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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by delkuf(m): 11:01pm On May 27, 2020 |
Drfernandez:guy I have started following u like this. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by CAPSLOCKED: 11:01pm On May 27, 2020 |
adewalle1:OGUN PUNISH YOU THERE. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by omoadeleye(m): 11:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: So just because he can't pay your birthday bills that was why you decided to call it a quit? You are thinking about his future for him while he is trying to gather his life in this presence... Like they used to say... Yesterday is history, tomorrow is misery while today is present that's why is called a gift, focus on today and stop helping someone to think about their future again... He is stingy might be that he is just trying to be careful so that he won't lose when you leave him one day or maybe he doesn't have the money at that moment and you also confirmed that he is still jobless... Since he doesn't have any money with him yet don't you want him to be humble to those that will help him and show him the way one day? 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Lamanii22(f): 11:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
executive12: It should be reciprocated too.... |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 11:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: With due respect aunty, both of you are not serious because this pure misplacement of priorities. You both finished service last year, he’s not working and you are managing. At this stage it’s expected that you guys come together to plan ahead, get more certifications, start a side hustle to ensure your legs are strong before you start running. Birthdays are celebrated at milestones that is why you see you people marking 40, golden jubilee (50) , 60, 65 and so on. I advise young people that are not stable to some extent to always thank God for where he has brought them from and pray for better tomorrow. How could you as a normal person use your savings to celebrate birthday just to feel among only to get back home and wallow in penury? Please think 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Sniper101(m): 11:03pm On May 27, 2020 |
OP Hear me & Hear me well... 3 Likes
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ume1000: 11:03pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:why must you decide who he associate with Only control freaks posses such attributes Maybe one day you would say you don't like his brother 4 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Enwhen(m): 11:04pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: You cannot choose friends for him, but u can work on him , but be sure he truely loves u...You people need to work on your relationship , if its not working as u want , u leave him, don't forced urself on him else u will regret it mostly if he is not serious about yours and his future... If u understand yourselves and love each other genuinely, nobody will have to inform any of date of birthday celebration...It's day for lovely surprise... Those who fails to plan , prepare to fail...plan for urslef if at all. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ThinkSmarter: 11:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:U re in a mixed road. U likely fall for him cuz he is handsome. And he knows that you are obsessed with him, that's why he keep being uncaring. He knew, he is in control and you will always come back after he might have hurt you. But the worst part of him is that he is pompous and too proud to do menial jobs . He is forming ajebo cuz of his looks, yet he is broke and not willing to work for money *in Naija slangs. Unfortunately, the hardworking and caring ones may not be charming as the #player #mrhandsome. Such is life dear, delicate choices The choice is yours. But I advise you don't break up with him but try to meet new guys. Then you can then make your choice. Don't put your eeggs in one basket. Boys/men (including me) are time wasters. And you will be the abysmal loser if you break up later. Best of luck 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Royalfurnitures: 11:05pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by dododawa1: 11:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
Traffic propaganda on nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Donwoosky: 11:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
I taya for some girls abeg... When I started reading your lines I thought it's my girlfriend that wrote that because we had almost same issue today just read mine. Lockdown affected by job bitterly I spent almost all the cash on my savings account within few weeks apart from my fixed, when we left home she really supported me infact she spent times 3. On our coming back we work separate places. This morning around 10 she called to remind me of her birthday which I know is next week she asked what will I give her I openly told her that I don't have money now and I have her in mind but if money comes before then I must get her a gift but if it doesn't I can't kill myself. This afternoon God just did it and I cashed out... up till now I haven't called her to tell her I got some money or something I kept it for myself because I know what's on my mind... Note July is my birthday. I'm the kind that will never do teaching jobs because my both parents are teachers and I have my reasons for that. So babe your guy is not lazy he might have some side hustle that gets him cool cash more than the teaching job. And he might have a surprise for you don't just run into the conclusion of breaking up your relationship because of ordinary birthday surprise unless you're fed up and have other cogent reason's. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 11:06pm On May 27, 2020 |
Wait o, b4 u try t do motivational speaker on sm1's life, how is ur own life going, u don't even have vision, goals, ambitions for urslf and here u are forcing someonelse to achieve wat u can't so u can eat and feel entitled shey? U re being a leech, U see women like u are d type to first point fingers at how broke a man is, when infact if u actually cared more abut ur future, u could even be the woman dat dashes him money for bdaes I'm sure probably he doesn't have & mite be d Ist tym he hasn't lived up t ur expections.. Is it not ur fellow women that re buying 4 their Partners & Bfs cars, houses,.. All this gals don't knw d difference BTW encouraging someone to be a better version of himself and attacking the person psychologically... PS I'm not anything & I don't point fingers at anybody ... 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 11:07pm On May 27, 2020 |
