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My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 4:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
The same way some men have been brainwashed to believe women are a problem is the same way some “Mothers” have brainwashed their daughters to believe men are a problem. I’m with this lady right now that came from a far distance to visit me, she came yesterday noon. I actually thought I was meeting someone with 70 percent qualities of what I want in a woman. I gave her the queens treatment. I’m sure she’s wondering why I haven’t touched her and ask for sex. ![]() But something bad happened a while ago, everything was going good before her sister called on video. The discussion was centered on their sick dad(stroke) and his excesses. they were laughing at the man poor man. I could hear the mans voice in the background trying to counter whatever it is they were mocking him with. After the the whole discussion they ended it with, “na mummy get e time, e nor concern me”. Then she asked the sister if their mom is back from where she went to, and I heard the dads voice again trying to voice out his anger that his wife left the house and yet to return and no news of her whereabout. This lady should be around 25 to 27 Now I don’t want to be partial about this experience, the man might have messed up sometime in his life to merit this sad treatment. But we all know these girls got this behavior from their mom. And she instilled this behavior in them. They have lost total respect for the man. I have been really trying to tell her kind of person since she came here but this just summed it. I’m not bashing women with this thread but pointing out something the society doesn’t talk about. But when it is a woman that is going through this treatment it gets televised. I’m crediting her bank account with T Fare so she leave tomorrow morning. She’s bad omen. She’s one of the many bad eggs out there but we still have the good ones. If you marry these kind of women, you go down fast and get turned to someone like their father. By the way, the man is a simp. I could hear from the voice. Edited: this thread just shows how corrupted and perverted most of us are. Asking me why did I invite her if don't plan to touch her? Really? ![]() 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by holocron: 4:52pm On May 31, 2020 |
To start with, you call another man a simp but what would make you invite a woman to your house for some days and you don't touch her, after spending on her and you are now spending more on tfare to send her back. Don't you have better things to do with your time and money? Why won't she disrespect and mock you too just like her simple father who failed to discipline and provide a good masculine and fatherly role model for the daughters. No need to spit out the morsel of cake already in your mouth by sending her back. There are no 'good' or 'bad' women. They are like liquid and will take the shape provided by their container ( their male partner). You, the man, must provide her 'shape', though not usually without some emotional/psychological clashes as she vigorously tests your mettle. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by DonFreshmoney(m): 4:52pm On May 31, 2020 |
OP... you still have the guts to give her Tfare after all you have heard from the girls to your fellow man.. you are a simp my guy. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Hathor5(f): 4:54pm On May 31, 2020 |
One of the most useless write-ups I have ever read in my entire life. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by schumastic(m): 4:59pm On May 31, 2020 |
Op the only thing I can say is this. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. 1 Like |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by ibkayee(f): 4:59pm On May 31, 2020 |
You gave her 'queens treatment' and paid for her Tfare without her having to do anything, looks like you're the simp according to Redpill (or whatever) 'standards' lol 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Acidosis(m): 5:09pm On May 31, 2020 |
Whatever it will take to leave that girl, please do it o. You may die before your time if you spend an hour more with her. Just leave her and her family for good. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by HarunaWest(m): 5:13pm On May 31, 2020 |
ibkayee:You left the message to attack the messenger..... You no try. 15 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by ibkayee(f): 5:16pm On May 31, 2020 |
HarunaWest:Come and beat me 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by ImaIma1(f): 5:20pm On May 31, 2020 |
It's a bad attitude from her. It shows she's insensitive, disrespectful and cannot empathize. Plus her family seems to be the same. But why call the man a simp? Do you think you are better than him. If he is a simp, what are you? 11 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by merieam16(f): 5:21pm On May 31, 2020 |
y did u invite her at d first place? ur writeup is total rubbish dont even kno wat 2 say again 1 Like |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by HarunaWest(m): 5:33pm On May 31, 2020 |
ibkayee:I will pass ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Mariangeles(f): 5:35pm On May 31, 2020 |
For them to have that discussion in your presence without the feeling that it is wrong shows that it is the way they are in their family. Poor man. 22 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by ibkayee(f): 5:36pm On May 31, 2020 |
HarunaWest:Lol like you had any other choice |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 31, 2020 |
holocron:Well said. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 31, 2020 |
First of all, the lady acted like a teenager. While make a video call with your sister in the presence of another person. Even if it's a fellow girl and not a guy showing interest, It's still bad. I mean why mock your father and expose your family so cheaply. Na wa o. I keep saying this. Some children need to have had their own children before they can respect their parents well enough. OP is right. Shows the kind of home she comes from. No matter how broke or poor my parents are, I will never disrespect them much more mock them or talk about their excesses to another party. Till now that am married I hardly even discuss family matters with my parents or siblings where my husband is present. I always protect them. Please let's train our children right. 21 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by drmikeadams(m): 5:57pm On May 31, 2020 |
holocron: U never meet bad woman before,,,if u like make she be in gas form,,e no go ever take shape provided by container(their male partner and father) 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Uyi168: 5:57pm On May 31, 2020 |
Hathor5:.. Are u the lady in question ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 31, 2020 |
holocron:Your head is full of shlt 2 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:10pm On May 31, 2020 |
merieam16:your head is full of shlt. Did you see where I said I thought I have met someone to build a future with? I guess you visit men to open leg for them. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:12pm On May 31, 2020 |
ibkayee:aside giving her queen's treatment, I don't need anyone to sweat before I show concern. You have not idea what a simp is. |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by merieam16(f): 6:15pm On May 31, 2020 |
Carchoice:* yimu if my head is full of (shlt)like u av spelt it, so ur own head is full of what ? urine... iranu u wan build future ba, y u no kukukma carry block. radarada |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:15pm On May 31, 2020 |
Carchoice:I thought you in abroad? The father is simply broke and down and with a bad wife and not necessarily a simp. 1 Like |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:32pm On May 31, 2020 |
merieam16:your head is full of relaxer |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:36pm On May 31, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:bad wife yes but if she was a good woman and the man is poor and sick, her children won't dare disrespect their father. She won't allow that despite the husbands situation. The man is a simp, the wife made it public. 1 Like |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by merieam16(f): 6:37pm On May 31, 2020 |
Carchoice:lol. shey be na u b d hair dresser na |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:40pm On May 31, 2020 |
Carchoice:That shouldn't b your concern. Your concern should b about d lady you involved with. 2 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:40pm On May 31, 2020 |
merieam16:you want me to invite so that I'll give you queens treatment ![]() What hair relaxer do you use by the way? Let me see if it's a good one or if it's doing manage. Brain damage |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Acidosis(m): 6:46pm On May 31, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Is that how people marry nowadays? You don't bother to investigate the family you're moving into? 14 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:57pm On May 31, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:do you use hair relaxer as well? ![]() I created a thread to express my displeasure on how my potential father in-law is been treated and you want me to focus on the lady? Lol. I can never marry from such family. Both parents are not together is better than this treatment. 8 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by Nobody: 6:57pm On May 31, 2020 |
Acidosis:lol. See how a lady is reasoning. So bad. 4 Likes |
Re: My experience with a lady I thought was different. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:58pm On May 31, 2020 |
Carchoice:Well, it's best you free d lady. Women who lack empathy are bad for family. 4 Likes |
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