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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Pinkybush: 8:07am On May 21, 2020
yomi007k:
Good information.

Black man don't like to read. That's one of the reasons we are black in everything.
You being black and hate reading doesn't mean another black man is like you. So, stop generalizing "we" whenever you want to vomit such trash.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 8:07am On May 21, 2020
afribabe:
Stop kissing them is way lot easier than trying to prove that you don't cheat...
You should have said, I should stop greeting girls too.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Bojack(m): 8:12am On May 21, 2020
fieryy:


Girl, I don't blame you I've had my own super scary experiences with guys when my 'No, I' m not interested' wasn't respected. There was a time when I used to carry pepper spray and a pocket knife to clubs. Now, I am always with a pepper spray. Fronmy experience such guys can be young and old, it really doesn't matter. A lot of them already have this mentality of being able to get away with everything.

I don't think I'll ever be brave enough to cut a man's dick though, but I get it grin

Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Mariangeles(f): 8:12am On May 21, 2020
creative11:
DON’T KILL YOUR HUSBAND. THIS IS HOW TO DEAL WITH HIM IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU
By Bisi Adewale


It was discovered that a great proportion of women who killed their husbands did so because they suspected or confirmed that their men were sleeping with other women. Technology has made adultery and fornication very common nowadays. It is easier to get connected to people you’ve never met before through social media like Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, etc.
Many websites connect both single and married people for sex at a fee. Dating websites aid married people who want to cheat on their spouses to do so secretly. Even married people meet singles just for sex is very common on the internet.

Pornographic websites are said to be more than 75% of all websites on the internet. 35% of all internet downloads are related to porn. 34% of internet users have experienced unwanted pornographic content through ads, pop up ads, misdirected links or emails. It is also easier than before to keep an illicit relationship outside marriage through the use of mobile phones, chatting applications, social media, etc.

Please note that lots of women are also sleeping around, but it is more prevalent among men. However, do not generalise that all men are sleeping around.

A young executive came to me some weeks ago. His problem, a young lady was transferred to his office to work as his secretary. The lady in question was so sexy and daring. She did everything to lure the young man to bed. He wanted to know what to do to avoid sleeping with her and not to cheat on his wife. He said he had been married for 13 years and had never slept with anybody apart from his wife. Many men who are committed to their wedding vows but facing this problem still come to us for counselling. Yours may be one of them. If not, killing him is not the answer to your problem.

If you discover or suspect that your husband is sleeping with someone else apart from you, there are many things you must do quickly.
Read this piece carefully and follow the instructions given to avoid falling into the error of killing your spouse and becoming a murderer in the process:

GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT, DON’T BASE YOUR LIFE ON RUMOURS

A woman was to see a male client in a particular hotel lobby in Ikoyi. She went with one of her staff who had no business in the meeting. The staff was supposed to be on another project at that time.
I asked her, "Why are you taking your staff with you for the meeting?"
She said, "To avoid rumours. If my driver sees me coming to a hotel with a man without anyone with us, he will begin to carry rumours that are not true”

This got me thinking. Lots of women are dying today based on lies, misrepresentation, and rumours about their husbands which may not be true.

So, get your facts right. If you hear rumours, investigate it carefully but give your husband the benefit of doubt.

GET YOUR EVIDENCE RIGHT; DON’T BASE YOUR MARRIAGE ON SUSPICION

A young wife called our office some months ago. She told us that her husband was sleeping around. We invited both of them to our office, only to discover that her grouse was her husband not sucking her breasts ever since they got married. This made her think he was sucking someone else's breasts somewhere.
But her dear husband is a “Holy Man” who believed that sucking breasts is a sin. He asked me, “Sir, why should I suck her breasts when I'm not a baby?” We opened his eyes to Proverbs 5:15-19 and he was very shocked. He returned home to do his job right and the wife called me with great joy the second day. That ended her suspicion of infidelity.

Please never accuse your husband wrongly if you don’t have any piece of evidence, it may not be what you think. It can be so hurtful if he is not doing it but he is accused of wrongly. Even, it may make some people go ahead and do it.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTION

No matter what happens, take control of your emotion, even if you get all the pieces of evidence needed and they are watertight. Let your maturity show here. That is why marriage is for matured minds only, not babies in diapers. Cry if you feel like; please cry loudly when alone or with your counsellor. It will help your emotion; it will help you to calm down and think rationally.

REMEMBER THAT KILLING HIM WILL GET YOU INTO DEEP TROUBLE

Remember and have in mind that killing your husband will get you into hot water with the law, disrupt your life forever, put you to shame, hurt your children dearly, make you a widow and make your children fatherless. The cost is much more than having him sleep with another woman.

One woman said, “My husband is a womanizer, but I won’t kill him. At least, they release him to come back home after finishing with him. He needs to come back home to pay house rent and school fees.”

POSITION YOURSELF TO DISCOVER INFIDELITY QUICKLY

Lots of women are clueless. A woman never knew her husband had been unfaithful. She didn't know that her husband had another family outside until a woman brought three children home for her husband.

Lots of women know that their husbands are unfaithful only after his death.
A woman told us how three women came with four children to her husband's funeral. She said she was unaware of her husband's escapades with other women until that day. That is very funny and it shows the lack of knowledge and absence of insensitivity.

If a wife discovers infidelity issues early, the man can be stopped. Some of them need help as they feel trapped but don’t know what to do. You see, no man can be a perfect womanizer beside a very sensitive, Godly and smart wife. There will be clues all around beyond what you are hunting but checking his phones.

There are thirty-seven clues every womanizing man will give out cheaply as they enter into an illicit relationship outside. The infidelity will be boldly written over them no matter how smart they are. But most wives will not be able to read the language in which it is written. So they will live in total darkness despite overwhelming evidence. Everybody around the wife will know but may never tell her because they know she may never believe them.

I will suggest you quickly download my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN. In the book, I revealed the thirty-seven clues, where to get them and what to do with them. I also wrote about how to make your husband never to desire any other woman out there.

