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Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by Sabiupdates: 3:36am On May 16, 2020 |
Mbaise is a region in Imo State in southeastern Nigeria. In the heart of Igboland, the region includes several towns and cities. It is a group of indigenous clans, connected by intermarriage. Mbaise is known to have an outrageous marriage demands,most people classify Mbaise to be one of the most expensive place to pick a bride,and this had some men scared of getting married from this beautiful tribe,with lots of beautiful women. The elders from Mbaise have a believe that they are giving out 100 percent wife material whenever they give out their daughters hand in marriage. Maidens from Mbaise are known to have a good upbringing(home manners/training) taking care of their man is their priority and this is passed down from mothers to their female offsprings,and they have this common believe that the way to a mans heart is being a good cook.So 90% of Mbaise girls are certified cooks which they learnt from home. In this article i will be sharing the notable rights that any man should expect when getting married to an Mbaise lady. At the end of this article you may realize that Mbaise marriage right is not really as expensive as they told you. INTRODUCTION Getting to know the family of the bride to be,the groom is expected to come with a few members of his family,2 bottles of hot drinks,kolanuts,2 cartons of beer,after all this is been presented by the family of the husband to be then their reason for coming can then be revealed to the family of the bride to be. Certain lists are issued to the family of the groom “men list”(Umu Nna) and “women list”(Umu Ada) and the general list. Content of Mens list The items in this category will be shared amongst the males/ heads of the extended family of the bride to be. Kola nuts Palm wine (in gallons/ jerry cans) Bottles of hot drinks Cartons of assorted drinks (malt, soft drinks and beer) Tobacco snuff Cigarettes (2 rolls) Goat (1) Lump sum cash gift Content of women list(Umu Ada) In English, umu-ada means daughters. In this case, the gifts for the ‘umu ada’ would be shared among all the grown daughters in the bride’s extended family. Igbo-style lace blouses(2) Igbo Ichafor scarfs (2) Shoes and bags (2 each) Jewelry (wrist watches, earrings, necklaces and rings in either gold, silver, gold plated/ GL) Toiletries (bath soaps, body creams, washing detergents, perfumes and so on) Beverages Drinks (malt and soft drinks) Lump sum cash gift General list In English language, “nmepe uzo’ literally means ‘to open the door’. Bride price – Negotiable Cartons of star beer (2) Cartons of Guinness stout (2) Cartons of malt (2) Crates of soft drinks (6) Bottles of hot drinks/ whisky (3) Tubers of yam (30) Bags of rice (2) Bags of salt (1) Onions (30) Palm oil (one 10 or 25 litres gallon) Groundnut oil (25 litres) Kerosene (1 gallon) Stock fish (5 bigsize) Meat – goat leg (2) Bread (2 loaves) Tins of Tomatoes (1 carton) one big size Milo and one big size Milk Tablet soap (1 carton) Talc powder – (1big size) Big basins (1) 5 sets of (George or Abada such as Vlisco Hollandais, ABC, Nigerian Wax) Wrist watches (2 or more) Gold necklaces (2 or more) Large clothe box (1) Umbrella (1) one packet of sweets one packet of chewing gums Nigeria at 59,some important facts you need to know about Nigeria |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by jeffizy(m): 4:09am On May 16, 2020 |
With all due respect, the length of a list is not the issue but the cost of fulfilling what's on it. The list is expensive, to be candid. But, since every culture has its ways and it works for them, all good. |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by johnkey: 4:29am On May 16, 2020 |
After sharing pussy to bestie, ex boyfriend's, lecturers, oil worker in her town, handsome dude in her compound, one night stands from clubs, sugar daddies... |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by STARGREEN(m): 6:10am On May 16, 2020 |
johnkey: Sorry i think this topic is for mature minds. I recommend you move to joke session. |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by Ohizman73(m): 12:35pm On May 22, 2020 |
Is Mbano different from Mbaise . The girl I intend to marry is from Mbano |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by brownemmanuel43(m): 7:48pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ohizman73:Yeah, Mbaise is different from Mbano, though they share same boundary. Then, we HV two Mbano, Isiala and Ehime Mbano. 1 Like |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by AreaFada2: 3:46am On May 23, 2020 |
Well, virgins were given out in those days. Not anymore. Maybe it made sense back then. When infidelity by women was also very are across all tribes. To feminists saying men are not faithful too, well, the women are not the ones given this long list. So we are talking of what men would after fulfilling the list. Should ex boyfriends' rebate not apply? By the way all cultures and families believe they are giving out a wonderful wife material daughter. Na normal hype. But we all know that only few women from any tribe or culture or country actually fit the bill. |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by Ohizman73(m): 8:39am On May 23, 2020 |
brownemmanuel43:thanks |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by brownemmanuel43(m): 9:35am On May 23, 2020 |
Ohizman73:U are welcome |
Re: Notable Rights Expected Of A Man Getting Married To An Mbaise Lady by Ishilove: 11:52am On May 26, 2020 |
It is still too much. Mscheeeeeeeew |
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