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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by bluefilm: 11:53am On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika: Nwanne, mechie gi onu osiso. I say shut up. Since when did men start making their wives earning potential their topmost criterion in choosing a partner? That is the job for women to do. As a man, your own job is to earn more and more money so that you can have as many women as you want. That is the natural order. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Goodnigga: 11:55am On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:Shut up. I love great women and I love posterity. But you can't use that as a selling point. If a foolish woman gives birth to useless and untrained children , where is the legacy in that. Your legacy is first attached to your SUBSTANCE , your NAME, what you make of your self before talking about children. Children are important , but they should come from the right woman. A bad child can even wreck the name you build for years and destroy your heritage and property. I know men are getting tired of women and if not because of the urge of SEX that leads to children, no man going somewhere will consider women and their baggage of woes 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by KIDfurniture(m): 11:55am On May 22, 2020 |
Wow this is the best topic so far. So I m not alone . 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by MuchAdo: 11:56am On May 22, 2020 |
[s] Obierika:[/s] Nope. The mistake is marrying without having any form of steady income no matter how small... 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Blackmoran(m): 11:56am On May 22, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is to marry at all. In this generation marriage has lost is values, cause what the society teaches now has made both sexes polygamous been married doesn't mean you the only one smashing your wife or your husband.. First time I smash a married woman I felt guilty, but now no more it is a norm cause I see people getting married as stupid... As a guy if you really want kid I will advise you go the baby mama way.. If you want sex boys there no problem our generation vagina has lost is value so easy to access... 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by monfizzy(m): 11:56am On May 22, 2020 |
Truly. May I also add a lady from a lower class or poor home else she’ll drain you financially with her family problems. Avoid any babe from a poor home especially ones who’ve unemployed siblings. Make no mistake about it no girl will see her family suffer when she has a hubby who’s kinda comfortable or even if you’re managing without devising means of fleecing you to help her family. 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by SocialJustice: 11:57am On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika:Very true but most Nigerian guys are scared of girls with decent incomes except for the leeches like Tiwa Savage's ex husband. Guys will rather have a girl with virtually no income so they can blackmail her with money when she messes up or goes against their wish. In general though, it is wise to have an earning partner. I have no intention for marriage but my baby mama will definitely be in my income class. Tired of dealing with broke begging bitches. 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 11:57am On May 22, 2020 |
Davash222:spot on |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Parisian: 11:57am On May 22, 2020 |
Wait let me guess, extramarital affairs are bad when its the women cheating? Helios85447: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by postmann: 11:58am On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: There goes your so called study on men being happier in marriage off the window. Without marriage most women will sexually expire by 30years as men would traditionally go for younger sweet 16s. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by SamOyovwi: 11:58am On May 22, 2020 |
You lie. You will only not be able to make it as a man when you marry the woman that doesn't fit your purpose in life. Marriage is not ordinary. That is why we must seriously seek God to show us the right one Naija246: 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Jaqenhghar: 11:58am On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika:So you think. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by jidxin(m): 11:58am On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:wtf is study shews ...which studies by who from who to who, unhypotethical studies, non-epirical studies, unproven, falsified studies, fallacy. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by SocialJustice: 11:59am On May 22, 2020 |
Davash222:Haba, kilode? Are they that useless? Omo do wetin sweet you. This life na once, no waste am. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sowilli: 11:59am On May 22, 2020 |
[url] https://www.nairaland.com/5851404/what-top-3-criteria-when/8#89476027[/url] I mentioned this on this thread. Reality is they end up as Liabilities and it is only natural to always want to get rid of liabilities hence the fights and struggles. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Parisian: 11:59am On May 22, 2020 |
Of course verifiable facts from reputable sources are propaganda according to nairaland frustrated male red pillers Naija246: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by odimbannamdi(m): 11:59am On May 22, 2020 |
Naija246: Starred |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by humilitypays(m): 12:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
Obierika:VERY BIG YES! Unemployed and broke ladies of today are very rude, mannerless and uncouth...they expect too much and think too much of the worth of their body which is the only thing they wish to bring to marriage while expecting a well furnished mansion, cars, pampering, fidelity, steady supply of money and sex, etc......Nigerian men are waking up to the reality that marrying a broke, unemployed, mannerless lady is a BIG MISTAKE for any man to make in his lifetime! Any guy getting married today must not make the mistake of marrying an unemployed lady unless the lady is very well mannered, respectful, appreciative and supportive of whatever you her fiance does for a living and also working tirelessly to start earning money of her own to support you, if not never make the mistake of marrying an unemployed lady. Nigerian ladies always compare Nigerian marriage with foreign marriages, but they fail to understand that no American lady for instance stays idle without working to earn her own money she uses to contribute to the family's welfare.....only in Nigeria you see full grown, able body ladies idle, jobless, mannerless and expecting a man to foot all their life bills....the white ladies they use their men to compare Nigerian men can never condone a complete housewife who does not earn nor contribute a dime to the marriage, if you doubt, ask your friends living abroad 9 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by cococandy(f): 12:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
It’s that season again. Tears upon tears |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Gudlite: 12:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is to marry a person (man or woman)that is not going your direction. The center can never hold for both of you 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by ND4sure: 12:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
Davash222:lol dis one weak me o |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by bluefilm: 12:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
Goodnigga: You are 100% correct on this. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by friday2011(m): 12:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is not getting married to a jobless lady but getting married when there is no love but the lady has money... She no get job now no mean say she no go get job tomorrow... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by jidxin(m): 12:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:women are not built to remain single and yet forcefully lure men to marriage, then frustrate the life of men.... studies show that married African men dont last... life span of a man is 45 and women is 65 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Dybala11(m): 12:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:Who carried out the research?? Do you mind posting links of your purported studies?? 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by SocialJustice: 12:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
bluefilm:Stop being a brainless bigot. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by DenreleDave(m): 12:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
ellapius:But u love big gbola na |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by slimprinze1(m): 12:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
The biggest mistake is marrying a wrong woman. |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by gentlemate00: 12:05pm On May 22, 2020 |
You wan corrupt me with dis gbola i beg wettin be dat self?? ellapius: |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Dybala11(m): 12:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl:Society of women you mean?? Nobody is forcing anyone to get married, whatever rocks your jor. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by bluefilm: 12:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
MelaninSkinGirl: Who carried out these studies, biko? Your argument sounds not only biased but it makes you look stupid as well. Take your _fucking studies and go _fuck yourself. 1 Like |
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