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The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Obierika(m): 6:39am On May 19, 2020 |
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income. Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon! 836 Likes 58 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Olude193: 6:41am On May 19, 2020 |
Obierika: Loooool Wetin happen 34 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Davash222(m): 6:48am On May 19, 2020 |
That's not the biggest mistake.. The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl. 607 Likes 49 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Anyahuruagu: 6:54am On May 19, 2020 |
The worst mistake is to marry entitled wife with zero contributions.. Living Hell. She may be working but she no dey contribute. Looking for a go getter who is ready to wave poverty bye bye as am waving it not a mediocre whose taste buds doesn't taste investment and savings. 552 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Oluromantic: 6:55am On May 19, 2020 |
You're correct op. She doesn't have to come from a rich home but should have good earnings to support her man That belief of ...I'm a woman, my office is my husband's kitchen... Is archaic. But funny enough, some girls are still in that dream land. 175 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ellapius(f): 7:33am On May 19, 2020 |
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point modified..... I have had to face so many hateful words from guys here becos I said all this. some have called me names from prostitute to pain heartbroken lady. it so bad to see how weak men transfer their frustration on ladies out there. I have e come to realize that many guys want smart ladies for a wife but don't have the balls to live with them. 300 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 7:34am On May 19, 2020 |
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage ![]() Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married. Being single affords you the luxury of: -developing new skills -saving a chunk of what you earn -it affords you the opportunity to travel more. -you will age slower(due to less stress) Etc The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married. We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them. ![]() guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!! Marriage benefits Women not men!! Hoard your ring!! ![]() 792 Likes 93 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by MJBOLT: 7:47am On May 19, 2020 |
i just hope you wont get married to a working class lady with bad character ![]() 348 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 7:48am On May 19, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is to marry any woman at all. As a man, can you tell me exactly what you benefit from marriage that you can't benefit as a single guy. Tell me. 249 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 7:50am On May 19, 2020 |
Naija246: My nigga ![]() ![]() 172 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 7:55am On May 19, 2020 |
ellapius: How can YOU possibly marry him when he's not ready to marry you? ![]() 368 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 7:55am On May 19, 2020 |
bro I'm just spilling red pill truths for my brother's oo ![]() I hope they listen. We men should seriously start questioning alot of thing's the society implicitly expects from us. Marriage restricts a man's potential and freedom. Have you ever noticed that the most productive time in a man's life is when he is still single. Look at great inventor's from Nikola Tesla to Faraday, they all peaked when single. pDudd: 205 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 7:56am On May 19, 2020 |
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts. On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts. These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!! 97 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:00am On May 19, 2020 |
Naija246: That's right bro. You ain't lying. All women bring to the table these days is an expired pussy or a kid or kids from her baby daddy. They are broke, lack zero skills, and from poor semovita backgrounds. If she isn't Beyonce or Rihanna that can add value to my life, then let her carry her expired kpekus and baggage and commot from my front. Empty barrels. Man must wise now. Days of dulling are over. 181 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:01am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Studies carried out and published by you ![]() 290 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:04am On May 19, 2020 |
pDudd:Married men and mortality A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life? Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men. Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all. Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer. https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health 47 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:09am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: And yet you're the ones most desperate to marry. 148 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:10am On May 19, 2020 |
Nnaabros: Because of societal pressures sir. If you leave women alone, I am sure they will be happy to maintain their singlehood status. 74 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 8:13am On May 19, 2020 |
most of these studies are propaganda in disguise. in the real world, married men are more depressed, work more and are generally unhappy. They are also easier to manipulate by employers since they have more to loose if they don't bring home the bacon. A singles man's needs aren't much so you can't really manipulate him to work himself to death contrast that with a father with 3 kids and a wife to feed, such men will jump through hoops just to provide for their family. PragerU published a video four years ago that was obviously propaganda encouraging men to marry, the backlash they got wasn't funny at all. ![]() Men are wising up!! Especially men from the western world https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY MelaninSkinGirl: 82 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Headlesschicken(m): 8:14am On May 19, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:14am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Not true. Most women feel miserable, lonely and incomplete without a husband, crying 'God when' everywhere. They see marriage as a bed of roses, because they have no wedding and marriage bills and expenses to worry about. Most men just want to live a free fun life without the burdens of marriage. Even many married men still have extramarital adventures. 168 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Olawrites: 8:17am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: C u 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:17am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Result is inconclusive. 24 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Helios85447(m): 8:19am On May 19, 2020 |
ellapius:lol ur dp said it all .....lol 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Helios85447(m): 8:23am On May 19, 2020 |
would rather go and marry a Northern virgin lady ......preferable Fulani better still make she no even get work self or wise at all that will be much better.... do mistake go marry otherwise lol sorry is ur name...some working ladies self are just worst dey can bleep their boss or one fine work co- worker behind ur back...northern ladies anytime any day 31 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 8:33am On May 19, 2020 |
Hey, I showed you the science, you decide what you want to do with your lives. It's a free universe. But believe me you, there is nothing sadder than a man who is 50something running around and sleeping with everything that moves. He thinks these pretty young girls love him, but he doesn't know they are in it for his wallet. It's a sad life. 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Helios85447(m): 8:39am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:at least they are in it for his wallet and he is having his fun driving them like okada on the bed so its a win win ......just live a happy life ooo but that is why pple prefer to do baby mama stuff this generation don spoil no be small 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Naija246: 8:51am On May 19, 2020 |
oh you mean propaganda science ![]() MelaninSkinGirl: 38 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Oluromantic: 8:56am On May 19, 2020 |
ellapius:It's not a counter argument case. Make yourself attractable enough for marriage. This counter thought reduces ur attractiveness o 12 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Oluromantic: 8:58am On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:Lol. You're funny. You need to stop this thinking b fore marriage as soon as possible. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 9:10am On May 19, 2020 |
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income. The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman. Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being. The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife. Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me. 71 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 9:12am On May 19, 2020 |
Considering all the begging threads on Nairaland from married people asking for money to feed their families, it's obvious Nigerians are getting married with little to no money or savings, and I'm very baffled by this!!!! You should be telling both males and females to each have a stable job/source of income and sufficient savings before getting married!!!! 114 Likes 14 Shares |
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