I love this BS oo. Sharp Sharp! Congrats momma and welcome Royal Rainbow Princess. Team July make we dey prepare o. After May na July

[Qquote author=Pweetiebabe post=89831371]BS! BS!! BS!!!

Let me start my birth story by giving praises to God for making me feel the joy of motherhood again...This pregnancy happened the month i tot i was out and already making preparation for the next cycle( only TTC mothers can relate).... I placed myself on Clomid early august, why i was treated fir infection, took progesteron injection(11days straight on drips and injection) was already waiting for September AF but God showed himself and i tested postive September 5th.
This pregnancy was so nice to me, MS was manageable and my appetite was so on point, i was having contradicting EDD cos according to LMP Edd is 13th may but first scan gave me 23rd, my doc decided to go with LMP date when 13the came and no show i was asked to come for induction on 18th, i had no fear cos i ve experience it before.
10am on Monday 18th I and hubby went to the hospital without informing anybody, scan was done and i was sent to the maternity ward around12 was given a bed and patiently waiting for the process to start and finally meet my princess i ask hubby to get me food are 2pm so i go get strength to display and for the journey ahead...
Around 5:30pm half tablet of cytotec was insert cos i was already 2cm dilated before going to the hospital...30mins after the drama started but was still manageable and i kept urinating till are 9:30pm when the pain changed gear and drama and d screaming started the window net, bed iron and wardrobe beside me really suffered...Around 12am i told the nurse i want to poo she checked me and said i was just 3cm plus( i nearly fainted wen i heard cos with all those pain and 10cm looks like forever), few minutes later my membrane rupture and she checked and said i was 5cm, she was about setting drip to give me oxytocin but she was kind of slow and i had dis serious urge to poo, i toldbher d baby is pushing me and i won poo she behave as if she no hear and was busy setting d drip when i couldn't hold it again i started releasing heavy weight poop for them right there on the bed, wen she saw it and checked open my legs she started rushing and ask me to move to the delivery room, with pain i stood up from the bed and another round of pooing started i knelt down and released another round, after enough beating from the nurse asking me to stand up and moving to the delivery room, i stood up took only one step and i felt this pressure in my va*ina i open my legs touch it and felt something that look like head immediately i started screaming my baby is coming oooo, lie down back on the bed with d nurse screaming that i should stand up with just one push my royal rainbow baby jumped out with the sweetest voice and giving me small tears....She was taken to the delivery room cleaned up, weigh and brought back to the ward, my placenta was delivered and i was taken to the delivery room for stitching without any injection it was painful but the tot of my baby made me forget abt the pain..
The nurses said it was spontaneous labour cos i moved from 5cm to 10cm within 5--10mins but i know it was God that did his wonders and made me delivered right there in the ward with little assistance...We are back home and doing well...


BS submitted Cc Cappo angeltolly [/quote]

I was TOLD THAT WEN U GiVE BIRTH,D FIRST THING U WILL GIV D BABY IS COCONUT WATER. PLS HW TRUE IS IT AD WHAT IS D WRK OF IT. Also what is the dosage?

Good day fellow nairanlanders, Sure you all are enjoying your day?

This is a follow-up to my previous post on here and on my page and for clarification am a long time follower of Nairanland although I became an official member few years ago.

As a matter of fact,my user name is a combination nicknames of mine and not a pseudo name therefore all stated below are facts and not fictitious nor with intentions to harm nor scam anyone.

Based on some post on my pages and on this thread I find it important to let you my fellow nairanlanders know that I am still available for business and still in need of your patronage.

I have made some post on my pages in respect to assistance needed from towing operators on this platform who can assist in conveying a laden bus down to my area which I as been done

Also, I have posted some items on this thread and on my pages which are available for sale.

So as a follow up ,I plead to my fellow nairanlanders who are within Lagos to please patronize me and I will deliver to you for free if you are within ikeja,ipaja,agege, ipaja and environs but will charge a token if you a farther but there is no problem , we can agree on a meet up location.

