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Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Smile87(f): 8:14pm On May 19, 2020
merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....
wat if we are not on WhatsApp,so we can't join
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:42am On May 20, 2020
Smile87:
wat if we are not on WhatsApp,so we can't join
the group is on WhatsApp dear .. that's the only way u can join
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:48am On May 21, 2020
miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Smile87(f): 7:16pm On May 22, 2020
Everyone is jst saying pm pls wat does it mean o
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 3:37pm On May 24, 2020
Smile87:
Everyone is jst saying pm pls wat does it mean o
it means that u should send me a direct message... Or if u don't mind, u can drop ur What'sApp no here for me..just because you may not know how to send a DM
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:36am On May 25, 2020
Still here

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Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Chrissblown: 4:40am On May 25, 2020
merit1988:
Still here
Hello Merit
I can't PM you, maybe you can add me on whatsapp please 09018831357
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:12pm On May 27, 2020
I've responded to all DMs
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Jidebabs88(m): 6:56pm On May 27, 2020
merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....

I sent you a kinda mail (maybe that's d DM) so I'm still just going to drop my no in case. 07085563779
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:56am On Jun 01, 2020
Still here darlings kiss
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by africaflozy(f): 11:18pm On Jun 02, 2020
merit1988:
Still here darlings kiss
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Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 9:29am On Jun 03, 2020
africaflozy:


Check your DM
okk sis
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by uncleteeh(m): 10:19am On Jun 03, 2020
08108408732
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 11:22am On Jun 03, 2020
uncleteeh:
08108408732
send a DM pls
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by ZenithP: 10:08pm On Jun 03, 2020
merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by mekuszemony: 12:46pm On Jun 04, 2020
08055100031
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 3:16pm On Jun 05, 2020
Still here
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 3:47pm On Jun 08, 2020
The group is a small community of married matured mind people, so we are very selective on who we add up.

For all those that have sent me a dm and i did not reply, i am sorry, you did not pass the first screening.

For those dropping numbers here, i will not add you. The instruction is send a dm.

If you cannot send a dm, just quote this message or the original post.

Thanks for your understanding
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:11pm On Jun 08, 2020
I encourage mature people to join by assuring confidentiality.... If u can't go through screening, pls don't send a DM... If u can't show a proof of u being married, pls don't send a DM... Thank u kiss
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:20pm On Jun 08, 2020
Come here for screening dearies kiss https:///ErXsNbcmzUlIKjGw6KyB8K
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:28pm On Jun 08, 2020
Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https:///ErXsNbcmzUlIKjGw6KyB8K
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:06am On Jun 09, 2020
Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https:///ErXsNbcmzUlIKjGw6KyB8K Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies kiss.....
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 8:22pm On Jun 09, 2020
Still here
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:05am On Jun 10, 2020
I've responded to all DMs
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jun 10, 2020
Sent u a Dm
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by MERCHANDISER: 4:47pm On Jun 10, 2020
merit1988:
Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: https:///ErXsNbcmzUlIKjGw6KyB8K
08133610346 add
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 5:49pm On Jun 10, 2020
Send a DM plss
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:47pm On Jun 10, 2020
�FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.*

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

12-if she loves u she can do everything u ask of her as far as it makes u happy,so never force her to love u.

13-if a woman truely loves u,even to ask money from u she will be shy and most especially if she loves u she can never leave u to spend"""unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....☺

If you find a woman who loves and fears God, cherish her for life and never let her go.. She will do you good for the rest of your life.

SO WOMEN ARE VERY SPECIAL....���

GOD BLESS OUR WOMEN
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:26am On Jun 11, 2020
*MEN AND SEX*

Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex.

• If they want to help you, they will demand for sex.

• If they say they love you, they want sex.

• You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex.

• If you want to borrow money from them, they want sex.

• They want to give you a job, they want sex.

• They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex.

First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.

Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No!

Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own?

A man could be reading his Bible or Qur'an and his penis will just stand.

A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection.

A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it stands even when the man is still asleep.

Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on monthly periods, cramps or reject sex when they are being offered? That's how God created them.

A man is naturally always ever ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, the penis stands at erection immediately ready for sex.

Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked.

Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.

This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, " Holy Ghost Fire" or Auzubilahi Mina shaytan rajeem"

That's why some churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor. And Islam forbids women to lead Muslim congregations unless if they are all ladies.

Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.

Few men of God overcame sexual urge according to the holy books. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away, he fled!! Prophet Isa(Jesus) and prophet Mohammed (s.a.w) were very careful not to include a woman among their disciples.

So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?
Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during wars because a woman lured them inside bush.

David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had sex with her.

Do I need to tell you about Samson?
Solomon and other holy books(Bible and Qur'an) characters?
It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct.

The way the man's body reacts to the sexual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it.

How many great women have you heard messed up because of a dick? Few, or even none.

So next time a man misbehaves because of sex, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature.

Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?"

A 17 year old girl can make your father lose focus and collect the money meant for your school fees.

I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.

Men should also understand that it is not all erection that is meant for sex. They should learn to control their urge.

Men are wonderfully created, but ability to
CONTROL the LIBIDO and the side attraction is the KEY.

It takes GRACE of GOD to resist Temptation that is attractive

May God the Almighty help all MEN in this journey of Life!!! Ameen.
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:10am On Jun 11, 2020
Still here
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by marzom: 12:00pm On Jun 11, 2020
Hi Merritt,

Just sent u a PM, kindly add me 09091197220 to ur group
Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 3:17pm On Jun 11, 2020
M & B ladies, don't be shy to join the moving train.... If ur m & b , very mature, don't care what anyone says dearies..its their own opinion and it's not relevant at all ...ur welcome to our midst kiss

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