Men cheat and women cheat.

Those ladies you pity,if peradventure their children are not for their husbands,the men who impregnated them are also married to other women, which means their wives should be pitied as they don't know their husbands have offsprings outside .

Most Men cheat anytime,anyday,any year,before marriage,after marriage,in old age till death

jeff1607:


girls aren't the only ones doin the cheating


but ladies do far worse

sometimes when I see my female colleagues during nysc on WhatsApp with their husbands with kids I pity the men, cos 80 percent of the men there don't know that those kids aren't theirs plus the atrocities the ladies did while their soon to be husbands were thinking their babes were faithful, things really happened, it's so bad that even if the husbands get to find out what they did then , the possibility of them divorcing the ladies is high.

fear Nysc ladies

Theoarhics:
Not all girls . Thats fallacy of hasty generalization. I know a girl who went to do her NYSC as a virgin and came back a virgin.

how u take confirm am

Dobson43:



Let me guess you are the side guy.
You are just another guy who rushes to conclusion without enough solid evidence.
Because a woman cheats, does not mean all women are cheats and because a man is bad, doesn't mean all men are scum.


It's degrading to say that you got her from the streets, that speaks volumes about your person.
Just because you got her cheaply don't translate all NYSC corpers are sleazy and unfaithful.

Oga , in as much as u have a point ,that there’s no absolute in any situation, you should know that most Nysc girls are either vulnerable or just promiscuous. They are about the cheapest n easiest girls a man can approach .
You speak of evidence but am sure u are the one who is ignorant.

angelfallz:


That should be the duty of the girlfriend. Why can't the girlfriend take into consideration, the boyfriend/fiance/husband?

women as dey are called weaker sense should not be considered lightly, secondly dey can't hold konji for long as was bn witness during the 1 month lockdown. The guy should hv learn to put his pipe in a hole dat hv not bn tainted by another nigga talk more of complaining how the hole dey bhave

MelaninSkinGirl:
The typical Nigerian man is a misogynist, you will have daughters one day and your fellow male comrades will destroy her like you have destroyed women. #Karma#

Destroy? Did you read the post at all? The guy didn't say he raped anybody o

bro am in ekitii i fit learn how to drive too o

TripA:
the way someone would lash your wife ehhhb even though she'd done with NYSC you'll be second to him that your punishment


she'll be like this that my friend from NYSC the one I always tell u about

What is wrong with you ppl ?
Did the op rape her ?
What crime did he commit?

What a thread! I guess not putting your all in relationships is the best option. It's sickening though, I felt somehow.

orney:
Men cheat and women cheat.

Those ladies you pity,if peradventure their children are not for their husbands,the men who impregnated them are also married to other women, which means their wives should be pitied as they don't know their husbands have offsprings outside .

Most Men cheat anytime,anyday,any year,before marriage,after marriage,in old age till death

you still don't get the point I'm passing across

ok let's go with yours

Not everyone can withstand sexual temptation.

And I have recently discovered that this super sex urge sometimes is not ordinary (it is only a fool who will say there is no spiritualism).

I don't know if it goes both ways for women too but I noticed something after sex mouth go just dry for that week, business go just dull, man go just dey kanra.

Sometimes when things are going very smooth for you, business is going generally well etc one gal you have been targeting since will just start disturbing that she misses you, sometimes gals go just begin dey rush you unlike before normally u will think it's because they want money but once u climb am do wetin u wan do like this, gbam e go dey get as e be.

And then there are some women that just common kissing sef, money go just dey rush like tap. The only problem is most of them no dey be man pikin taste. But you see those extra beautiful ones, fair with long legs, super sexy etc be very careful.

I'm talking about with single guys, but it happens with married men too and women, the poor wife go come dey pray, dey fast. Madam no go know say oga don climb wetin e no suppose climb.

My question is, does it happen with gals too? Do you guys too swear for us like, "oloribu ni Bobo jide yen. lati igba ti a do rawa bayi, Chief o da mi lohun mo, Otunba tun block mi ni WhatsApp. Olorun o ni je ka d'oko ofo.

The lesson is no be every woman you go fvxk, no be every free pvssy be enjoyment. Ifa'n fani la po ya. As guy man observe wella, no go use 1hour enjoyment ruin your life. For me it's money over Yoni, anyday anytym bruh.

