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Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by prettysassygirl(f): 8:21pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:Your Christianity is so warped. May the Lord have mercy on you 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 8:22pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare: You darling, have zero honey inside you. None at all. Not empathetic, not respectful, not kind. The OP respectfully warned you off her thread, but no, you had to come back like a cricket, dancing on every mention you received, all in a bid to have the last word. Meanwhile you were/are wrong. This shows the kind of person you are. Real shame. Continue. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 8:44pm On May 19, 2020 |
Omijin: I wish you miracles and healing The bolded is especially sad. Keeping your dependence and or addiction a secret is not the best. Share your challenges and efforts with someone. Let them help you any way you want. You have insight and want to quit so your case is 1/3 solved. Seek professional help too. It is the most important step to take in this journey. While planning the above, check out YouTube videos of how people beat their addictions. I will be rooting for you, cheers. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by homesteady(m): 9:16pm On May 19, 2020 |
Omijin: Sending love and light your way Bro! You will definitely conquer it. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by homesteady(m): 9:19pm On May 19, 2020 |
Wow!! This will be very difficult. A 40 something year old man. I suggest you take him for another rehabilitation, because the truth is that he is a "nuisance" that you can't do away with. He can't be driven out of the house because he will still come back. It's so sad. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:You got it wrong dear. I could remember while in school, our psychology lecturer asked us to argue this proposition "nurture and not not nature is responsible for the behavioural modification of a man." and we argued both sides with valid points. You have forgotten that there are a lot of things that can easily influence someone. Many children have given their parents BP because they could not yield to their parents instructions. Good parenting is good but that alone may not help. Pray that God should help. If you attribute every bad behaviour in a child to his parents, I think it's a wrong notion. parents can't follow their children everywhere they go. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by raphy(m): 10:03pm On May 19, 2020 |
my advice as a legend on here is for them to try to re admit him in the psychiatric hospital .I.know it won't be easy .but thy can inject him to deep sleep when he is sleeping.like strong guys hold his hands and leg and hamd cuff him to. a bed then they give him the injection that will.make him sleep for like 1hour. am not a Dr or medical student i just share my own sense of treating a mad person. I hop am helpful may God bring him back to his right senses amen. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 10:42pm On May 19, 2020 |
prettysassygirl:and also on u greater mercy u need |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 10:46pm On May 19, 2020 |
merahki:well as u stated, u had to mention me while waltzing like a cockroach all in a bid to prove u can insult. This also shows d kind of person u r. Shame on u. Tueh |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 10:55pm On May 19, 2020 |
atoleybaba:not true though. But d spiritual control d physical. Keep wailing in ignorance. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 10:57pm On May 19, 2020 |
drfav:hmmm. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by star4ever: 11:00pm On May 19, 2020 |
raphy: Amen! |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by star4ever: 11:01pm On May 19, 2020 |
homesteady: |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 11:04pm On May 19, 2020 |
iamloyalty:it's obvious now that u lack proper upbringing. May ur parents reap the evil they have sown from u too. Amen |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Lillysbee: 11:13pm On May 19, 2020 |
Hi to traditional homes They are more reliable. Sometimes. star4ever: |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Lillysbee: 11:13pm On May 19, 2020 |
Go to traditional homes They are more reliable. Sometimes. star4ever: |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Fulcrum15: 11:14pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:That means u re mad!!! Bravo.. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Fulcrum15: 11:16pm On May 19, 2020 |
Temidayo9:I pity your life. You ve been condemned yo die in ignorance... |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 11:17pm On May 19, 2020 |
Fulcrum15:just as u are mad. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by atoleybaba(m): 11:21pm On May 19, 2020 |
adontcare:what bible portion says that? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 11:26pm On May 19, 2020 |
atoleybaba:Ephesians 6:12 for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers, against wickedness in high places. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 11:28pm On May 19, 2020 |
Temidayo9:it's obvious he is a drug addict 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by adontcare(f): 11:34pm On May 19, 2020 |
