Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
Smile4mee01: MGTOW has taught me a lot about Female nature... Nothing surprises me anymore about women.
A man is loved for what he can provide, once he loses that he loses everything. Success is seductive to all women if you become successful today, dont be surprised your ex for primary school go holla you. Have you ever wondered how Obamas' ex'es would feel seeing that greatness slipped through thier hands,
Thats why as a man, always be on your game. Never make them your priority. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
It is because of things like these that baby mama's are rampant now, The men have a child, but not the issues that come with being with a wife. Lets see how MGTOW plays out when you are retired and 85 and your kids from your different baby mamas hate you for abandoning their mothers. What next? A young girl of 25 to use your viagra on? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by naturefellow(m): 5:28pm On May 20, 2020 |
One question... Would your wife still feel aweful if Ex was out of eyeshot or doesn't reside in neighbourhood?
Comparison is the thief of happiness!
Also, it is worthy of note that women bring their own fortune to a marriage. One woman's presence in a man's life brings prosperity, whereas misery and misfortune is the case in another. |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by OlawaleBammie: 5:29pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. Oga this is not ur fault joo, wetin hapen na just karma, karma has visited ur wife and its stil living comfortably in ur apartment.
That is the karma for leaving her benefactor for u.
Just work hard and pray if u bliv in prayer, all wil b well laslas wen karma is done with its visitation 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by doubleportion: 5:29pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. Bro this is one of the unexpected that do happen, but don't get depressed, be focus and see how you can had value to your life, and move on, but very important, relocate ASAP |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:30pm On May 20, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Thats why we have to choose our spouses wisely Mr Brown. Parents and society shouldn't pressure people to get married.
Men are hypnotised by beauty and curves, they want to wife up Instagram baddies, women on the other hand are wooed by a man with deep pockets.
Nobody gets to know eachother anymore. They then jump into marriages, after their envy-inducing magnificent wedding. They realise they don't know eachother and are not compatible. oh yes, the problem is bigger than just divorce... the desperation and pressure for people to get married in Africa is huge and many will gladly marry any donkey out there... and as much as it is wrong, we cant force these two immature people to stay together (when they realize their mistake). i'd rather they divorce and be merry than try to make this union work when the foundation is rotten. divorce is the "only" option... |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by jbbalarabe(m): 5:31pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. why your wife said was very inhuman to you tell her what if she was the one that has the bad luck and youaeei d her and that was why you did not get rich yet? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:31pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. Beating her up poured fuel to the fire. You should have fvcked her the way you did 5 years ago to reformat her brain settings and serve as a reminder of how you married her 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 20, 2020 |
Juell: My brother, your marriage over that's the bitter truth. U have said it ALL. The WHOLE TRUST ISSUE is gone 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:31pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. she has scattered your brain back just like you did in the past. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by madridsta007(m): 5:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. You used your sexual prowess to win your wife. That was short-sighted. She thought sex was everything and left a struggling but purpose-driven man for you. That was short-sighted.You both deserve yourself. Lessons to guys here: Never poach a lady who is dating another guy, unless she willingly leaves the guy for you. Ladies have sharp-mouth. One day, she will release that mouth on you. Chief, you are married to her. Do not lay your hands on her. She will run to that guy and, if he still loves her, you will loose your wife. Work together and find a way to grow/increase your income. Someone has to eat the humble pie here and it looks like this will be you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by nitt: 5:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
@op divorce her asap |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by naturefellow(m): 5:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
jbbalarabe: why your wife said was very inhuman to you tell her what if she was the one that has the bad luck and youaeei d her and that was why you did not get rich yet? touché |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Lexusgs430: 5:32pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. This happens when you deliberately snatch another man's girlfriend....... He returned with a vengeance, by financially oppressing you..... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) This life is turn by turn, it might even be that woman, that tied your financial empire to an ewedu tree....... ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by teecode45(m): 5:33pm On May 20, 2020 |
Karama @ work here!!!...... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by humilitypays(m): 5:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. hahahahahahaha lafmaooo ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) Your wife na confirm.mumu, her type always get served like this, she should live with her mistake. Many ladies reading this will still make same mistake your wife made, make una enjoy the sex since na sex today ladies crave for now in marriage ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Alaganature(m): 5:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
Baba Calm down nothing go happen..just make the money and take her far away from the area so they won't set there eyes on each other...and moreover I self tell her say if she likes make she go meet the guy Las Las the guy go just Bleep her but won't marry her...if she's not careful she would miss the both party... |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by victorjoe(m): 5:34pm On May 20, 2020 |
Sisijetue: Daddy ope epele o Iyanu mashele Mafoo Ha ha! So you know it's daddy Ope. Omase o. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:
oh yes, the problem is bigger than just divorce... the desperation and pressure for people to get married in Africa is huge and many will gladly marry any donkey out there... and as much as it is wrong, we cant force these two immature people to stay together (when they realize their mistake). i'd rather they divorce and be merry than try to make this union work when the foundation is rotten.
divorce is the "only" option... The divorce rate in Nigeria is apparently 50% ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) shocking. I wouldn't a divorce, it is damaging. I am an advocate for intensive marriage counselling. |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by saracen: 5:36pm On May 20, 2020 |
Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner, Oga Toto Scatterer 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by johnsnow2020(m): 5:38pm On May 20, 2020 |
gunners160: 1. don't take it personal she said it out of anger and she was fustrated of which every woman in her shoes will feel dsame
2. She needs love and not nagging. Things are not getting well his your duty to give her the assurance she needs that things will change for the best
3. leave that area so that she won't and you also won't be envious of the guy's success so as to enable u focus on making yourself better
4. See what she says as a challenge and become best in what you do ,if possible start a business. You too can become rich .....
