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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Helios85447(m): 11:25am On May 20, 2020 |
ellapius:hmmmmmm...I fear you ooo |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
Davash222: Yet you had no issues taking money from a Nigerian girl. The only thing worse than hypocrisy is being a shameless online beggar. Bambiala. 12 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by emmaodet: 12:59pm On May 20, 2020 |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Genset: 1:11pm On May 20, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Sis, don't mind them . They want a wife that will contribute financially and still cook, clean, birth the kids and do all other stuffs while he just sits and contribute his small quota. Nigerian women dey suffer ooo if na like this. Most women have left the traditional roles and also pulling their weight financially but I rarely see men do house chores. It is still regarded as a taboo even when the man is jobless. May God help women ooo. 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Genset: 1:15pm On May 20, 2020 |
Liposure: Hope u re also going to contribute ur 10% to also doing house chores? 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Genset: 1:18pm On May 20, 2020 |
[quote author=pDudd post=89722735] Nope, it is all about equality. There must be an equal playing field. The days of housewives are over. Shebi women want equal rights? Well, let's see what you're bringing to the table. I bring mine, you bring yours, we compare, God nor vex. No more liability women allowed. I'm an advocate for equal rights. And lefts ![]() Hope u will also contribute equally to doing hose chores? 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 1:19pm On May 20, 2020 |
Are you the right person for Ade? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by 0neal(m): 1:25pm On May 20, 2020 |
Michelle55: Well done ma More wisdom |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 1:35pm On May 20, 2020 |
sexylassie2:why are you changing your mouth because money is involved? Have you not always fought traditional ways when it deals with chastity and virginity of the lady? Since I have known you on this forum even with you alpha lion moniker you were against traditional ways.. Don't run back to tradition because of money. Aren't you the same person that said it is a white man you want to marry ? You females on this forum are confusing!you will embrace wokeness just to dodge female gender roles and then go to embrace traditional ways to enjoy a man Just look at you betraying feminism and denouncing modernity because of money ladies longthroat for men money and laziness are the two reasons they are yet to attain equality even after fighting for it for about 200 years 34 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 1:38pm On May 20, 2020 |
ellapius:why derail this topic?it is for men ,don't bring up counter arguments...just open your thread please |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nonsoboy4life(m): 1:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
Helios85447:Lol...they're as far a sizeable northern young Fulani prostitutes...I have stayed in the north too..I'm not making up the story.mi know the north |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Obioramichael(m): 1:47pm On May 20, 2020 |
Charity they say begins at home!!!! Before you start looking out for a career lady or someone who will be contributing to the day to day expenses... Please ensure that your sisters at home have those qualities else they might end up being a victim should we implement what you advice 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 1:47pm On May 20, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:you had to derail this thread with a counter argument,the op point was not for men to avoid marriage but for men to set up high standards.. Whenever a man sets his standards ladies will come here creating counter arguments. Statistics on american men alone?lol...its enough to draw up conclusions on all men on the universe? Then you turn back to blame society for ladies wanting to marry.. So society is the one responsible for women marrying? 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 1:53pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: What is this one writing down? Do you even understand what feminism is So a woman defending another woman is feminism and where did i write that i want to marry a white man? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 1:54pm On May 20, 2020 |
sexylassie2:when you drop hypocrisy aside you will understand 6 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by emmaodet: 2:04pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Votukpa(m): 2:18pm On May 20, 2020 |
sexylassie2: You're 150% correct. Men will not accept this because it is coming from a woman. I support you on this. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Votukpa(m): 2:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
Anyahuruagu: You're father was supposed to teach you this: A woman isn't supposed to contribute in the sense of what you expressed. Stop looking for a woman who will contribute economically in your home. Men are more beautiful and complete than women because we don't need them like they need us. Behold real beauty when a man gives his wife everything she needs and he doesn't need anything from her except her devotion and cooperation. If any man feels he needs a woman to contribute in his home then he isn't ready to marry yet. A man who is rich in every way doesn't require riches from a woman. He is not only '(al)ready made', he is GODREADYMADE. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 2:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