DON’T FALL INTO DEPRESSION

Some women do not kill their cheating husbands. Instead, they kill themselves by overthinking negatively, depression, high blood pressure many health challenges or suicide.
Do you want to die to make another woman happy? Don’t give her that joy, not at all. NO IMMORAL MAN IS WORTH DYING FOR. Wake up, girl! Cry if you must. Yes, do cry, it is good for your health. But take care of your thinking, take charge of your mind and don’t allow them to steal your joy. No depression. Sing aloud, dance, shout for joy. NO SORRY, NO SORROW! Don’t die for them to come and make love on your tomb, not at all. Live to fulfil your day, take charge of your emotion.

DON'T TURN IT TO A BATTLE

As a counsellor, I know that not all women who killed their husbands intended to kill them, not at all. The problem is that they allowed their emotions to take the better of them and turn their homes to a battlefield. They used any weapon that came to their mind: knives, pestle, frying pan, bottles, grinding stones and anything that could inflict injury.

They turned the battle against themselves in the process and became murderers. What a heavy burden for a woman to bear.

APPLY WISDOM

Some people may tell you not to ask your husband about your discovery. No. Ask him, confront him, but do so by applying wisdom. It is not something to handle rashly. In my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN, I devoted a whole chapter to discussing how to confront a cheating husband without losing him. It is a very technical issue; you need to know what to do. As I said, you can get the book on Familabooks.com. I will advise you to download the eBook version on your phone so that you can read it discreetly to yourself.
I think every woman needs it especially the chapters that deal with how to protect your husband from other women and how to discover if your husband is cheating on you. Click here to download the book now.

CHECK YOURSELF

Don’t just blame your husband for sleeping around, check yourself. One study shows that 80% of Nigerian married women hate sex. It also showed that sex is what causes the major crisis in Nigerian marriages as lots of wives are frigid.
Statements such as “I'm tired tonight honey” “Not again tonight honey” "But you did one the day before yesterday” “Is it food?” “Don’t you think of any other thing?" pervades many bedrooms, thus making men vulnerable to willing and ready beauty queens out there.
Most married men want sex two or three times a week. However, lots of married women want sex once a month only. One husband told me that he had not been able to sleep with his wife in the last 6 weeks because she complained of being tired.

It is wrong for any man to sleep around, nobody can justify that for any reason. But it is also wrong to deny your husband sex. Up your game, sex is legal in marriage. You said "I DO” on your wedding day, GO AND DO. If they DO it better out there, you will lose your husband to them. Don't be foolish; get Hot and sexy with your husband. Pursue your husband, give him a bed shaking sex at home and let him go to the office battered with a back issue tomorrow. You can't win a man with a hooked bra and padlocked pant. Your body belongs to him. Suffocate him with sex so that when he sees other women, they will look like trees to him.

You will also need to download my book about sex in marriage titled: THE SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE to know how to become an extraordinary bedroom expert to your husband and turn him to a lover boy.

UP YOUR GAME

Up your game in every area of wifehood. Cook right, pray rightly, dress right, talk rightly, behave right and sex him rightly. Deal with him till he forgets his surname, he is your husband. What is he looking for outside that you don’t have? But are you giving him? Check yourself and get back to bed hot and sizzling and stop wearing jeans knickers to bed or tying wrapper around your body like a woman of the 17th century.

CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE

What about your behaviour at home? An immoral man told me that his wife stresses him at home but those girls treat him with care. This can be true about lots of women. They see the ring as the right over their husbands to treat them like trash and have their ways the way they want it. Sorry girl, if you treat your king like trash, you may be enthroning a new queen in your position. (Hope I'm not being too harsh on you)

DON’T BOTTLE IT

Don’t ever bottle your discovery about your husband. No, you need to speak out but speak right. If you bottle it, one day you may burst. You may hurt yourself or husband or kill him.

PRAY ABOUT IT

One of the best solutions is prayer. Talk to God about it. Commit your emotions and the situation to God. Commit your husband to the hands of God before you speak to him.

DON’T LEAVE YOUR HOME

Don’t make the mistake of leaving your home because you are angry with your husband. If you do, you will just hand over the keys of your home to these small girls. Don’t be tempted to leave.

REACH OUT TO THE GIRL

You may need to reach out to the girl sleeping with your husband in some cases. It can work if the lady never knew he was married but was deceived. However, if the lady is the “private prostitute” type, this may not work, but you can give it a try.

A young wife called the lady going out with her husband recently and introduced herself as his wife. The girl was so shocked as the guy told her he was not married and promised her marriage. The side chick apologized and broke the relationship. Before you call the girl, investigate her. Check her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Check what she is posting, you will get to know the kind of girl she is in the process.
If you must talk to the girl, please be cautious. Do not fight, do not shout and do not sound beggarly. The lady may be rude and non-cooperative. Don’t bother, just speak to her conscience. Tell her you are her sister, please emphasize the sister point. Let her see reason, talk to her soul. Let her know what you and the children are passing through at home because of her. Let her know how irresponsible your husband has become since dating her. Let her know your labour over your husband and sacrifices since you married him. Let her know that one day she will be married too; ask her how she will feel if such was done to her.

A woman got information that her husband was sleeping around and she investigated to get more details. One day, she knew her husband would likely visit the girl. She paid a bike man to trail his car to wherever he was going. The bike man did as instructed. The wife then decided to visit her husband in the girl's apartment. Lo, it was her husband who answered the door when she knocked. He was shocked but the wife did not fight (you can’t win when you fight a man's mistress. He will use your attitude as a reason for running away from the house). She spoke to the conscience of the girl. She spoke kindly to the girl and told her that the man must have been deceiving her like he has been doing to other girls of the age of his daughters. The girl was too confused to utter a word than just to say she was sorry. She told the wife her husband told her wasn't married because his wife died about three years before they met and promised to marry her.
That was the end of that relationship. The man came back home shamefully and the situation got to him because the wife never fought when he got back home. His food was ready on the table and the wife welcomed him back like a royal. The result, he learned to keep his erection at home.

