continue loving and pursuing problem I pray it will not end your life soon

Have you even imagined what she had saved your number with?
A lesson that will take away your emotional state is at the door.
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If you are dating a girl and see future in the relationship, move from back or middle seat and be the driver, ( not co - driver)

According to your epistle, you are not in charge of the relationship, but forcing urself on her. It's obvious.

She told u not to visit her frequent.

( every loving gf will be thirsting to see her guy beside her as often and frequent).

She told u not to upload her pics on WhatsApp..... blablabla

She caused quarrellings more often and you were the one offered apologies on many occasions.
*shows you are forcing urself on her*

My observation .....you are not her type of husband, most especially outlook, also in the area of finances. She believed you are not ready for marriage yet.

If you don't take firm decisions on her, I pray you won't die of heart attack........you knw within you that she doesn't love you, but you are not ready to let go of her mainly because of her beauty and outlook

Baba. Na runs girl be that. I have been down this Road before. Trust me.

The mistake that made her a single mother she hasn’t learnt from it or maybe that was even what happened. Took you months to get her and each of the breakups she is quick to say it’s over,bro soon she will make it permanent she just has a reason for keeping you. You don’t want to wait to find out trust me. Like others said you’re insecure and desperate. If she was that beautiful and great like you see her trust me she would be married. Imagine discouraged you from redeployment as in really? Not even for economic reason. Most people are angry that if you’re that sincere no single mother should relate with you like this and for you to still be there itsnt just about this but you need to also look at your self esteem. I wish you success with whatever you decide

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The mistake that made her a single mother she hasn’t learnt from it or maybe that was even what happened. Took you months to get her and each of the breakups she is quick to say it’s over,bro soon she will make it permanent she just has a reason for keeping you. You don’t want to wait to find out trust me. Like others said you’re insecure and desperate. If she was that beautiful and great like you see her trust me she would be married. Imagine discouraged you from redeployment as in really? Not even for economic reason. Most people are angry that if you’re that sincere no single mother should relate with you like this and for you to still be there itsnt just about this but you need to also look at your self esteem. I wish you success with whatever you decide

Thank very much, i really appreciate your advice, thank sooo much

ojuu4u:
If you are dating girl and see future in the relationship, move from back or middle seat and be the driver, ( not co - drivers)

According to ur epistle, you are not in charge of the relationship, but forcing urself on her. It's obvious.

She told u not to visit her frequent.

( every loving gf will be thirsting to see her guy beside her as often and frequent).

She told u not to upload her pics on WhatsApp..... blablabla

She caused quarrellings more often and you were the one offered apologies on many occasions.
*shows you are forcing urself on her*

My observation .....you are not her type of husband, most especially outlook, also in the area of finances. She believed you are not ready for marriage yet.

If you don't take firm decisions on her, I pray you won't die of heart attack........you knw within you that she doesn't love you, but you are not ready to let go of her mainly because of her beauty and outlook

your observations are painfully right, but the truth is I'm not forcing myself on her. The problem is that, this is the first time I'm actually fall for someone else beside myself, I've had tons of relationships but I've neva felt this much emotional attachment with anyone I've dated, i know my position in my relationship is not solidified but will u blame me for trying to make things better? i know i love her and i knw she loves me to but her love for me is just questionable. I'm only scared because I'm not able to predict what I'm going back home to meet after my nysc program..
Your advice is really helpful and i really appreciate it.

sammyj490:

Guy go and hustle. When you have money you will not be reasoning like this .


bro no reason am o, I'm really hustling but even hustlers fall in love .....men only try only God can bless

The man just told you the plain truth. A baby mama needs a home and probably a father figure for her child ASAP. If you're still hussling, you likely can't do either.

The best she can do is keep the door open for you until someone more qualified steps in.

That's why its advisable you date someone younger than you so you have the time to build yourself up before she starts thinking of settling down and having her own home.

You're dating a single mother

Una nor dey hear word Sha.

It will surely end in tears

You need to swallow a redpill brother

They have advised you to end it with her but u couldn't. so what else should we be advising you about? u've made ur decision.

GAZZUZZ:


Guy go and hustle. When you have money you will not be reasoning like this .

