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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SweetCunt97(f): 9:14pm On May 24, 2020
Ebenezer2O2O:
just kukum tell me say u want fellow come make I arrange your green card grin
Guy if you fit, e no go bad na. That's if u dey jand o

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Ebenezer2O2O(m): 9:15pm On May 24, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Guy if you fit, e no go bad na. That's if u dey jand o
I'm serious!
I'm in the U.S.
I'm in the North Eastern part of U.S and I work in Massachusetts Library as the reference Librarian.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by rs172(m): 9:19pm On May 24, 2020
Ebenezer2O2O:
I'm serious!
I'm in the U.S.
I'm in the North Eastern part of U.S and I work in Massachusetts Library as the reference Librarian.




Na una dey use una hand dey attract wetin go later kill you, stay off Nigerian girls, if you're overseas una no go hear word..

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by openmine(m): 9:22pm On May 24, 2020
EgunMogaji2:


Hold the press.

“ Why not tell them on this forum how you use to beat your wife black and blue in Nigeria. Why not tell them on this forum how the police has arrested you on various occasion in Nigeria for beating up your wife. Remember to also let people hailing you on this forum know how you have a case with the human rights commission back home over your senseless beatings and abuse.”

If this is true, which I have no way of telling, but why would she then still move to U.K. with her alleged abuser?
Excellent question!

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 9:27pm On May 24, 2020
Gloriagee:
I'm not saying women should be absolved from taking responsibility.
I personally take responsibility for my mental health. Not everything is worth my time and I guard my space jealously. I'm just tryna see things from her perspective n not be so judgmental.


Unfortunately we keep chanting empathy that hardly does any real good when shit hits the fan.

Now she faces deportation and being blacklisted. Possibly losing her kids
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 24, 2020
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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by mydeporch(f): 9:33pm On May 24, 2020
I take back my post....never knew it has turned to arguments like thjs..God help you both.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 9:35pm On May 24, 2020
Eketem:


Okay na. They should stay and be dragged like this since it is too much to ask women to take any sort of responsibility for their actions.



The whole thing is so messy the man has them where he wants. I cant stand women who love the position of victim while being toxic themselves.

With the message about wanting to get a british baby madam can kiss her stay bye.

Actually that seemed like it was something someone forwarded to her. She can claim it was never her plan (I mean even if it was). The person who was suggesting that to her would be the one held responsible

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 9:37pm On May 24, 2020
mydeporch:

Two wrongs can never make right. God touch ur husband who used to do graves to consider bringing u abroad and u see it as an opportunity to do payback...ur home should be ur priority. The husband and children are d home o...
I fear our women abroad o........imagine a couple dy helped settles matter between the two and after make-up sex wt hubby, she called the police dt d husband raped her. That was how she got d house hubby mortgaged and d husband still continued paying for mortgage payment
..... The fear of bringing women abroad is d beginning of wisdom for men..

@poster I pray the Universe will favour u and things will fall in pleasant places for you. Be wise in yr decisions next time.

It doesn’t work that way. My goodness cheesy

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 9:46pm On May 24, 2020
cococandy:


Actually that seemed like it was something someone forwarded to her. She can claim it was never her plan (I mean even if it was). The person who was suggesting that to her would be the one held responsible


Indeed. Toxic people both of them no saints here. However on this the man is clearly ahead

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 9:48pm On May 24, 2020
NOTIME247:
No matter how much noise she and her toxic family and friends make, it is a certainty that this abusive woman would be shipped back to Naija ASAP. These toxic family have bitten more than they can chew. She has a lot of lessons to learn for her next marriage so she doesn't become a serial husband abuser.

Mr toxic doctor you have issues you keep registrating new IDs to fight every body. You need help

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 24, 2020
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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by lillaowow(m): 9:54pm On May 24, 2020
NOTIME247:
It's glaring that this is all cooked up to claim domestic violence later. No sane person composes such a long text message. This is not an evidence of anything. The person who sent this stupid SMS is probably in on the plot too. If at all, this is a clear threat and whoever sent it can get in trouble too. OP's wife has many toxic friends grin Birds of a feather...

UKmigrant:
No normal person composes such a long message. This is merely a proof of how your sister has been blackmailing the poor man.

Interesting. Uk Migrant, put your affairs in order.

This thread that started like a genuine plea for help disintegrated to name calling. This is ridiculous.

Y'all should act like adults even if divorce will be final.

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 9:55pm On May 24, 2020
Eketem:



Indeed. Toxic people both of them no saints here. However on this the man is clearly ahead

Which makes me wonder why he started this thread. Was it meant to convince anyone that he’s the victim or what? His manipulations are obvious to even the naive

He’s ahead because she let him. I wish her Goodluck .

