| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by miketayo(m): 10:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? Hope u got him something on his birthday. As long as you not getting money for your birthday isn't the main reason you broke up with him, then I m on your side. *His isn't He's 1 Like |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 10:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
Paxie55:
Yes!! I had an ex, though he wasn't lazy but he was very stingy and he wasn't rich then. So, I had to use my head and calculate the speed of the race I was about to take. I finally left him, since then till now, he's still not financially stable. Lol.
How sure are you he's not financially stable?? Sorry o Alakija |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by femi4: 10:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? He's not taking care of himself, he's not thinking about the fure, he rejected teaching job and depends/follow his friendPeople with such qualities are lazy and care less about responsibility. Move on to a more ambitious gut |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by pocohantas(f): 10:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
You told him what you will EXPECT on your birthday? The effrontery.  Positive chick indeed. So, because a baby boy didn’t give you money for birthday, he suddenly has no vision? You that have vision, your problem in life is to celebrate birthday ba? Mtcheeew. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Moooorayblunt: 10:37pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ladylite:
Wow, you have really suffered.
But are you sure you don't have low self esteem?
For you to cope and continue with a burden of a man, with a man who is proud enough not to hustle.
Babe, you should really study more books on relationship so you know that you are not in one, you are in a disaster waiting to happen.
Don't waste your time. Walk away, he may blow later or become rich... It does not matter. Go and watch the movie ACRIMONY... Then you will receive sense.
You are in a relationship with Covid19 in human form. Pls have self respect enough to leave and stay single till you meet a man that complements you. Madam, what exactly are u saying? |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by executive12: 10:38pm On May 27, 2020 |
Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would met someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you She is looking for a ready made guy. The guy should be better without her. She is a big distraction for the young man. 6 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 10:39pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22:
A boyfriend has to be a giver.... What's now the essence of dating you when you cannot even give... You'd find somebody better my dear... Then a girl should be...?? 1 Like |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 10:39pm On May 27, 2020 |
Bobby4345:
Our graduates of today.
Please are you really teaching our kids?.
He's = he is, and not his.
Dim = lack of light
Dime = A US coin equivalent to 10 cents.
YOU'RE A GRADUATE
yes I am , I write better than I type, I don’t really think much , sometimes I write trash , while thinking bout two things at a time,,U won’t even believe what I even studied. It’s an error. If u don’t understand it , fine |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by clericuzzio(m): 10:39pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? So because of birthday gift you broke up with your guy. You girls should stop this entitlement mentality. Since you're working can't you take him out and buy something for both of you to relax and enjoy Spits 3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 10:41pm On May 27, 2020 |
pocohantas:
You told him what you will EXPECT on your birthday? The effrontery.
Positive chick indeed. So, because a baby boy didn’t give you money for birthday, he suddenly has no vision?
You that have vision, your problem in life is to celebrate birthday ba? Mtcheeew.
I don’t even want to celebrate. I just wanted him to send me some money , no matter how little . Jeez There is so many reasons I said he had no vision , u don’t need to know everything |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Edeybody1(m): 10:42pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? hahahaha gud keep it up. |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kemii2464: 10:43pm On May 27, 2020 |
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| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by purples25(f): 10:43pm On May 27, 2020 |
As a woman, your needs always come last. You should just support him with your own money and all and never expect any petting or spoiling from him. You should suffer emotionally and physically, thats the way to prove love to Nigerian angry men.
Lol don't even bother. I swore once never to ask any guy for any loving or romantic gesture again. Seems i have slacked but i will go back to my vow. Like, take a step and never look back. That even when they do it, its hard for you to notice or really appreciate it. That you see it as something not good cuz the giving is always seen as a means to an end or a payment. They are stingy as hell.
I honestly wish i could banish any good thoughts of them from my mind and NEVER, ever depend on them. And never see them as a helper and never see them as men. 1 Like |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Engrr(m): 10:44pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? Children every where in Nairaland!!......I mean you and your supporters!!!. When did sending money for your stupid birthday become a yard stick for measuring stinginess  . Because he din;t take teaching job in a private school and be receiving 20/25k per month and be giving you 5-5k have made him not to be ambitious in life abi?......Abge grow up! 8 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by executive12: 10:44pm On May 27, 2020 |
Theundertaker:
A man who truly loves you would know the right thing to do
Modified : men before commenting, ask urself , would I want my sister to date such a person . That's a young man still trying to find his footing, probably in his early twenties. 2 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Unrated900(m): 10:44pm On May 27, 2020 |
This is the first time am listening to comment said by men and guys that she should break up totally
Well to
Me you are just a wife material lady who doesn’t want plenty from a
Man
But want someone with better plans
Your type are rear to find a bit.