Sequel to the above, For all our intending mummy who are about to put to bed and also those who might want to gift those who just delivered I have the following New and grade A items available for sale

All New items i
New Baby clothes
Pampers size 3 (100pieces in a pack)
Pampers 3 (50 pieces in a pack)
Pampers 1 (75 pieces in a pack)
Johnson baby oil
Johnson baby wipes
Pampers wipes
Female wears
Moses baby basket bed

Grade A items

Baby clothes
Children clothes
Female wears
Baby car carrier
Baby Rock
Moses baby basket bed
Baby strollers (Big)
Baby strollers (small)
Baby beds
Shoes

Other items
Printers
Decorating or bedroom light
Vaccum cleaner
Driller
Support walking stick
Support walking stand

etc

Gracias

Please I want experienced mums with helps to help me out on this.

I got a live-in help January this year, she would be 19 this year and so far, she has been good, no serious complaints at all. We relate very well.

Now, when she started, she said her monthly payment should go to her mum via her brother's account. Her dad is late.

My husband disagreed, that she cant be working and someone else will take the money. Especially as she just registered for jamb and needs to save for school. He suggested we opened an account for her and whenever her mum needs money, she can make a transfer. The mum sells in the market and they also have farms where they grow stuff for commercial and home use.

Now, this girl doesn't spend 1 naira of that money in my house. She feeds well, I provide every other thing and I pay her. The issue is I check her phone sometimes without her knowledge and my aim is to check her account balance. My people can you believe this girl has only 110 naira in her account.

I went through her messages, various people asking for money. I am only aware of 6k she sent to her mum to help her buy chemicals and stuff to prepare my help's farmland for the new corn season. My help has her farm in her village.

There was a time I checked her phone and saw her balance was low. I didnt tell her, I just used style to ask her about her savings and she told me about the money she gave her aunty. This aunty has 6kids, stays in the same town as us. According to her, she wants to start pap business, so the best person to ask is my 18yr old help who is the same age as her first son??.

This same aunty that we begged and begged to help send this girl's id card and jamb text book then, till today we no see am. I spoke to my help and advised her about spending anyhow. Imagine my disappointment when I checked and saw 110naira.

I dont know if to take this up. I told her never to send money to anyone without my knowledge. This morning, someone was asking her for 2k. Another was asking her for credit.

I want to tell her I'll keep a large chunk of her salary with me, will give her something for airtime or whatever. I kuku buy airtime for her sometimes, the next day I ask her, credit is finished. There's one yeye boy in her text msg asking her for favours.

What do I do? Those with helps should advise pls. I have spoken to her before but I dont think she understands. I even saw where she sent 3k to a friend in her village for someone else's wedding, as per friend of bride.

I think it's unfair for me to just watch her spend anyhow.

Pweetiebabe:
BS! BS!! BS!!!

Let me start my birth story by giving praises to God for making me feel the joy of motherhood again...We are back home and doing well...


BS submitted Cc Cappo angel. tolly

Wonderful birth story. Thanks mama.... You are for signs and wonders princess.
_{Ps:- I have already booked May 2021 cappo for you. Thanks}

Adesquare2:
Thanks ma, will have to go there then as there is no other place that I know. Please, any idea if they administer it Saturdays so I can go tomorrow.

Antenatal is on Thursdays only

angeltolly:


Wonderful birth story. Thanks mama.... You are for signs and wonders princess.
_{Ps:- I have already booked May 2021 cappo for you. Thanks}

Na so o, infact i need to book space for team 2021 but not May sha lets go for team December

spixytinxy:
Vinoj0255 I yaf show oooo , great team July, team sneeze nd deliver how r we doing, how is d elephant walking, hope we r almost done with shopping for baby, hospital list nko? How r we dealing with the hot weather abi na only me dey feel the heat ni, it is well with us. Easy nd stress free delivery to us. Am so sorry for going quiet on us, am dealing with a lot right now.

