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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Calicoe: 10:22pm On May 21, 2020 |
If he's satisfied with the heights he has attained and you are not, there is no way you can force him to do more. Some people are just satisfied with the little they have and they should be left alone as long as they are not bothering you 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 10:22pm On May 21, 2020 |
Godoverevery:I wonder sef o, na the guy must make money? wetin do her?? smh 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:24pm On May 21, 2020 |
Contact me asap. I have an ideal man for you. You are my kind of woman |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:24pm On May 21, 2020 |
Hmm, this is a good topic, You are ambitious, but it seems your boyfriend is easy going or very unassuming. Sometimes you cannot get everything, you will need to decide what you want, but you cannot decide what he wants. 2 Likes
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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 21, 2020 |
You're just a high-minded girl with grandiose dreams who doesn't know the realities of life, and you call yourself a 'realist'. Your writing doesn't even show you as intelligent and yet you want to be at the top of the world? You think all those people you meet in your daily life, toiling away at whatever they can get their hands on, don't also have same dreams? You think life will always go the way you want it to and give you everything you dream of? The worst part is that you don't even have shit to boast of apart from all that "I was the best in my class' rubbish. And you're frustrating a man's life who is already far better than you in every way. Do you have any idea how many people are praying to get that position your man is occupying right now? Youre a proud, discontented kid who thinks life is a fantasy land where all your dreams will come true 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by DenreleDave(m): 10:25pm On May 21, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: Sorry to say, u r so unreasonable..... If this is ur mission in life, no wonder u r so like that..... U don't wanna marry 26 27 yen yen yen Den be a baby mama.. Better set ur life well or else all ur dream go turn to air if u don't think well. Ur reasoning is below par 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by elazbrava(m): 10:27pm On May 21, 2020 |
ur bizness |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by SeriouslySense(m): 10:27pm On May 21, 2020 |
Would you prefer an ambitious man, but who is less loving or would you prefer an unassuming man, who is very loving, or perhaps you have seen someone who you think has everything you are looking for. Regardless of whatever option, you need to examine the scale and see, if there is sufficient balance.
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Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Enwhen(m): 10:28pm On May 21, 2020 |
BigTableShaker: Is this a SHIT poem ? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by MrJavaS: 10:28pm On May 21, 2020 |
if I read that post completely eh, make mosquito finish me this night |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by 234GT(m): 10:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: This post actually shows you are still a kid. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
If you dump his ass and never meet so.wone as honest and nice as him again, what will you do? Girl, you can have it all in one person. You have to put your money where your mouth is. |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Excellent7(m): 10:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: @OP To be honest you are not on the same wavelength with him. Your perspective is different because you are standing on different platforms. I have learnt to pay more attention to what people say and more attention to what people do are willing to do. I have had much experience on people that rail about their circumstances but not willing to "stretch out their hands" to be helped or venture outside their comfort zones The red flags are showing now. The guy is not likely to become the proactive guy you desire and might soon begin to resent you as too pushy. While you are at it, make sure to "push" and improve yourself to be a "success" yourself. If things are how you are saying it your best path may be to walk away. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Pirosaw: 10:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
Most marriages that are in crisis today knew from day one that it is not working but they keep managing till the eventuality happened. Some men or woman will help you to achieve your dreams while some will drag you down. If you are my sister I will tell you that the worse people to marry in life is people with television but without vision. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Davidoff2000: 10:29pm On May 21, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: This is the part i was looking for since.. I just saw on page 3. You are jobless, earn nothing, gallivant about posturing that you teach online, online enterpreneur, meanwhile thats just to make u seem like a serious person, with a job. Just from reading your post, i just knew your situation- a woman with no tamgible.value asides what she feels is advice or psychological support. This is not even a crime, except that you are so entitled and narcissistic. Only few have seen through you. Why havent you put all this advice on yoursef in making yoursef better asides been a jobless masters holder with a boyfriend who ahe hopes to be her meal ticket? All that whole advice use it for yourself na. You, you cant get job? Is it not.your mates that are working for MTN, GT, UN, Gates Foundation.etc? Dem get 4breasts? You like developing innovations, big plans,ambitious etc. Which innovation you don ever develop, even if its just an app that recharges fones from with nepa meter. Or a water and sanitation (WASH) solution for impoverished communities. Nonsense and ingredients. Looking for a meal ticket or a man to save her from generatiomal poverty. Your boyfriend get enough fvk ups on his own, but you are his major fvck up sef. Go hustle o, no be every problem, nyash go solve this year Yeye dey smell 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Chris2863(m): 10:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
AfroKnight:I commend you for this.. Your mama born you well 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