I was wondering what you were looking for this section. Lol

Anyway, have you read his reply? I can tell your advice don waste

From everything you wrote there, you have not said anything. You're just feeling this way because you have too much time to think rubbish, please channel your mind to making money and show her you're making efforts if not she'll fly away in no time.

GAZZUZZ:


Regina will not . Ask the senator

You sound so confident, even if you are her childhood friend will she come n call when she wants to cheat.
Most of these senators wives are even sugar mummy, a poor man will alway think money is the only problem in life.

Uh

sammyj490:


your observations are painfully right, but the truth is I'm not forcing myself on her. The problem is that, this is the first time I'm actually fall for someone else beside myself, I've had tons of relationships but I've neva felt this much emotional attachment with anyone I've dated, i know my position in my relationship is not solidified but will u blame me for trying to make things better? i know i love her and i knw she loves me to but her love for me is just questionable. I'm only scared because I'm not able to predict what I'm going back home to meet after my nysc program..
Your advice is really helpful and i really appreciate it.

Am a bit convinced that ur post is not myth, let me advice u as a man who is experienced than you when it comes to marriage.

If by error or pity you mistake to settle down with a girl who doesn't love you for who you are, of course *vice versa.

(You can see that in my previous post, I didn't mention any derogatory word towards her of being after 1)

If you make such mistake, you either leave with regret with rest of your life or you battle with marry and remarry issue.

2. you confirmed it above that you don't have resources yet to foot marriage, my brother marriage comes with loads of responsibilities!!
....this clearly shows you are not capable financially to foot her expectations, the little one you did that big in your eyes is too small for her, considering her beauty as you said.


You see sooooooo many guys and men are on the radar of average Nigeria girls not to talk very beautiful and educative as you claimed.
Its rational for the girl to go for highest bidder at least to secure marriage and financial securities. As its now, you are not near highest bidder.


After service, its job hunt that is supposed to be your priority and not marriage, not even lady that doesn't love u in return.

sammyj490:
if i call her she doesn't pick up, she'll either hang up and call me back later or not even call at all.

red flag already

She doesn't love you as much as you do.... She only finds you comfortable...

ojuu4u:
Uh


Am a bit convinced that ur post is not myth, let me advice u as a man who is experienced than you when it comes to marriage.

If by error or pity you mistake to settle down with a girl who doesn't love you for who you are, of course *vice versa.

(You can see that in my previous post, I didn't mention any derogatory word towards her of being after 1)

If you make such mistake, you either leave with regret with rest of your life or you battle with marry and remarry issue.

2. you confirmed it above that you don't have resources yet to foot marriage, my brother marriage comes with loads of responsibilities!!
....this clearly shows you are not capable financially to foot her expectations, the little one you did that big in your eyes is too small for her considering her beauty as you said.


You see sooooooo many guys and men are on the radar of average Nigeria girls not to talk very beautiful and educative as you claimed.
Its rational for the girl to go for highest bidder at least to secure marriage and financial securities and as its stands now, you are not near highest bidder.


After service, its job hunt that is supposed to be your priority and not marriage, not even lady that doesn't love u in return.

Thank you for following up bro and i assure you this is not a made up story.... let me start by saying I'm not ready for marriage now, I'm about to b through with my nysc program i still have a long way ahead of me, i really want to hustle so as to create a great future for both myself and my family. I know most people will want to insult me saying if you know you are not ready for marriage why go into a relationship, remember i said when i all started i just wanted to shag, f*ck and all, i never planned to take in on any long relationship..... I've ready started job hunting and already developing some business ideas which I'll start working on after this pandemic...the truth is i really love this girl and i don't know if I'll still b able to make things right when i get there. Is loving someone and asked to be loved back a crime?

What are u waiting 4 Go cheat on her 2

Can’t read that but just keep thinking...

A single mom who treats you like a nuisance? Bro you have your answer, you’re only living in denial.

Lamanii22:
She doesn't love you as much as you do.... She only finds you comfortable...

Comfortable!!! Or 3rd extra tyre

GAZZUZZ:


Regina will not . Ask the senator

Who told you?
In a couple of years time the man will need a miraculous Viagra to raise his Joygiver, when it eventually fails, you think the little girl will be okay using her hand held device alone?!?