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by lillaowow(m): 9:56pm On May 24, 2020
cococandy:


Which makes me wonder why he started this thread. Was it meant to convince anyone that he’s the victim or what?

He’s ahead because she let him. I wish her Goodluck .

Begs the question if OP was really seeking advice with all these name calling and all.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 9:57pm On May 24, 2020
lillaowow:


Begs the question if OP was really seeking advice with all these name calling and all.

Thread was meant to be a character assassination project. Obviously.

Where two guilty parties are fighting but one wanted to get the public on their side first.

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by mydeporch(f): 10:01pm On May 24, 2020
cococandy:


It doesn’t work that way. My goodness cheesy
I was told d story but am sorry I ain't a good narrator...I understand there are a lot of processes they go thru when handling those things.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by cococandy(f): 10:07pm On May 24, 2020
mydeporch:

I was told d story but am sorry I ain't a good narrator...I understand there are a lot of processes they go thru when handling those things.

And whoever told it to you wanted you on their side. cheesy

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 24, 2020
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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 10:11pm On May 24, 2020
UKmigrant:
We and a few concerned people are here gisting on this matter cos we know the OP. We will stop at nothing to expose his toxic wife and her accomplices as much as possible as long as they want it that way. Just contemplating posting something nasty about her now, but we'll wait for ayomidate0 to look for more trouble. We supporters will fight this war behind the keyboards and cheer OP on to fight in the court of law. Get over that or find a wet transformer to hug

You and your ex are sick only victims are the kids you brought into your mess.

You have serious issues, you cant help yourself, they challenged you so you had to register 20 ids and use your normal ID to fight them, no emotional intelligence whatsoever

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 24, 2020
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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 24, 2020
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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by rago(m): 10:20pm On May 24, 2020
You seem clearly inteliigent..a bright doctor. However, I just want to know, how do you as a UK-based medical practitioner have plenty of time behind the keyboard, typing, and counter-typing. How do you do that?

UKmigrant:
We will keep opening new IDs until we expose all there is to expose if they keep looking for more trouble Mr Emotional Intelligence. No man or woman deserve to suffer abuse and we stand only for justice.

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 10:30pm On May 24, 2020
UKmigrant:
We will keep opening new IDs until we expose all there is to expose if they keep looking for more trouble Mr Emotional Intelligence. No man or woman deserve to suffer abuse and we stand only for justice.

This is sadly your weakness and your downfall. Best wishes

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Eketem: 10:32pm On May 24, 2020
rago:
You seem clearly inteliigent..a bright doctor. However, I just want to know, how do you as a UK-based medical practitioner have plenty of time behind the keyboard, typing, and counter-typing. How do you do that?


His weakness is sadly what will destroy him if he doesn't learn to control it, the need to have the final say the last word, the need to make everyone believe he is right. That will lead him into putting himself in trouble sooner or later

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 24, 2020
Eketem:


His weakness is sadly what will destroy him if he doesn't learn to control it, the need to have the final say the last word, the need to make everyone believe he is right. That will lead him into putting himself in trouble sooner or later
Prophet of doom, repent.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by rago(m): 10:45pm On May 24, 2020
at UKmigrant arent you supposed to be at the hospital or wherever? I thought doctors were extremely-quite SUPER BUSY-people!!

How do you have so much time?

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SweetCunt97(f): 10:53pm On May 24, 2020
henryhemon:


Dude the mistake you made is bringing a Nigerian woman to oversea. That's your Achilles heel. Guys don't dare do it, they all turn to something else and want your properties.
"Some guys" Mr Man. Not all women who travel abroad wanna milk you.
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by eyinjuege: 11:00pm On May 24, 2020
UKmigrant:
We and a few concerned people have been here gisting on this matter since and posting what we can cos we know the OP. We will stop at nothing to expose his toxic wife and her accomplices as long as they want to play it that way. We are just contemplating posting something nasty about her now, but we'll wait for ayomidate0 to look for more trouble. We supporters will fight this war behind the keyboards and cheer OP on to fight in the court of law as he should. Get over that or find a wet transformer to hug.

Comport yourself.
Whether you are the Tunde or his friends, stop it.
You are not doing your friend any favours.
A greater code of conduct is expected from you/your friend.
His identity is on here already, his gmcno is just a click away and he can be reported and investigated.
Stop it already.
Wars are not won on the keyboard.

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Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by SweetCunt97(f): 11:02pm On May 24, 2020
Ebenezer2O2O:
I'm serious!
I'm in the U.S.
I'm in the North Eastern part of U.S and I work in Massachusetts Library as the reference Librarian.
And u get time to dey disturb here?
Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Nobody: 11:04pm On May 24, 2020
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