Cappo thanks for coming out, it is well with you and all these shall pass soon. We'll all celebrate at the end in Jesus name, amen. Thank God you're good.

Hardeyolaotee:
Please, who has experienced ringing ears in pregnancy? My left ear has been ringing for almost a week now and I called my Dr BIL, he said I should use olive oil in the affected ears and b-complex. Please any other advice from mothers here? It can be tiring not hearing properly with one of your ears.

Sorry to here this. When I was pregnant with my second. I also had ringing of the ear. It is called tinnitus.
I had to leave with it till like 3 month post delivery.
You can try the olive oil. It may help you.

Team November, How are we doing with our small belle. Our first time mama. How is the experience so far. It is worth every bit of the enjoyment.

Kindly furnish us with any latest story, event or anything about our belle.

We will have a smooth ride and delivery by God's grace.

Ayaoye:
Congratulations to all mamas that have birthed their Los..... GOD bless them and your household..... August mamas how body,,, the laziness these days is on another level for me. Like play like play we have about 3 months to go.

mama e no reach 3 months again oo cos am praying to port in July oo

angeltolly:

TEAM MAY 2020 BIRTH ANNOUNCEMENT ROLL CALL

YAAY!! Because its our month, we can do shakara and flood this thread with back to back BA....


Please copy me as you drop your BA and BS.
#TeamMay for Healthy mothers and babies
#TeamGrace
#TeamNoLoss

B. S
Thanks everyone for your congratulatory messages, God will continue to surprise us with blessings.

God is so faithful.
God gave me a supernatural delivery.

Short story before the delivery.

I have two precious girls and was not planning for another pregnancy cos of financial issues though hubby doesn't mind but hoped it will be a boy so we can close shop.

Started antenatal at 7th month. Scan at 8th month showed a girl. Hubby's mood changed. He stopped assisting me with chores. Gets angry unnecessary. At times he will complain that "we never wanted this pregnancy" " why is it not a boy".

Delivery day.

On the 13th of may, around 8pm contraction started gradually about an hour interval. By 10:40pm, had to call my brother and his wife to take us to the hospital, and our children to sleep in their house.

When we got to the hospital,they said with the way I look and smiling am not in labour yet, i told them I wanted to be here before the serious labour since I dilate fast and it was night.
Went into labour room to be checked. She screamed that I was 8cm dilated. They were all surprised and quickly prepared. Within 10 minutes, I was fully dilated. That was around 11:45pm. The contractions were not lasting long enough to push, so was later placed on drip.
To push problem, I forget how to and begged them to teach me again ooo. Lol

Around 12:30am, after the third push, baby came out.
Nurses said congrats that this my small tummy carried this big baby BOY! She showed me my baby's private part that it's a BOY ooo .I told them how scan saw girl.
When my hubby was told the sex he doubted. When he came in and saw him, he was so happy, came to me that why did I lie to him, I said I didn't that am also surprise.

God is great!

Hubby is so overjoyed that he does almost everything for me now. I am strong now but I still form small weakness at times ooo so he can still do most of the work. Make I relax small cos during pregnancy I suffer with house work alone that I almost lost the baby at 3 months cos of stress.
Later he assist if he feels like not as if he is going to working or business, we are in the house together.
If it was a girl, on my own for be my case but God will still be my strength as usual cos he assisted for a short period after delivery of our two girls, am even surprised he can work like this. My mom is late, his mother is old, so omugwo is not easy.

Thank you all so much.
I appreciate everyone.

Congrats to those that has put to bed, safe delivery to pushing mamas and God blessing of bfp to those expecting, God will make you happy mothers.

God bless us

rvpbae:
Please I want experienced mums with helps to help me out on this.

I got a live-in help January this year, she would be 19 this year and so far, she has been good, no serious complaints at all. We relate very well.

Now, when she started, she said her monthly payment should go to her mum via her brother's account. Her dad is late.