TALK TO A COUNSELLOR

Before you confront your husband, you will need to see a counsellor, not your family and his family who will complicate the whole matter.
A counsellor will evaluate the whole matter and teach you what to do to get your husband back. So wherever you are, look for a counsellor quickly, don’t die in silence.

If you don’t talk to a counsellor now, you will need to talk to a lawyer later when you are in trouble.
If you want to reach me to talk on the issue of your marriage, let's talk now, don’t die in silence.
Send me a mail or call right now. I will be glad to talk to you.

Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @bisiadewale

Please, share this for all women to see. Let us stop these incessant domestic killings, every life is sacred, every life is important. Don’t take any life.

@Bisi Adewale

The bolded got me laughing....
No be only sister... angry
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Depressed101: 8:12am On May 21, 2020
creative11:
DON’T KILL YOUR HUSBAND. THIS IS HOW TO DEAL WITH HIM IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU
By Bisi Adewale


It was discovered that a great proportion of women who killed their husbands did so because they suspected or confirmed that their men were sleeping with other women. Technology has made adultery and fornication very common nowadays. It is easier to get connected to people you’ve never met before through social media like Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, etc.
Many websites connect both single and married people for sex at a fee. Dating websites aid married people who want to cheat on their spouses to do so secretly. Even married people meet singles just for sex is very common on the internet.

Pornographic websites are said to be more than 75% of all websites on the internet. 35% of all internet downloads are related to porn. 34% of internet users have experienced unwanted pornographic content through ads, pop up ads, misdirected links or emails. It is also easier than before to keep an illicit relationship outside marriage through the use of mobile phones, chatting applications, social media, etc.

Please note that lots of women are also sleeping around, but it is more prevalent among men. However, do not generalise that all men are sleeping around.

A young executive came to me some weeks ago. His problem, a young lady was transferred to his office to work as his secretary. The lady in question was so sexy and daring. She did everything to lure the young man to bed. He wanted to know what to do to avoid sleeping with her and not to cheat on his wife. He said he had been married for 13 years and had never slept with anybody apart from his wife. Many men who are committed to their wedding vows but facing this problem still come to us for counselling. Yours may be one of them. If not, killing him is not the answer to your problem.

If you discover or suspect that your husband is sleeping with someone else apart from you, there are many things you must do quickly.
Read this piece carefully and follow the instructions given to avoid falling into the error of killing your spouse and becoming a murderer in the process:

GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT, DON’T BASE YOUR LIFE ON RUMOURS

A woman was to see a male client in a particular hotel lobby in Ikoyi. She went with one of her staff who had no business in the meeting. The staff was supposed to be on another project at that time.
I asked her, "Why are you taking your staff with you for the meeting?"
She said, "To avoid rumours. If my driver sees me coming to a hotel with a man without anyone with us, he will begin to carry rumours that are not true”

This got me thinking. Lots of women are dying today based on lies, misrepresentation, and rumours about their husbands which may not be true.

So, get your facts right. If you hear rumours, investigate it carefully but give your husband the benefit of doubt.

GET YOUR EVIDENCE RIGHT; DON’T BASE YOUR MARRIAGE ON SUSPICION

A young wife called our office some months ago. She told us that her husband was sleeping around. We invited both of them to our office, only to discover that her grouse was her husband not sucking her breasts ever since they got married. This made her think he was sucking someone else's breasts somewhere.
But her dear husband is a “Holy Man” who believed that sucking breasts is a sin. He asked me, “Sir, why should I suck her breasts when I'm not a baby?” We opened his eyes to Proverbs 5:15-19 and he was very shocked. He returned home to do his job right and the wife called me with great joy the second day. That ended her suspicion of infidelity.

Please never accuse your husband wrongly if you don’t have any piece of evidence, it may not be what you think. It can be so hurtful if he is not doing it but he is accused of wrongly. Even, it may make some people go ahead and do it.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTION

No matter what happens, take control of your emotion, even if you get all the pieces of evidence needed and they are watertight. Let your maturity show here. That is why marriage is for matured minds only, not babies in diapers. Cry if you feel like; please cry loudly when alone or with your counsellor. It will help your emotion; it will help you to calm down and think rationally.

REMEMBER THAT KILLING HIM WILL GET YOU INTO DEEP TROUBLE

Remember and have in mind that killing your husband will get you into hot water with the law, disrupt your life forever, put you to shame, hurt your children dearly, make you a widow and make your children fatherless. The cost is much more than having him sleep with another woman.

One woman said, “My husband is a womanizer, but I won’t kill him. At least, they release him to come back home after finishing with him. He needs to come back home to pay house rent and school fees.”

POSITION YOURSELF TO DISCOVER INFIDELITY QUICKLY

Lots of women are clueless. A woman never knew her husband had been unfaithful. She didn't know that her husband had another family outside until a woman brought three children home for her husband.

Lots of women know that their husbands are unfaithful only after his death.
A woman told us how three women came with four children to her husband's funeral. She said she was unaware of her husband's escapades with other women until that day. That is very funny and it shows the lack of knowledge and absence of insensitivity.

If a wife discovers infidelity issues early, the man can be stopped. Some of them need help as they feel trapped but don’t know what to do. You see, no man can be a perfect womanizer beside a very sensitive, Godly and smart wife. There will be clues all around beyond what you are hunting but checking his phones.

There are thirty-seven clues every womanizing man will give out cheaply as they enter into an illicit relationship outside. The infidelity will be boldly written over them no matter how smart they are. But most wives will not be able to read the language in which it is written. So they will live in total darkness despite overwhelming evidence. Everybody around the wife will know but may never tell her because they know she may never believe them.

I will suggest you quickly download my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN. In the book, I revealed the thirty-seven clues, where to get them and what to do with them. I also wrote about how to make your husband never to desire any other woman out there.

