Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 27, 2020 |
MedicH: hmmm i think the main problem is this guy is not ready to do something meaningful with his life. in this case it doesn't make sense sticking with him. if he finds it rosy now, what about the rainy days? i believe in doing the work of He that sent me while it is in the day because night shall come when no man can work.
if i flip to the other side of the coin where u said you are leaving because he is stingy pls do, leave the guy alone, he doesn't owe u anything.
Someone like me find it excruciatingly difficult and mind-blowingly painful to get a debit alert because of some woman i'm dating. it hasn't stopped the women in my life from liking me as a matter of fact, it's a matter of principle. i do not give, i owe u nothing.
it gets worse when it's a lady that is of no value to me no gain. i won't have the loss either.
leave him alone Swear with ur life say u never give any girl money 4ur entire life D girl u want toast |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Biglittlelois(f): 9:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
MedicH: .
Someone like me find it excruciatingly difficult and mind-blowingly painful to get a debit alert because of some woman i'm dating. it hasn't stopped the women in my life from liking me as a matter of fact, it's a matter of principle. i do not give, i owe u nothing.
What da hell!!! ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) naa this is not normal ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 9:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
Chummynoni: i dont know the OP but she sounds like a reasonable lady. being stingy is a bad thing xpecially to people u claim to luv. jah bless u for this comment |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 9:17pm On May 27, 2020 |
SATANworshipsME: u are a pathetic gold digger. get a job u sure say u read it finish Cux ur comment mk no sense |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 9:19pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:
You clearly don't know anything about life. Abeg avoid me. Its obvious u see urself like a boss that knows nothing up dere |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 9:23pm On May 27, 2020 |
peterangelo:
Swear with ur life say u never give any girl money 4ur entire life D girl u want toast no mind that one ,, all these men r all hypocrites cause if na their sister , they will not tolerate it . |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by wrose(m): 9:24pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ningen:
Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind?
I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him. Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability.
You did yourself a good thing too. But the pleasure is HIS.
Nothing can be said again on this thread that is more apt and truer and this words. She did both herself and the guy a good thing 7 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 9:25pm On May 27, 2020 |
Humanoid01:
You are making this all about him, you are not addressing her role as a partner. which nonsense role , omo the babe try . If she’s relaxed about he’s present ways then she does not love him. No woman will comfortable in such dilemma 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 9:28pm On May 27, 2020 |
peterangelo:
Its obvious u see urself like a boss that knows nothing up dere Nah! I'm just a lover of truth, and I say things as they are. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by MedicH: 9:28pm On May 27, 2020 |
peterangelo:
Swear with ur life say u never give any girl money 4ur entire life D girl u want toast lol i do not toast any girl with my wallet open. I can swear with my life that i have never transferred or given by cash any amount more than 6k to a lady i am dating. It used to be 5k before now because i consciously made that decision but one missed her period after we did something so i told her to go and run a scan and transferred 3k. i didn't get a debit and i repeated the same 3k again and it happened that she got 6k. This transfer only comes after serious and intense deliberations and i have to painstakingly convince myself that i should send this money and never again, it is never easy. i have toasted many ladies and i only got i will think about it reply which i could tell it was because i de stingy. One managed to try and cope with that but was asking me if i dont give her money as my gf will i give her as my wife. if a lady i am having sex with call me for money for hair, cream, pizza, birthday, outing, movies, ice-cream i ill just use one excuse and dodge. if i can't dodge it due to circumstances then i go buy meat pie and she will buy the ice cream. i have a bed-appointment tomorrow and i am required to buy pizza. i am still thinking of how to dodge but i need the nacking 9 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Humanoid01(m): 9:29pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker: which nonsense role , omo the babe try . If she’s relaxed about he’s present ways then she does not love him. No woman will comfortable in such dilemma If you can't read between the lines, I'm sorry, I can't do that for you. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ezechi24(m): 9:34pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker: A man who truly loves you would know the right thing to do
Modified : men before commenting, ask urself , would I want my sister to date such a person . I will not allow my sister to be a liability. 10 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ayanbaba2(m): 9:36pm On May 27, 2020 |
MedicH:
lol i do not toast any girl with my wallet open.
I can swear with my life that i have never transferred or given by cash any amount more than 6k to a lady i am dating.
It used to be 5k before now because i consciously made that decision but one missed her period after we did something so i told her to go and run a scan and transferred 3k. i didn't get a debit and i repeated the same 3k again and it happened that she got 6k.