Read this comment from a nairalander. And meditate on it. 1.I think a lot African parents ( mothers in particular), tend to treat their sons as mini-kings who can do no wrong in their eyes. This is where the culture of Male entitlement starts from; the upbringing. The boys grow up with a sense of superiority that somehow absolves them of certain responsibilities. 2. Staying in toxic relationships for the children. In many cases,the children end-up worse off psychologically ,than kids coming out of two healthy parents living separately. 3. The "if Kevin can do it ,you can do it too ".mentality. you have a lot of parents who see the neighbour's kid doing well selling bread ,& they start pushing their own children towards that trade or career without assisting them in what they are really good at so that they too can be a shining example in their own right. You see the results of this in many African markets ,everyone sells the samethings ,hardly will you find people who produce the products or selling something that is not readily available. |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by atoleybaba(m): 12:07am On May 20, 2020 |
adontcare:if only u read the whole chapter u would not have been misquoting that portion....the chapter urged u to put on the complete suit of armour....Satan will do everything to make you turn away from God. He will use different scheme to manipulate you including FALSE teaching....that is what that verse meant u should stand firm cos just like Jesus was tempted and suffered, his followers will also...Infact if u read verses 13 downward it talks about wearing the complete suit of armour and described each and every part of it and what it takes to fight this fight with ur "principality and power"...from being righteous to being ready to keep declaring the goodnews and also praying that Paul can keep declaring the truth even tho the government and the devil doesn't want him to. But you won't read the complete chapter, u will only pick what suit u forgetting that the verse u picked sef talked about not only the evil sports trying to stop God word and his people but also world government 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Speed123: 2:38am On May 20, 2020 |
adontcare: Which God are you refering to? So when something bad happens to a child you assume God is punishing the child because of the parents sins. How can a God who has long forgiven your sins by dying on the cross go to punish an innocent person? My advice they should loose or give up hope on him, keep believing and praying for him, take him back for treatment and rehabilitation. And remember that most times God shows up when we have exhausted our options, I see God restoring your brother back to normal. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by tot(f): 10:31am On May 20, 2020 |
[s] adontcare:[/s] 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by oluphemmxzy(m): 11:02am On May 20, 2020 |
Sorry for everything you ve passed through, if u won't say may own advice is childish ......after u ve done medical or whatever mean.. It's time to turn to God, He has done it bfr and he will do it again. Go to any RCCG headquarters church close to u, tell them your problem,make sure u meet with the head pastor there.... Tell him u want the head pastor to help u schedule an appointment with the GO, if u re persistent, within a week... U should be contacted by the G.O ,maybe u will be giving address to go or redemption camp. Then if ur brother is not coping, just pay soldier 5k to help u bundle him to where to met Adeboye, I hope it will end in praise..... Pls don't ignore ur bro! Bro, pls try what I suggest or u message Adeboye son on instagram, he is very active there.... Bless u and ur family |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by kayourcome: 1:19pm On May 20, 2020 |
Guy.. please grand cockroaches like 2 inside his alcohol and give it him to drink. Trust me, he will never go back to drinking.. he will vomit after taken it and whenever he wants to go back to drink, it will smell him off. Trust God on this |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by itzdeejay: 7:29am On May 21, 2020 |
star4ever: Is that what your family should be worried about? What about his life and happiness? What if this is the life he wants and love to live? |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by MrPRevailer(m): 11:06am On May 25, 2020 |
@star4ever I came across this article in my favourite website and sort to reachout to you. Have a nice day! https://www.naturalnews.com/2020-05-24-top-10-excuses-not-quitting-nicotine-and-one-natural-remedy.html 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by dandan280: 5:53pm On May 25, 2020 |
I think the only way out of this problem is not trying to take him out of drugs completely (I think it's impossible and only a miracle will do it) but to either find a replacement to the drugs he abuses i.e to a milder one or reduce the portion he takes gradually till the effect of the drugs in him becomes greatly reduced 1 Like |
Re: My Brother On Hard Drugs: 18 Years Of Pains And Sorrow. I Need Help! by Usorohtheman(m): 6:27pm On May 25, 2020 |
Op, try to find out the people he takes the drug with or the person he buys the drugs from. Make friends with them and talk to them about your brother. They are the only ones that can talk to him. And also, he will start reducing his intake. Now, be more closer to him now than before. You can even get him some of the drugs too. But he should take it around the house or when you are with him and there and then, use an indirect method to tell him about how the drug is affecting him. I think he needs a companion that understands him. Be that companion. Don't be hard on him please. 1 Like |
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