DON’T FALL INTO DEPRESSION

Some women do not kill their cheating husbands. Instead, they kill themselves by overthinking negatively, depression, high blood pressure many health challenges or suicide.
Do you want to die to make another woman happy? Don’t give her that joy, not at all. NO IMMORAL MAN IS WORTH DYING FOR. Wake up, girl! Cry if you must. Yes, do cry, it is good for your health. But take care of your thinking, take charge of your mind and don’t allow them to steal your joy. No depression. Sing aloud, dance, shout for joy. NO SORRY, NO SORROW! Don’t die for them to come and make love on your tomb, not at all. Live to fulfil your day, take charge of your emotion.

DON'T TURN IT TO A BATTLE

As a counsellor, I know that not all women who killed their husbands intended to kill them, not at all. The problem is that they allowed their emotions to take the better of them and turn their homes to a battlefield. They used any weapon that came to their mind: knives, pestle, frying pan, bottles, grinding stones and anything that could inflict injury.

They turned the battle against themselves in the process and became murderers. What a heavy burden for a woman to bear.

APPLY WISDOM

Some people may tell you not to ask your husband about your discovery. No. Ask him, confront him, but do so by applying wisdom. It is not something to handle rashly. In my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN, I devoted a whole chapter to discussing how to confront a cheating husband without losing him. It is a very technical issue; you need to know what to do. As I said, you can get the book on Familabooks.com. I will advise you to download the eBook version on your phone so that you can read it discreetly to yourself.
I think every woman needs it especially the chapters that deal with how to protect your husband from other women and how to discover if your husband is cheating on you. Click here to download the book now.

CHECK YOURSELF

Don’t just blame your husband for sleeping around, check yourself. One study shows that 80% of Nigerian married women hate sex. It also showed that sex is what causes the major crisis in Nigerian marriages as lots of wives are frigid.
Statements such as “I'm tired tonight honey” “Not again tonight honey” "But you did one the day before yesterday” “Is it food?” “Don’t you think of any other thing?" pervades many bedrooms, thus making men vulnerable to willing and ready beauty queens out there.
Most married men want sex two or three times a week. However, lots of married women want sex once a month only. One husband told me that he had not been able to sleep with his wife in the last 6 weeks because she complained of being tired.

It is wrong for any man to sleep around, nobody can justify that for any reason. But it is also wrong to deny your husband sex. Up your game, sex is legal in marriage. You said "I DO” on your wedding day, GO AND DO. If they DO it better out there, you will lose your husband to them. Don't be foolish; get Hot and sexy with your husband. Pursue your husband, give him a bed shaking sex at home and let him go to the office battered with a back issue tomorrow. You can't win a man with a hooked bra and padlocked pant. Your body belongs to him. Suffocate him with sex so that when he sees other women, they will look like trees to him.

You will also need to download my book about sex in marriage titled: THE SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE to know how to become an extraordinary bedroom expert to your husband and turn him to a lover boy.

UP YOUR GAME

Up your game in every area of wifehood. Cook right, pray rightly, dress right, talk rightly, behave right and sex him rightly. Deal with him till he forgets his surname, he is your husband. What is he looking for outside that you don’t have? But are you giving him? Check yourself and get back to bed hot and sizzling and stop wearing jeans knickers to bed or tying wrapper around your body like a woman of the 17th century.

CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE

What about your behaviour at home? An immoral man told me that his wife stresses him at home but those girls treat him with care. This can be true about lots of women. They see the ring as the right over their husbands to treat them like trash and have their ways the way they want it. Sorry girl, if you treat your king like trash, you may be enthroning a new queen in your position. (Hope I'm not being too harsh on you)

DON’T BOTTLE IT

Don’t ever bottle your discovery about your husband. No, you need to speak out but speak right. If you bottle it, one day you may burst. You may hurt yourself or husband or kill him.

PRAY ABOUT IT

One of the best solutions is prayer. Talk to God about it. Commit your emotions and the situation to God. Commit your husband to the hands of God before you speak to him.

DON’T LEAVE YOUR HOME

Don’t make the mistake of leaving your home because you are angry with your husband. If you do, you will just hand over the keys of your home to these small girls. Don’t be tempted to leave.

REACH OUT TO THE GIRL

You may need to reach out to the girl sleeping with your husband in some cases. It can work if the lady never knew he was married but was deceived. However, if the lady is the “private prostitute” type, this may not work, but you can give it a try.

A young wife called the lady going out with her husband recently and introduced herself as his wife. The girl was so shocked as the guy told her he was not married and promised her marriage. The side chick apologized and broke the relationship. Before you call the girl, investigate her. Check her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Check what she is posting, you will get to know the kind of girl she is in the process.
If you must talk to the girl, please be cautious. Do not fight, do not shout and do not sound beggarly. The lady may be rude and non-cooperative. Don’t bother, just speak to her conscience. Tell her you are her sister, please emphasize the sister point. Let her see reason, talk to her soul. Let her know what you and the children are passing through at home because of her. Let her know how irresponsible your husband has become since dating her. Let her know your labour over your husband and sacrifices since you married him. Let her know that one day she will be married too; ask her how she will feel if such was done to her.

A woman got information that her husband was sleeping around and she investigated to get more details. One day, she knew her husband would likely visit the girl. She paid a bike man to trail his car to wherever he was going. The bike man did as instructed. The wife then decided to visit her husband in the girl's apartment. Lo, it was her husband who answered the door when she knocked. He was shocked but the wife did not fight (you can’t win when you fight a man's mistress. He will use your attitude as a reason for running away from the house). She spoke to the conscience of the girl. She spoke kindly to the girl and told her that the man must have been deceiving her like he has been doing to other girls of the age of his daughters. The girl was too confused to utter a word than just to say she was sorry. She told the wife her husband told her wasn't married because his wife died about three years before they met and promised to marry her.
That was the end of that relationship. The man came back home shamefully and the situation got to him because the wife never fought when he got back home. His food was ready on the table and the wife welcomed him back like a royal. The result, he learned to keep his erection at home.