My husband disagreed, that she cant be working and someone else will take the money. Especially as she just registered for jamb and needs to save for school. He suggested we opened an account for her and whenever her mum needs money, she can make a transfer. The mum sells in the market and they also have farms where they grow stuff for commercial and home use.

Now, this girl doesn't spend 1 naira of that money in my house. She feeds well, I provide every other thing and I pay her. The issue is I check her phone sometimes without her knowledge and my aim is to check her account balance. My people can you believe this girl has only 110 naira in her account.

I went through her messages, various people asking for money. I am only aware of 6k she sent to her mum to help her buy chemicals and stuff to prepare my help's farmland for the new corn season. My help has her farm in her village.

There was a time I checked her phone and saw her balance was low. I didnt tell her, I just used style to ask her about her savings and she told me about the money she gave her aunty. This aunty has 6kids, stays in the same town as us. According to her, she wants to start pap business, so the best person to ask is my 18yr old help who is the same age as her first son??.

This same aunty that we begged and begged to help send this girl's id card and jamb text book then, till today we no see am. I spoke to my help and advised her about spending anyhow. Imagine my disappointment when I checked and saw 110naira.

I dont know if to take this up. I told her never to send money to anyone without my knowledge. This morning, someone was asking her for 2k. Another was asking her for credit.

I want to tell her I'll keep a large chunk of her salary with me, will give her something for airtime or whatever. I kuku buy airtime for her sometimes, the next day I ask her, credit is finished. There's one yeye boy in her text msg asking her for favours.

What do I do? Those with helps should advise pls. I have spoken to her before but I dont think she understands. I even saw where she sent 3k to a friend in her village for someone else's wedding, as per friend of bride.

I think it's unfair for me to just watch her spend anyhow.

sincerely she is extravagant and not wise, very soon if care is not taken that her aunty and the useless boyfriend may advice her to start stealing from u. Just be careful with her

sysengr:


B. S
Thanks everyone for your congratulatory messages, God will continue to surprise us with blessings.

God is so faithful.

Short story before the delivery.

I have two precious girls and was not planning for another pregnancy cos of financial issues though hubby doesn't mind but hoped it will be a boy so we can close shop.

Started antenatal at 7th month. Scan at 8th month showed a girl. Hubby's mood changed. He stopped assisting me with chores. Gets angry unnecessary. At times he will complain that "we never wanted this pregnancy" " why is it not a boy".

Delivery day.

On the 13th of may, around 8pm contraction started gradually about an hour interval. By 10:40pm, had to call my brother and his wife to take us to the hospital, and our children to sleep in their house.

When we got to the hospital,they said with the way I look and smiling am not in labour yet, i told them I wanted to be here before the serious labour since I dilate fast and it was night.
Went into labour room to be checked. She screamed that I was 8cm dilated. They were all surprised and quickly prepared. Within 10 minutes, I was fully dilated. That was around 11:45pm. The contractions were not lasting long enough to push, so was later placed on drip.
To push problem, I forget how to and begged them to teach me again ooo. Lol

Around 12:30am, after the third push, baby came out.
Nurses said congrats that this my small tummy carried this big baby BOY! She showed me my baby's private part that it's a BOY ooo .I told them how scan saw girl.
When my hubby was told the sex he doubted. When he came in and saw him, he was so happy, came to me that why did I lie to him, I said I didn't that am also surprise.

God is great!

Hubby is so overjoyed that he does almost everything for me now. I am strong now but I still form small weakness at times ooo so he can still do most of the work. Make I relax small cos during pregnancy I suffer with house work alone that I almost lost the baby at 3 months cos of stress.
Later he assist if he feels like not as if he is going to working or business, we are in the house together.
If it was a girl, on my own for be my case but God will still be my strength as usual cos he assisted for a short period after delivery of our two girls, am even surprised he can work like this. My mom is late, his mother is old, so omugwo is not easy.

Thank you all so much.
I appreciate everyone.