5. Lastly dont listen to those small kids who tells u to end ur marriage or d marriage is over. It is just starting u can make it rossy again That's maturity,well said 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by drightguy(m): 5:38pm On May 20, 2020 |
Honestly you need to let her know you are trying all you could to get things to work out well financially. Assure her things will get better someday.
Life is not competition! She should be thankful for life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Davidoo1n(m): 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
really don't know what to say. but its best if you just relocate away from that area as quick as possible... i wont be surprise if your wife leaves u soon |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by safetyboot: 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
Give her another one so that her brain will reset. Stupid man ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
Getting a sensible and respectful woman iz as hard as making money Man!!! It's obvious yur wife iz a gold digger, sir! just ignore her and hustle more. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by lexxyrule(m): 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
bigiyaro: OP, you made your choice, live with whatever comes with it. Also you enticed and "snatched" her from her guy cos he was not stable then, what makes you think if someone comes with a juicy enticement, she won't leave you? Again you are just a victim of circumstances, karma is just paying back your wife for dumping someone that shared with her his little resources. lastly let her regret her regret its not your regret, its your ego that was just bruised. Best comment |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Arizonaz: 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
This story get as eh be ... Aswear . But in life there is no competition. The only person you are competing with is yourself. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Adezanoti: 5:39pm On May 20, 2020 |
Firstly, I would say you are a man and you need to be strong cos thinking or brooding on this won't bring any progress rather you get bitter and weak. I believe your wife had just told you what she had kept in mind for plenty years cos I wouldn't agree to the fact that she had just thought of telling you this. Believe me bro, she had kept this in mind for so long looking for a slight opportunity to which she can spilt it out and now she has. So what's next for you to do? An oyinbo man would say, the best revenge to your enemy is to make money cos if you get money today bro. C dos wey dey look down on you go twale you cos den too won chop from ur money. You've known your wife to be who she is now. You can actually settle things out with her in peace , forgive her but do not forget and PUSH MORE STRENGTH TOWARDS YOUR WORK. I pray you succeed � and make more better life soonest! (Remember, no woman won suffer o). My 1kobo DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by emkz: 5:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
You have always been her "side-chick", holding brief until her guy returns. She's not yours good sir. Her heart has always been elsewhere. She'd end up leaving you (that is incontrovertible) and you can continue to live in denial. The best you'd be to her is her concubine which is what you were when her main guy was working hard to secure his future and you thought your sex game was the best thing ever. A woman's needs are multifarious. If you are good in one and not in another, she is willing to get that other elsewhere.
Welcome to reality you never thought would come.
If your woman compares you to her ex either to say you are better or he is better, take that as a cue and disengage the relationship. If a woman cannot respect you, leave her, I beg you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by spinna: 5:40pm On May 20, 2020 |
This is the long term difference between the entrepreneur path and the paid employmnent path.
The entrepreneur and employee are both good at doing the job.
But the employee is hampered by his boss and management, and the ever present fear of sack.
Meanwhile the entrepreneur is learning marketing and management ..also expanding into other related areas (cement) and is getting bigger even though his beginning was not attractive.
Mr Entrepreneur ..he was hustling so hard that madam preferred Mr 9 to 5 salary earner who would come home on time and had a reliable salary..but now with coro maybe not so reliable.
My advice to op.. If you can leave that area so you and wifey wont be seeing her exes manion everyday.
Keep your job ..start a business..and start putting part of your salary and your off work hours into it.
Forgive your wife ..this is marriage .. and let the pain of her words ginger you. Think big and build yourself. Also focus on the things you are good at and continue to improve on them to please her.
Those that say we cant all be entrepreneurs should know that some centuries ago everyone was an entrepreneur 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by stonecoldcafe: 5:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
DaddyOpe: I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.
I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.
During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.
Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself. It is well. Hustle harder. Your wife is not being fair right now but just ignore her and try to upgrade yourself. It is well. [s]One last thing, if you can help it and once things normalize, please park out of that area[/s] ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
Many relationships have broken because of � money. This situation is really baffling.But, don't fight with your wife just have a talk with her to console her. I pray she does not misbehave. |
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Alaganature(m): 5:41pm On May 20, 2020 |
OlawaleBammie:
Oga this is not ur fault joo, wetin hapen na just karma, karma has visited ur wife and its stil living comfortably in ur apartment.
That is the karma for leaving her benefactor for u.
Just work hard and pray if u bliv in prayer, all wil b well laslas wen karma is done with its visitation No be lie bro...you really hit the nail by the head bro |