Nonsoboy4life:
Hahahahaha..very true..my own gal was been bleeped by the papa of one of the Christian bodies she met while serving

haaa, so how did u find out

your experience, anyway students corpers teenage girls secondary school girls uni girls all are liabilities, if you have n o business in a relationship stay away from them

GREATESTPIANIST:
haaa, so how did u find out

Refer to this thread with picture evidence: https://www.nairaland.com/5861021/how-discovered-girlfriend-been-cheating

Y generalizing, their are still good woman..y'all generalizing are even worst

Nonsoboy4life:

Refer to this thread with picture evidence: https://www.nairaland.com/5861021/how-discovered-girlfriend-been-cheating

am in shock, just went through the thread, what's going on these days Who do we now trust, I am faithful , and will always be faithful to my spouse, but the youth of these days think with their private parts, so dumb

dirtydiva:
women as dey are called weaker sense should not be considered lightly, secondly dey can't hold konji for long as was bn witness during the 1 month lockdown. The guy should hv learn to put his pipe in a hole dat hv not bn tainted by another nigga talk more of complaining how the hole dey bhave

it is unbelievable that you are trying to defend the indefensible. So according to you, women cheat because they are the weaker sex and because they can't control their konji?
WOW!!

Coldie:
That's how when I served in delta state I know a corper that was engaged but was living with a boy in the same room during the nysc.

After them blow blow am back and front she go come back dae tell the mumu engagee why is that girl calling ur phone.

And the engagee was a naive, all these anambra semi illiterate businessmen, way want marry graduate.

but u think the businessmen are not blow-blow other lady whenever their lady left to NYSC?
Most Men are just jealous and hypocrite that why we feel insecure most time.

I ONLY FEEL PITY TO THOSE LOYAL MEN, I HOPE YOU GET A LOYAL LADY ALSO.

MhizJoyce:
Sadly some guys come here to type off point, when they ought to reason with the op and avoid stories that touch in the near future. Pussies!

80-85% of ladies cheat on their spouses. Unfortunately, many of them won't be caught, especially considering what the guy below me just said. SMH for some guys.

please how many percentage of men cheat behind their spouses?

MelaninSkinGirl:
The typical Nigerian man is a misogynist, you will have daughters one day and your fellow male comrades will destroy her like you have destroyed women. #Karma#

Now, don't lie that many of you self deceptive women do not prank on men. You toy with their emotions and see them as Maga. But when one man avenges all your wickedness, you will start saying men are scum.

Can you pray that God will deal with you the same way you dealt with all the men you ever dated or collected money from with fake greenlight?

So, you may want to think twice before praying thunder on men because you may be the first person that the thunder will strike.

Carchoice:
If you have been with a lady that is so good and faithful and at a point in her life she tells you she's going for NYSC, send her a termination letter.

What you should know is that, no matter how faithful that your woman is, there's one OG that will bring her to her knees.

It's a pity a very good girl I admired so much suddenly gone bad, the way she carries her self; She's actually a lost corper I found in the streets of Lagos. Her man calls her on video everyday while I'm on the other side of the bed.

This morning I told her I will not touch her again. I'm done, I feel bad for my brother on the other end.

There's nothing like good girl or bad girl, it's all about home training and self respect. But konji is never part of the home training and self respect will be put aside for few minutes reboot.

stop making blanket statements.
Don't use your experience to judge everyone in earth. You experienced what you experienced. I did nysc and never touched a girl all through. So many girls can say the same about themselves.

anigbajumo:
I can relate with wat @op av written above, here is my story.

I met this lady wen I was in 500L,am cool with her even thou we always av confrontation time to time but we do get over it in a short time.I really love this lady and I see a future between both of us.Infact, my plan was to marry her after NYSC year.
Fast forward last year,We av already mapped out our plan about how we are going to work it out so that we can both serve in the same state but unfortunately she was posted to Anambra and she gave me some excuse that she can't relocate to Ekiti state which was initially our plan,to cut the story short, three months after wen it was the time for me to go for service, fortunately I was also posted to Anambra which came as a suprised to me,I quickly message my ex that am also posted to Anambra,she doesn't reply my message on watsapp till next day after she av read it.That was when I began to see her true colour which means another guy don dey bang her.Some days after she couldn't ask about my journey to camp,I was amazed until the day I supposed to be in camp that was wen she called me,I told her am on my way aiidy.To cut the story short,wen I got to camp,my ex called me that same day but next 3 weeks I couldn't see her call.Imagine the same camp she went to and I gave her money wen she was going,wen she got to camp I still sent her money even when she was going to her PPA after camp I still sent her money but unfortunately she can't even call or ask anything about me for good 20 days in camp.As a sharp guy,I quickly relocated to Ekiti state and am posted to a firm here thank God for my skills in driving truck am paying 70k here monthly apart from my 33k allowee with 1k daily feeding allowance and free accomodation.My boss was surprised that a graduate knws how to drive truck,I told him my Dad has 5 trucks and am loyal to all our drivers so they taught me how to drive,I told him I can drive to anywhere in Nigeria irrespective of any truck.Av made over 1mill naire here in the past 11 months,Anytime I remember her it really pain me but it's also a blessing in disguise.Till date she doesn't know av relocated to Ekiti state,that is one of the reason I can never take any lady serious in my life.