TALK TO A COUNSELLOR

Before you confront your husband, you will need to see a counsellor, not your family and his family who will complicate the whole matter.
A counsellor will evaluate the whole matter and teach you what to do to get your husband back. So wherever you are, look for a counsellor quickly, don’t die in silence.

If you don’t talk to a counsellor now, you will need to talk to a lawyer later when you are in trouble.
If you want to reach me to talk on the issue of your marriage, let's talk now, don’t die in silence.
Send me a mail or call right now. I will be glad to talk to you.

Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @bisiadewale

Please, share this for all women to see. Let us stop these incessant domestic killings, every life is sacred, every life is important. Don’t take any life.

@Bisi Adewale
this could have being ilegend, but no, he chooses to be the clown he is! cry
Op well done. Well written and articulated,
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Randy100: 8:13am On May 21, 2020
Mariangeles:


Keep kissing you hear? Until you kiss a poisonous snake! angry

Oko ashewo oshi
Nobody is kissing a poisonous snake. Kissing is a greeting. If you are a christian read 2 cor 13:12
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by foleskay(m): 8:14am On May 21, 2020
Ishilove:
Don't kill my male relatives for cheating on you because I will kill you and bury you so deep, even your ancestors will not be able to locate you in the spirit realm.
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by piamily(f): 8:17am On May 21, 2020
Keep kissing other peoples wives and watch God bless you! Just imagine

Randy100:
If you are a christian please read 2 cor 13:12
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by King44(m): 8:20am On May 21, 2020
proclinician:
I don't see how this is even a problem. Pls if ur husband is cheating carry your bags and leave his house. Call the marriage quit.
Simple
correct talk, you better do not listen to this one

you leave you ruin or almost ruin your children's life, there is only very few cases where it won't absolutely affect the children psychologically, emotionally etc and the relationship with their father may become rough which would be a sore to you in coming years, upon all that very ignorant husband might even decide to replace you with two more wives, your home has been given to wolves all because you are not patient or patient enough and you can not apply wisdom.

Long story short my ups and down life drama is a product of such unwise decision she should have stayed.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Freeeanijor: 8:22am On May 21, 2020
wany:

So why do men cry a river when women cheat or don't you think what is good for the goose is equally good for the gander.to be honest to you feeling is same.the same urged you have towards the opposite sex is the feeling your woman has too even double.and with this present generation cheating is free for all. undecided
It hurts men the most when there spouse cheat and has higher implications not just on there ego but there mission on Earth. The Almighty God the Creator of heaven and Earth in His infinite wisdom made man the head of the house and provider of food for his family. If he decides to bring in more children from a side chick (concubine) or not it's his money that will be used to take care of them.
Before this civilization and era of feminism (except in Islam populated areas) patriarchy system was the order and a large proportions of women were okay with it. Matriarchy is what is causing issues for those that adopted the system.
The name for a cheating wife is "a prostitute" and that in itself is a deregotory word any descent woman would want to be called, that's the reason most of them women hide there game.
A cheating wife can prevent a man from seeing his offsprings, his children and blood therefore not fulfilling his God given assignment.
She's dangerous and referred to as wicked sometimes, when caught in the act of cheating it sometime end in tears because love and hate are the same, sacrifice turn to revenge.


Proverbs 6: 32-35 Anyone committing adultery with a woman is lacking good sense;The one who does so brings ruin on himself. 33 He will get only wounds and dishonor,And his disgrace will not be wiped away. 34 For jealousy makes a husband furious;He will show no compassion when he takes revenge. 35 He will accept no compensation;He will not be appeased, no matter how large you make the gift.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 8:24am On May 21, 2020
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Lmaooooo, are you scared grin
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by maasoap(m): 8:27am On May 21, 2020
DanseMacabre:
Hmmm. To be very blunt, killing a cheating husband sounds a hundred times easier than practicing all these.


You seem to be forgetting that crimes of passion are committed in the heat of the moment.

And the killer and the children lives cease to remain the same
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Truthbites: 8:31am On May 21, 2020
'Reach out to the girl' advise will not work if the married man is her ATM...u wan comot her income? The cheater will just insult you.. this recession plus covid era?


All the woman should do is to pray hard and not nag and up her game.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Parisian: 8:33am On May 21, 2020
Funny you grin
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
until the wrong man cheats on me then we'll know e don pass fight
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 8:44am On May 21, 2020
*THE ABUSIVE USE OF ROHYPNOL*

I am sure you must have previously heard of the drug Rohypnol a.k.a "the date-rape drug" (it has other coded names). It is now widely used and available in Nigeria for rapes and a *new variety of purposes you are about to read* To the extent that you can even buy it now from all these small aboki shops or aboki hawkers that sell herbal medicine. What some people are not aware of, is that this drug, now has a brand new use in Nigeria.

Rohypnol is now used in Nigeria for a whole lots of purposes you are about to find out. Read this message to the end!

NOW HOW DOES THE DRUG ROHYPNOL WORK?
Rohypnol is an intermediate-acting benzodiazepine with general properties similar to Valium (diazepam). Rohypnol is a tranquilizer about ten times more potent than Valium. Tiny doses of this drug is used in the short term treatment of insomnia. It is also used as a pre-medication in surgery for inducing anesthesia (numbness). It is used medically for these reasons because it has very strong amnesic properties capable of impairing motor skills.

Since the 1990s Rohypnol has been used illegally as an abusive drug, as an aid for sexual assault and that's where it got the popular name "the date-rape drug". It is placed on the drinks or food of victims without their knowledge. Due to the strong amnesia produced by the drug, victims would have limited or no memory of the assault. This is because, the drug has the capability of impairing the motor skills of the person and impacting their brain function.


THE NEW USES OF THE DRUG IN NIGERIA.
*First Danger*
Overtime people discovered that this drug when used illegally at very tiny doses repeatedly, it does the following things;
It impairs motor skills, makes the person to be docile loosening up their principles, It alters the brain activity of the person slowing it down gradually. It does permanent damage to the brain. It turns a once vibrant intelligent person into a depressive human being that cannot reason properly. People would think that the reason for the person's change in behavior is because the person is just undergoing family pressure and children stress, they would not know that it is Rohypnol at work.