Congrats to those that has put to bed, safe delivery to pushing mamas and God blessing of bfp to those expecting, God will make you happy mothers.

God bless us

congratulations mama. Men and their love for male children. Thank God it ended in praise. Kisses to your Prince.
I tap into this fast delivery in Jesus name.

Good afternoon moms and moms to be!
Can’t believe I just discovered this thread..I tried reading previous post and it’s obvious I’ve missed so much! I’m a first time mum
Pleased to meet everyone here

Pweetiebabe:
Na so o, infact i need to book space for team 2021 but not May sha lets go for team December

Confirm

sysengr:


B. S
Thanks everyone for your congratulatory messages, God will continue to surprise us with blessings.

God is so faithful.
God gave me a supernatural delivery.

Thank you all so much.
I appreciate everyone.

Congrats to those that has put to bed, safe delivery to pushing mamas and God blessing of bfp to those expecting, God will make you happy mothers.

God bless us

Awww! I am so happy for you. We thank God for everything. Thank you also for sharing your BS

1st timer in the house! Pleased to meet everyone here

I’m a first time mom and I can’t wait to roll in my questions

Duduke:
1st timer in the house! Pleased to meet everyone here

You are such a good woman.... May God bless you.... They are still good people in this world!!!!
Pls talk to her about helping her save her salary...

rvpbae:
Please I want experienced mums with helps to help me out on this.

I got a live-in help January this year, she would be 19 this year and so far, she has been good, no serious complaints at all. We relate very well.

Now, when she started, she said her monthly payment should go to her mum via her brother's account. Her dad is late.

My husband disagreed, that she cant be working and someone else will take the money. Especially as she just registered for jamb and needs to save for school. He suggested we opened an account for her and whenever her mum needs money, she can make a transfer. The mum sells in the market and they also have farms where they grow stuff for commercial and home use.

Now, this girl doesn't spend 1 naira of that money in my house. She feeds well, I provide every other thing and I pay her. The issue is I check her phone sometimes without her knowledge and my aim is to check her account balance. My people can you believe this girl has only 110 naira in her account.

I went through her messages, various people asking for money. I am only aware of 6k she sent to her mum to help her buy chemicals and stuff to prepare my help's farmland for the new corn season. My help has her farm in her village.

There was a time I checked her phone and saw her balance was low. I didnt tell her, I just used style to ask her about her savings and she told me about the money she gave her aunty. This aunty has 6kids, stays in the same town as us. According to her, she wants to start pap business, so the best person to ask is my 18yr old help who is the same age as her first son??.

This same aunty that we begged and begged to help send this girl's id card and jamb text book then, till today we no see am. I spoke to my help and advised her about spending anyhow. Imagine my disappointment when I checked and saw 110naira.

I dont know if to take this up. I told her never to send money to anyone without my knowledge. This morning, someone was asking her for 2k. Another was asking her for credit.

I want to tell her I'll keep a large chunk of her salary with me, will give her something for airtime or whatever. I kuku buy airtime for her sometimes, the next day I ask her, credit is finished. There's one yeye boy in her text msg asking her for favours.

What do I do? Those with helps should advise pls. I have spoken to her before but I dont think she understands. I even saw where she sent 3k to a friend in her village for someone else's wedding, as per friend of bride.

I think it's unfair for me to just watch her spend anyhow.

Beautiful and wonderful Birth stories everywhere!
God is really great.
Congratulations once again and thanks for sharing.

ijeije123:
I was TOLD THAT WEN U GiVE BIRTH,D FIRST THING U WILL GIV D BABY IS COCONUT WATER. PLS HW TRUE IS IT AD WHAT IS D WRK OF IT. Also what is the dosage?

I'll wait for other sabi mamas to make their input. I asked this question one of my antenatal classes because I had heard other mamas here say it's best to give coconut water to the baby before anything else. The nurse I asked, instead of replying yes or no, asked me if the baby was a monkey. I just ignored her. Later one of the nurses told us that the first thing baby should take is breast milk. So mamas, let's hear your opinions and justifications.

