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Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Realmenlovetruly(m): 10:42am On May 19, 2020 |
Hey little girl The same way you feel now, is the same way other guys that you are ignoring feel I think its high time everyone learn to show love to everybody either you like him/her or not 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 10:42am On May 19, 2020 |
Travel to Enugu to meet him since you want to display foolish love. Assuming you are my sister I will not only scold you for this stupid act but also ban you from associating with guys because you are not mature to handle relationship. That dude is using reverse psychology for you and you are here disturbing yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by BeautyUdoka(f): 10:48am On May 19, 2020 |
I think you should continue texting him. He might speak up at some point, maybe something's disturbing him |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 10:54am On May 19, 2020 |
Well one thing is certain, If someone treats you like this because you guys are far apart, then his or her presence can't be trusted. I hope you decode the message and think right. |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by ABLESOFT2(m): 10:55am On May 19, 2020 |
Try Giving Him Space.,maybe A Week Or Two.He May Call U |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 11:12am On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza:Will you listen to me ? These may be tough for you,but what I'm about to tell you is exactly what is going to get him crawling back ,or rather, get to know the personality you're dealing with. Ignore him ! Yes,you heard me right. Have you heard of the mirror effect ? That's the most powerful way to deal with silent treatment. By ignoring him ,and never initiating contact till he does,don't ask him why he has been ignoring you,assume nothing really happened, and you know what ? You will end up detecting the rule of the friendship or relationship. It's a power play,to most its done consciously,to very few,unconsciously . When they decide to give you the silent treatment again,ignore their dirty ass,and ensure you make it very clear to them your emotion is not their playground, and if that's how they communicate their feelings,make it known to them you can't deal with those childish attitude. Set boundaries dear. For your sanity and health sake. Ignore those who ignore you,give a taste of their own medicine to those who feel it's normal to give you silent treatment, it has that strong psychological effect on both men and women. Please stop texting,calling or even checking on him from now henceforth,you're embarrassing yourself and communicating to him that you're a low value. Respect yourself and know your worth ! You sound naive and new to these game,you're a woman,you should have known better. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by yetunsbay(m): 11:14am On May 19, 2020 |
He is doing good. Reverse psychology |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by KenBen217: 11:17am On May 19, 2020 |
i know what day guy is doing...but lemme just keep my mouth shut...lemme not cast him |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Haviza(f): 11:21am On May 19, 2020 |
KenBen217: Please what is he doing? I want to know why he is ignoring me. I'm hurting real bad. I really like this guy and I thought he felt the same way. |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by KenBen217: 11:28am On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza:my dear...it's just reverse psychology....he just wants you to miss him more...and in all honesty I do it alot...he wants u to miss him...he knows exactly what he's doing |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 11:29am On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza:That's exactly what he wants to achieve,to make you experience those feelings you're experiencing right now . . To keep you on your toe,to be obsessed about him,to disarm you and finally get to detect the rule of the friendship or relationship. And yes,psychologically, he has gotten you where exactly he need you to be,and you know what ? You can't afford to lose him right now It's normal dear,so calm down,and start playing the detachment . That's the only way to free yourself and reduce the intensity of hold he got on you,emotionally, psychologically and whatnot. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 11:40am On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza:You better leave him alone. He will turn you to a nuisance if care is not taken. I have experienced that multiple times, the only difference is the guys asked for a relationship. There was one that would read my messages and not reply, until I got to know he is very active on another WhatsApp account. He will act cool when we are together and total opposite once we are apart. I had to delete his number in the long run, if not I'd keep texting and calling and he'd keep ignoring. I do that to guys that act this way, surprisingly I realised non got back, I mean no text or call. Stop forcing a relationship or friendship. It is meant to happen naturally. Even if he comes back kindly reject him 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 11:50am On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza:Leave him alone o. He is playing on your emotions. Someone that likes you will not put you through that torture. Delete his number so you wont be tempted to reach out to him, you will realise he actually doesnt care. And if he comes back, make sure nothing happens btw you too, he is coming to use and dump you I have seen that play out with more than one guy, what I do is delete their contact and funnily they never call or text. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by waleyp(m): 11:58am On May 19, 2020 |
See Girl I Am Available, I Wont Treat You Like The Guy, So Whats Up ? |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 12:01pm On May 19, 2020 |
Ningen:Right on. When you value yourself, you don't engage in games like this that make you question your worth and you know not to accept this sort of treatment from a man (or woman). 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by OscarJaden(m): 12:37pm On May 19, 2020 |
Luckygurl:lol...kids will always be kids lol....I hail oo Pro!! |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Chenko001(m): 1:01pm On May 19, 2020 |
For people saying ignore him, it's hard to do that when you still open your WhatsApp messages. These feelings are uncontrollable and they hurt deep, you also think about them every moment. It can lead to obsession if care is not taken. As a guy we only do this sort of things if one has seen or heard something bad about you or maybe busy( to a certain extent cus not everyone works 24 hours a day). But give him time, he will come around. NOTE: EVERYONE HAS A DARK SIDE, TRY TO SEE THEM IN ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU DABBLE INTO SO THAT WHEN HE OR SHE DISAPPOINTS YOU, YOU JUST PICK UP YOUR MAT AND HEAD TO A SAFER SPACE 1 Like |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by cooooooks(m): 3:37pm On May 19, 2020 |
Send him a message on WhatsApp and SMS everyday asking why he's ignoring you. Do this once or twice a day for like 2 weeks. Sorry about this. Haviza: |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by rosy1992(f): 3:39pm On May 19, 2020 |
Just let him be. You shouldn't force yourself on him. |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by longetivity(m): 3:40pm On May 19, 2020 |
it will end in crocodile tears |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:05pm On May 19, 2020 |
blesskewe:Aunty Kevwe, Please explain. |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:12pm On May 19, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:what if it's this one she Really likes? |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:13pm On May 19, 2020 |
Solearr:Chei. See Analysis |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:15pm On May 19, 2020 |
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Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:20pm On May 19, 2020 |
Dominicane:na una saBi |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:22pm On May 19, 2020 |
Sirvingeo:explain |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:23pm On May 19, 2020 |
Chenko001:which one is heard something bad. Is it PRimary 1 SChool. HABeG, that one dey him POCKeT ..no be only |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Nobody: 4:28pm On May 19, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe: I know it hurts but unrequited love is painful, she may like him but does he like her? He seems to have ghosted her. She is better off cutting her losses now. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:29pm On May 19, 2020 |
KenBen217:what is he doing? Please tell me, I'm only 8 yeaRs OlD |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Deicide: 5:26pm On May 19, 2020 |
But Na una females start all this rubbish Na 2 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by Odion2016(m): 6:40pm On May 19, 2020 |
He has read ubunja and martinez's posts..Mayb he has even joined the red pill association..Go look for him there..Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!! A Guy I Like Is Giving Me The Silent Treatment. by OnPointMan(m): 7:14pm On May 19, 2020 |
Haviza. He has a girlfriend over there now, and he is seeing you as a disturbance. Get yourself busy with something or someone else and forget about him. Check my signature. |
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