Husbands are now using it to dumb-down their wives who cannot accept cheating and refuse to be trampled upon. And vice versa, wives also use it on their husbands.
So what does the husband do? The husband kindly puts tiny amounts of the drug on weekly basis into his wife's food.
At cumulative little doses regularly administered into the victim's food, it can alter the brain activity of the woman and subtly change her perception towards life to the extent that nearby friends would not take notice immediately until the drug eventually turns her into a complete zombie that can easily be trampled upon, and is not capable of making the right judgement for herself.
So a once vibrant intelligent lady can be reduced to a brainless and senseless wife. This drug is capable of doing that.


*Secondly*
It is not only men that are using this drug. Women are also using this drug on their cheating husbands too, to dumb him down and make him loyal. It is becoming a rampant thing these days. Husbands really need to be aware of this because it is happening today. Wives can take tiny bits of this drug and add it to their husband's food on weekly basis, just once a week is enough. The drug will turn the man into a degenerated man incapable of making useful decisions.

Girlfriends and side-chicks are also using this drug on their unsuspecting boyfriends/marked men and sugar Daddys. It will have the same effects as mentioned above and turn him into a loyal dick.

NOTE
It is also worthy to note that when this drug is used at high doses and mixed with *carbamazepine*, it makes the victim run mad (mental). A lot of wives and husbands are doing this now. Most people cannot go through the stress of divorce or kill their spouse in an obvious way. So this is an easy way out cos it is untraceable. It is becoming rampant nowadays. So when next you hear of a husband or wive run mental, don't join the crowd to conclude that it was caused by Juju or family stress.

It has been backdoor knowledge that hausas have long used this method to dumb-down their women especially when they have the intention to take multiple wives. It helps them easily put all their wives under control.

*Please pass this on and save a soul today*

>>Forwarded>>
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Lcf69(m): 8:46am On May 21, 2020
Shugavee:
stop cheating, made u write this rubbish?? I pity the woman u involved with , but u see ,, u are not God n if there is only 2 good men in the world one is mine!

And,Madam u'll U shoot him at d slightest fall of any obvious Satanic Temptation?... Pinned
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Braindealer(f): 8:48am On May 21, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
play with my feelings, mental health and emotions? nah I'd rather kill you
Chisos! Your type will kill me if you find me hugging our daughter grin
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Airoflaw(m): 8:53am On May 21, 2020
Check out this book.

Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Danester: 8:54am On May 21, 2020
CanadaOrBust:
Isn’t it easier to just shoot him instead of reading this long lubbish

FTC!
Wow! This is making front page after 3 months!
Very surprised as I don’t see any snake nor is it about some third-rate celebrity

Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Danester: 8:56am On May 21, 2020
Depressed101:
this could have being ilegend, but no, he chooses to be the clown he is! cry
Op well done. Well written and articulated,
.

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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Braindealer(f): 8:59am On May 21, 2020
EVILFOREST:

What's CHEATING...?
Is the WORD VIRGINITY meant for the MALE or FEMALE..?

MARRIAGE is not by compulsion.
If u think you can't put up with the mystery that surround MEN, Then please don't marry any man that comes your way.

In Fact, I can assist you in praying that MEN should see nothing in you, rather they should make a u turn and approach other interested Ladies.

MEN are These, MEN are That.
PLEASE AVOID MEN.
Stay ALONE and STOP heading to SHILOH for interventions.
dont say that bro. Lets call a spade a spade.

Am also a man. And i find it difficult to avoid cheating even tho i dont want to.

It is morally WRONG to cheat! Lets tell ourselfs the truth. Put yourself in her shoes. Women deserves to be loved. Shugavee

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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 9:11am On May 21, 2020
creative11:
DON’T KILL YOUR HUSBAND. THIS IS HOW TO DEAL WITH HIM IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU
By Bisi Adewale


It was discovered that a great proportion of women who killed their husbands did so because they suspected or confirmed that their men were sleeping with other women. Technology has made adultery and fornication very common nowadays. It is easier to get connected to people you’ve never met before through social media like Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, etc.
Many websites connect both single and married people for sex at a fee. Dating websites aid married people who want to cheat on their spouses to do so secretly. Even married people meet singles just for sex is very common on the internet.

Pornographic websites are said to be more than 75% of all websites on the internet. 35% of all internet downloads are related to porn. 34% of internet users have experienced unwanted pornographic content through ads, pop up ads, misdirected links or emails. It is also easier than before to keep an illicit relationship outside marriage through the use of mobile phones, chatting applications, social media, etc.

Please note that lots of women are also sleeping around, but it is more prevalent among men. However, do not generalise that all men are sleeping around.

A young executive came to me some weeks ago. His problem, a young lady was transferred to his office to work as his secretary. The lady in question was so sexy and daring. She did everything to lure the young man to bed. He wanted to know what to do to avoid sleeping with her and not to cheat on his wife. He said he had been married for 13 years and had never slept with anybody apart from his wife. Many men who are committed to their wedding vows but facing this problem still come to us for counselling. Yours may be one of them. If not, killing him is not the answer to your problem.

If you discover or suspect that your husband is sleeping with someone else apart from you, there are many things you must do quickly.
Read this piece carefully and follow the instructions given to avoid falling into the error of killing your spouse and becoming a murderer in the process:

GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT, DON’T BASE YOUR LIFE ON RUMOURS

A woman was to see a male client in a particular hotel lobby in Ikoyi. She went with one of her staff who had no business in the meeting. The staff was supposed to be on another project at that time.
I asked her, "Why are you taking your staff with you for the meeting?"
She said, "To avoid rumours. If my driver sees me coming to a hotel with a man without anyone with us, he will begin to carry rumours that are not true”

This got me thinking. Lots of women are dying today based on lies, misrepresentation, and rumours about their husbands which may not be true.