You seem to have good intentions but might be telling him the wrong way, most times, some things are better said subtly or with relatable examples. Try talking to him again but this time ensure you don't raise your voice (if that's what you do) and if you try this and he refuses to turn a new leaf then let him be for a while, if he still fails to change then what you must do is break up with him, move on with your life. Channel the energy you put into trying to make him a better person to your own your life and personal development. Go after your dreams and quit thinking of what people will say if you get married late, better be late and end up with an amazing partner than early with a terrible spouse. Also know that you can never help a person grow if they aren't willing to take any step either. By the way, judging by what you've written here, I think you might be a bossy person and also full of yourself, while that may not be the case, I would advise that you work on that aspect if that I'd actually true. No too dey carry shoulder and learn to walk and work in silence. Toro kobo mi niyii. (Sorry is this is harsh or annoying in anyway). 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:30pm On May 21, 2020 |
I wish I could read the story so that I can contribute, but damn it! the story too long. how do y'all read a story this long? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Royaldave200(m): 10:32pm On May 21, 2020 |
[quote author=Tripitaka post=89792222][i]"I told him to" "I want him to" "I warned him not to" "I advised him to" "He wouldn't listen to me" and all the other stuffs. It appears to me that you are foisting your opinion, choices and wishes on your partner. You want him to live his life your way, pursue his dreams following your chart and run his race with you as guide. Perhaps you want to be the Kapellmeister while you lead the orchestra that is his life. If he were to follow your advise and it backfires or doesnt yield the expected fruit, who would take responsibility? There is something some of us do not acknowledge which is that not everyone wants to be wealthy, some people just want to be successful at what they do, some people just want to lead a simple and fulfilled life. I also find your intentions questionable. Do you have all those "nice thoughts" for him because you love and wish him well, or because you want him wealthy enough to marry you next year and give you "the life"? Its a shame that you say you're not proud of someone ou claim to love and painting him as some loser. There comes a time in the life of a man when he wants to do things his own way, steer his own ship, make his own mistakes and celebrate his own little victories. I would have asked you to talk to him, but I believe you guys have talked about this over and over. So, the choice is yours to walk or stay Honestly you have said everything there is to say explicitly..I love your analysis and mode of thinking...God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Shormiey(m): 10:32pm On May 21, 2020 |
Sonfethopia:Blocking like bitcoin, asimi and so on. |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by MPESA(m): 10:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
africandictator: $250 a month,Nawa o... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by spleady(f): 10:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
He doesn't have a goal my sister 1 Like |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Alwaysachick: 10:33pm On May 21, 2020 |
But your aspirations are so bigggg it should be enough for both of you. All you have said are just excuses, if he is not your type leave him. I'm a lady and i admire your strength but use it properly so you dont seem overbearing. If you want to be the boss, be for you and your man. Two captains can't be in one ship my dear. I can imagine how choked he is... 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by desthan(m): 10:35pm On May 21, 2020 |
@ OP Your statement "but he like to talk like illiterate that master is meaningless"" speaks volume of you. My dear, master is meaningless without you putting your brains to work. Yes I said it. I have seen young people after their master become master of nothing,. They keep looking for an illiterate that used his brain to build an empire to work for. If you doubt go and ask Mark of FB. Be proud of your man and support him fully, then you would see him become great in that little thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by nobone(f): 10:36pm On May 21, 2020 |
Domineering,. Control freak, Men don't like women who try to Lord it over them. If you don't like him as he is, better leave him now!!! Because you'll have trouble with him since he mentioned that "you're troubling him" They said shoe get size, please get your size. Face reality, meanwhile try and realizes your big dreams, that way you'll be happier. Goodluxk. 12 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by ForkDragnet: 10:36pm On May 21, 2020 |
Allow this man make his career choice and stop imposing what to do to him. If you want to leave him better do that now and stop frustrating someone's child Finally don't waste his time or yours, decide if you want to leave or stay, he has decided in his mind, you both are not on the same lane career wose. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by TourismMan(m): 10:36pm On May 21, 2020 |
The OP is obviously a career chasing woman. Her type only realize they are not married at late 30s and early 40s and before you know, it was already too late for marriage. |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by seanwilliam(m): 10:36pm On May 21, 2020 |
theTransporter:what you see sometimes can be deceiving... be sure before you ask... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Gee64: 10:37pm On May 21, 2020 |
Your perfectionism approach to life may keep you 'unmarried' for a very long time. When I was young, like the devil told Christ, a girl wanted my to jump the sky before she could marry me. Today, she has no wings to fly! The truth is that you must come out of your dreams and embrace reality if you know what is good for you! Acmepreneur: 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by nobone(f): 10:38pm On May 21, 2020 |
"Master of nothing" cracked me up. Looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool desthan: 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by bukatyne(f): 10:38pm On May 21, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: I didn't read all your story, I stopped when I you started listing some points. This post caught my attention. If you know your quality, don't settle for someone who lacks drive. You will be freaking frustrated. Also learn to push with love and action. Ask your guy what he really wants to do. If nothing concrete, cut him lose. 5 Likes |
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