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He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 11:28am On May 27, 2020 |
I broke up with my boyfriend today, I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much. After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself. My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us. Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground . Thoughts?? 155 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Ladylite: 11:45am On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:Wow, you have really suffered. But are you sure you don't have low self esteem? For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle. Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen. Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense. You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you. 347 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 11:45am On May 27, 2020 |
The guy isn’t serious about the relationship. Move on 144 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Ningen(m): 11:45am On May 27, 2020 |
My birthday would be coming up , his just passed , I told him that I would expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday... Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind? I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him. Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability. You did yourself a good thing too. But the pleasure is HIS. 954 Likes 71 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stevyne: 11:46am On May 27, 2020 |
Because he no give you Money for birthday He's stingy, No goals, No focus. The moment will start taking responsibility for our lives, and hold on to the fact that no one owes you anything. 564 Likes 38 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by tnerro1(m): 11:49am On May 27, 2020 |
Girl ,no time to waste with anyone, just look forward and keep searching � 36 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Ablyz(m): 11:54am On May 27, 2020 |
[b][/b] Positivechick:he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday , that if money cms he will send but right now he has no money naija babes and money dey be 5 and 6 ontop birthday matter 361 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Spaceclenzy1(m): 11:56am On May 27, 2020 |
Instead of Help him build himself ur here derailing a guy u said to be faithful on.. Bcoz he didn't send u money on ur birthday and u said to be working yet u didn't send him on his own birthday.... U must be an Ungratfull Human being 404 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Seeeeeeee: 11:58am On May 27, 2020 |
Times are hard, it's not easy for a guy to stand on his fit after NYSC. The Choice is yours, stay or leave it doesn't matter. It's just experience that you need 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Liliantalks: 11:58am On May 27, 2020 |
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would meet someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you 78 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1:ungrateful that what ? 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Spaceclenzy1(m): 12:14pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: Both of u whr serving him was sending u money.. U neva sent him.. Now ur working he is still finding his footing.. He had his birthday u didn't care.. And ur breaking up with him coz he didn't send u money on ur birthday.... Ur too Self Centered Joor 212 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:23pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ladylite:thanks a lot , sometimes I was just hopeful, he is waiting for a big job. He isn’t even too serious about job searching ,it’s so passive to him , I don’t care if he’s a teacher , or a sales boy or a filling station attendant , just get busy. He said he can’t do it. 56 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:26pm On May 27, 2020 |
Spaceclenzy1:I should help him grow while he doesn’t take care of me , no matter how little. Am sorry I can’t do that . 47 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 12:30pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:What exactly is the problem? Is it that he doesn't take care of you or that he's not serious about getting a job? 68 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 12:32pm On May 27, 2020 |
A man who truly loves you would know the right thing to do Modified : men before commenting, ask urself , would I want my sister to date such a person . 114 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:33pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:both . 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by konkonbilo(m): 12:33pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by StrongandMighty: 12:41pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:Since you're working take care of yourself, He's neither your father nor your husband. It's better you change the notion that someone you're dating owes you a financial responsibility. Sister he doesn't owe you a dime. 400 Likes 36 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:42pm On May 27, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:okay. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 12:43pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:But it seems like the former is the main problem. In other words, you want him to get a job so he can take care of you, which means that you're indirectly pushing him for your own gratification. Though he seems to be proud and has misplaced priorities, you also need to look at yourself and see what you're doing wrong. Stop demanding things from him like you're his sole responsibility. That guy is pretty messed up, but you're not without a fault. You broke up with him already, but you should note this ahead of your next relationship. 130 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by SweetCunt97(f): 12:45pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ningen:Just shut it! When he was eating her food without contributing money he didn't know it was shameless? Such insensitive men need to choke on that free food to gain sense. 71 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:48pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:nope , he does not do jack for me , not a single thing . This is the first time since almost a year I am asking him for money. He has chosen not to give , n I hv chosen to break up and focus on myself continue paying my bills without him . 38 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Shormiey(m): 12:48pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:See ehn madam, shebi you don break up with him? Wetin you want again now? Even if you manage to nail a rich guy, if you don't complement him he will walk.....stop this entitlement mentality funny enough you are managing somewhere and he is not working....do you think it's everybody that can teach?....you should have seat him down and tell him what did he wanna do ....if it is business what skills does he have or acquired? Because getting jobs ain't easy lately. 85 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by usmanbaba(m): 12:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
You seems to be the stingy one here, knowing fully well he is not working and still asking him for money is wickedness. 223 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by StrongandMighty: 12:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: Relief yourself from this entitlement syndrome & leave the guy alone! He doesn't owe you anything and he deserves someone that's not entitled like you.. Make your own money and spoil yourself the way you want so you won't have any reason to create this kind of thread again 117 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 12:50pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:But according to you, he doesn't have a good source of income, so how do you expect him to give, or even have to give? If he had a job and you know he earns well, and he decides not to give, I think that's a different case. So the problem shouldn't be about him not giving, it should be his refusal to do something meaningful. 56 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by James4bright(m): 12:51pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: You seem like a really cool girl. Don't listen to those random guys making you look like a gold digger. That dude isn't serious about his life, let him be. I wish I had a girl who really cared about my career that much. 118 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 12:55pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:he doesn’t hv a steady source of income but this period he had some money and and spent all the money buying drinks and living like a big boy. 26 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Shormiey(m): 12:56pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 12:56pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:He has no ambition or focus? What were you thinking to have stayed in such relationship? Better move on with your life and look for some one with vision, and lastly, never date a stingy man; whether broke or not. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Paxie55: 12:59pm On May 27, 2020 |
StrongandMighty: Humanoid01:You guys should just shut up. I'm sure you guys are less than 20years. What are you saying? Sidnt you see where she said the guy prefer to follow his friends around than find a career? Like you guys didn't see where she has asked him to look for something to do? Can you guys saying this rubbish stay with a stingy male friend that always come to your house to feed and never contribute shi shi? Stupid comments all over here. 79 Likes 1 Share |
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