So, get your facts right. If you hear rumours, investigate it carefully but give your husband the benefit of doubt.

GET YOUR EVIDENCE RIGHT; DON’T BASE YOUR MARRIAGE ON SUSPICION

A young wife called our office some months ago. She told us that her husband was sleeping around. We invited both of them to our office, only to discover that her grouse was her husband not sucking her breasts ever since they got married. This made her think he was sucking someone else's breasts somewhere.
But her dear husband is a “Holy Man” who believed that sucking breasts is a sin. He asked me, “Sir, why should I suck her breasts when I'm not a baby?” We opened his eyes to Proverbs 5:15-19 and he was very shocked. He returned home to do his job right and the wife called me with great joy the second day. That ended her suspicion of infidelity.

Please never accuse your husband wrongly if you don’t have any piece of evidence, it may not be what you think. It can be so hurtful if he is not doing it but he is accused of wrongly. Even, it may make some people go ahead and do it.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTION

No matter what happens, take control of your emotion, even if you get all the pieces of evidence needed and they are watertight. Let your maturity show here. That is why marriage is for matured minds only, not babies in diapers. Cry if you feel like; please cry loudly when alone or with your counsellor. It will help your emotion; it will help you to calm down and think rationally.

REMEMBER THAT KILLING HIM WILL GET YOU INTO DEEP TROUBLE

Remember and have in mind that killing your husband will get you into hot water with the law, disrupt your life forever, put you to shame, hurt your children dearly, make you a widow and make your children fatherless. The cost is much more than having him sleep with another woman.

One woman said, “My husband is a womanizer, but I won’t kill him. At least, they release him to come back home after finishing with him. He needs to come back home to pay house rent and school fees.”

POSITION YOURSELF TO DISCOVER INFIDELITY QUICKLY

Lots of women are clueless. A woman never knew her husband had been unfaithful. She didn't know that her husband had another family outside until a woman brought three children home for her husband.

Lots of women know that their husbands are unfaithful only after his death.
A woman told us how three women came with four children to her husband's funeral. She said she was unaware of her husband's escapades with other women until that day. That is very funny and it shows the lack of knowledge and absence of insensitivity.

If a wife discovers infidelity issues early, the man can be stopped. Some of them need help as they feel trapped but don’t know what to do. You see, no man can be a perfect womanizer beside a very sensitive, Godly and smart wife. There will be clues all around beyond what you are hunting but checking his phones.

There are thirty-seven clues every womanizing man will give out cheaply as they enter into an illicit relationship outside. The infidelity will be boldly written over them no matter how smart they are. But most wives will not be able to read the language in which it is written. So they will live in total darkness despite overwhelming evidence. Everybody around the wife will know but may never tell her because they know she may never believe them.

I will suggest you quickly download my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN. In the book, I revealed the thirty-seven clues, where to get them and what to do with them. I also wrote about how to make your husband never to desire any other woman out there.

DON’T FALL INTO DEPRESSION

Some women do not kill their cheating husbands. Instead, they kill themselves by overthinking negatively, depression, high blood pressure many health challenges or suicide.
Do you want to die to make another woman happy? Don’t give her that joy, not at all. NO IMMORAL MAN IS WORTH DYING FOR. Wake up, girl! Cry if you must. Yes, do cry, it is good for your health. But take care of your thinking, take charge of your mind and don’t allow them to steal your joy. No depression. Sing aloud, dance, shout for joy. NO SORRY, NO SORROW! Don’t die for them to come and make love on your tomb, not at all. Live to fulfil your day, take charge of your emotion.

DON'T TURN IT TO A BATTLE

As a counsellor, I know that not all women who killed their husbands intended to kill them, not at all. The problem is that they allowed their emotions to take the better of them and turn their homes to a battlefield. They used any weapon that came to their mind: knives, pestle, frying pan, bottles, grinding stones and anything that could inflict injury.

They turned the battle against themselves in the process and became murderers. What a heavy burden for a woman to bear.

APPLY WISDOM

Some people may tell you not to ask your husband about your discovery. No. Ask him, confront him, but do so by applying wisdom. It is not something to handle rashly. In my book: PROTECTING YOUR HUSBAND FROM STRANGE WOMEN, I devoted a whole chapter to discussing how to confront a cheating husband without losing him. It is a very technical issue; you need to know what to do. As I said, you can get the book on Familabooks.com. I will advise you to download the eBook version on your phone so that you can read it discreetly to yourself.
I think every woman needs it especially the chapters that deal with how to protect your husband from other women and how to discover if your husband is cheating on you. Click here to download the book now.

CHECK YOURSELF

Don’t just blame your husband for sleeping around, check yourself. One study shows that 80% of Nigerian married women hate sex. It also showed that sex is what causes the major crisis in Nigerian marriages as lots of wives are frigid.
Statements such as “I'm tired tonight honey” “Not again tonight honey” "But you did one the day before yesterday” “Is it food?” “Don’t you think of any other thing?" pervades many bedrooms, thus making men vulnerable to willing and ready beauty queens out there.
Most married men want sex two or three times a week. However, lots of married women want sex once a month only. One husband told me that he had not been able to sleep with his wife in the last 6 weeks because she complained of being tired.

It is wrong for any man to sleep around, nobody can justify that for any reason. But it is also wrong to deny your husband sex. Up your game, sex is legal in marriage. You said "I DO” on your wedding day, GO AND DO. If they DO it better out there, you will lose your husband to them. Don't be foolish; get Hot and sexy with your husband. Pursue your husband, give him a bed shaking sex at home and let him go to the office battered with a back issue tomorrow. You can't win a man with a hooked bra and padlocked pant. Your body belongs to him. Suffocate him with sex so that when he sees other women, they will look like trees to him.

You will also need to download my book about sex in marriage titled: THE SECRETS OF AN IRRESISTIBLE WIFE to know how to become an extraordinary bedroom expert to your husband and turn him to a lover boy.