This transfer only comes after serious and intense deliberations and i have to painstakingly convince myself that i should send this money and never again, it is never easy.
i have toasted many ladies and i only got i will think about it reply which i could tell it was because i de stingy. One managed to try and cope with that but was asking me if i dont give her money as my gf will i give her as my wife.
if a lady i am having sex with call me for money for hair, cream, pizza, birthday, outing, movies, ice-cream i ill just use one excuse and dodge. if i can't dodge it due to circumstances then i go buy meat pie and she will buy the ice cream.
i have a bed-appointment tomorrow and i am required to buy pizza. i am still thinking of how to dodge but i need the nacking 6 Likes
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 9:39pm On May 27, 2020 |
ezechi24:
I will not allow my sister to be a liability. this girl is obviously not a liability. He was supposed to make her happy on her birthday of all days mehn. Even if it’s As little as 5k. How many ladies r like the Op? She’s very considerate to me o Many guymen wey Dey form like weyti I no no, go Dey vasa one babe on the stead . 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Stevyne: 9:47pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: lazy? Like he feeds me or what ? What’s ur definition of a lazy person? I expected backlash from men like urself. Insults won’t change anything Work on yourself. Be independent. 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by themaestro08(m): 9:53pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had , I served in a village. while we were serving he doesn’t give me much , I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place ,he had a roommate and I didn’t , before he gives me any money we always had issues , not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to . I don’t even ask for much .
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year , got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up , his just passed , I told him that I would expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday , that if money cms he will send but right now he has no money ,, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me , he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away n he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us .
Am tired , he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on he’s friends and it annoying , i think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it , I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him . He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts??
Do you mind dropping his number here so we can here his other side of the story? |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by themaestro08(m): 9:55pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker: The guy isn’t serious about the relationship. Move on Oga don't make any judgement yet. She only tells you what she wants you to know which certainly does not tells the whole picture ![](/faces/huh.png) 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kemii3921: 10:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theundertaker(m): 10:04pm On May 27, 2020 |
themaestro08:
Oga don't make any judgement yet. She only tells you what she wants you to know which certainly does not tells the whole picture![](/faces/huh.png) so if he comes up with lies for example,he’s story is automatically the right one. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Ningen(m): 10:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
MedicH:
lol i do not toast any girl with my wallet open.
I can swear with my life that i have never transferred or given by cash any amount more than 6k to a lady i am dating.
It used to be 5k before now because i consciously made that decision but one missed her period after we did something so i told her to go and run a scan and transferred 3k. i didn't get a debit and i repeated the same 3k again and it happened that she got 6k.
This transfer only comes after serious and intense deliberations and i have to painstakingly convince myself that i should send this money and never again, it is never easy.
i have toasted many ladies and i only got i will think about it reply which i could tell it was because i de stingy. One managed to try and cope with that but was asking me if i dont give her money as my gf will i give her as my wife.
if a lady i am having sex with call me for money for hair, cream, pizza, birthday, outing, movies, ice-cream i ill just use one excuse and dodge. if i can't dodge it due to circumstances then i go buy meat pie and she will buy the ice cream.
i have a bed-appointment tomorrow and i am required to buy pizza. i am still thinking of how to dodge but i need the nacking You are DIE HEARTED. MY MAN. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) [img] https://media1./images/930ec3c687d9f0d44361eab8569df75c/tenor.gif?itemid=5077955[/img] 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker: The guy isn’t serious about the relationship. Move on Final! |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kemii7094: 10:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by popcykaylah(m): 10:07pm On May 27, 2020 |
So for me the guy is a corper and doesn’t have a steady income but he’s not doing enough to get himself something to do..well guess he’s not serious but don’t let the whole idea of him getting a job is for him to start spending money on you ..relationship is about two people who care and help each other in different ways not a business for women to make money .. 4 Likes |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by airminem(f): 10:07pm On May 27, 2020 |
"Dont every settle with an insecured man ever" ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by airminem(f): 10:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by fineboynl(m): 10:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? why would he give you money in your birthday? what did you give to him in is birthday 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by MajorOvakporaye(f): 10:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
leave him as fast as possible 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Solatium(m): 10:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? If he had given you money you could have continue with the relationship knowing fully well he's not focus. look woman,your boyfriend is not your pension plan neither your atm,you are not doing him or any man any favor by dating them. Stick to your job and plan your life on the little you earn. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by themaestro08(m): 10:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker: so if he comes up lies for example, do he’s story is automatically the right one. And how sure are you her own account is the truth? ![](/faces/huh.png) 3 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kemii1080: 10:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Beatswim: 10:12pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? aunty when you are 37 we will be waiting to help u pray for a better man.. Madam money over love... The guy too is tired of your endless Demands.. Please leave him to have some savings 4 Likes |