I keep saying it and I would say it more
As a man if you have no means and source to fetch food for your self and in a relationship
Then you aren’t capable of been a man
To the lady nice one and make God be with you
But don’t end up been used by yahoo boys oooooooo.
Cos they are the only ones cashing out now in this covid 19 sections 3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 10:44pm On May 27, 2020 |
makydebbie:
Did you say you're a teacher?
You don't know the difference between am and I'm.
His and he's.
Wahala wa ooo.  |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by bacilus(m): 10:45pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
nope , he does not do jack for me , not a single thing . This is the first time since almost a year I am asking him for money. He has chosen not to give , n I hv chosen to break up and focus on myself continue paying my bills without him . I don't think you love him, you are only after him paying your bills 1 Like |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by thoosing(m): 10:45pm On May 27, 2020 |
[b][/b]sorry bro.... If you want to open an approved clickbank account,ACX(Amazon) or USA account number, contact me.... Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by executive12: 10:46pm On May 27, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:
Just shut it! When he was eating her food without contributing money he didn't know it was shameless? Such insensitive men need to choke on that free food to gain sense. Wow! Spoken like a Jezebel. 3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Yuneehk(f): 10:47pm On May 27, 2020 |
Thoughts? Breaking up with him because of birthday money is rubbish  Being visionless, unserious isn't a bad reason to leave him. But money, no one owes you anything, babe. Like others asked, what did you do on his birthday? That's the only way your anger would be justified. 4 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Farki: 10:47pm On May 27, 2020 |
You have already left the guy, what are you asking for again? 3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kalex0(m): 10:47pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22:
The OP is doing well for herself so you're the fool here.... Oponu! She's doing well for herself, why is she demanding then It shouldn't be a big deal Lol |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Farki: 10:48pm On May 27, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:
Just shut it! When he was eating her food without contributing money he didn't know it was shameless? Such insensitive men need to choke on that free food to gain sense. Congratulations you just described the majority of Nigerian women.  3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 10:48pm On May 27, 2020 |
u said he has no focus and ambition.why not break up with him and date a guy who is focused and ambitious..or is his d!ck that good? |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by lincs25(m): 10:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
the case of ur gf and me are two different situations . For a year now , that guy hasn’t given me anything up to 5k as a total sum. And I don’t even want to start counting Favors. If really your story is true, the guy in question is not a realman! Some girls like mine that don't deserve queens treatment they are getting it painlessly. Sorry for my hash words in the first writeup, it is due to the pains in me. |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 10:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
You guys both had a blind and faulty beginning with you putting more effort than him. You did well though.
Op, you need to work on your monetary entitlement and eye for an eye reasoning, never make it the base of the relationship. Its a bad start!
The only red flag to disqualify the relationship is the lack of zeal, mental capacity, and emotional investment from the guy. His lifestyle also contributed to these woes. But sometimes someone like him we see as unuseful usually shock people with blessings after break up because it puts him into an unwavering pursuit for breakthrouh.
So, please end it without looking back and take a quiet walk to boost his thirst and hunger for breakthrough. Just help him by walking away. Thanks! 1 Like |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by executive12: 10:49pm On May 27, 2020 |
James4bright:
You seem like a really cool girl. Don't listen to those random guys making you look like a gold digger. That dude isn't serious about his life, let him be.
I wish I had a girl who really cared about my career that much. 'Eye service' 4 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Starz825(m): 10:50pm On May 27, 2020 |
PositiveChick was like...what's the essence of having a boyfriend while i still suffer...... Na so most Nigerian Ladies dey reason this days... I'm suffering and I have a boyfriend, so what's his usefulness?! At this point I say kudos to feminists....they don't depend on guys for their well being...they just want you to be their boyfriend that's all...you give them o, you no give them o, they don't care..just be responsible.. 7 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by BlackLaw: 10:50pm On May 27, 2020 |
sharap ya mouth there
take care of yourself by yourself
then sharap ya mouth once again 3 Likes |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Theevilone(m): 10:51pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
nope , he does not do jack for me , not a single thing . This is the first time since almost a year I am asking him for money. He has chosen not to give , n I hv chosen to break up and focus on myself continue paying my bills without him . Since you can take of yourself u can still keep him, trust me you need his company |
| Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Abagworo(m): 10:51pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,
I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.
After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.
My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.
Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .
Thoughts?? Leave him and move on. |