UP YOUR GAME

Up your game in every area of wifehood. Cook right, pray rightly, dress right, talk rightly, behave right and sex him rightly. Deal with him till he forgets his surname, he is your husband. What is he looking for outside that you don’t have? But are you giving him? Check yourself and get back to bed hot and sizzling and stop wearing jeans knickers to bed or tying wrapper around your body like a woman of the 17th century.

CHECK YOUR ATTITUDE

What about your behaviour at home? An immoral man told me that his wife stresses him at home but those girls treat him with care. This can be true about lots of women. They see the ring as the right over their husbands to treat them like trash and have their ways the way they want it. Sorry girl, if you treat your king like trash, you may be enthroning a new queen in your position. (Hope I'm not being too harsh on you)

DON’T BOTTLE IT

Don’t ever bottle your discovery about your husband. No, you need to speak out but speak right. If you bottle it, one day you may burst. You may hurt yourself or husband or kill him.

PRAY ABOUT IT

One of the best solutions is prayer. Talk to God about it. Commit your emotions and the situation to God. Commit your husband to the hands of God before you speak to him.

DON’T LEAVE YOUR HOME

Don’t make the mistake of leaving your home because you are angry with your husband. If you do, you will just hand over the keys of your home to these small girls. Don’t be tempted to leave.

REACH OUT TO THE GIRL

You may need to reach out to the girl sleeping with your husband in some cases. It can work if the lady never knew he was married but was deceived. However, if the lady is the “private prostitute” type, this may not work, but you can give it a try.

A young wife called the lady going out with her husband recently and introduced herself as his wife. The girl was so shocked as the guy told her he was not married and promised her marriage. The side chick apologized and broke the relationship. Before you call the girl, investigate her. Check her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, etc. Check what she is posting, you will get to know the kind of girl she is in the process.
If you must talk to the girl, please be cautious. Do not fight, do not shout and do not sound beggarly. The lady may be rude and non-cooperative. Don’t bother, just speak to her conscience. Tell her you are her sister, please emphasize the sister point. Let her see reason, talk to her soul. Let her know what you and the children are passing through at home because of her. Let her know how irresponsible your husband has become since dating her. Let her know your labour over your husband and sacrifices since you married him. Let her know that one day she will be married too; ask her how she will feel if such was done to her.

A woman got information that her husband was sleeping around and she investigated to get more details. One day, she knew her husband would likely visit the girl. She paid a bike man to trail his car to wherever he was going. The bike man did as instructed. The wife then decided to visit her husband in the girl's apartment. Lo, it was her husband who answered the door when she knocked. He was shocked but the wife did not fight (you can’t win when you fight a man's mistress. He will use your attitude as a reason for running away from the house). She spoke to the conscience of the girl. She spoke kindly to the girl and told her that the man must have been deceiving her like he has been doing to other girls of the age of his daughters. The girl was too confused to utter a word than just to say she was sorry. She told the wife her husband told her wasn't married because his wife died about three years before they met and promised to marry her.
That was the end of that relationship. The man came back home shamefully and the situation got to him because the wife never fought when he got back home. His food was ready on the table and the wife welcomed him back like a royal. The result, he learned to keep his erection at home.

TALK TO A COUNSELLOR

Before you confront your husband, you will need to see a counsellor, not your family and his family who will complicate the whole matter.
A counsellor will evaluate the whole matter and teach you what to do to get your husband back. So wherever you are, look for a counsellor quickly, don’t die in silence.

If you don’t talk to a counsellor now, you will need to talk to a lawyer later when you are in trouble.
If you want to reach me to talk on the issue of your marriage, let's talk now, don’t die in silence.
Send me a mail or call right now. I will be glad to talk to you.

Follow me on Twitter and Instagram @bisiadewale

Please, share this for all women to see. Let us stop these incessant domestic killings, every life is sacred, every life is important. Don’t take any life.

@Bisi Adewale
hogwash and poppycock!!
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 9:12am On May 21, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
play with my feelings, mental health and emotions? nah I'd rather kill you
Amen, or make him a walking corpse.

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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by CanadaOrBust: 9:13am On May 21, 2020
Liftedhands:
God bless you.

Bless u too, and your mom and dad and little brothers and sisters
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by nautybride: 9:15am On May 21, 2020
No, I don't need to kill him fast, it can be done slowly. I can wait patiently for yearsgringrin. Have you ever seen a chameleon choose a colour for life?
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by nautybride: 9:16am On May 21, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
Amen, or make him a walking corpse.
Correct!
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by lexy2014: 9:16am On May 21, 2020
Shugavee:
stop cheating, made u write this rubbish?? I pity the woman u involved with , but u see ,, u are not God n if there is only 2 good men in the world one is mine!

But u said "men stop cheating". Is a "good man" not part of d men? How would u no that a man is "good"? Based on what d op wrote, can a "good man" not cheat?
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by lexy2014: 9:18am On May 21, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
hogwash and poppycock!!

Y is it "hogwash and poppycock"?
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by nautybride: 9:21am On May 21, 2020
Truthbites:
'Reach out to the girl' advise will not work if the married man is her ATM.


All the woman should do is to pray hard and not nag and up her game.

A woman should use all that time to pray for herself and her children. Is the man not an adult?
People will say pray,pray! Please did you come to the world together? Won't you die alone? This world is vanity! Women keep yourself happy too, men keep themselves happy by cheating.

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Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Azurevermillion: 9:22am On May 21, 2020
yomi007k:
Good information.

Black man don't like to read. That's one of the reasons we are black in everything.
What a stupid fellow. That's why the white always feel superior.
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 9:26am On May 21, 2020
Liposure:
thats unfair cheating
Hope you don't expect me to keep mute and keep forgiving her while she will still go back to her vomit?
Re: Don’t Kill Your Husband. This Is How To Deal With Him If He Is Cheating On You by Nobody: 9:27am On May 21, 2020
Liposure:
do me, i do u. no time 2 waste time
Do me I do you, man no go ves �
Torch me I torch you, man no go ves �
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