Votukpa:my dear,all men know this No financially comfy man minds marrying the poorest girl on the globe. The issue is their hypocrisy which is showed in several ways such as: 1)they are self acclaimed feminists that belief men and women should split house chores and the man is not head yet they want him to be 100% responsible for them financially. Why should I pay the rent,money for feeding and upkeep, school fees,utilities,vacations and pocket money for my wife to buy the fancy shoes and human hair yet she will want me to be sharing cooking and washing plates with her(let us not forget that house helps,washing machines,dish washers etc are still sponsored from my pocket). 2)These hypocrites want men to date broke girls,but open threads upon threads to advice girls not to date broke boys. 3)These hypocrites want a man to bring money,protection,etc(all gotten from hard work) yet they don't want to bring their virginity and youthfulness to the table. They will drag equality with us when it deals with being sexually moral and chaste(i.e if men are non virgins,women musn't be virgins ) yet when it deals with finances none of them want to be equal to men. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 2:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
Votukpa:no man minds a poor lady,how does girls peanuts benefit us?no man looks up to their finances. We only have an issue when we are responsible for them financially,give them security ,comfort,and yet they are dragging shoulders with us . They hate submission and devotion but yet want our pockets 6 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ryan03(f): 2:45pm On May 20, 2020 |
Oluromantic:it goes both ways. Some guys are the ones who give their wives the impression that their office ends in the kitchen. As a guy who have a working class woman, you should know that you will also partake in house chores, not when you feel like helping anymore. If you do that, your woman will only contribute when she feels like too. Many have refused to accept this fact 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Votukpa(m): 2:45pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: I feel you on every angle bro, but listen... Why would you have all the money in the world and marry this kind of woman? I like what you said about youthfulness and virginity. Those are the only two things women can gift us men. If a woman doesn't have these, then no man with his head on his shoulders should ever consider to marry such. Most young women (with youth and virginity) DONT want to marry. This is why such women are rare and hard to find. broke, entitled, used up non virgins who are mentally impoverished should be thoroughly avoided. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 2:46pm On May 20, 2020 |
I can see one mangina and female asslicker has come to this thread ![]() Ryan03,you are welcome 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ryan03(f): 2:49pm On May 20, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:funny people. Each sex claims marriage favours the other, makes me wonder if any party is even enjoying marriage. Las las, people dey marry every week. I just pity those who believe all these online crap 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ryan03(f): 2:53pm On May 20, 2020 |
Helios85447:your point make sense |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Votukpa(m): 2:53pm On May 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Kingarthur21 post=89761488]no man minds a poor lady,how does girls peanuts benefit us?no man looks up to their finances. We only have an issue when we are responsible for them financially,give them security ,comfort,and yet they are dragging shoulders with us . They hate submission and devotion but yet want our pockets[/quote We are men. We make the first move. Let's not make the move to marry THESE kinds girls. Let's hold women to high standards and find the one who lives by them to marry. A wicked, entitled and unsubmissive woman will show her colours from the beginning. If you know of her disposition and pursue her for marriage regardless, you would have practically handed your balls over to her. She will never submit nor honor you. 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ryan03(f): 2:56pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:thank you, you seem so interested in me ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Votukpa(m): 2:56pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: We are men. We make the first move. Let's not make the move to marry THESE kinds girls. Let's hold women to high standards and find the one who lives by them to marry. A wicked, entitled and unsubmissive woman will show her colours from the beginning. If you know of her disposition and pursue her for marriage regardless, you would have practically handed your balls over to her. She will never submit nor honor you. 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 3:01pm On May 20, 2020 |
Ryan03:haba...this is not fight now ,I welcomed you here,any problem with it?? Did I do wrong by calling you your name? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Ryan03(f): 3:05pm On May 20, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:and I said "thank you", is that the signal for fight in your town? Lol 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by 21cents: 3:06pm On May 20, 2020 |
kneehighbootz:oga calm down. the last paragraph below isn't true. the lady declared she wanted to do giveaway of some amount and he dropped aza. there's nothing wrong in that as I don't see it as begging. so if pesin wan dash me money make I reject am? 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Kingarthur21: 3:06pm On May 20, 2020 |
Ryan03:you are welcome bro... 2 Likes 1 Share |
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