hezmatosky: 10:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
But I wonder why you chose to be bothered by your brother's state of health? At that age? Even after you have tried all these? Simple and short, leave him alone. It might be his calling 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Darlingboy4sure(m): 10:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
OP I guess it started slowly, and gradually it graduated to this. The truth is, everything negative or positive activity that we engage in (especially negative) has a very strong spiritual force behind it, that if not checked in time, becomes an ADDICTION! At this point, u only need the grace of God omnipotent, and a resolute heart to change it. Never give up anyway. Hope is always the last to die. He may still come good someday. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 10:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Sterope(f): 10:16pm On May 18, 2020 |
Ode! adontcare: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Kobicove(m): 10:17pm On May 18, 2020 |
star4ever: Every family has its black sheep...he's your family's black sheep and he's also a lost cause from the looks of it. Just write him off and move on with your life! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Myhusband(m): 10:17pm On May 18, 2020 |
if that dude don't die, no peace whatsoever in your house no be lie, hard drugs go beyond spiritual and psychological I would have advise you people to lure him to North Korea, one bullet will save the stress 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by elektra(f): 10:17pm On May 18, 2020 |
adontcare: Wow, we are addressing drugs madness this one brought her own religious madness. Madam, let us finish with this one first, we will tell you which hospital to get your own treatment. 13 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by GeneralPula: 10:18pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by elektra(f): 10:18pm On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by sanniabiola(m): 10:18pm On May 18, 2020 |
He should surrender all to the mighty God who knows him before he was born Jeremiah 1-5. Take in annoting oil daily the Bible says (touch not my prophet and do him no harm) after askin God for forgiveness. You will testify. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Sterope(f): 10:19pm On May 18, 2020 |
They don't need to sell any property because of him. It is the buyer's fault if they don't carry out due diligence frozen70: |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Sterope(f): 10:19pm On May 18, 2020 |
God is punishing the parents and God will also punish him also. Does that even sound right at all? Ebere044: |
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