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Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by sonofman234: 3:47pm On May 22, 2020
I and my Fiancee are not in good term since February this year. She helped me to borrow money to finance my business. I am one of this Betting Agent. She collected a Loan of 100k for me from LAPO and we will pay back the money within a period of 11 months, 16k per month.
The repayment started this year January, and we got the loan from LAPO last year December and I squandered the money that same month. I do also play the game both sport and virtual.
I was able to send 32K to her January this year and ever since then, I have not been able to send money to her and I am collecting 33K every month which will ends by July but nothing in my Savings.
Though she is one of the N-Power beneficiaries and that doesn't mean she have to be servicing the loan with her personal money. I have pleaded with her that I will settle everything both the one she has paid and I know my duty but she is angry with me and since then she has seized picking my calls and she failed to reply all my sms, and presently I don't have cash on me even to feed is difficult.
Though I am yet to go home because I am being affected by lockdown and I love her so much and I don't want to loose her.

Please, I know all is my fault, that I messed up but please how do I win her back?
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by TransflectTP(m): 3:50pm On May 22, 2020
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Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Ajens1991: 3:56pm On May 22, 2020
U dey kolo. Get lost.

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Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Nobody: 4:02pm On May 22, 2020
Mr. Man, I advise you to advise yourself.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by sonofman234: 4:02pm On May 22, 2020
I made mistake. That is LAPO Microfinance Loan. Though I messed up.


DenreleDave:
Borrowed 100k and you will pay 16k monthly for 11 months

You borrow 100k and u will be paying 176k in total.

Why borrow with that kind of interest??
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Bola146(f): 4:10pm On May 22, 2020
It's really sad, this disease has made some rich poor, I pray that she can understand better, God will send helpers to you
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Holumhidey(m): 4:11pm On May 22, 2020
Guy leave woman, go hustle and repackage your life..... Relationship nor dey sweet if money nor dey (basic truth)
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Holumhidey(m): 4:13pm On May 22, 2020
DenreleDave:


Do u truly mean that you are paying 176k for just a loan of 100k or u r joking??

76k interest??
It's possible

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Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by sonofman234: 4:15pm On May 22, 2020
Yes, and we have even paid 20k before getting the loan for documentations. Though, she said, after the payment of the 176k, we will have savings maybe like 30k at the end of everything.



DenreleDave:


Do u truly mean that you are paying 176k for just a loan of 100k or u r joking??

76k interest??
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by StubbornGENIUS: 5:01pm On May 22, 2020
She knew about your gambling habit yet she borrowed money for you.wow!some ladies are heaven sent.Meanwhile if you can quit or reduce playing bet,go and sell your papa land at the village,transfer some money to her account and relax,she will reply you with the speed of light.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Iceberg3: 6:08pm On May 22, 2020
What a life
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Impostor: 6:12pm On May 22, 2020
sonofman234:
I and my Fiancee are not in good term since February this year. She helped me to borrow money to finance my business. I am one of this Betting Agent. She collected a Loan of 100k for me from LAPO and we will pay back the money within a period of 11 months, 16k per month.
The repayment started this year January, and we got the loan from LAPO last year December and I squandered the money that same month. I do also play the game both sport and virtual.
I was able to send 32K to her January this year and ever since then, I have not been able to send money to her and I am collecting 33K every month which will ends by July but nothing in my Savings.
Though she is one of the N-Power beneficiaries and that doesn't mean she have to be servicing the loan with her personal money. I have pleaded with her that I will settle everything both the one she has paid and I know my duty but she is angry with me and since then she has seized picking my calls and she failed to reply all my sms, and presently I don't have cash on me even to feed is difficult.
Though I am yet to go home because I am being affected by lockdown and I love her so much and I don't want to loose her.

Please, I know all is my fault, that I messed up but please how do I win her back?

Biggest risk anyone can take, borrow money for a NIGERIAN
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Notyamate(f): 6:19pm On May 22, 2020
Borrowing money to finance a business is not really a good idea especially from those small microfinance banks.

I hear people say this LAPO microfinance use jazz so that you won't be able to pay back money on time so their interest will be accumulating.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Nobody: 6:27pm On May 22, 2020
Fake story
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by sylve11: 6:39pm On May 22, 2020
sonofman234:


please how do I win her back?


Na how many odds is she worth?

Yeye story. Abeg carry your wahala face another side. tongue cool
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by chatinent: 7:25pm On May 22, 2020
Gambling has ruined you. You don't need advice, you need torture.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Rilwayne001: 7:35pm On May 22, 2020
Notyamate:
Borrowing money to finance a business is not really a good idea especially from those small microfinance banks.

I hear people say this LAPO microfinance use jazz so that you won't be able to pay back money on time so their interest will be accumulating.

They obviously don't use Jazz. The high interest rate is ludicrous and hardly would payback period yield fruitful for the debtor. How government is overlooking their illegal activities is beyond me.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by mrblessed(m): 9:01pm On May 22, 2020
To win her back means to start meeting your loan obligations without defaulting. How could you use money gotten through loan to gamble, when you know you don't have backup somewhere? What were you thinking? Why are you behaving irresponsibly when you have someone that cares about you and is willing to be sorty to you?

If she decides to jilted you, I am fully in support of such a decision, because no sensible person puts up with such of thoughtlessness and stupidity.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by AfroKnight: 11:08pm On May 22, 2020
Borrow 100k, pay 176k in 11 months. How is this even legal?


Guy you’d better pay what you owe. Don’t leave her to settle your own debt. If you were the one who borrowed directly from them you know would have found a way to keep up with your payments. You are not concerned enough because the fire is not under your yansh. Put yourself in her shoes and hustle that money out.
Re: Please Advice, My Relationship Is Broken by Nobody: 12:34am On May 23, 2020
Walai even if it was my dog sef it'd disown you grin

She finally realizes how risky is it in life living next door to a soul that's already consumed by bet9ja virtual, talk more of dating. She's a lucky girl she's not too late to be on the run
Better let her flee in peace young man embarassed

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