Thermodynamics:
What the OP said is true, never date an undergraduate or a corper. If you want to risk it, marry them and let them be going to their school or PPA directly from your house.

There is this guy and girl during my Nysc in rivers state, they were fvucking each other on a regular, so suddenly, the LGI announced that the girl is about to get married and she is inviting her fellow corpers, those of use who know her very well was like, "Na wa o, this girl when them don fvck tire na another man wan still go marry"

I just pitied the man and said well, it's her luck.
I thought the fvucking will stop but could you believe that after the marriage, this babe came back to the village where I am serving and continued fvcking the corper guy, well she eventually became pregnant for this corper guy and was planning to go home to sleep with her husband in other for her to be able to lie to her husband in the future that the baby is his.

Husbands are in trouble ooooo....

Carchoice:
If you have been with a lady that is so good and faithful and at a point in her life she tells you she's going for NYSC, send her a termination letter.

What you should know is that, no matter how faithful that your woman is, there's one OG that will bring her to her knees.

It's a pity a very good girl I admired so much suddenly gone bad, the way she carries her self; She's actually a lost corper I found in the streets of Lagos. Her man calls her on video everyday while I'm on the other side of the bed.

This morning I told her I will not touch her again. I'm done, I feel bad for my brother on the other end.


There's nothing like good girl or bad girl, it's all about home training and self respect. But konji is never part of the home training and self respect will be put aside for few minutes reboot.

bless up man, you are so correct on this one. Even some married women dey collect for nysc.. well it happened to me. My very good gf that i tot i could vouch for with my life followed a guy that drives Benz and threw away our 4yrs old affair

I once dated a fellow corper in my nysc days and this gal rubbished me. Took my concern for granted till we passed out of service.


Luckily enough I got recruited into the Nigerian Navy, and posted it on Facebook.
The pic was lit, uniform was starched and ironed.
Mehn....even gals I don't know started messaging me.

I logged in WhatsApp and saw this Gal's message. A gal dat hasn't messaged me for 6months after service. As a military guy, I ignored her. She kept messaging me and told me that
"I forgot her abi."... I was like " u and who?"...
Minutes later I uploaded my fiancee's pic and she immediately blocked me.

Bottom line is that gals don't value a man, that loves them, until that man blows. That's why I don't take ladies serious these days

MhizJoyce:
Sadly some guys come here to type off point, when they ought to reason with the op and avoid stories that touch in the near future. Pussies!

80-85% of ladies cheat on their spouses. Unfortunately, many of them won't be caught, especially considering what the guy below me just said. SMH for some guys.

No mind them they'll learn the hard way..
especially those guys that are attacking the op here thinking that their gfs are faithful, they'll surely learn the hard way

Thermodynamics:
What the OP said is true, never date an undergraduate or a corper. If you want to risk it, marry them and let them be going to their school or PPA directly from your house.

There is this guy and girl during my Nysc in rivers state, they were fvucking each other on a regular, so suddenly, the LGI announced that the girl is about to get married and she is inviting her fellow corpers, those of use who know her very well was like, "Na wa o, this girl when them don fvck tire na another man wan still go marry"

I just pitied the man and said well, it's her luck.
I thought the fvucking will stop but could you believe that after the marriage, this babe came back to the village where I am serving and continued fvcking the corper guy, well she eventually became pregnant for this corper guy and was planning to go home to sleep with her husband in other for her to be able to lie to her husband in the future that the baby is his.

With the above situation you put there, just break me. There is a guy that told me that he is not sure if he is going to marry that he doesn't put trust again.

Warlord2012:


Is it your mumunie
Don't be using hate words on other tribes biko, after all you don't know how many guys must have screwed your sensible sister....

I spoke my experience y say am insulting a tribe?

I am Igbo too

During NYSC days, i had a babe in the same lodge with me, then i was 22yrs old,i have an athletic body shape and plays football alot so my body is decorated with muscles and abs.

It used to be all male lodge before new batch of coppers were deployed to my PPA, and she was among this new batch....later got a room in my lodge ,started lusting for and within a month we started dating. She even told me about two men who were very ready to pay her bride price but she still need to pray over it so as to make a better choice....when all this was going on, i and her had already started bleaping like mad... In my room,her room, my guy's room. She even confessed to me that i Bleep like a bull and that if not for my young age she would have trapped me down...she was about 27/28,5yrs older than me.

Even during most of our sex session her fiance usually calls....i could still remember the day she was sucking and licking my balls like lollipop when one of those calls interrupted.

Last last sha i passed out in July 2015, while she got married in October just weeks to her POP.

There was another copper too,engaged...i almost bleaped her but she was not comfortable with me bleaping her in d lodge.



Still won't be concluding that all female corp members are the same sha...because i still met two ladies who were married and one who was about to.....they held themselves till after service.

Coldie:

I spoke my experience y say am insulting a tribe?

I am Igbo too

A counterfeit igbo....sabo

Warlord2012:


Don't use the world cheap when describing a woman, you are free to use the word easily n not cheaply....
Besides if you say women are cheap, then men are free of charge....because you have never been paid after any bleap,but you can't count the number if times you have paid just to bleap.

My friend, go over my write up, if you still can't comprehend, then you can go back to school and ask for a refund from your English teacher.

StrongandMighty:


No mind them they'll learn the hard..
especially those guys that are attacking the op here thinking that their gfs are faithful, they'll surely learn the hard way

Except these girls are lesbians or all the men are NOT involved with any lady, both parties are cheating

The truth is this, your girlfriend technically doesn't belong to you for the twenty something days she'd spend on camp.
Every lady, no matter how ugly or pretty she is, tends to hookup with a fellow male corper on camp. That is the trend. And it has been that way for a long time.
Hopefully she doesn't fall in LOVE with any corps member on camp. Reality always hit most of them when they leave the Orientation camp...they usually realize that it was nothing but flings.