The basic fact is that no unconditional Love anywhere,she is inlove because u can foot her bill at that moment,once u stop u will see the urself clearly in the mirror,the problem really started when I stopped giving her money pending her PPA was paying her 25k monthly apart from her 19,800 allowee then,that clearly shows she was in Love with me because I can afford her bill or may be she has av already seen a corper that can spend on her than me.She is a NL and am sure she is reading this but am not not fucking care, atleast her oloshoism attitude made me over a million of naira richer,am 100% sure I might not av a savings of 100k if we don't av any issue while am serving in Anambra, any dissapointment in life is a blessing.

are you sure you are a graduate?...maybe she ran away cos of ur grammatical blunders....she no wan die untimely.....na joke I Dey o

odogwunaija:
I rem during my nysc, I was banging three female corper colleagues one of whom was my fellowship mama. Few months after we passed out of nysc, she got married. Within a year after POP, another got married. I guess they were in a relationship with/dating their present husbands even back then when we were serving.
I won't commit the fallacy of hasty generalization, there are still some good/faithful female corpers but I guess they are in the minority

u kept banging, no wonder u have banged ur destiny and look shameless now.......what a stupid fellow

OmoOshodi:
are you sure you are a graduate?

is being a graduate a prerequisite to receive God's favour and blessings?? You wey be graduate wetin u don achieve, I-TOO-KNOW OSHI

Dominicane:
I once dated a fellow corper in my nysc days and this gal rubbished me. Took my concern for granted till we passed out of service.


Luckily enough I got recruited into the Nigerian Navy, and posted it on Facebook.
The pic was lit, uniform was starched and ironed.
Mehn....even gals I don't know started messaging me.

I logged in WhatsApp and saw this Gal's message. A gal dat hasn't messaged me for 6months after service. As a military guy, I ignored her. She kept messaging me and told me that
"I forgot her abi."... I was like " u and who?"...
Minutes later I uploaded my fiancee's pic and she immediately blocked me.

Bottom line is that gals don't value a man, that loves them, until that man blows. That's why I don't take ladies serious these days

Are you an officer or non commissioned officer

OmoOshodi:
are you sure you are a graduate?...maybe she ran away cos of ur grammatical blunders....she no wan die untimely.....na joke I Dey o

anigbajumo no mind the ode o, e no get sense......oponu ni .......... Anigbajumo u really tried, I salute ur courage, don't give up ok And as for u omoOsho, u r daft

GREATESTPIANIST:
is being a graduate a prerequisite to receive God's favour and blessings?? You wey be graduate wetin u don achieve, I-TOO-KNOW OSHI

sorry oya crawl back to ur cave

GREATESTPIANIST:
anigbajumo no mind the ode o, e no get sense......oponu ni .......... Anigbajumo u really tried, I salute ur courage, don't give up ok And as for u omoOsho, u r daft

you took soo much after your father....the greatest imbe.cile of our time

OmoOshodi:
sorry oya crawl back to ur cave

kid, go and pick beans, riffraff,

OmoOshodi:
are you sure you are a graduate?...maybe she ran away cos of ur grammatical blunders....she no wan die untimely.....na joke I Dey o

Did you also notice the many grammatical errors?Well,I don't judge cos there is no award for accurate typing.Anigbajumo,please you Can create a thread so that we can relate to your story

OmoOshodi:
you took soo much after your father....the greatest imbe.cile of our time

Mr graduate, what have u achieved, buoda oponu ode oshi, eleribu omo ake, radarada.......

GREATESTPIANIST:
kid, go and pick beans, riffraff,

what's your mum doing....son of a biiitch