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Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by idiagbo86(m): 6:39am On May 22, 2020 |
Nice post but.... I strongly disagree with you coz ladies marry men that are ready . Ladies again just dont want to get married as their sense of reasoning has been clouded by frivolities. They wish they get a man that will grant them everything they see on Instagram forgetting that most stuffs seen on instagram are fake.years ago when the world was still responsible desires were less and thus marriages hold and last because our society was sane then.i am not pointing that money isnt important but I beat my sucurutum in indahboski's voice that frivolities is our problem today. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Reference(m): 6:46am On May 22, 2020 |
I rather think it is a lack of vision rather than a lack of resources that hinders the establishment of new families tjrough the institution of marraiges. Unions, marraiges are all about purpose. Two people coming together to accomplish something. It is in the coming together that resources are generated through the multiplication of wisdom and effort. The woman is there to enable you 'make it'. I don't know from where this Nigerian concept of 'making it' before marraige came from but it is not presemt in any other society but one so monetised as ours in Nigeria. It is totally wrong. If you can make it on your own you probably donot need to marry. We need a proper perspective on this thing. The provision of man in marraige is not limited to resources. His primary purpose in the marraige is the provision of leadership, the primary driver of vision and for Christians the primary link with God. Both are responsible to work and resource towards its success. And ehen your partner is working and resourcing you will be comoelled to resoect that partner as an equal stakeholder in the marraige. That is why we constantly advocate that women create value within themselves in approaching marraige and men discard their traditional patriachial stand which is equally useless. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by TSBO: 6:49am On May 22, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA: Mehn.... Too much sense in one post.. Well done. ![]() |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Airoflaw(m): 6:50am On May 22, 2020 |
God will help us to help ourselves... |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Jman06(m): 6:53am On May 22, 2020 |
Always blaming men for everything! |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Darey85(m): 6:54am On May 22, 2020 |
You blamed someone for marrying too late 7 years ago and now you are facing the reality, knowing the reason he got married late. Omo to ni Baba oun ko lowo lowo, enu e lo wa yen. And even after you have matured, at least in age, you still don't know that it is the harsh economy that's causing most of the problems. Still apportioning blame on men. When will you wise up? You better start getting involve now by looking for a serious lady to build future together and stop waiting for when you will have money as your time is fast tickling away. Before you know it now, you get close to 40 years. And look for what you will add to the skills you' ve got. Don't just depend on your photography job. My candid advice. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Nobody: 6:55am On May 22, 2020 |
Petyprincess:on a serious note, but u know you completly derailed the thread. |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by lexy2014: 7:00am On May 22, 2020 |
Ndubuisipaul1: Which research did u do to have arrived at ur conclusion? How did u come about d points that u gave? |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Petyprincess(f): 7:03am On May 22, 2020 |
25tolife:It was already derailed b4 i commented! The guy already stopped posting so hw did i derailed it? You mentioning nd insulting me instead of countering my claims didnt derailed it right? Y'all on travel section dnt like women contributing that the next thing is slut shaming nd name calling because we have different point of views! Nd please stop blaming me instead of accepting y'all nd your insecure cohorts derailed nd made that thread useless the moment you started the name calling!! 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Nobody: 7:06am On May 22, 2020 |
Petyprincess:i guess we met in an unfriendly...my guts is telling me you are a nice person. |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by SocialJustice: 7:09am On May 22, 2020 |
Oluromantic:They barely exist in Nigeria, even girls who earn enough to support a man are looking for who will be giving them money. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Oluromantic: 7:12am On May 22, 2020 |
Ybaby:AMEN! |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Nobody: 7:14am On May 22, 2020 |
emmaodet: Women are already doing that. But sadly can't pay their bride price. Or do you want women to start paying groom price while they scrap bride price? |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Nobody: 7:14am On May 22, 2020 |
Petyprincess:am really sorry 4 all the words i used againt you ,i was angry because the thread was abandoned.i really like real life travel threads, am always active in travel and romance. can we be E-friends? |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Shormiey(m): 7:15am On May 22, 2020 |