Youths have always seen NYSC as a period of sexacapes because they are almost anonymous and frolicking with peeps they might never see again.

It is a male & female issue and takes a lot of self-discipline and commitment to relationships to be faithful/celibate. While the ladies sleep more with their fellow corps members, the guys roll with the ladies and women of their host community.

First step is identifying with your religious fellowship and other accountability partners so you don't have the illusion of 'freedom'.

So many people have lost stuff they can't regain in that year.

Dobson43:





My friend, go over my write up, if you still can't comprehend, then you can go back to school and ask for a refund from your English teacher.

So quick to purge out insults...a clear sign of mental diarrhea.

Go and get a psychiatric help

@op. dont generalize just because you are dealing with low life bi*ches. i served in kwara state and i know like 5ladies that were faithful during service. girl wey go cheat go cheat. NYSC or not

During nysc those girls were not faithful. U will be giving dem doggy and fiancee go call them go pic while u wait lol

Warlord2012:

A counterfeit igbo....sabo

LoL till today I still hate that stup1d girl

Coldie:

LoL till today I still hate that stup1d girl

Warlord2012:

So quick to purge out insults...a clear sign of mental diarrhea.

Go and get a psychiatric help

Go and get a refund for your limited grasp of English language is an advice but your myopic mind can't comprehend.

The op is only wrong by generalizing it, but to a very large extent, the op is right...never expect her to return the way she left. But in very few cases, u may b lucky to have her back, but still not intact. The truth is, wen she leaves for NYSC, just zero ur mind, expect lots of dramas and questionable attitudes from her cos she will sure b distracted. If she eventually returns to u, good and fine, but never think she will still b the way u left her, I mean untouched. Only very few return back still intact, I mean very few. Knowing all this will to some extent keep ur mind at rest, cos the only worse fear of man is the fear of the unknown.
Cheers

Chummynoni:
@op. dont generalize just because you are dealing with low life bi*ches. i served in kwara state and i know like 5ladies that were faithful during service. girl wey go cheat go cheat. NYSC or not

As if you were sleeping in the same room with all of them. Be deceiving yourself there. These hoes pretend a lot.

@ op I think this should not even be the issue because everybody knows Whatsup.

The issue is can these ladies still change and remain faithful after nysc or given same circumstance during marriage they would repeat same thing. ( Referring to dating or engaged ladies not single)


On the subject matter
The human mind is so funny it likes to try out new things.

Everyone both male and female have heard stories of sexcapade during nysc, everyone wants to write their own story too.

No be matter of argument. Women cheating during nysc is a common thing nothing new.

Some single ladies too wanna hookup looking for soul mates.

Dobson43:



Let me guess you are the side guy.
You are just another guy who rushes to conclusion without enough solid evidence.
Because a woman cheats, does not mean all women are cheats and because a man is bad, doesn't mean all men are scum.


It's degrading to say that you got her from the streets, that speaks volumes about your person.
Just because you got her cheaply don't translate all NYSC corpers are sleazy and unfaithful.

Thanks, I will save my ink on this thread!

Good to read sensible comments on this thread. I'm sure the op was expecting a pat on the back.

Dobson43:



Let me guess you are the side guy.
You are just another guy who rushes to conclusion without enough solid evidence.
Because a woman cheats, does not mean all women are cheats and because a man is bad, doesn't mean all men are scum.


It's degrading to say that you got her from the streets, that speaks volumes about your person.
Just because you got her cheaply don't translate all NYSC corpers are sleazy and unfaithful.

Very True!!!

Warlord2012:


......................................................

Still won't be concluding that all female corp members are the same sha...because i still met two ladies who were married and one who was about to.....they held themselves till after service.

EOD!!!

Hmmm..

StrongandMighty:


My brother what you said is nothing but the truth..
I can remember when I was serving in one of the northern states, I met a friend very lovely & caring, with a good home training and above all she has the fear of God or maybe I assumed she did. she's from the west, I won't call her name because she's a nauralander too.
it happened that she had a fiance who's based in lag who always calls her every minute of the day to know how she's doing, he was forming Mr loverman that has a faithful girlfriend. So me and this girl started getting along very well and she will always use every opportunity to remind me how she'll never ever cheat on her man throughout her service year and I'll just smile and wave it off while in my mind I was busy drawing a plan for her, because I sincerely don't like it when a girl makes mouth unecesarily on how faithful she can be. So unlike other guys she met in camp I never bothered to ask her out or bring anything romantic Into our discussion and this was part of the plan to get her. infact I avoided any discussion that leads to that, so because of that I was a very good guy to her, I gained her trust in fact she became my best friend then. so it happened that anytime I receive a call from other female friends of mine that are corpers or when they visit me I could sense this jealousy in her but I ignored it shaa till a point it became obvious that she's been caught up, she's now madly in love with me then I knew it was the perfect time for me to strike.. mehn to cut the long story short this girl that swore heaven and Earth that she'll never cheat on her guy became my sexmate .. I bang this girl like tomorrow no dey while her fiance at the other end was madly in love . at some point I felt pity for the guy.
the morale of the story is that if your gf is going for services chances are that she must surely nak no matter how faithful you think she is, if you can't withstand this ugly truth better give her red card before she leaves for service.

VickyRotex:


EOD!!!

Okay...end of discussion.

I don't think this applies here.

Do not deny an adult woman her agency in having sex.

MelaninSkinGirl:
The typical Nigerian man is a misogynist, you will have daughters one day and your fellow male comrades will destroy her like you have destroyed women. #Karma#

Ladies don Suffer.
This is what you get when you see MARRIAGE as employment.