Duduke:
I’m a first time mom and I can’t wait to roll in my questions

You're highly welcome mama. please give us your EDD and baby's sex, so that your teamies can locate you... happy bumping

Pweetiebabe:
BS! BS!! BS!!!

Let me start my birth story by giving praises to God for making me feel the joy of motherhood again...This pregnancy happened the month i tot i was out and already making preparation for the next cycle( only TTC mothers can relate).... I placed myself on Clomid early august, why i was treated fir infection, took progesteron injection(11days straight on drips and injection) was already waiting for September AF but God showed himself and i tested postive September 5th.
This pregnancy was so nice to me, MS was manageable and my appetite was so on point, i was having contradicting EDD cos according to LMP Edd is 13th may but first scan gave me 23rd, my doc decided to go with LMP date when 13the came and no show i was asked to come for induction on 18th, i had no fear cos i ve experience it before.
10am on Monday 18th I and hubby went to the hospital without informing anybody, scan was done and i was sent to the maternity ward around12 was given a bed and patiently waiting for the process to start and finally meet my princess i ask hubby to get me food are 2pm so i go get strength to display and for the journey ahead...
Around 5:30pm half tablet of cytotec was insert cos i was already 2cm dilated before going to the hospital...30mins after the drama started but was still manageable and i kept urinating till are 9:30pm when the pain changed gear and drama and d screaming started the window net, bed iron and wardrobe beside me really suffered...Around 12am i told the nurse i want to poo she checked me and said i was just 3cm plus( i nearly fainted wen i heard cos with all those pain and 10cm looks like forever), few minutes later my membrane rupture and she checked and said i was 5cm, she was about setting drip to give me oxytocin but she was kind of slow and i had dis serious urge to poo, i toldbher d baby is pushing me and i won poo she behave as if she no hear and was busy setting d drip when i couldn't hold it again i started releasing heavy weight poop for them right there on the bed, wen she saw it and checked open my legs she started rushing and ask me to move to the delivery room, with pain i stood up from the bed and another round of pooing started i knelt down and released another round, after enough beating from the nurse asking me to stand up and moving to the delivery room, i stood up took only one step and i felt this pressure in my va*ina i open my legs touch it and felt something that look like head immediately i started screaming my baby is coming oooo, lie down back on the bed with d nurse screaming that i should stand up with just one push my royal rainbow baby jumped out with the sweetest voice and giving me small tears....She was taken to the delivery room cleaned up, weigh and brought back to the ward, my placenta was delivered and i was taken to the delivery room for stitching without any injection it was painful but the tot of my baby made me forget abt the pain..
The nurses said it was spontaneous labour cos i moved from 5cm to 10cm within 5--10mins but i know it was God that did his wonders and made me delivered right there in the ward with little assistance...We are back home and doing well...


BS submitted Cc Cappo angeltolly

Awww... Glory be to God!
Been waiting for your BS.
May God bless our Royal Rainbow Baby
Congrats once more!

spixytinxy:
Vinoj0255 I yaf show oooo , great team July, team sneeze nd deliver how r we doing, how is d elephant walking, hope we r almost done with shopping for baby, hospital list nko? How r we dealing with the hot weather abi na only me dey feel the heat ni, it is well with us. Easy nd stress free delivery to us. Am so sorry for going quiet on us, am dealing with a lot right now.

Our able Cappo. So nice to hear from you.
The waddling is not here atall.
It shall end well in Jesus Name!
90% shopping done. All thanks to God!