I did not say anything o

OmoDavido:
Sorry bro, had to laugh out loud at the bolded .

bro even me self just dey laugh for here

You are pussy-whipped bro...

sammyj490:


But bro i don't see anything wrong with dating a single mother, especially when i really love her this much, truth be told i someone had told me i would end up dating a single mother would have rejected it, but bro the feeling came naturally and i really want it to stay....God knows if i attain my goals today i can marry her tomorrow... and moreover she's still in her early 20's...the pregnancy was planned for but it came as a blessing even tho the baby's father deserted her, she picked herself up

Smh!

SENSE PILL:

Nothing is worse than an ignorant boy (man) in Love second only to an illiterate with a bag full of money.


As much as I would just love to walk on by, let me point out a few red flags to those who can see through;

1. Single momma (that kept you on a waiting queue and you assume you've been promoted to bf, but you are still very much on the side queue).

And to think that a refurbished and repainted vehicle is taking a brand new and super ride to the cleaners because of new colours, beats the imagination.

Used cars have resale value?

Mr waiter, what an epitome of perseverance !

2. She bought you, however, cheaply. Might I ask you a question? How was she getting the money she was sending to you? did you bother to ask? she manipulated you into line.

3. A gurl that really cared about you as you do about her wouldn't dissuade you from relocating. Heck she would move the motion first.

Just look at the lame excuse of you guys getting bored with each other.

She needed you out of the way so she can practice trade.

4. She kept breaking up because you were always up in her face. not giving her breathing space to roll wild.


5. as a mutured man , you kept apologizing to keep the peace? even though she is the one taking you for a sexy manipulative ride? How so matured you are indeed!

here is the deal, she breaks up so she can get you off her backs, have reason to ignore your calls and messages, and be free to run some shows unfettered.

Then, after she is done, she takes your call, you turn around, act the matured MAN and apologize to her for riding/having her forest weeded on your behalf for money. oh dear heavens.

6. YOU LOVE HER SO MUCH AND SHE KNOWS IT. this right here, is your undoing. if she was as good as you paint her, go ask her WHY her baby daddy left. whatever she tells you, believe the opposite.

7. you tell her everything, good boy, and she tells you nothing?!!!!! And you ofcourse avoid probing further , even though you have alot of doubts, because she always flair up when you ask her stuff about herself or she ignores your questions and changes the topic right?

You havent been dating for a year now, you have been DATING YOURSELF ....

8. You don't keep quiet when she friendzons guys because you don't want to come across as jealous, you keep quiet because she has you in her pocket, at her whims and caprices. The truth is bitter.
As mush as you would love to scream at her for as much as giving her number out in the first place, you know u can't. she has been financing your acounts.

Fresh graduate with no source of income, rolling with such a beauty-spoilt-brat of a single momma is a crazy cognac.

9. she is not your best friend buddy, do you even know what that term means?

10. here is the deal, your friends know what's up and have advised you, but you are too blinded by infatuations and the fact that she rides so well, to see that she is simply manipulating your poor heart and life.
Should you ignore voice of reason and marry this agent .... You would know what hell-on-earth-feels like.

SENSE PILL
Love is the package that lust is delivered and the ribbons are quickly untied.


The worse set of ladies to roll with are those that know they are beautiful and they wear it as hats.

And unrepentant baby mamas.

here you are, unlearned about the web of women yet having as a cognac, a mixture of these two deadly weapons, in one sexy soul.

My advise? I know you wouldn't take it

but I'd say it anyways,


Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


then invest your time in studying those links on my signature.

Thank me later.

You have been SIMPing on her and she's starting to see you not as the correct Alpha she wants. Why should you ever upload her pictures on your WhatsApp to the extent she tells you to stop? Why should you always be the one begging her whenever you guys have issue?

You're obviously not in control. She is. Girls don't like guys they can control. They prefer you controlling them more.

And besides, didn't she tell you what led to her becoming baby mama at such tender age? Did she relay to you the story of her baby daddy? If you're not asking questions to get answers, and she's always been the one asking you the questions and always providing the answers, bros sorry is your case. You're even for a long shocking journey.

sammyj490:
I not d emotional attachment type but I'm really in love with her, some of my friends who knws what's going on advice me to end it with her but i can't.. I'm just soo in love with her, Please advice me

You are the emotional attachment type of guy.