rosy1992: Which one is true talk, when una go carry all your family burden put am for the man head ....why em go think of marriage?.....na so one mumu girl dey tell me say if I marry her I will take full responsibility of her family welfare.....I became agape and I didn't say one thing again...the op na foo.l in short na fufu. ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by sim37(m): 7:19am On May 22, 2020 |
blinking001: even God blamed Adam for d Apple woman ate 1 Like |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Junior66(m): 7:25am On May 22, 2020 |
Karleb:Blame the same unemployment, its a very simple thing. |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by AlhajaChinyere: 7:25am On May 22, 2020 |
madridsta007: Idiot, don't mess up the thread with your half baked political and economic knowledge. Aniofia! 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Petyprincess(f): 7:25am On May 22, 2020 |
25tolife:I dnt take it to heart,if not you mentioned me i wouldn't have remembered your moniker sef that to tell you i dnt take nairaland insult to heart! I get trolled daily on nairaland if every words get to me i would have deactivated a long time ago! Nairaland made me developed thick skin so i have no grudges against you ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by UndauntedYOCA(f): 7:27am On May 22, 2020 |
emmaodet:Lol, no one bro. I just believe in fairness. While this cannot be imposed on anyone, this is my own perspective on how relationship/marriage should be like. I also have brothers and I know what it feels like to be drained by people who are solely dependent on you. If I be man, I no go wan marry woman wey no fit help me at all. I no go like liability at all biko. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Junior66(m): 7:29am On May 22, 2020 |
Sultty:Without money? Most of my friends aren't married just because they can't afford to feed another stomach. In fact feeding themselves alone is a huge task. 1 Like |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Junior66(m): 7:32am On May 22, 2020 |
Kekereekun123:Yes, squatting with money in their accounts, not 500 naira per week while feeding in people's houses. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Intoboy(m): 7:32am On May 22, 2020 |
Lemme mak my point... Gone are those days wen men work hard and bcom successful in his early 20s ad get married...dis is bcus pussy fucking without marriage was a taboo ad wasn't allowed...as a young guy dat i am,if I'm getting bleeped anytime i want..getting married won't even be in ma schedule only if i feel its time to start a family Can our ladies stop giving the pussy to anybody dah doesn't put a ring on it ![]() |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Nobody: 7:33am On May 22, 2020 |
Petyprincess:Why did people alway troll you, u must be popular here and alway looking for trouble. Lol |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Liliantalks: 7:33am On May 22, 2020 |
SocialJustice:correct |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by vinsilva(m): 7:34am On May 22, 2020 |
Ndubuisipaul1:OP seems like I know you in person! Well this generation of Nigerian youth might be considered the least privileged in our history as a nation. Back in the 80's, 90's and early 2000, it was quite easy to find a well or averagely paying Job immediately after Uni or after learning a trade. it was easier for a young man to find stable grounds to support a family. Now it's all different! millions of unemployed or underemployed graduates roam the streets. The only way out is to migrate, become an entrepreneur (which I think is becoming saturated) or pick up new skills. Now to make this switches require time, patience and resilience, marriage comes into the picture quite later. Do the math and your legible bachelor is well above 35. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Liliantalks: 7:34am On May 22, 2020 |
Intoboy:wellsaid , we will try |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Olas16198901: 7:42am On May 22, 2020 |
You don't want to marry that's why and that's what's in your mindset, moreover this is the right time for you to know that kind of woman you want that could sustain you when you have nothing, not until you have money and they are running after you. Some might have the money and get married yet don't find peace. |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by emmaodet: 7:45am On May 22, 2020 |
Nooil: Definitely No. I believe in "All hands on deck" policy. Rub my back, i rub your back type of relationship. I don't encourage laziness or idleness from any gender. |
Re: Men Are The Reasons Ladies Don't Marry On Time by Audiodonation: 7:45am On May 22, 2020 |
I am married at the age of 29 as a Banker. Nothing in my account. Debt everywhere No rented house Was squatting with my friend Yet my wife said she would marry me, as her name Grace will speak for me. (Na only once my woman don straf in her entire life). One week into our agreement and commitment of been together forever....... I got a deal of 178,000 been my commission for a purchase of a car.... Na so I rent and moved into my own rented apartment. (I didn't mention that d guy who accommodated me gave me 3 days to leave with my wife), and my miracle happened with a space of a day and d second day I moved out....... I am happily married, own 3 cars now, a 4bedroom bungalow in Lagos(Dopemu), a father of one and now an SBO in an old generation bank. . (Started)Nov 2016 - April 2019(Achieved all). All these stories are not to show off, but to let you know you can start from scratch; from somewhere......... Once you marry/see your own woman (Wife) you will know.......... No pastor, prophet or prayer needed....... Just start from somewhere.... 7 Likes 1 Share |
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