pocohantas:u are not dating him , I am. u speak base on ur own relationship and life in general , But I bet u can’t deal with my boyfriend for even 6months . But yes o find faults . I shouldn’t tell my boyfriend what I want for my birthday! Someone who hasn't given be nothing for a year, and still didn’t use his mind ?? Nah I don’t agree with ur perspective. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kemii3438: 11:07pm On May 27, 2020 |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by chigoizie7(m): 11:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: Go get a job and stop being a leach 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by ThinkSmarter: 11:08pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick:re in a mixed road. U likely fall for him cuz he is handsome. And he knows that you are obsessed with him, that's why he keep being uncaring. He knew, he is in control and you will always come back after he might have hurt you. But the worst part of him is that he is pompous and too proud to do menial jobs . He is forming ajebo cuz of his looks, yet he is broke and not willing to work for money *in Naija slangs. Unfortunately, the hardworking and caring ones may not be charming as the #player #mrhandsome. Such is life dear, delicate choices The choice is yours. But I advise you don't break up with him but try to meet new guys. Then you can then make your choice. Don't put your eeggs in one basket. Boys/men (including me) are time wasters. And you will be the abysmal loser if you break up later. Best of luck |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Lamanii22(f): 11:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
BayMc: A girl would reciprocate.... I feel like every Nigerian guy is at war with all the Nigerian women lol.... Cause y'all cannot air your opinion without hurling some demeaning words towards the female gender... I think it is rather childish.... The pussy is not just a thing... She's putting herself at risks too... Infections, STDs even her spiritual life.... 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by kimjessey2019: 11:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
Cheap, broke and poor girl na e u be. |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Nobody: 11:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22: a gift? oh'kay, right. buhh it goes both way. It's not as if "gifting" is something mandatorily ultroneous for the boyfriend alone. The girlfriend should have this inbuilt mindset of this "gifting" as well. no one is blinded by any fiddle-de-dee, and there's no tangible need to fuss over a girl's sentence as if it's gonna add a billion dollars into my bank account pls! 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Lamanii22(f): 11:09pm On May 27, 2020 |
kalex0: You've got a point.... 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by victorazyvictor(m): 11:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
Positivechick: So why are you worried about him not always giving you money. You think Dangote and co were not stingy they would have amount to something today? Stingy to ladies are one of the principle of getting rich (weird?) Yes. Thank God you said he is nice some babes have been used for rituals by their extravagant boyfriends. If he is not focused that one is understandable, you can open his eyes (if only your focus too). 1 Like |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by seanwilliam(m): 11:10pm On May 27, 2020 |
James4bright:you are a SIMP.. not because of this discourse but because of the bolded 5 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by humblemikel(f): 11:11pm On May 27, 2020 |
What's all this hitch about birthday celebration. Are you a baby? I thought you asked the modafucker to invest in your education or business and he has the fu...cken money and doesn't want to help. This girl is really childish I swear. Mtchewwww Imagine a graduate crying for birthday celebration and gift Some Niger girls shaaaa They have lost it all not knowing where their priorities lies. Hope you realized that Love is reciprocal You didn't tell us the part you played in his own birthday celebration. What did you offer Tell me, who do you really want to impress baby girl?? Social media people?? You're are a lost case. If it's money you need, find yourself a RICH BOYFRIEND If it's love you need, find yourself a LOVING BOYFRIEND If it's both, find yourself the "REAL MEN" Stop disturbing us with your FINANCIALLOVE STORY Biko. Good night. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by bonnyhope: 11:11pm On May 27, 2020 |
Lamanii22: It is this attitude that keeps most of you till 40 and still looking for partners Prostitute mentality 8 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by makydebbie(f): 11:11pm On May 27, 2020 |
I'm only worried about her grammar for a teacher sha. Who gives a fvck about her entitlement mentality for buyday gift. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 11:11pm On May 27, 2020 |
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Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by peggywebbs(f): 11:12pm On May 27, 2020 |
In my humble opinion, you both are not mature. Anyway, please focus on yourself and your dreams. You already know what you want and its obvious this boyfriend can't give it to you. If you think you want to spend your time grooming him to be a man and become responsible, please know it is not your job. Most people here think you are complaining because he didn't send money on your birthday but I understand its a much deeper problem. You feel like you have to push him to take life seriously and become ambitious and most importantly make you a priority. If you are looking for a man that would be able to cater for you, and be a firm decision maker, you need to prepare yourself for such person. This person will obviously drag you back because he doesn't see what you want from him. He is growing at his pace, your heart is telling you this is not what you want. You broke broke up, good. Now let it go and move forward. Don't waste your time. 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by predon004(m): 11:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
Hmm... This story is touching. But hear me out. Dating a woman does not mean I'm solely responsible for her welfare. To be honest, most times it's pressure like this that push guys into doing illegal and shallow deals. Not all u see on tvs and soap opras are real. U broke up with him. Tomorrow, the right lady that would brush him up would come. In this Era I see no reason why this should be happening. It shows u didn't love him in the first place. Mind you before you criticize me... Love is all about decisions. So, from ur explanations, ur mindset of love is based on what he brings to the table. Sister and sisters, love is all about imperfections and corrections. You left him at a very wrong time(I'm just saying) How many of us Don listen ➕ watch Rude boy song reason with me. Na so ee de be for so many ladies. Meanwhile my girlfriend birthday is coming up next week and I don't have chi chi. Let me see if we will break up � 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Donhaywhy001(m): 11:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
Ladylite: This one that u are saying he should watch ACRIMONY.. Lol. Baba life no be movie na 2 Likes |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Positivechick: 11:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
Donwoosky:the birthday issue isn’t the main reason . Just that the birthday issue is so annoying and still fresh |
Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by DeFixer: 11:13pm On May 27, 2020 |
airminem: Don't ever settle with an insecure man, ever. |
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