I don't really like talking about Love, Relationship bla bla bla, because of its complicated nature. After all I'm a small Boy, wha do I know ?.... But this one has been paining me for a long time now, so I gats air my view maybe those Broda doing it will stop .
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Do you know that majority of the 'yes' recorded in "Will You Marry Me" public proposal is simply because the Lady Doesn't want to humilate the guy ?
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Proposal in Public places is cute, no doubt, it gives the 'Awwwnnn' feeling we all like. The joy of seeing lovebirds who are about to make a lifetime decision.
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My opinion is; I see it as a Rape of the Girl's mind. Because at that point in time, she is circled by people whose hearts just got pierced by the arrow of cupid.
Some Screaming, Some whispering;
'SAY YES' --- All to her hearing, trying to Influence her decision !
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There is difference between Romance and pressure. Publicly asking someone to spend the rest of their lives with you is often shown as being this super romantic, amazing thing.But you know what? It puts an awful lot of pressure on the person you’re Asking.
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She'll roll her eyeballs and looked round, She'll see countless Smartphones with cameras set for recording and snapping this once in a lifetime moment. All to be posted on social media. So beautiful, right ?
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But she's not ready for this. She just met Uncle on his knees not quite long and not ready to walk the aisle with him. They're dating, fine, but Marriage is a total different Ball game.
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If she says 'No' , World people will trend the video and label her all sorts- even though they don't know the story.
Facebook Live, Instagram, Twitter, everywhere, you name it !
She will become a victim of cyber bullies and outright hatred.
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What about the Groom wannabe on his knees ?... He will feel broken and humiliated. The same crowd cheering him few minutes ago will in turn 'Boo' him. I've seen videos of this happen, trust me, none of them will walk up to console him.
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But she's just human, she's scared, she doesn't want to be the reason for someone's pain. So she said 'Yes' with tears running down her cheeks.
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People clapped and cheered saying its tears of joy.........
Hell no !...... Those her tears of a girl whose mind just got Raped by your unwanted 'Say yes' penetration into her consciousness by relentless means.
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Proposing privately is ideal because it's discreet, awesome and heartfelt. If you're looking for a sincere answer to your "Will You Marry Me"........ Then i think you should shun proposing in public places !

_____________ My opinion though, I'll be glad to hear yours !

Correct G


But come to think of it guys sef dy mumu , with the high rate of divorces currently being recorded, I strongly recommend that guys should Isolatedly propose to their girlfriends in a vacuum!. Marriage no dy predictable again

You are right bro and its even too common

Choice

Public proposals is a technique made to force the girl to say yes.

JOACHINpedro:
Correct G


But come to think of it guys sef dy mumu , with the high rate of divorces currently being recorded, I strongly recommend that guys should Isolatedly propose to their girlfriends in a vacuum!. Marriage no dy predictable again

Absolutely......... fairy tale marriage today..... Online quarrel tomorrow..... so saddening!

lightangel65i:
Public proposals is a technique made to force the girl to say yes.

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Thank you for banking with me jare

boscho:
You are right bro and its even too common

thank God say you sef you see am!

It's only simps that do stupid stuff like that. It's a girl that suppose to be begging you, rolling on the floor pleading for you to marry them.

Public proposals, to me is mere acting. You see the whites do it and you want to act your own.
Ask the guy why the public show.

Bigbako:

I don't really like talking about Love, Relationship bla bla bla, because of its complicated nature. After all I'm a small Boy, wha do I know ?.... But this one has been paining me for a long time now, so I gats air my view maybe those Broda doing it will stop .
.
Do you know that majority of the 'yes' recorded in "Will You Marry Me" public proposal is simply because the Lady Doesn't want to humilate the guy ?
.
Proposal in Public places is cute, no doubt, it gives the 'Awwwnnn' feeling we all like. The joy of seeing lovebirds who are about to make a lifetime decision.
.
My opinion is; I see it as a Rape of the Girl's mind. Because at that point in time, she is circled by people whose hearts just got pierced by the arrow of cupid.
Some Screaming, Some whispering;
'SAY YES' --- All to her hearing, trying to Influence her decision !
.
There is difference between Romance and pressure. Publicly asking someone to spend the rest of their lives with you is often shown as being this super romantic, amazing thing.But you know what? It puts an awful lot of pressure on the person you’re Asking.
.
She'll roll her eyeballs and looked round, She'll see countless Smartphones with cameras set for recording and snapping this once in a lifetime moment. All to be posted on social media. So beautiful, right ?
.
But she's not ready for this. She just met Uncle on his knees not quite long and not ready to walk the aisle with him. They're dating, fine, but Marriage is a total different Ball game.
.
If she says 'No' , World people will trend the video and label her all sorts- even though they don't know the story.
Facebook Live, Instagram, Twitter, everywhere, you name it !
She will become a victim of cyber bullies and outright hatred.
.
What about the Groom wannabe on his knees ?... He will feel broken and humiliated. The same crowd cheering him few minutes ago will in turn 'Boo' him. I've seen videos of this happen, trust me, none of them will walk up to console him.
.
But she's just human, she's scared, she doesn't want to be the reason for someone's pain. So she said 'Yes' with tears running down her cheeks.
.
People clapped and cheered saying its tears of joy.........
Hell no !...... Those her tears of a girl whose mind just got Raped by your unwanted 'Say yes' penetration into her consciousness by relentless means.
.
Proposing privately is ideal because it's discreet, awesome and heartfelt. If you're looking for a sincere answer to your "Will You Marry Me"........ Then i think you should shun proposing in public places !

_____________ My opinion though, I'll be glad to hear yours !

Op dis is just d bad side of public proposals... I can certainly tell u dat there r many ladies hu wud love their man to propose to dem publicly. After all...weda public or privately, if she says no d guy go still feel am. its a matter of choice boss, some pple like it, some don't. but personally, I don't intend to propose publicly sha

Just for you

Exactly, I love my privacy, everything should not be shown

AngelicDamsel:
Public proposals, to me is mere acting. You see the whites do it and you want to act your own.
Ask the guy why the public show.

I love your make up

Okoroawusa:

I love your make up

No dp, why?

AngelicDamsel:


No dp, why?

Are you not the person on the profile pic?

Okoroawusa:

Are you not the person on the profile pic?

I was talking about you. Your dp.

Complementing one's makeup and not the person is not so cool. Thanks all the same.

AngelicDamsel:


I was talking about you. Your dp.

Complementing one's makeup and not the person is not so cool. Thanks all the same.

Ohhhhh! Sorry.

You are a beautiful girl. Don't mind me I just wanted to tease you.

Okoroawusa:

Ohhhhh! Sorry.

You are a beautiful girl. Don't mind me I just wanted to tease you.

Okay, thanks.

All for the gram. I don’t understand why I would propose to you and fiam I’ll see it on Instagram or any social media platform

My sister, we have come to the end of the relationship.

My privacy is non negotiable

Deicide:
It's only simps that do stupid stuff like that. It's a girl that suppose to be begging you, rolling on the floor pleading for you to marry them.

highly Patriarchal

AngelicDamsel:


I was talking about you. Your dp.

Complementing one's makeup and not the person is not so cool. Thanks all the same.

StrikeBack:
All for the gram. I don’t understand why I would propose to you and fiam I’ll see it on Instagram or any social media platform

My sister, we have come to the end of the relationship.

My privacy is non negotiable

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"My privacy is non negotiable"....... word!

You’re absolutely right and I strongly concur to your opinion on this public proposal thingy...truly got me on this bruv

It's an attention-seeking, emotional blackmail stunt.

Your English is plenty. After saying yes in public, tell him no in private. Life is not hard

Ishilove:
Your English is plenty. After saying yes in public, tell him no in private. Life is not hard

ahhhhh!
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you want to kii person niyen o!

Iykesonwhyte:
You’re absolutely right and I strongly concur to your opinion on this public proposal thingy...truly got me on this bruv

i'm glad i did!

This writeup is so true. Some fools who think themselves men will even go as far as proposing to their student girlfriends on the day of their exam; who does that?.... Even without somehow discussing the topic with her as to consider her reaction (a girl u just met weeks ago). Na wa o.

As for me, I am not a fan of public proposals!
Infact, I AM NOT A MAN OR PREACHER OF LOVE... I'M A FIGHT... I'M A BATTLE.... I'M... (you can completei it)

doggedfighter:
Choice

It's bullshit.....I ain't doing one.....I will do it inside the room with surprise..

The act doesn't seem manly, same time I can't judge men who have done dis, every one for em self