@rvpbabe...long read


My nanny has been with me for 3+yrs...she's my friend's niece and she brought her to me when she waa about same age as yours
From the beginning, the agreement was she'd be with me for 3yrs, save up money to go to nursing school and I was hoping she could still study from my house because she's a blessing to my family tbh. She's the last of her family and her dad is late. So from the beginning, her aunt told her family she wasn't being paid so they wouldn't disturb her for money. She had a previous account where she had all access to but for the purpose of saving, I opened a new account for her. She doesn't have atm or online access to the account, she only receives SMS notifications when I transfer her salary to her. I give her a small percentage of her salary (5k) for personal use and maybe to send to her family if push comes to shove. When she wants to send money to her mum, she tells me before the month-end and I transfer the money to her aunt's account who sends it to her mum.
When her siblings (all older and one even married) eventually found out she was being paid, it's been one request or the other but since she doesn't have access to the bulk of her money she sends from the personal upkeep money..unless when it's unrealistic like her brother asking her to send him money to get married..
Initially, she was feeling guilty that she wasn't sending money to her siblings but my hubby and I had to sit her down and explain to her that it'd be unfair for her to be working her b*tt off and someone else feeling entitled to her sweat. She understands now and I don't even have to monitor her account.

So first you have to sit her down and explain to her why she needs to save money. She wouldn't want to be a nanny for you forever, she needs to save money to go to school and better her life. So she can someday be in your position with a goodlife and money to be able to afford the luxuries of life.
Then if possible, open another account where she doesn't have access to....im not a fan of keeping her money so she doesn't start thinking you don't want to pay her. And plan to give her something out of her salary for the month.

If I may ask, what happens to the proceeds from her farm? That should be another source of income for her mom..worse case scenario

Wow!!!
Great God!
Congratz mama.
May he be a source of blessings to the family IJN.

sysengr:


B. S
Thanks everyone for your congratulatory messages, God will continue to surprise us with blessings.

God is so faithful.
God gave me a supernatural delivery.

Short story before the delivery.

I have two precious girls and was not planning for another pregnancy cos of financial issues though hubby doesn't mind but hoped it will be a boy so we can close shop.

Started antenatal at 7th month. Scan at 8th month showed a girl. Hubby's mood changed. He stopped assisting me with chores. Gets angry unnecessary. At times he will complain that "we never wanted this pregnancy" " why is it not a boy".

Delivery day.

On the 13th of may, around 8pm contraction started gradually about an hour interval. By 10:40pm, had to call my brother and his wife to take us to the hospital, and our children to sleep in their house.

When we got to the hospital,they said with the way I look and smiling am not in labour yet, i told them I wanted to be here before the serious labour since I dilate fast and it was night.
Went into labour room to be checked. She screamed that I was 8cm dilated. They were all surprised and quickly prepared. Within 10 minutes, I was fully dilated. That was around 11:45pm. The contractions were not lasting long enough to push, so was later placed on drip.
To push problem, I forget how to and begged them to teach me again ooo. Lol

Around 12:30am, after the third push, baby came out.
Nurses said congrats that this my small tummy carried this big baby BOY! She showed me my baby's private part that it's a BOY ooo .I told them how scan saw girl.
When my hubby was told the sex he doubted. When he came in and saw him, he was so happy, came to me that why did I lie to him, I said I didn't that am also surprise.

God is great!

Hubby is so overjoyed that he does almost everything for me now. I am strong now but I still form small weakness at times ooo so he can still do most of the work. Make I relax small cos during pregnancy I suffer with house work alone that I almost lost the baby at 3 months cos of stress.
Later he assist if he feels like not as if he is going to working or business, we are in the house together.
If it was a girl, on my own for be my case but God will still be my strength as usual cos he assisted for a short period after delivery of our two girls, am even surprised he can work like this. My mom is late, his mother is old, so omugwo is not easy.

Thank you all so much.
I appreciate everyone.

Congrats to those that has put to bed, safe delivery to pushing mamas and God blessing of bfp to those expecting, God will make you happy mothers.

