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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Emary(f): 1:25am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: Your statement is extremely insensitive. John 9:2-3: "And his disciples asked him, 'Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?' Jesus answered, 'It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him.' As a parent, one can only do one's best and leave the rest. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by 2pacamarushakur(m): 1:26am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever:No matter what the situation might turn out to be please never give up on your brother ok. He is coming out clean out of this addiction. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by OsuIgboIpob: 1:35am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever:Sometimes, you people are the architects of your own woes. Someone beats your mother up and has been jailed several times... Who usually bail him up? You people should continue with your fuckēry of forcing yourself to change him until one day, HE WILL BEAT YOUR MOTHER TO DEATH and then, you'll all know when to stop. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by star4ever: 1:36am On May 19, 2020 |
2pacamarushakur: Thank you |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by OsuIgboIpob: 1:37am On May 19, 2020 |
Fabulouzjoseph:How old are you? Rubbish! |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Risingsunn: 1:38am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth. And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind? Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him. John 9:1-3 KJV https://bible.com/bible/1/jhn.9.1-3.KJV Please stop quoting bible that you do not have an understanding of. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by OsuIgboIpob: 1:41am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:The most stupîd post of the year... VERY BRAINLESS. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by star4ever: 1:41am On May 19, 2020 |
OsuIgboIpob: so what's your contribution to the issue apart from condemnation? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 1:41am On May 19, 2020 |
Chai. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 1:43am On May 19, 2020 |
OsuIgboIpob:what has my age got to do with this? |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by shadeyinka(m): 1:44am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:No sir. If you succeed in bringing up your child to be godly, it is God's grace. Sometimes a child is demonized and until such is delivered, the forces progressively drive him towards destruction. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 1:49am On May 19, 2020 |
Amanee: inhumanity and nigeria |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by deedondavi(m): 1:51am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: you are unreasonable |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Xyzee: 1:54am On May 19, 2020 |
How many uncles do you have in the village? |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Ahmed0336(m): 1:55am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever: When next he commit an offense, allow him to spends years in jail. That's all I can advice.. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Onebyonedead: 1:57am On May 19, 2020 |
LadySarah: When your child starts to slap you I will remind you You are so annoying I hate you |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by star4ever: 1:58am On May 19, 2020 |
Xyzee: Two |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by aliyuabbaashiru(m): 2:19am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever:exactly the problem. When you go for therapy one of the first thing they tell you is your willingness to leave the habit. If you're forced, it wont work. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 2:24am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:
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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Tchange1(m): 2:50am On May 19, 2020 |
You need to call the Calvary "JESUS" |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by 9ja083: 2:58am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:I hope u have not killed your parents over the mistake u committed and refused to accept? Ppl like u abandon their parents over irrelevant issues simply because of religion or "pastor said" Please u need a psychologist! 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by clemmonce(m): 2:59am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:You are fool for bringing God into flimsy discussion like this. You are are one of the reason people blasphame against God. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by aspiring44: 2:59am On May 19, 2020 |
When addiction becomes habitual is difficult to tame or control. But by the Power of the Most High it can be done. When the Will of God is upon our lives , the rest is story. May the Lord rehabilitate him and put him in a better position. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Shinny1: 2:59am On May 19, 2020 |
Disowning him won't solve any issue cos he will still be around the environment But I think you people should take him to psychiatric hospital for the last time and use prayer to back it up and when he comes out... please change his environment because it also affects him If you have an uncle or someone he listens to the person should always talk senses into him...this won't be easy but give it a try |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by jujunaty(m): 3:09am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:chai.. see another confirmed idiot on nairaland so the OP its another woman that trained him ba? or the parents were just senseless when training this his brother... see ehn miss idiot of nairaland, if u dont have what to say from that gutter you call a mouth, kindly shut up and let people with brains speak. Because from all uve said, na cobwebs and kitchen stool dey inside your head, not a brain. Thank you as you stupidly shut up. Yours sincerely, a fellow nairalander |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by othenok(f): 3:12am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever: Hi dear, from the little I can deduce, your brother had a personality disorder which gradually degenerated into drug addiction. Sadly a lot of hard drug has a way of eating into the addicts brain making them never to be the same again. I can't imagine the pain and trauma he has put your family through but he needs an intervention. From psychiatric help combined with follow-up Psychotherapy. You people made a few mistakes by kinda of enabling him by getting him a job etc. For now, all he needs is to get drug free first, then gradually understand the consequences of his actions. Therapy can take up to one full year before you can push him back into the society. Be patient with him too. Embracing hard drug for some people is as result of poor coping mechanism. In the bid to flee from reality, take to drug use. So my dear, patience is very key. Don't give up on him yet cos no creature of God is worthless. Pray for him, ask God to direct you to the right hospital. My problem with State Mental Institutions is their archaic approach to mental illness. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by grandstar(m): 3:25am On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: The prophet Samuel did what was right in the sight of Jehovah and yet his 2 sons acted treacherously as priests. You may give your child the best training and he may still lose his way. The biggest problem usually is the period Apostle Paul called the "bloom of youth" when person won enjoy life- party, sex, and so on. Your hormones are on fire. It is a pity he ended up this way but I am certain it has nothing to do with parental upbringing. They were just unfortunate (Read Eccl 9:11) 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by grandstar(m): 3:32am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever: Not so. I read a very lengthy article about local drug therapy. There's this guy who runs a center where they just dump the addict into a room for days with zero access to drugs. . It is a death sentence but most of his clients come out better. In the article, there was this lady who was addicted to hard drugs but was forced to change. What made her change? A lady drug addict mistakenly overdosed and died. The drug dealers were petrified having a dead body on their hand and decided to break up her bones and put the body in a sack. Thereafter, they dumped the body on a rubbish mound where pigs later feasted on it. The dead woman was an only child. When the lady saw this, she knew she had to change or she'd end up like that- and change she did. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by grandstar(m): 3:33am On May 19, 2020 |
Ningen: Are you a parent? |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Onliie(m): 3:59am On May 19, 2020 |
star4ever:Call this number +234 803 572 4526. What you need is deliverance. You are in bondage of a strong enemy |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by favour32(m): 4:17am On May 19, 2020 |
Treat him,back him up spiritually or whatever your family believe and finally change his environment for good. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by kingthreat(m): 4:19am On May 19, 2020 |
You may need to try private rehabilitations like CADAM in Lagos. Google them. They have a 1 year program. God help you all. You should have stated the drugs he takes. |
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