You are not in love, but in chains. Like Haddon pointed out here, the worst a man can do to himself is to stay with a woman whom he loves very well. Man up and quit the relationship or stay back and fight for her love because love is supposed to be fought for and we are in a Romeo and Juliet movie.

I don't understand what will make a sound and able man wey life just dey beginning stage to dey go out with single mother. U stay close with single mothers as friends with benefits.
Oga, wise up.

HARDDON:



Smh!

SENSE PILL:

Nothing is worse than an ignorant boy (man) in Love second only to an illiterate with a bag full of money.


As much as I would just love to walk on by, let me point out a few red flags to those who can see through;

1. Single momma (that kept you on a waiting queue and you assume you've been promoted to bf, but you are still very much on the side queue).

And to think that a refurbished and repainted vehicle is taking a brand new and super ride to the cleaners because of new colours, beats the imagination.

Used cars have resale value?

Mr waiter, what an epitome of perseverance !

2. She bought you, however, cheaply. Might I ask you a question? How was she getting the money she was sending to you? did you bother to ask? she manipulated you into line.

3. A gurl that really cared about you as you do about her wouldn't dissuade you from relocating. Heck she would move the motion first.

Just look at the lame excuse of you guys getting bored with each other.

She needed you out of the way so she can practice trade.

4. She kept breaking up because you were always up in her face. not giving her breathing space to roll wild.


5. as a mutured man , you kept apologizing to keep the peace? even though she is the one taking you for a sexy manipulative ride? How so matured you are indeed!

here is the deal, she breaks up so she can get you off her backs, have reason to ignore your calls and messages, and be free to run some shows unfettered.

Then, after she is done, she takes your call, you turn around, act the matured MAN and apologize to her for riding/having her forest weeded on your behalf for money. oh dear heavens.

6. YOU LOVE HER SO MUCH AND SHE KNOWS IT. this right here, is your undoing. if she was as good as you paint her, go ask her WHY her baby daddy left. whatever she tells you, believe the opposite.

7. you tell her everything, good boy, and she tells you nothing?!!!!! And you ofcourse avoid probing further , even though you have alot of doubts, because she always flair up when you ask her stuff about herself or she ignores your questions and changes the topic right?

You havent been dating for a year now, you have been DATING YOURSELF ....

8. You don't keep quiet when she friendzons guys because you don't want to come across as jealous, you keep quiet because she has you in her pocket, at her whims and caprices. The truth is bitter.
As mush as you would love to scream at her for as much as giving her number out in the first place, you know u can't. she has been financing your acounts.

Fresh graduate with no source of income, rolling with such a beauty-spoilt-brat of a single momma is a crazy cognac.

9. she is not your best friend buddy, do you even know what that term means?

10. here is the deal, your friends know what's up and have advised you, but you are too blinded by infatuations and the fact that she rides so well, to see that she is simply manipulating your poor heart and life.
Should you ignore voice of reason and marry this agent .... You would know what hell-on-earth-feels like.

SENSE PILL
Love is the package that lust is delivered and the ribbons are quickly untied.


The worse set of ladies to roll with are those that know they are beautiful and they wear it as hats.

And unrepentant baby mamas.

here you are, unlearned about the web of women yet having as a cognac, a mixture of these two deadly weapons, in one sexy soul.

My advise? I know you wouldn't take it

but I'd say it anyways,


Runnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn


then invest your time in studying those links on my signature.

Thank me later.

I like how you write and your verbiage.
It's really impressive

sammyj490:


But bro i don't see anything wrong with dating a single mother, especially when i really love her this much, truth be told i someone had told me i would end up dating a single mother would have rejected it, but bro the feeling came naturally and i really want it to stay....God knows if i attain my goals today i can marry her tomorrow... and moreover she's still in her early 20's...the pregnancy was planned for but it came as a blessing even tho the baby's father deserted her, she picked herself up

Imagine what you are saying gold digger like you! She knows ur account number of hand begging for money and you expect her not to have Sugar daddy. Bros go and hustle !