God bless us

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I’m 30weeks! I’m yet to do a repeat scan in 3rd trimester, but previous scan has been 30th July/ August 5! And it’s a princess!
Pls the shape of my breast has been quite funny, I have something that looks like scales around my nipple and black marks on my breast! Hubby even said they look flat..any relatable experience?

treasuredm:

You're highly welcome mama. please give us your EDD and baby's sex, so that your teamies can locate you... happy bumping

You can take her to the bank and disable every cgannel for transfering money and also cancel her atm .
I opened an account for my help, she doesnt have an atm , she cant do transfer. She only gets an alert when i pay hersalary. The elder brother wanted me to pay into his account whrn he droppedher with and i said NoP. When it was time to pay her salary, i took het to the bank and opened an account for her, monkey no go dey work while baboon dey chop. He has asked her for money several timesbut she cant give. Its not fair what these relatives do. My help is 21years old. Shes old enough to have savings. She csnt be a help forever.

Please see what you csn do for her. If it means going yo internet banking to disable everything, do it. When she sees her balance after some months, she will appreciate it

rvpbae:
Please I want experienced mums with helps to help me out on this.

I got a live-in help January this year, she would be 19 this year and so far, she has been good, no serious complaints at all. We relate very well.

Now, when she started, she said her monthly payment should go to her mum via her brother's account. Her dad is late.

My husband disagreed, that she cant be working and someone else will take the money. Especially as she just registered for jamb and needs to save for school. He suggested we opened an account for her and whenever her mum needs money, she can make a transfer. The mum sells in the market and they also have farms where they grow stuff for commercial and home use.

Now, this girl doesn't spend 1 naira of that money in my house. She feeds well, I provide every other thing and I pay her. The issue is I check her phone sometimes without her knowledge and my aim is to check her account balance. My people can you believe this girl has only 110 naira in her account.

I went through her messages, various people asking for money. I am only aware of 6k she sent to her mum to help her buy chemicals and stuff to prepare my help's farmland for the new corn season. My help has her farm in her village.

There was a time I checked her phone and saw her balance was low. I didnt tell her, I just used style to ask her about her savings and she told me about the money she gave her aunty. This aunty has 6kids, stays in the same town as us. According to her, she wants to start pap business, so the best person to ask is my 18yr old help who is the same age as her first son??.

This same aunty that we begged and begged to help send this girl's id card and jamb text book then, till today we no see am. I spoke to my help and advised her about spending anyhow. Imagine my disappointment when I checked and saw 110naira.

I dont know if to take this up. I told her never to send money to anyone without my knowledge. This morning, someone was asking her for 2k. Another was asking her for credit.

I want to tell her I'll keep a large chunk of her salary with me, will give her something for airtime or whatever. I kuku buy airtime for her sometimes, the next day I ask her, credit is finished. There's one yeye boy in her text msg asking her for favours.

What do I do? Those with helps should advise pls. I have spoken to her before but I dont think she understands. I even saw where she sent 3k to a friend in her village for someone else's wedding, as per friend of bride.

I think it's unfair for me to just watch her spend anyhow.

Pweetiebabe:
BS! BS!! BS!!!

Let me start my birth story by giving praises to God for making me feel the joy of motherhood again.
BS submitted Cc Cappo angeltolly

Congratulations Mama...Your joy shall be permanent in Jesus Name.

Slimvee:


OMG...how I wish I'm d one who is 36weeks gone. I'm in my 33rd week...when will this July come now? I heard garden egg leaves boost blood, Gino tomatoes with malt and milk does too...dts what I'm abt to start taking to boost mine.

Once we enter June, July will just be around the corner. I ate garden egg leaves yesterday. Funny enough, I'm just coming back from hospital/antenatal and my PCV is 37%, which according to them isn't bad at all.
That was the same level I had when I had my son. They ran other tests like malaria and typhoid and malaria still shows 1+. The typhoid wasn't much of a worry from the result. But they gave me another malaria drug and some antibiotics. I'll start them tomorrow sha. Just wish to be okay once more.
I'll still eat more garden egg leaves today and try to force myself to be eating food. It shall end in praise for all of us. Thanks mama for your help.